Sunday, April 24, 2011
Ok.. first thing... the situation with hubby's job.0
He worked for a copy that distributes mattresses for tempura ped in 5 different regions of the US. They pay his salary to the company and then he gets it. Since tempra is having money issues they got the company he works for to fire hubby. Now the company he works for could have just relocated him to another position but they did not do that.. so instead they broke his contract. apparently no one had the balls to stand up to keep him ... hell this is a guy who is known as the fire fighter (putting out other peoples messes and making everyone happy. When the bridgestone /firestone tires were recalled in 2000 and the company was going to pull the business from us, hubby stepped in and saved the multi million dollar account.
as of now, no one has discused his severage package only because they do not know how to handle this. they do know its a law suit in the making for this.
Our friends came in Friday evening and we had dinner. hubby talked to his old roomie and that was how I found out a lot what is going on.
In the meantime, I showed our friend the emails from the two women and also the picutre of the FB. Then I also had friends in FB talking to her finding out things. Finally a sense of calmness came over me and at 3 am sat morning, after being awake for 25 hours, I asked hubby if he ever cheated on me. And suggested before he answer that question he not lie to me. he asked what this was all about and told him.
First I reminded him that he always said there was nothing in his email I could not see and he agreed. Told him I read the emails from Lori and it honestly sounded like he was sleeping with her. He was like no way. and then explained that she was dating the guy who lived next door to him in Houston and nothing else. He is still not sure about how she got the picture of him in is bed which is what she posted on FB. Told him that she was telling our friend Shel that she slept with him ... etc, etc on FB. But on the big email she sent him, she talked about them running off to seattle with him and him leaving me, but he was committed to job first, then family and to busy for her..
However, I missed the response to that email saying the she should go back to craighlist and find guys who are more of her type and basically have a nice life.
Also told hubby that on her FB page for that time period, she put she was in a serious relationship with him, two weeks later, relationship, questionable and soon after that she was posting she was with another man. This is a 52 yo woman who has to have a man in her life always and she only wants minority men who are in relationships and will leave others for her.
So today I am going to write her and ask that she please remove hubby''s picture from FB especially the wording under it saying this is the love of her life.
Hubby will be contacting a lawyer who specializes in labor law and contracts. He is a good friend of our youngest where they met in law school. Then we start the search and contacting everyone we know as well as hitting all the places where he can post his resume.
When I talked to our friend this money, he honetly did not realize what hubby's job entailed and how little he got paid for it.
So now the real work begins.. big thing is to keep hubby from being depressed and keeping his blood pressure and insulin levels good.