Wednesday, June 02, 2010
as if our days were not stressful enough, my grandma called and insisted that one of us take her out to the graveyard to see my grandfather's grave. i might not have a problem with this had she not been out to "see" him every day for just more than 10 years. yes i said every day for 10 years with out fail!! there is a line between grief and sickness. i did take her on the stipulation that we stay for a short while and i would not take he again tomorrow. as much as i cared for my grandfather, this does seem to be excessive, especially when she cannot drive herself and must have a ride to wherever she goes. i will happily take her to the bank, the store, and i am more than willing to go to church and bingo with her. i'm just ready to scream! am i being selfish or oversensitive on this issue?