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Unexpected Confessions and Blessings

Saturday, April 07, 2012

My stepson sent me a text on Friday so I thought I was getting Easter flowers. This bowled me over because our relationship while good has not been particularly close. I rarely see him and here he was organizing flowers. None came yesterday and then I received a text saying did I get them. They were from the two boys and one of their girlfriends. They said UPS verified it. Can I tell you the youngest came right over. Apparently they have been delivered across the street. I was so touched. We will try and sort it out today. I have had their father arrested three times just this year. I can't believe they would do this for me. And you know what it's like for a 20 something to come over and try and handle this? I am awed.
They are due for lunch today shortly. So, I am making fish. We are interfaith so we are having combo Easter/Passover lunch as the eldest works at night and tomorrow is their mother's birthday.
I was married 20 years ago. And for a wedding present my mother gave me the fish service from her set which was from my great grandmother. We have a major silver service. Seriously think originally it was for 48. In fact my mother split out a service for 6 except for the knives and used to run it through the dishwasher. Of course, when she was put in a home, I got the rest of the service. But back to the fish service. It was in a box. My first husband was a man who said erl instead of oil (whole other story). It was a very short marriage and I never took the service out of the box my mother gave me. I have moved with it several times. When T and I moved, I took it out of the box still wrapped in tissue and put it in a drawer in the china cabinet.
Last night was the first night in my life I was alone for Passover. This morning I think since we are having fish, maybe I'll use the fish service. I can't believe this. When I started to unwrap the tissue my mother had split off more of the set than I knew existed and had actually given me my own small set of the silver in addition to the fish knives and servers. There are even demitasse spoons. I never knew or imagined and she never said a thing. I feel I am blessed and that my mother and grandmother are with me today and always. What tremendous gifts of love I have received this weekend.

  
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FRANCESCANAZ 4/8/2012 6:32PM

    Continue in your blessings mi amiga. emoticon

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BRAVERUDE 4/8/2012 2:10PM

    This got me choked up... we certainly do share a bunch of similarities! My dog kept me company for Passover - she likes my chicken!
I hope you've had a delightful weekend!
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BARBAELLEN 4/7/2012 11:33PM

    I loved this blog. I think sometimes you forget how deserving you are, and I'm so happy that you've been reminded of how special you really are. You might not have had anyone with you on Passover this year, but you sure aren't alone. Enjoy your Passover/Easter.

PS - Can I take it demitasse has now been added to your lunch menu? :)

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GEMINISUE 4/7/2012 4:33PM

    So happy for you!

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DGFOWLER 4/7/2012 3:39PM

    This touches my heart. So happy for you. Blessings your way and have a safe and happy Easter. Donna

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JSALERNO 4/7/2012 3:19PM

    Have a great holiday.

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MARTY19 4/7/2012 12:43PM

    What an awesome gift. On all counts.

Marty

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Washed out Wednesday

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

No, the weather is lovely. I have been struggling with low grade temperature since yesterday and definitely feel a cold today. Work is insane. The last two afternoons I have had sessions just before I leave. I actually thought they were going to run late but they didn't. Today actually ended way early. And I remembered stuff from years ago, correctly. So much for the senior brain. I have been involved in so many projects my head is spinning. Tomorrow is the day with the 4 hour meeting but I am actually triple booked for part of that time. I think (fraid to really look) that I have meetings up till an hour before I leave.
The good news is my manager says I can work extra hours and I do billable hours. Bad news is I am too sick and tired to do anything but update SP and crawl into bed.
I did figure out how to do something technical that surprised everyone including me. I work in I.T. but I am the non-technical person there so to have created this report was major!
DH returned home Friday afternoon after a 6 day stay with the county and is falling down drunk again tonight. but I am ignoring.
Going to take a steamy bubble bath with the latest Susan Wittig Albert - Cat's Claw and hopefully pass out peacefully.

  
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BRAVERUDE 3/31/2012 3:26PM

    I'm sending you health, wellness, and strength! emoticon

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MARTY19 3/29/2012 6:57AM

    Feel better soon. It is tough to be sick.

Marty

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JSALERNO 3/29/2012 6:26AM

    CAN'T YOU GET A DAY OFF? YOU NEED REST.

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Beauty Continued

Saturday, March 24, 2012

Today I went to Chanel for my little makeover. It was lovely. We did all smoky sparkly blacks and greys. And there's a waterproof eyeliner. Lovely. I went to acupuncture in the morning, followed by a session with a counselor. I desperately need that. Then onto Chanel. And Sephora for some product for my hair and then back to Lord and Taylor. Retail Therapy! Lovely top, dress and poncho. Phenomenal sales. All very soothing. And I believe in the power of the three way mirror as an inspiration.
I was tolad today that I need to take better care of me and I am trying to.
Work is intense so I am looking forward to a good night's sleep before next week's whirlwind of work.

  
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MARTY19 3/25/2012 10:03AM

    Retail therapy can be awesome. I'm glad you enjoyed it.

Marty

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JSALERNO 3/25/2012 6:12AM

    I WOULD LOVE A LITTLE RETAIL THEREAPY. BUT NOT UNTIL I SELL MY HOUSE AND MOVE.

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BARBAELLEN 3/25/2012 12:34AM

    I know what you mean about retail therapy! Right now, I'm on a "frugal" kick, and it's really difficult with all the phenomenal sales. I'm within walking distance of a high-end mall that keeps calling my name, and I have to keep reminding myself to see what I already have before I even THINK about buying anything new. I ended up breaking down and buying some cheap (but cute) summer tops at the LOFT just to get my fix, so I'm happy for now.

Glad you gave yourself a nice day!

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Beauty Day 2 plus why I didn't post my picture

Sunday, March 18, 2012

Well, I am back from Super Goal Sunday at Hofstra. Workshops on hair and wardrobe. A fun relaxing informative day. And yes, I goofed on the sweet treats. They contract with the nicest bakery but I didn't overdo it and had honeydew melon and strawberries too. Not too tizzed about that as I'll explain later.
So what did I learn
- Makeup - use primer first. Recommended Sephora HD. use it even before moisturizer. For women our age tinted moisturizer instead of foundation. You can make your own, mix on hand 50/50 moisturizer/foundation. There is a great bag of make up brushes on ebay for 20.00 Use flat rounded brush to apply primary base color on eye. Colors can be layered everything is blended. Eyes first, face last. MAC bronzer recommended for glow. Moisturize your neck and chest. Carry color all the way down lightly If you dye your hair it is worth it to have a glazing treatment. Do not shampoo your hair everyday. You can get something called powderdose, it's a 7 minute treatment, lasts 4 - 6 weeks, by L'oreal. Purchase at a salon. Moroccan Oil mask is good for your hair, Shaper Plus hair spray. MAC nude lip liner applied all over lips prior to color. maybelline the falsies voluminous express for mascara, johnson and johnson baby detangler is good for your hair. Microdembrasion for the fine lines around your lips (you know I will be checking that one out!)
Midway was a tea with motivational speaker. How about this? "obsessing doesn't change anything" Write down your burdens and then throw them out. I liked this concept. I already write down at least 5 things everyday I am grateful. She suggested carrying it in your purse!
As to the clothing, moi is pleased to report that the leader liked my pink jacket and grey pants, I picked the right color and she pointed out to the group how wonderfully I had accessorized with pink crystal butterfly pin. So I was pleased as PUNCH! Know that you have two different style personalities. She also gave everyone four cards and they are for your wardrobe on a d ring so you can put on hanger, write down outfit that works all the way including accessories, hose, shoes and bag. These become your go to outfits and you don't have to think.
Now to the bad bit (I guess it is but I am in denial) didn't have a picture to post yesterday because DH was drunk and the only pix I did get were in the police station. Like I told the guys that was not the picture I had in mind. Seriously looks like a scratched mosquito bite. Had a very peaceful night after that though it did cut into my weekend plans. Also on the upside, the used car lot guy came over this morning as his guys had seen it (DH resisted so things got very ugly out here for awhile) and wanted to make sure that I was OK and safe. Gave me his cell number and his guys, told me they will help me anytime. It's nice to know even though I'd prefer not to. Do ya think they take out garbage?
I am Ok and had a lovely day. One SS is very upset, not with me and will not deal with it anymore. The eldest says he's not going anyplace, he will be in my life and is coming over for dinner tomorrow. And our feral cat, Mr. Stubbs, survived the destruction of the woods and is in the backyard. The world is a good place.
s

  
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BARBAELLEN 3/19/2012 4:28PM

    You've got it going on. You are already gorgeous! It looks like you're lucky to have the essential combination of good looks, good taste and good genes. Just keep in mind that no matter what you are blessed with, turmoil can work against those essentials. (But you know that.) Keep going strong!
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MARTY19 3/18/2012 8:20PM

    I love a day of beauty. My May Kay consultant cames over and showed me how to apply everything. She also recomends primer which I also bought. I look good after she was done.

Marty

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Beauty Plans

Saturday, March 17, 2012

Good morning, I had meant post quite awhile ago. I have been anticipating for ages. A couple of weeks ago I made an appointment for today for a new cut and color. I had been to Ouidad in NYC and loved it for my curls but couldn't arrange the time or funds at the same time. Finally, felt desperate and when I went to the site there's finally a Ouidad certified person closer to home that I can go to on a weekend. My acupuncturist is away this weekend so today's the day! It's time for a new look and new attitude.
Tomorrow there's an event at Hofstra (local college) originally scheduled for Super Bowl Sunday that is going to talk about hair, makeup, books and clothes with a tea. How blissy is that?
Next Saturday right after acupuncture I am getting my face done with the new spring colors at Chanel. So you see I am on a campaign.
And it's all timing out well as my profile at the office is expanding. More visibility, more projects (which means billable hours to pay for all this stuff!) Yeah!
Happy Saint Patrick's Day!

  
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SWEETYOUNGTHING 3/22/2012 5:49PM

    I love that you're doing girly stuff for yourself!! wonderful; enjoy :-)

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MARTY19 3/17/2012 11:46AM

    How yummy. Girl days are so special.

Marty

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BOHEMIANCAT 3/17/2012 9:39AM

    Sounds like fun!

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JSALERNO 3/17/2012 8:22AM

    HAPPY ST. PATTY'S DAY emoticon

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