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Eeekkkk!!!

Sunday, November 11, 2012



Ever have someone tag you in a picture of Facebook that makes you cringe? Here's a picture of me and my youngest at church this morning. Eeekkkk!!! I was doing a good job of losing weight this summer. Now, I'm a couple of pounds more than where I started. Ugh! Once again, I'm faced with having to take a good hard look in the mirror. I know to change on the outside starts with change on the inside. I'm there. I'm ready.

  
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CANES4EVER63 11/11/2012 8:12PM

    Have had that feeling before, however, that picture of me did not start the spark. I'm glad it has for you!! Just start again and keep going!

And really, that's not that bad of a picture!

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BECKYBETZ 11/11/2012 7:47PM

    I know EXACTLY how you feel! We had family pictures taken a couple of months ago and when they came back I was horrified of how I looked. I had a muffin top that...no, I have a muffin top that is big and embarrassing!

I need to remind myself everyday that I can do it and have the SELF DISCIPLINE to carry it out!!

good luck to you and your little one is ADORABLE and I love, love, love the leopard print she has on!
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Being a mom...

Monday, July 02, 2012



To whom much is given, much is required. I think about this often. My husband and I have been blessed with 4 beautiful children. The Lord has given us a lot and in that, He is also requiring a lot from us. Being a parent, a mother, is a role that I don't ever want to do less than 100%. It's my prayer that every day, I pour enough into my children so that they are overflowing.

I know that being a mother is more than just changing diapers or kissing boo boos. Being a mother means, my children are looking at me to see what a woman should be. Because of that, there are words that I do not say, places I will not go, etc. Our actions speak so loudly. I want them to look at me and see a woman who loves the Lord, who loves their daddy, and who loves them very much. I think, as much as I know how to, I've shown them that.

I've said all that to say, I am so excited about starting to lose weight and becoming more healthy. It's my hope, that they see what that means and that it will be something they value, so that later in life, being overweight, won't be their struggle. I hope it also shows them, that whatever problem they might face, with enough patience, hard work, and faith, they can overcome.

  
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HOLLYS_NEW_LIFE 7/2/2012 1:16PM

    You said it! We are our children's biggest influence, and you're doing right by them.

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VICKI2705 7/2/2012 10:41AM

    Great blog! I pray that same thing every night . I hope you are blessed throughout your journey!

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COWGIRLUPINOK 7/2/2012 10:40AM

    I think our health and how we chose to deal with it and keep it where it needs to be says a lot to our children about how God views us as people and how we are God's temples...our bodies are not given to us to hurt and destroy...he gave them to us so that we could spread his word.

I think you are teaching your children wise and wonderful things.

Big Hugs

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SWANATOPIA 7/2/2012 10:39AM

    Your kids are beautiful! You are so blessed!

That right there is the best reason in the world to want to get healthy!

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Hubs Is On Board

Friday, June 29, 2012

I am so excited! My husband are both working on getting healthy and losing weight...together! We've worked at it before, but haven't always been on the same page. This time, we are both motivated and ready to do what it takes to get the weight off and be healthy. We both agree, that we don't want to be parents on the sidelines, we want to be parents in the middle of the action. He's already down about 10 pounds, and I've almost crossed the 5 lb mark, since starting again. I feel very confident that we are going to do it this time!

  
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TRAYANDJAY 6/29/2012 5:22PM

  That is awesome! We are starting early. We are also trying really hard to keep our kids active.


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SWANATOPIA 6/29/2012 11:41AM

    Awesome! If you can learn to cook healthy and get the kids to grow up eating healthy...that's a big plus. I waited until my kids were teenagers but luckily they like all veggies! My son has dropped 2 pant sizes just from me cooking healthier!



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Here I Go Again

Friday, June 22, 2012

Okay, so here I go again.... About 2 years ago, I was doing great on my weight loss journey and feeling wonderful, when life threw me a curve ball. My husband and I found out we were expecting our 4th child. We were so excited! Our excitement only lasted for a few weeks, before we felt the tremendous heartbreak that a miscarriage can cause. It was a hard time, but our faith in Jesus Christ brought us through it. On what would have been our baby's due date, we found out we were expecting again. Our sweet baby girl will turn 1 in a couple of weeks, and she is such a joy! I feel very blessed that I get to be a stay at home mama to our 4 children - 1 boy and 3 girls.
The last year has been such a joyous year of our life and I have totally been a mommy of many different hats. I've been a breast feeding mom for almost the whole past year, a potty training mom, a basketball mom (2 times), a baseball mom and a soccer mom. I'm going to diligently work on becoming a healthy mom.
The thing is, I didn't realize until a family vacation that I was kind of making a very hard effort to hide behind people or things in pictures. It wasn't until I saw a picture of myself at my daughters' birthday party that I cringed. I put all my effort into taking care of my family and kind of forgot to take care of myself. I am super committed to getting this weight off. My first goal is to lose 40 pounds by November - my birthday and family picture time. So, here I go again....I can do this.

  
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DWROBERGE 6/23/2012 1:29AM

    Keep focused for success. You can do it. Go for it.

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