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An interesting concept...

Saturday, July 23, 2011

I read about this in a thread on one of the teams I belong to. The subject was stickK.com. I was baffled as to why she was considering to use this. It all had to do with accountability. My thinking was that Spark People is all about accountability through your blogs, nutrition trackers made public, fitness trackers made public, and weight tickers. The more you Spark the better you do so why would you need another tool for accountability if you weren't taking advantage of all of the tools and motivation and support of your Spark Buddies and team mates.

I checked out the site. The concept is that you make a specified contract with yourself. Then you decide what the reward/punishment will be. I like their money based stake. You have to how much money you're willing to risk, you choose a source like perhaps a charity that the money goes to should you fail. If you commit to that, it is a genius plan. The accountability comes in because you have to choose a "referee" that you report to and holds you accountable. You report every thing to that person. They monitor your progress and validate your reports.

The first thing that came into my head was that if you can't hold yourself accountable here on Spark People then if you failed on stickK.com why would any one believe you would live up to the contract and actually send the money to who ever you designated in your contract. Well stickK.com has that base covered.

"Let's say your goal is to lose weight. (For health reasons, weight loss can be structured only as an ongoing commitment.) Once you enter your target weight and how many weeks you’re giving yourself to get there, the form will calculate your weekly weight loss requirement. At the end of every week, you must report whether you succeeded or failed to lose that amount.

This example shows a 20-lb weight loss in 20 weeks, at a required rate of at least 1 lb/week.

stickKing with the 20 lbs in 20 weeks example, let's say you put $10 at stake per week. We take your credit card information upfront (but do not charge). Each week that you fail to lose the required 1 lb, we charge your card $10. After your contract is over, we send what you lost to your designated recipient."

That in my opinion is genius. You have to put your money where your mouth is. If it is set up on a credit card withdrawal you can't cheat and not send the money. It is automatic, you might not live up to the bargain you made but they will. This might be a great option to consider for people that are constantly starting over. Perhaps a dollar amount big enough to hurt you to lose if you fail will keep you on track.

Who knows? Maybe this may help you on your journey to a healthier you. It does not need to be weight related but I think there is a lot of potential there, but how about gambling, drug addiction, smoking, anger management, workaholic issues?

If you really feel the need to do this I would definitely do it in conjunction with Spark People. Spark People will give you the, information through its articles found on Spark People, various tools Spark People makes available to us, the support and motivation of your Spark Buddies to get you to your goal and stickK.com will take your money if you don't live up to your contract. If you truly can't do it on your own with SparkPeople then add extra motivation of possibly losing all of that money into the equation.

To further investigate:
www.stickk.com/tour.php




Money talks but doesn't grow on trees, it may be your motivation and just what you need!

  
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L*I*T*A* 7/24/2011 12:51AM

    interesting ideas.......
love Sparkpeople too much....no where i would rather be....
blessings and hugs...............lita

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SCOUTMOM715 7/23/2011 10:25PM

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MRDPOLING 7/23/2011 8:37PM

    SP is enough for me!

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EGRAMMY 7/23/2011 6:52PM

    I don't choose to gamble money.

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ROSAMARCELLE 7/23/2011 6:16PM

    Interesting, but I think you're right. We have everything we need here on Spark and if you want to punish yourself by paying over money if you gain weight and this is motivating, then there is nothing to stop you. I would prefer to reward myself for losing - although the actual loss is a big reward and incentive in itself. emoticon

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DYNAMICDEB53 7/23/2011 3:11PM

    yes i will say this is interesting. money does speak for some.
its not for me, but agree it might helpsome.
i find the commitment here on sp and accountability especaiily to ourselves is here, if we really want it. and as natalie225 said sometimes life those us a curve that is not our fault, here we adjust anf keep moving forward, but there what?
But still for some it could be a motivator that they need to get going.

thanks for sharing
smiles and hugs
deb

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GREASYJOAN 7/23/2011 1:03PM

    I looked at the site and it could be helpful. I think that the focus here at Spark People is more helpful. But thanks for mentioning Stickk.

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GV0903 7/23/2011 12:49PM

    VERY interesting. I will go check it out.

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DS9KIE 7/23/2011 12:30PM

    thats interesting

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NATALIE225 7/23/2011 12:04PM

    I've heard of this site too. I think for some people the risk of losing money is extra motivation. But personally, I'm not a big fan. I've set a lot of goals on SP and I usually end up modifying them. What if you hit a plateau? Or go through some major life changes? I had this happen to me, and I was so proud of myself for maintaining instead of spiraling out of control.

Thanks for the info though. As always, you provide good insight and links!

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It has not been fun lately...

Friday, July 22, 2011

I am hot! I am cranky! I don't feel so great with all this heat. This humidity is killing my shoulder!
I want to see this for real in my yard, now



I'm not dreaming of a white Christmas, I am dreaming of a white tomorrow! Don't you think that would be nice?

  
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WALKWITME 7/25/2011 3:42PM

    yes ! I agree... bring on the cool weather

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OLDERDANDRT 7/23/2011 12:28PM

    I agree with all you said about being cranky and all with this awful heat and humidity, but I still contend that *snow* is a 4-letter word that I don't like in any way, shape or form!!!! I'd be happy with a nice cleansing rain and a cool-off of 15 to 20 degrees! Wish somebody could explain to me why the weather patterns have gotten so weird over the past couple of years! Whew! Too hot in summer and too cold with too much snow in winter.
Oh well.......maybe I'm just never satisfied. emoticon emoticon

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ROSALIEESTHER 7/23/2011 4:51AM

    You are so funny! But boy it is sooooo hot! Keep eating that raw fruit - it's really been helping me.
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DS9KIE 7/23/2011 12:49AM

    oh girl I know how you feel its soooooo hot I'm always sweaty....I'd be happy if it just was in the 90's...lol it got to 101 degrees today...ekkk

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CLAVINOVA 7/22/2011 9:05PM

    I think EVERYONE would like to share a little of that snow with you! Maybe all this heat and humidity is making me feel down today too - anyway hope you have a great sparky weekend.

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FUNGRANNY72 7/22/2011 8:29PM

  I am with you all the way. For the south, we had a lot of snow this past winter here in Mississippi. I loved it. I always seem to do better in the winter than in the summer. I love the snow. I am surprised I did not break any of my brittle bones last winter. Come on SNOWBALLS!!!!!!!
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L*I*T*A* 7/22/2011 7:42PM

    the humidity would be the killer for me.....
hope it cools done soon...
have a great weekend...
blessings and hugs..........lita

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EGRAMMY 7/22/2011 7:38PM

    emoticon In summer we can have ac.
In snow storm, we have to live with ice. No ice to slip on please.

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ROCKYCPA 7/22/2011 7:14PM

    It is definitely too hot and too humid - a cool down would be nice.

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MRDPOLING 7/22/2011 7:05PM

    I used to tell people that snow would be more fun if it came in July when it was warm enough to go out and enjoy playing in it.

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WILLOW49 7/22/2011 6:57PM

    I don't mind the heat, but the humidity is a killer!
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DYNAMICDEB53 7/22/2011 6:48PM

    the weather this year ha been so weird!!!!
love the pic
smiles
deb

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ADIDASSUPERNOVA 7/22/2011 6:41PM

    Love the picture. Maybe you can put some ice and diet soda in the blender and make your own soda slushy. Not snow but a cheap approximation!

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LOOZINITNOW 7/22/2011 6:40PM

    I would like to see some 50-60 degree temps. We are currently sitting at 106 degrees here and humid!

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THE PORCH aka blonde joke

Thursday, July 21, 2011

THE PORCH
A young blond girl in her late teens, wanting to earn some extra
money for the summer, decided to hire herself out as a "handy woman"
and started canvassing a nearby well-to-do neighborhood.

She went to the front door of the first house and asked the owner if
he had any odd jobs for her to do.

"Well, I guess I could use somebody to paint the porch" he said.
"How much will you charge me?"

Delighted, the girl quickly responded, "How about $50?"

The man agreed and told her that the paint and brushes and
everything she would need were in the garage.

The man's wife, hearing the conversation, said to her husband, "Does
she realize that our porch goes ALL the way around the house?"

"That's a bit cynical, isn't it?" he responded.

The wife replied, "You're right. I guess I'm starting to believe all
those dumb blonde jokes."

A few hours later the blonde came to the door to collect her money.

"You're finished already??" the startled husband asked.

"Yes," the blonde replied, "and I even had paint left over so I gave
it two coats."

Impressed, the man reached into his pocket for the $50 and handed it
to her along with a $10 tip.

"Thank you," the blonde said, "And, by the way, it's not a Porch,
it's a Lexus."

  
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    Hahahahahaha

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  That was my great laugh for todaay.

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Second Opinion

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

The doctor said, 'Joe, the good news is I can cure your headaches.
The bad news is that it will require castration.

You have a very rare condition, which causes your testicles to press
on your spine and the pressure creates one hell of a headache. The
only way to relieve the pressure is to remove the testicles.'

Joe was shocked and depressed. He wondered if he had anything
to live for. He had no choice but to go under the knife.
When he left the hospital, he was without a headache for the first
time in 20 years, but he felt like he was missing an important part
of himself. As he walked down the street, he realized that he felt like
a different person. He could make a new beginning and live a new life.

He saw a men's clothing store and thought, 'That's what I need..... a
new suit.' He entered the shop and told the salesman, 'I'd like a new
suit.'

The elderly tailor eyed him briefly and said, 'Let's see.... size 44 long.'

Joe laughed, 'That's right, how did you know?'
'Been in the business 60 years!' the tailor said.
Joe tried on the suit it fit perfectly.

As Joe admired himself in the mirror, the salesman asked, 'How about
a new shirt?'
Joe thought for a moment and then said, 'Sure.'
The salesman eyed Joe and said, 'Let's see, 34 sleeves and 16-1/2 neck.
Joe was surprised, 'That's right, how did you know?'
'Been in the business 60 years.'
Joe tried on the shirt and it fit perfectly.

Joe walked comfortably around the shop and the salesman asked,
'How about some new underwear?'
Joe thought for a moment and said, 'Sure.'

The salesman said, 'Let's see... size 36.
Joe laughed, 'Ah ha! I got you! I've worn a size 34 since I was 18 years
old.'
The salesman shook his head, 'You can't wear a size 34. A size 34
would press your testicles up against the base of your spine and give
you one hell of a headache.'

New suit - $400
New shirt - $36
New underwear - $6
Second Opinion – PRICELESS

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SUNNYH99 7/21/2011 10:25AM

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    Oh my! Made me belly laugh out loud! Thanks, I needed that today!

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    First time I smiled today. Thanks!

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TEDYBEAR2838 7/20/2011 5:56PM

    That is way too funny! So you know I used to tell that when I was in my 20's and I am now 65.
Kind of gives credence to: What goes around comes around.

Thanks for the neat reminder.

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MRDPOLING 7/20/2011 4:36PM

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SEEMAINE 7/20/2011 4:16PM

    Oh my! Great story and gut wrenching at the same time. Always get second opinions!!

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Do I ever learn?

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

That would be a big NO! I guess when told to do nothing really means nothing. The morning walk was OK and probably doing The Done Dance which basically is turning on the music and dancing around like crazy for 15 minutes was probably ok to as I didn't move my arms or shoulder around. The gardening which was basically weeding for over a little over 30 minutes was what did me in, again. YUp this has happened once before.

I guess I just can't get my brain to register that a stupid little weed can do me in. I googled pictures of weeds and this is the closest image I could find. This looks like it it from an aquarium but it looks like the ones I have growing on land. They are about 12 inches high and between all the rain we have had and my daily watering of my container garden with the hose they grow like wildfire. I would have a lot less if I watered my garden with a watering can but that would too heavy to lift with my shoulder right now.

It looks like a wispy little thing, right? Not too much to pull? Well, that is what I thought.

Wrong! My shoulder aches and I will be icing it as soon as I finish this blog. I will do zippo for the rest of the day. Hoping when tomorrow rolls around for therapy my shoulder has stopped screaming at me. emoticonMaybe this time it will sink in. emoticon

  
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L*I*T*A* 7/19/2011 7:50PM

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FUNGRANNY72 7/19/2011 6:00PM

  I admire you for even trying to garden with your injury. I thought I was a stubborn person. Now I have company.

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ROSAMARCELLE 7/19/2011 5:25PM

    You have my full sympathy. I can't resist pull up the forest of weeds which all the rain we've been having recently have encouraged to grow and my back knows all about it when I've finished. However, in my case 30 mins rest and it recovers. Perhaps you should start putting your arm in a sling to remind you that rest is what it must have and then you can't use it. emoticon

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MARYHOLMAN 7/19/2011 4:40PM

    Here in South Philadelphia, weeds coming out of the pavement cracks are the only gardens we get.

Hey girl---know your limits and give yourself a break when your body screams out for it.

Maybe you can start selling your weeds to aquarium supply stores...... emoticon

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DS9KIE 7/19/2011 2:00PM

    so just leave the weeds alone...lol

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BE-THE-CHANGE 7/19/2011 1:45PM

    Looks like something I get - a tough stem and long roots. Maybe you need to have someone else do the weeding for a while. It is hard to stop once you get started!

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SECRETMUSIC 7/19/2011 1:25PM

    was it the time you spent weeding that did you in, or the toughness of the weeds? If the former, maybe you could set a timer for 5 minutes for weeding...I have to do that at times because once I start weeding and can't stop (easily). Hope you feel better very soon!

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MOCNVW23 7/19/2011 12:23PM

    I am so sorry to hear about your shoulder. Give it the rest and ice that it needs. Stick with walking and dancing around and things that doesn't have you hurting that shoulder anymore. Listen to the experts and take care of that shoulder and get feeling better soon.

Missy

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MRDPOLING 7/19/2011 12:13PM

    Oh my! You poor thing!

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MARTY728 7/19/2011 12:10PM

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TEDYBEAR2838 7/19/2011 12:00PM

    What a bummer. I'm so sorry.

Weeds are stubborn, although they look helpless and timid.
Please try to listen to the experts!



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4A-HEALTHY-BMI 7/19/2011 11:48AM

    Hang in there.

I agree that you should leave off the weeding. Spend that time walking, dancing, singing, and having fun with your LOWER BODY.

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DEFIANTVEGAN 7/19/2011 11:31AM

    Ugh so sorry I wouldn't have thought that little weed would do you in. ugh so sorry I wish I was there to help..

Feel better soon.

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WILLOW49 7/19/2011 11:27AM

    Sure hope you give that shoulder lots of rest & ice!

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