Monday, August 06, 2012
Hope Everyone had a great weekend! Well I am going to get on my rant and rave a little this am. Hope you guys don't mind. Here it goes. I work for a small family business. It is a husband & wife team. I have been here for almost 2 years. I mainly work in the office with the wife. The husband is usally out of the office tending to another business that they own.
Since I have been working out really hard completely change my way of eating, taking my vitamins everything in my power to stay on track she keeps wanting to derail my new way of being a healthier me! She has started bring in donuts, bagels, potatoe chips, cakes & cookies! Going out for lunch & bringing back pizza & wanting me to try EVERYTHING! I don't want these things! I plan out my meals a week in advance so I won't eat anything bad! She has a attitude if I don't want to eat her all of her fatting foods. A little bit about her. She is over weight & has been on all kinds of weight loss treatments. Shenhasa lost weight in the past only to regain everything back. She knows how important my workouts are to me. I bring in my gym bag everyday & change right before I get off work & head to the gym. She knows what time my group classes are at the gym & now she keeps asking me if I can work late over & over again! I have been very nice & keep telling her I will. But I do not have a happy look on my face! I really think she is trying to do this on purpose! She stays gone all day when I come in 9:00 & doesn't come back in the office till 3:00 I never go out for lunch I stay at work all day. By myself. She is very negative about everything which really brings me down & sometimes makes me nervous. She is really mean to customers & other employees. Like she is better than them. I feel really sorry for them. She tries to intimidate people which she does most of the time. I have been told by people that come in the office I am the only office girl that has been here this long. I guess she has run everybody else off. My husband really wants me to go part time or quit. He doesn't want to see me unhappy. I told her not long ago that my husband really wants me to go part time, she looks at me disappointed & said when I hired you it was Mon-Fri 9-3. I just don't know what to do anymore when she keeps asking me to work late when I dont want to! I also live about a hour away from work which puts me getting home a lot later after I go to the gym. I won't go into detail about other things I do for her that I don't get paid for that is not in my job description. I really think she is a very jealous person & not happy at all with her self so she makes other people feel bad. Any suggestions please?