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Still blogging....crying some now....Wednesday, December 01, 2010
At first when I got the news it was surreal.. My sister is dead? It is starting to sink in the reality and finality of it. I am sure she is in heaven and God is taking good care of her. She had a very hard life and she coped as well as she could with all the obstacles she had. She was only 8 or 9 when her father died. My mother was pregnant with me at that time and my mother did not cope well with the loss. I am sure my sisters (I had two older sisters) felt abandoned for much of that first year as my mother sent them to boarding school and she and I went to a Catholic convent for at least 6 months. My mother's sister was a nun and she convinced her mother superior to take my mother in to help her over her trauma. My mother was so distressed that the doctor did not allow her to go to my father's funeral for fear of losing her pregnancy (me!). My aunt, the nun, Sister Teresa Joseph called me "her baby" and I heard all the nuns were anamored with me. My aunt named me at the baptism, "Theodora Josephine Frances Xavier Cabrini" and my last name was a mouthful, too, Bednar'Chuk. My oldest sister got married when I was only 4 years old. My sister who just died was often the babysitter for my younger half sister and me and she probably resented that as she got into her teen years, but we were friends and became closer as we got older. We used to laugh a lot and reminisced about the good and not-so-good childhood we shared. I do miss her. ![]()
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ASHERAH38
12/5/2010 3:38PM
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Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Report Inappropriate Comment |


MSHUFFNPUFFN
12/5/2010 1:46PM
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You are in my thoughts and prayers; I am very sorry for your loss. Debra~~ Report Inappropriate Comment |


ELAINESHAFF
12/4/2010 4:37PM
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My thoughts and prayers are with you. Report Inappropriate Comment |


BIGT_56
12/4/2010 10:19AM
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I was fascinated to read about your beginnings in this world. You should write a book or at least some short stories about those days...it would be a good read. Report Inappropriate Comment |


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CORKYTHEMOM
12/2/2010 10:45AM
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Teddy, you're never alone in this journey of grief. I am right by your side, holding your hand in friendship and embracing you with lots of comforting hugs. ~ Monika ~ Report Inappropriate Comment |


MSLZZY
12/1/2010 5:40PM
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The grieving process is long and slow but cherish the fond memories that you have and know you have friends who are here to help you through this. HUGS!
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WORKOUTWITHPAM
12/1/2010 2:55PM
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Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers during this very sad time. HUGS Pam Report Inappropriate Comment |


TEDDYTEDDY
12/1/2010 12:18PM
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P.S. She was my last sibling.... Report Inappropriate Comment |


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WISEWIFE
12/1/2010 11:23AM
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My condolences on your loss. Hugs, WW Report Inappropriate Comment |


SWAZY33
12/1/2010 11:03AM
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This blog tugged at my heart. I'm so close with my sis and can't begin to imagine your pain. Prayers and blessings for peace and healing Report Inappropriate Comment |


ELEXEY
12/1/2010 10:41AM
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My prayers are with you as well. Report Inappropriate Comment |


SNUGGLY4U
12/1/2010 10:06AM
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MYSTERY4EVER
12/1/2010 9:42AM
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My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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KAT7457
12/1/2010 9:28AM
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Teddy I am so sorry for your loss of your sister you are in my thoughts and prayers. Report Inappropriate Comment |


MARITAK
12/1/2010 9:25AM
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