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Challenges of Life.

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

As most of you know Colin has been extremely ill over the last few months.
He is out of hospital and I am taking care of him at home.
We have extra help in the house and new aids for Colin so that he can undress and dress himself and get into and out of bed.
Unfortunately, the stress of all the pain he is in, has excelerated the dementia.
He is really quite dependant on me now .
He will never be out of pain and we will have to manage it with meds.
Colin spleen has been distended because of his blood disorder Polythiceamea Rubra Vera .
He has been suffering this condition for many years and his spleen is massive.
There is nothing that can be done as he is too weak to survive a Operation.
Eventually his Spleen will burst and he will pass over.

We are prepared for this,as the doctors have advised us that it is likely it will happen sooner rather than later.
We both want to thank you all, for all the wonderful support and loving messages of encouragement and hope.
I am lucky to have had this amazing man as my husband for so long ..
When we first met, Colin was a widower and was bringing up three daughters .. I had been widowed and had two sons and two daughters one of which was only 4 years old ..I was 34 and he was 47 years old.
We made a lovely life together and although we have had our ups and downs (as most families do).
We were, and still are,extremely happy.
We have our girls living close by,and the nurse from our medical practice will be calling in if needed.
Neither of us want Colin to go into care,and so we have everything all set up here at home.
Again thank you all so very much .. Love to you all .. Colin and Susie.

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PINKANGEL73 6/17/2013 11:44AM

Glad you have been able to set things up so that Colin can be at home with you. It must be very hard and I wish you great strength to help you cope - though I know you are already a very strong lady. Hope the meds will keep Colin comfortable as possible - having you at his side will be an enormous help to him with that I'm sure.

Bless you both and big

x

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FISHER011 6/17/2013 1:46AM

Bless you and Colin Susie...you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Peace be with you

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NPA4LOSS 6/15/2013 12:26AM

You are very lucky as is Colin to have had such a wonderful life with someone you have been so happy with. A blessing.

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ARTJAC 6/14/2013 10:36PM

SUSIE SO SORRY TO HERE ABOUT COLIN I HOPE THAT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE COPING WELL HUGS JACQUE

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CTUPTON 6/10/2013 12:00PM

Susie, The periods in our lives do change. I pray God gives you extra peace and strength to treasure this time with your husband. Chris

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LIBBYFITZ 6/7/2013 10:11PM

So sorry to hear your news. Thinking of you and your family. Much love from all of us in Western Australia. Big big cyber hugs to you all.

Love from Libby and Graeme. xoxoxox

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LOVELY_MUMMY 6/7/2013 9:28PM

Hey hun x how are u and how's ur lovely husband Colin doing? I really wish u all the best x

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JUDITH316 6/5/2013 4:54PM

Dearest Susie, just came back to say hi and let you know I'm here for you and Colin. Also checking in to see how Colin is doing? Trust he is resting more comfortably today and the medication is working for him...I stand with you my friend in both prayer and with my friendship as always... Blessings and Hugs...

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JUDITH316 6/4/2013 1:48AM

Dearest Susie, I'm so sorry to hear the news about Colin, reading about your life with Colin and the love you both have for one another sure helps keep you strong, I'm happy that you have Colin home with you and the family, I believe he will be much more comfortable at home. you are such an inspiration my friend, please remember to take some time for you so you can keep strong and well, my prayers are with you both as always, praying the increased pain meds will bring more pain control and help Colin to be more comfortable and at rest.

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MARITIMER3 6/1/2013 10:26AM

Susie, your strength amazes me. It sounds as if you and Colin were truly blessed when you found each other. Like so many others have said, I hope that the medication controls Colin's pain. I'm glad he is able to be at home, and hope that he will continue to be able to stay there. Enjoy the good minutes. You are both in my prayers.
Love to you both,
Gail

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APED7969 6/1/2013 5:14AM

I am sorry to hear about Colin and hope he can stay pain free.

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123ELAINE456 5/31/2013 9:28AM

I'm so saddened about the News with Collin. I was so hoping that they could get him built up good so that the surgery could be done. He is to ill for it now. You and Collin have had a long Wonderful life Together. So many Memories and Happy Time with the Family to remember. Cherish the time You have Him and spend every moment that You can with Him. Glad that You have the additional help with Him too. Do take very Good Care of Yourself please. And get away when You feel the need to. Will be Praying for You and Family. God Blessings to Collin, You, Family and Everyone. Have a Enjoyable Weekend. Take Care. Hugs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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1HAPPYSPIRIT 5/30/2013 10:30PM

Thinking of you....with prayers and positive thoughts!

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NPA4LOSS 5/30/2013 10:22PM

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for you. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers always. Nola

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GARDENSFORLIFE 5/30/2013 7:09PM

I am keeping you and your family in my prayers!
God Bless You and keep you strong!

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GARDENSFORLIFE 5/30/2013 7:09PM

I am keeping you and your family in my prayers!
God Bless You and keep you strong!

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IAMAGEMLOVER 5/30/2013 4:10PM

Susie, I am so very saddened to read this. It immediately made me think of my wonderful Dad. We had him home as long as possible. He family wanted to go to the hospital where he passed two days after going. I think he knew and didn't want to die at home thinking of my Mom. I think he thought it would have been hard on her having to go on living there.

I so admire you being able to look at all the loving years you have had together and be grateful for them. I can do that now, but it took time. Sending much love to both of you.-------------Bonnie

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MORTICIAADDAMS 5/30/2013 4:06PM

Oh, Susie, I am so sorry. I know you have spoken about this and are prepared for it but I have held out hope that it would not happen and that Colin would be healed. You are so wonderful, Susie. I know you will take good care of Colin. My heart goes out to you and him and your loved ones. You are in my prayers.

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MT-MOONCHASER 5/30/2013 1:12PM

Susie -- I am so very sorry to read this news. Try to get as much enjoyment as you can during this stressful time.

It is great to read about such a love story as yours.

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1BEACHWALKER 5/30/2013 1:10PM

I am always thinking of you and Colin and so sad you all have to go through this. We all do at some point in our lives and some times they are harder than others. I am so glad you have a happy life together-cherish those moments and it will help you later on. I am so sad right now, knowing it will be sooner than later that Colin will pass away. He has had a good life and you helped it to be that way. You are such a sweet lady-sorry times are tough on you right now.
Love and hugs being sent to you.

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OLDANDSLOW1 5/30/2013 12:40PM

This is the time we count our blessing and treasure each moment we have with our loved ones. The simplest actions will be memories for tomorrow. God Bless you, Colin and your family as you continue on this journey. I pray that God puts his arms around you and Colin to comfort you and support you. Love and hugs Pat.

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JILL313 5/30/2013 12:27PM

susie, I'm so happy you and Colin have enjoyed a wonderful life together. . .but words cannot express how sad and unhappy that Colin is not well, I know that has to take a big toll on you. . .You are such an amazing and strong lady as I know it's a very hard and stressful time for you. . .like you said it's all in God's hands now. I'm so glad he is comfortable at home and you have some additional help to care for him. I admire you so much my dear friend. . .I do care about both of you. Remember to give yourself time away as being a full time caretaker isn't easy and very tiring. Take one day at a time. . .

Love You,

Jill

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REGILIEH 5/30/2013 11:34AM

I am so Very sorry! Yours and Colin's story is lovely. I will keep you and Colin in my prayers. I wish I could do more.

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MS.ELENI 5/30/2013 11:10AM

You are such a strong lady. I know you are not well yourself. I worry that something will happen to Bill and how will I care for him.
Being the care giver is very hard. i know it is a strain for Bill at times as i am not always nice to be around when i feel really bad. but I do try to tell him often how much I appreciate all he does.
Just remember to take care of yourself too and continue to have your trips out and about to refresh yourself.

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JOYINKY 5/30/2013 9:55AM

I hope they can manage his pain; I can't imagine how that must be. You have had a wonderful life and I'm so glad you are surrounded with good loving support and are able to keep Colin at home. Sending thoughts and prayers for you both. God Bless You.

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2013NEWME2 5/30/2013 9:23AM

I'm tearing up as I type this to you.
My thoughts and prayers are with both you and Colin.
Keep those beautiful memories to help you through this very tough time.
I'm so sorry that there isn't anything that can be done for dear Colin.
He will be out of pain and in a much better place when his time comes.
You have a wonderful family and lots of friends to help you get by, please call on us when you need a ear. I'm always here for you.
Much love and hugs.

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SHELL_G 5/30/2013 9:21AM

Sending thoughts and prayers your way.

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SHIRLEYX 5/30/2013 9:12AM

God bless you both.

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RDEE22 5/30/2013 8:57AM

You can hear the love in your words as you describe your life with Colin,Susie. What a great family you have made together. We are very familiar with Polycythemia. My MIL had Vera and Don has Secondary Polycythemia, which hopefully will stay just that,secondary. My thoughts and love are with you.

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GABY1948 5/30/2013 8:56AM

What a lovely life the two of you have had together. My dh and I are same. So I can understand your decisions now. God Bless you both Sus and my heart and prayers continue for the two of you...

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WENDYJM4 5/30/2013 8:22AM

I am so sorry Susie that this is happening to you and Colin. Such a hard time. I wish I could be there in your time of need.

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HEALTHY4ME 5/30/2013 7:46AM

Oh sweet Susie,
I am sorry to hear your news, not good news for sure, but as you say you are as prepared as you can be. Nothing really prepares us for these times though. My heart goes out to you as it is so hard to watch a loved one in pain. Hard also to lose the person with dementia also.
A hard row either way, and so sorry Colin has to suffer such pain. I hpe there is someing they can do to help ease his pain and that when the time comes it is not lingering for his sake and yours.
HUGS and I will be thinking of you and praying that less suffering for Colin and peacefulness for you both. Good memories to tide you over especially in the coming months.
Sweet Susie don't fret about us cos I know you always apologize for not being here, Do what you have to do for you and Colin.
Soft gentle hugs and wish I was near to help... I do miss my job but alas my body sure doesn't.
HUGS

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HICKOK-HALEY 5/30/2013 6:59AM

Your an Angel Susie. Colin found a gem when he married you. I too am glad the both of you have had a wonderful life together. Hang in there. I know it is hard. Especially watching someone you love be in pain etc. I love you both!!

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PHEBESS 5/30/2013 6:39AM

Sending you lots of hugs and positive thoughts!

-Phebe

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LYNMEINDERS 5/30/2013 6:08AM

Super big hugs to you and Colin...
You are both in my prayers....
Am stoked that Colin is home and that you are with him caring for him....
Remember to take care of yourself during this time as you are all Bobby has.....
Thankyou so much for the update....
Blessings to you both

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EVER-HOPEFUL 5/30/2013 5:56AM

susie love ,what can i say you now how dear you are to my heart love,you and colin both,i still remember that smile colin gave me a while back when he came on skype to say hello and see who you were talking to on skype.take care of him as i know you will but at the same time remeber to take care of yourself.it is nice to have such good and happy times to share and look back on together and later when it will see you through the hard times you will have to come.no i am here for you love anytoime either here or on skype though like you i am not so active on skype as i used to be.give yourself and colin a hug and kiss from me.take care and make treasured memories in the time left.hopefully the medication eases colins pain.hugs and love

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AKELAZ 5/30/2013 5:49AM

Susie - BIG

to you and Colin.
There are tough times ahead but your past happy history will help you through them. I am sad for you both but you are doing all you can for Colin and making good and loving thoughts and memories. I can't tell you how much I admire the courage that you both plainly have.
Am happy you have your daughters with you for mutual love and support - so important at this time. You also have your Spark family and I hope you'll ask for any help and support here. I hope - well - I'm sure - you KNOW that we're all here for you. Don't hesitate to call on us.
You and Col will be in my thoughts, dear Susie.

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TWEETYKC00 5/30/2013 5:25AM

I know Colin is in pain, but I do hope he does not have to really suffer from his conditions. I know dementia is hard on everyone even without other issues. We are here for you thru this. It is good that you also have family nearby.

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GOANNA2 5/30/2013 4:39AM

I'm so glad you have had such a happy life together.
Cherish your time with Colin. I will be saying prayers
for both of you. Just know myself and all the Spark
community are her to support you in anyway. You are
one in a million Susie. Give Colin a hug and I hope he
isn't in too much pain. Look after yourself too. Glad
you have your girls and help around you.

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NEW-CAZ 5/30/2013 3:53AM

i am SO very sorry Suz, cherish your time together now and make some memories to treasure.
Give the big lug a hug from me, and tell him he is fondly thought of by your spark family who have come to know him from your anecdotes and photos.

You know I'm here if you need me

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SPEEDY143 5/30/2013 2:46AM

Please give Colin a squeeze from me and whisper something sweet in his ear from all of us

We love you both so much

No regrets Susie

Linda

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JENNY888 5/30/2013 1:24AM

I am glad to see the update on your life situation Susie. Cherish the time you have with Colin. It can be difficult at times I am sure but you need to catch every moment you can with Colin now. I can tell you have lived a wonderful life with him. I am here if you ever need support.

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GEOFROG 5/30/2013 12:07AM

I'm sorry that Colin isn't too so well. Cherish the time you have left with him. Make sure he knows, if possible, that you and your family are always there for me. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Take care my friend. (I feel for you, I really do! Oh great here comes the tears!!!)

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JERSEYGIRL24 5/30/2013 12:02AM

You have been around to give me support and encouragement through some difficult times. It is my turn to try to help you. Just know that the Spark community is behind you, and be thankful for the happy times. He sounds like an awesome hubby!

Leslie

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PROUD-GRANDMA 5/29/2013 11:57PM

I'm sending prayers and hugs for you and Colin and your lovely family.

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ARTJAC 5/29/2013 11:56PM

SORRY TO HEAR THE NEWS ABOUT COLIN I WILL BE THINKING ABOUT YOU BOTH

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DIDMIS 5/29/2013 11:50PM

Susie I am so sorry about Colin but glad you have had such a happy life together.
God bless you both.
Irene

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CHERIRIDDELL 5/29/2013 11:48PM

Susie I will remember you both in my prayers Colin has always sounded like a lovely man to me and I admire you for taking such good care of him. You truly are a wonderful person. I am hoping you will have as much help as you need to look after Colin at home. love and hugs,Cheri

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1FARMER 5/29/2013 11:48PM

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hugs, Jeanne

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Life Happens.

Thursday, May 16, 2013

I didn't realise how long it has been since I blogged.
Because I use the friend feed, it slipped my mind.
Colin is recovering well from his procedures and was doing really well, until he decided to try and fix the cover of our wall gas heater.
He got the ladder and climbed up to try and fix a loose screw .
Needless to say,he fell from the 2nd rung up.
This wasn't very far, but far enough to hurt his hip. I managed to get him in the car and took him straight up to his Doctor.
Colin protested all the way ... But I kept going ..
He has severely bruised his hip, and was so lucky he didn't break it.
He is now under doctors orders not to use a ladder again.
I am in his bad books at the moment .. but he will eventually get over it ..Lol!
Does anyone else have a hubby that dislikes doctors?.

On a lighter note, I reached the first 10,000 steps I have been able to do since my heart attack back in August last year! Yeah ! I am so proud of myself ..
As most of you know I use a walking frame ..
So to get that amount of steps up is really a achievement ...
My next goal is doing 15,000 Steps by Christmas..

Thank you all for your support over the last few months, your encouragement and friendship helped both Colin and I cope so much better.
Sending love and thanks Susie

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JILL313 5/30/2013 12:20PM

Susie, I'm so sorry to hear about Colin's fall and just glad he wasn't hurt any worse. I love what good and loving care you give him. . .and I understand hos special he is to you. . .Glad you're still able to get lots of steps in, good for you. You both are always in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you both.

Hugs & Love,

Jill

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FISHER011 5/26/2013 5:21AM

Hi Susie! You are doing awesome!

Hope Colin feels better soon

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PINKANGEL73 5/21/2013 9:31AM

Men are stubborn and don't like to feel beaten by anything. He must have been feeling good to want to do it so that at least is a plus. Statistics show that men in long term relationships live longer and I put that down to having us to nag them and push them to look after themselves better!

Good for you too on all those steps with a walking frame. You are always an inspiration - think a little of that stubbornness and not liking to be beaten has rubbed off and maybe that's not a bad thing either.

Wishing you both all the best as always xx

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1BEACHWALKER 5/20/2013 2:46AM

One thing I know is most men are stubborn and they don't like Dr.'s! So glad he didn't break his hip-that is so dangerous-especially for him!
Congrats on the 10,000 steps! You are doing fantastic Susie!!
Thanks for your get well wishes on my blog...I am doing better! Still can't believe I fell! Take care and you both have a lovely day!!

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GEOFROG 5/19/2013 12:27AM

My late husband, Dexter, only went to the doctor for his physical for his CDL for truck drivers every 2 years. That is how he found out about his high choker and diabetes. By the time he died he had lost 45 pounds, was going to be taken off his meds totally. Unfortunately the heart attack took him instead which his doctor says was from the high cholesterol 3 years before but I still think it was from a change in his cholesterol meds (13 days before he died they put him on something new) and working too long of hours-70 hours a week average.
Dan won't go see a doctor either. I think he needs to for his heart burn but NOOOOO, he won't go. Men are so stubborn!!! Hopefully you can find something for Colin to do safely so he won't get bored! Hobby of some sort???
Take care my friend and give Bobby kisses from Missy!!!

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ARTJAC 5/18/2013 3:51AM

SUSIE I THINK ALL MEN ARE THE SAME THEY WILL NOT GO TO THE DOCTOR

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HICKOK-HALEY 5/17/2013 11:41PM

Congrats on the 10,000 steps. I'm glad Colin is going to be ok. I bet he is so sore though. Dennis isn't good at going to the doctor. It's a guy thing. So stubborn lol.

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123ELAINE456 5/17/2013 9:42PM

So glad the Colin when He fell did'nt break a Hip. Men will be Men or Boys should I say. They think they can still do things that they did when they was Teenagers and young Men. It seems like they never learn til something happens like this as with Colin. They mean well and want to take care of everything. But they can't. Hope he has a speedy recovery and fell well again soon. I'm glad that You took Him right into the Doctor under protest from Him an the Doctor told Him No More Ladders for Him. That is AWESOME You reaching 10,000 Steps. I am very Proud and Happy For You. WooHoo!!! You will be able to get up to 15,000 Steps. It will take time. Thank You for showing Me that You can accomplish things like this using a Frame or Walker. But It Can be done I see. Thank for opening my eyes and showing Me the way. I use a Walker when I go out of my apartment. God Blessings to the Both Of You and Everyone. Have A Marvelous Wonderful Weekend. Take Good care of Yourself to. Get plenty of rest and sleep. Love and Hugs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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2013NEWME2 5/17/2013 6:31PM

Oh my goodness Susie Colin is a handful at times isn't he!

I'm so glad he didn't break his hip! Thank God for that.
I am so so proud of you!!!! Wow, 10,000 steps is a great achievement!!!! I don't doubt that you will reach your next goal! You are one determined woman!

Keeping both of you in my prayers.
Have a wonderful weekend my friend.

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MARITIMER3 5/17/2013 6:23PM

Susie, you are really amazing! I never realized that you use a walking frame, so I'm impressed all over again with everything that you do.

My husband loves ladders and hates doctors, so I uderstand. Glad that you kept going (to the doctor), and that he laid down the law to Colin.

I really believe that men have more trouble adjusting to getting older than women do. I know that Peter never believes that he will fall off the ladder, and he still drives his motorcycles (4) and his go-kart.

Glad that colin is feeling a bit better today. Take care of yourself too,
Hugs and love,
Gail

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IAMAGEMLOVER 5/17/2013 4:17PM

Susie on the steps. That is just fantastic. Tell Colin to stay off ladders. Honest to God I don't know what is wrong with men. They must think they are unbreakable or something. My landlord is 92 came upstairs and got on the ladder to change a light bulb outside on the porch. He almost went out the window. I am on the third floor. Scared the begeezus out of me. My Dad was the same way. He was having a heart attack and wanted to go back to work. My Mom called his sister her husband and my brother to stop him and they finally called the ambulance.

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GLORIAB73 5/17/2013 10:24AM

Sorry to hear about Colin's fall but glad nothing was broken!

Congrats on those steps Susie, that is truly awesome!

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BELLES74 5/17/2013 6:20AM

well for your 10,000 steps not Colin's accident lol

Go get em :)

HUgs

Bek

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GOANNA2 5/17/2013 5:48AM

Why are men like that. My ex was like that,
now my son is the same. He hates waiting.
Glad to hear Colin did not break his hip.
Congratulations on reaching 10,000 with a
walker at that. You are amazing and you will
get your 15 thousand easily.

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PHEBESS 5/17/2013 2:29AM

Oh yeah, men like to pretend they're all 20 year old muscle men.

Hope you two continue to mend!

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MS.ELENI 5/16/2013 1:58PM

Men need to feel useful and therefore they do stuff they shouldn't.
Congrats on your walking.That is so awesome.

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GABY1948 5/16/2013 1:37PM

on the 100,000 steps! And YES, I have a hubby that dislikes doctors but then, so do I! Glad you are doing so much better on all fronts!

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SPEEDY143 5/16/2013 12:53PM

What man does like the doctor??? I'm so proud of you to keep driving him there any way

and a double

on getting your steps in Suzie

you are my hero

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NPA4LOSS 5/16/2013 11:36AM

That Colin is a spitfire!

on your

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MORTICIAADDAMS 5/16/2013 11:16AM

Oh, my, what are we to do with Colin! It sounds like he must have felt really good to have been attempting this. The doctor is right - no more ladders. I fear that Colin is going to grow board with having some limitations. I wonder what we can of for him to do to stay busy and safe at the same time.

My hubby only goes to the doctor when he is sick and he is seldom sick.

Congratulations on the steps!! You have been very busy,

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JOYINKY 5/16/2013 9:34AM

Congratulations on the 10,000 steps! That is an accomplishment!!
My brothers have to be in serious pain to get them to the Dr. You absolutely did the right thing; I'm glad it didn't result in a worse injury. Take care and be well.

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EVER-HOPEFUL 5/16/2013 8:54AM

sorry to hear about colins hip but glad it wasn�t worse.you my love re the 10,000 steps i am so so proud of you love.

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AKELAZ 5/16/2013 8:17AM

MEN huh??!!! My Father decided - aged 94 - to get up a ladder and prune his apple tree when no one else was around and lay in the garden for half a day before being found. Thanks heavens for good neighbours and that he had few ill effects. Good for you taking Colin to the Doc in the face of all protests. Glad no serious damage was done.
As for YOU!!! Many congrats on the 10,000 - as you say - a considerable achievement in your circs. You just don't let anything stop you - truly I admire you! Know you'll keep aiming for the 15,000 and don't doubt that you'll get there..
Take care - loadsa

to you and to Col. XXX

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RDEE22 5/16/2013 8:11AM

I have one too, banned from the ladder by his Dr. They all think they are still 40. Congratulations on the 10000 steps Susie. You are a star!!!

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WENDYJM4 5/16/2013 7:53AM

oh Susie, I have a father like that, my father fell a few months ago from higher up. So glad Colin didn't seriously hurt himself. As Libby said get someone to hide the ladder. Congrats on the 10,000 steps.

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ANJAYS-JOURNEY 5/16/2013 7:49AM

way to go on the steps and yes I have a hubbie just like Colin!!

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NEW-CAZ 5/16/2013 7:46AM

oh Suz! Men! It's inherent hun, if a man can avoid a medic he will!
Hope the hunk is soonest mended.

on your 10,000!

and I can see you saying 15,000 achieved

Keep safe and take care- both of you

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LIBBYFITZ 5/16/2013 7:21AM

Oh Suzie! You might need to go and hide that Ladder. So pleased he didn't break anything!

on your 10,000 steps!

Having a few quiet days at home with a cold. A work colleague came back from the UK with a cold and went to the same conference as me on Sat and sat near me and proceeded to sneeze all day!

By Mon night I had the usual sore throat and the rest is history.

Lots of love from Libby

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LYNMEINDERS 5/16/2013 6:26AM

Hahaha....reminds me of my hubby...It will be right...i don'e need to go to A & E....
Of course not...you just have a broken foot....lol....
They really don't like having to get treated....go you...I am proud of you

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HEALTHY4ME 5/16/2013 6:24AM

OH dear you are right, good thing he didnt get hurt. Geesh Have to hide the ladder. I imagine he doesn't realize that he can't do it all anymore. So thankful he wasn't hurt and bruises will mend.
AWESOME on the steps!! great going you are doing so well with all that you have to contend with. HUGS

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Update as requested!.

Wednesday, May 01, 2013

Colin was taken to theatre at 1-30pm today ..
The plan was to do a endoscopy to replace the stent and to see whether taking the gall bladder out was a option.
They took the stent out and widened the bile duct .

The Doctors then proceeded to investigate the gall bladder .
They decided to remove the stones from the gall bladder via the endoscope
This was a much safer option than doing keyhole surgery .

Colin came though this really well and although his Vitals were on the low side, they were very happy with the way he got though the procedure ..
He is staying in hospital over night and it depends on the doctors as to whether we go home tomorrow evening
Both Marian and I are exhausted, and are having a early night ..

Thank you all for your support and encouragement, your loving thoughts and positivity have definitely helped to,keep our spirits up ..
Much Love , Colin Susie and our Family xxxx

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EVER-HOPEFUL 5/6/2013 6:08PM

that�s great news susie love.sorry just getting to this now my computer was not working.just got it back today and playing catch up.will get back again sometime this week.take care hugs to all

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HICKOK-HALEY 5/5/2013 12:40AM

Great news Susie. I'm so glad Colin did so well. I like the procedure they did for the stones. Tell Colin hello for me!!

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TIME2BLOOM4ME 5/4/2013 11:04PM

Thank goodness the surgery is over. Rest.

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1FARMER 5/4/2013 8:47PM

My prayers are with you. Get some rest.

Jeanne

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1BEACHWALKER 5/4/2013 3:14AM

Just got back from vacation and good to hear that news! Hope all goes well, and Colin gets to go home soon.
Love, Connie

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STEPBYSTEP_ 5/3/2013 1:49AM

Praying for a really good recovery; and for a good nights rest for both of you now!

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LYNMEINDERS 5/2/2013 7:38AM

Prayers coming for all of you....
thankyou so much for sharing with us what is happening...
Love to you all

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ARTJAC 5/2/2013 5:37AM

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PROUD-GRANDMA 5/2/2013 1:21AM

Answered prayers!

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GEOFROG 5/1/2013 11:53PM

Prayers and thoughts are you, Colin, and family. Dan and I are thinking of you!!! Take care my friend and keep us posted. Have a good night!

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MARITIMER3 5/1/2013 8:14PM

So glad to hear Colin's good news! You must be exhausted; hope you sleep well and that Colin has a good night. Will you stay there for a few days before flying home? Take care, lots of hugs, Gail

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SPEEDY143 5/1/2013 7:44PM

sleep well sweetie... I'm praying for the highest good of all concerned

Love & Light

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GABY1948 5/1/2013 6:26PM

Glad you updated us. Prayers are here for you!

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WUNMURRA 5/1/2013 5:30PM

You are all in my thoughts and prayers

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GARDENSFORLIFE 5/1/2013 3:39PM

GOD BLESS YOU & YOUR FAMILY!

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PINKANGEL73 5/1/2013 2:38PM

So pleased Colin has come through it okay. Thinking of you all and wishing you the best from sunny England xx

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NEW-CAZ 5/1/2013 1:00PM

Wonderful news my Aussie Belle, I am so relieved I can't tell you!

Keep us updated, get some rest, you'll sleep a lot more soundly now it's behind you both

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123ELAINE456 5/1/2013 12:10PM

Great News. Glad that things went well with Colin and He is on the Road to Complete Recovery. Hope Colin, Marian and You got some much needed rest and sleep. Trust that Everyone will be back home real soon. Please keep us inform of his progress Etc. God Blessings to Everyone. Have a Enjoyable Quiet Day. Take Care. Hugs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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IAMAGEMLOVER 5/1/2013 11:05AM

Susie--That is good news. I am glad that Colin came through the procedure and is doing quite well. Keep us updated and sending hugs.

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MS.ELENI 5/1/2013 10:57AM

So glad things are going well. Get some rest

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MT-MOONCHASER 5/1/2013 10:41AM

Great to hear.

Thanks for the update.

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GLORIAB73 5/1/2013 10:01AM

This is great news Susie! I hope Colin has a speedy and complete recovery!

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MORTICIAADDAMS 5/1/2013 9:40AM

I'm very relieved, GF. I hope Colin has a speedy recovery. Take care of yourself. We can't have you getting sick. Love you!!!!!

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RDEE22 5/1/2013 8:36AM

Good news Susie.

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WENDYJM4 5/1/2013 8:25AM

so pleased that everything went okay. Look after yourself.

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JOYINKY 5/1/2013 8:21AM

Thank you for the update; I'm so glad all went well! It is exausting; it's good that you have Marian there with you. Prayers that things continue to go well for you all and that you are home soon.

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TWEETYKC00 5/1/2013 8:12AM

I am glad things went well. Hugs.

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2013NEWME2 5/1/2013 8:00AM

I'm so glad that Colin came through the surgery so well!
I hope he is able to go home today.
Keeping him in my prayers.
Thank you for the update Susie.
Try and get some rest.

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GOANNA2 5/1/2013 7:40AM

That's good news Susie. Now you and Marion
have a really good rest. Hugs, love and prayers
to all of you.

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HEALTHY4ME 5/1/2013 7:29AM

All reasons to be exhausted - so glad it worked out well and he is doing fine. HUGS to you all and rest up as you certainly deserve it!

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AKELAZ 5/1/2013 7:24AM

Excellent news, Susie. Thanks for the update - we're all rooting for you, Colin and your family.

Not surprised you and Marian are exhausted. Hope you all - Colin included, of course - get a good night's rest and shed some of the stress of the past days and weeks.

Thinking of you all - BIG

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ANJAYS-JOURNEY 5/1/2013 7:22AM

great to hear Colin came through everything, now on the road to recovery, now relax and look forward to summer

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HAVETOGETITOFF 5/1/2013 7:01AM

So pleased Colin came through it well. Thank you for keeping us up to date with his progress - we all appreciate it, specially because I'm sure we are all aware of the emotional and physical toll something like this takes on the family, as well as the patient.

Sending lots of love, prayers and good wishes your way.

Big hugs, Chris.

and a special

for Colin.

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ELRIDDICK 5/1/2013 7:01AM

Thanks for sharing

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Many Thanks

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Thank you all very much for all your lovely thoughts, prayers and love. Colin and I are so very grateful that so many of you are thinking of us ..
Much Love Colin and Susie

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HAVETOGETITOFF 4/30/2013 2:53AM

Thinking of you both and wishing you well. Hope you both manage to get some time to rest up and just enjoy some peace and each other's company each and every day.
Chris.

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CARLIE1975 4/23/2013 6:27PM

Thanks so much for taking the time and adding me as a friend, your kind words were just wonderful.

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NPA4LOSS 4/21/2013 2:09PM

I know that you will be glad when this is done.

and

will continue to follow you.

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LIBBYFITZ 4/20/2013 9:01AM

Hope all goes well on the day.

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GOANNA2 4/20/2013 6:38AM

You are welcome Susie. Thanks for taking time
to visit and comment on my blogs.

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GEOFROG 4/18/2013 1:24AM

You are all in my thoughts and prayers! Love to all (Missy sends Bobby doggy kisses!) Update you later with all going on here! Take care my friend!!!

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GARDENSFORLIFE 4/17/2013 10:19PM

I am keeping you and your family in prayer!

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MORTICIAADDAMS 4/17/2013 2:40PM

Susie, we know have come to know you well and know your true worth. You are a treasure and we want the best for you and yours. Sending prayers and hugs your way.

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1BEACHWALKER 4/17/2013 2:30PM

Love you.

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LYNMEINDERS 4/17/2013 6:48AM

Prayers continuing

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TWEETYKC00 4/17/2013 4:58AM

I am so glad that you are both doing well.

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NEW-CAZ 4/17/2013 3:07AM

If you get time let us know how you're both fairing but first and foremost take care of yourselves and have as much rest as you can.
Keeping you in my prayers

Have a great day today Suz

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ARTJAC 4/17/2013 2:24AM

you are welcome

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EVER-HOPEFUL 4/17/2013 1:52AM

you are welcome love.thanks for keeping us informed.how did it go at the cardiologist was he as pleased with you as you thought he would be?-

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123ELAINE456 4/17/2013 12:43AM

HUGS, HUGS, AND MORE HUGS. YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ALWAYS. GOD BLESSINGS TO EVERYONE. TAKE CARE.

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Always thinking of you both and sending postive thoughts your way!

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Colin's Surgery Date.

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

We heard from the Surgeon at the Austin Hospital this afternoon ..
Colin is having a scan and operation on 1 st May .

We will go down the morning of the operation and will stay at the same B&B. we did before .. It is all booked and Marian will be coming with us again ..

I am in a better frame of mind now as Colin is getting his strength back .
Thank you all for your well wishes .. Much Love Susie .

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ARTJAC 4/17/2013 2:24AM

great news

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123ELAINE456 4/17/2013 12:39AM

Glad to year that Colin is getting his strength back and the surgery has been scheduled for May 1st. Then he can get on the road to recovery. Keeping Colin, You and Family In Prayer. God Blessings to Everyone. Have aEnjoyable Day. Take Care. Hugs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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MS.ELENI 4/16/2013 7:35PM

Glad a date has been set. will be glad when this is over for you too.

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IAMAGEMLOVER 4/16/2013 6:39PM

That is good news that they are going to do the surgery. I am also glad to hear that Colin is improving and he is getting his strength back. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Sending many

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MORTICIAADDAMS 4/16/2013 1:33PM

I'm so glad that Colin is improving. That is great news and also good news that they are going to proceed with surgery. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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GABY1948 4/16/2013 9:53AM

This is great news...will remain in prayer for you both!

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GLORIAB73 4/16/2013 9:36AM

Having a set date for the surgery will provide your mind with some relief Susie, it's going to be good to have it over with.
And, it is giving Colin time to gather more strength for his operation.
You both remain in my thoughts and prayers.

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JENNY888 4/16/2013 9:33AM

I'm glad to hear the date is set and there is a little more time before for Colin to regain strength. I will keep you all in my prayers.

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MARITIMER3 4/16/2013 9:25AM

This will give Colin another couple of weeks to regain strength, which is so important before any surgery. The B&B you stayed in sounds lovely; it will be a restful place for you while Colin is in hospital. I think that people who run B&B's near hospitals must be very special people. It's so much nicer to stay somewhere like that than in an impersonal hotel.

Two years ago, when we visited Alaska, we stayed in a B&B which often hosts women from outlying settlements who come there in the last few weeks of their pregnancies so that they will be near the hospital when they go into labour. The widow who runs the B&B says that she feels like an honorary grandmother to a lot of little babies whose mothers (and often fathers) have stayed there.

I hope that you and Colin are able to relax and build up your strength, and am praying for your family.

Gail

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JOYINKY 4/16/2013 9:21AM

Great that he is getting stronger. So glad you now have a plan and such good support. Take care of Susie too! Prayers continue.

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2013NEWME2 4/16/2013 8:56AM

That's good news Susie!
Glad Colin doesn't have to wait to long.
Keeping him in my prayers.
Thank you for the update.
Hugs.

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WENDYJM4 4/16/2013 8:39AM

that is great news Susie.

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RDEE22 4/16/2013 8:29AM

It is great to hear Colin is getting stronger. And now you have the appointment it will be easier. Take care!

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ANJAYS-JOURNEY 4/16/2013 7:47AM

awesome to hear Colin's op is scheduled for May, hope you are both enjoying your day!!!

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POPSY190 4/16/2013 5:51AM

Glad to hear you have some certainty.

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LYNMEINDERS 4/16/2013 5:10AM

So pleased to hear this...so glad Colin is getting his strength back...thats awesome....
Prayers continuing

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TWEETYKC00 4/16/2013 4:56AM

I am glad that things are moving along. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

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GOANNA2 4/16/2013 4:49AM

I'm so glad to hear that Colin is getting his strength back.
I hope that by May 1st he will be much stronger for his op.
It's good that Marian will accompany you. You just take
things easy till then. Will keep praying for all of you.

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EVER-HOPEFUL 4/16/2013 4:31AM

well love that is an easy date to remember as it is my birthday.hope all goes well and know you both will be in my thoughts and prayers as usual.glad colin is getting tronger and having time to rebuild his strength.also glad you don�t have that long to wait till surgury.take care and keep smiling

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NEW-CAZ 4/16/2013 2:57AM

Good to hear he's getting his strength back Suz, keeping you in my prayers

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PROUD-GRANDMA 4/16/2013 1:37AM

It's good to hear Colin is getting his strength back! I'll keep you all in my prayers! Hugs!

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