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It's been a long road

Friday, September 21, 2012

but,im back on it doing right by..ME.I had to inventory some friends and send some packing.It's hard to let go and move forward.I am having serious issues both mentally and physically.Im always running around doing for people.It feels sad when it cant be returned,when i need help and support.I know ya'll know what im saying.But it takes alot for me to step up and speak my mind.I hate to hurt feelings!Life is good to me.We have rescued and found homes for 11 dogs and 5 cats this summer.We traveled to Louisiana,Corpus Christi,San Antonio and Missouri.My daughter graduated High school,learned to drive,is starting nursing and my 10 yr old grandson got a girlfriend.Soon my other grandson will be a dad again!I caught a horrible chest cold and was hospitalized twice!!My back is wickedly painful and my surgery is in October.I decided to go ahead and be done with it.Kayla has a love interest... emoticon Aaliyah started Kindergarten and thinks she's graduating next summer!Ya'll have a great weekend!! emoticon SUSAN

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SLIMTHICK2 9/22/2012 5:52PM

    Sounds like a very busy life. Have a great weekend too. All the best.

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FIFIFRIZZLE 9/22/2012 5:41PM

    Wow you are so busy, it's little wonder you are having back problems.
Great that you have had a stock take, and hopefully having jettisoned some 'friends' that I suspect can't have been the best of friends, maybe there is room in your life for some friends who are not needy, and who are in a position to offer you support when it is needed.
Here's to keeping an eye out for those folks!

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BOHEMIANCAT 9/22/2012 9:38AM

    Well you weren't too far from me in San Antonio! I am in Austin.
That is great to find homes for animals.
Tough to let go of people, but toxic people are no good to have around. Sorry about your health issues.
Take care.

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MOTTAMAMALOU 9/22/2012 9:19AM

    Good for you!
Also it's good to know that you found good homes for the animals!
It's a hoot about your 10 year old grandson having a girlfriend.
I'm happy to know that you are doing better.


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Old people are just wrinkled angels

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

When I was a small tyke I was very afraid of old people.I hid,avoided and cringed with fear when around them.It frustrated my Grams and since she knew I loved angels she got an idea.She made me a wrinkled paper angel!I instantly adored it and called it old lady.From that point on I was on the road to giving up the old people fear.52 years later here I am getting and giving so much LOVE from them.Today at 3:15 pm GOD has another wrinkled angel named Sarah Marie Long age 98.She will be sadly missed but gladly Welcomed in heaven.... emoticon Y'ALL,SUSAN

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BOHEMIANCAT 9/14/2012 8:12AM

    Yes, I love them too... heck! I am becoming one of them!
Sorry about the loss. 98 is a good long run.

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NANCYRUBIO 9/11/2012 11:43PM

    Such a great story, THANK YOU~~~~~

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CHUM48 9/11/2012 11:30PM

    My heart felt sympathies are extended to you!

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So,back to the haters group I joined/Quit!

Thursday, August 30, 2012

I could'nt rest knowing that a church had a group of hate mongers.When I think of church,I think of love,understanding,acceptance,help,friend-
ship,peace and honor among fellow members.My friend Josie and I returned and spoke out about hatred and recieved equal amounts of understanding and anger at us.Keeping issues buried wont help.We were basically told to mind our own business.We were called horrible names and told to leave.Josie was called the "N" word I was called gay lover..only not those words were used.I cleaned them up a bit!We both laughed because we both have been called worse.Surprisingly though the pastor asked us to return for a meeting!Not knowing what to expect,we took a pal.Many people react with fear of the unknown.They have been thinking that being around a gay or lesbian will make them gay also!Or contract HIV.If this is you,get educated!!I have the utmost love and respect for everyone BUT,HATERS! emoticon emoticonSUSAN

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SUECHRIS50 9/7/2012 10:51AM

    I'm a lover of people and life is just too short for hating anyone!

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RUNNER12COM 9/6/2012 12:00PM

    As a gay man, I'm particularly proud of your response. What a horrid little group of people they are.

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2BDYNAMIC 9/4/2012 3:25PM

    I think of the scripture that says: "Your enemies will be of your own house." (sorry-am rushing and can't look up for exact verse) ...... HE did mean the house of God or Body of Christ .......... (Sorry to hear, but not so surprised ............... For this reason, my hubby and I pray AT HOME and no longer attend church. (Hope this offends no one, but we saw enough hatred and 'scandal' to last this lifetime!! (I am sure the next world will be A LOT better than this!)

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BOHEMIANCAT 9/2/2012 8:06PM

    Church? Have they actually read the Bible?

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LADYIRISH317 9/1/2012 11:16AM

    Those people have no business calling themselves a church. You and Josie deserve a place of love and understanding. In other words, a REAL church.

What was it Jesus said? "These people honor Me with their lips but their hearts are far from Me." I hope you find the church home you deserve, full of peace and love.

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TRAVELISMYGAME 8/31/2012 10:29AM

    It saddens me that there are people in the world that are so filled with hate. I am a Christian, and though I may not agree with the life choices of some, I would NEVER put them down because of it. Jesus tells me to love everyone no matter what.

I do hope that if you want to continue going to a church, that you find one that is filled with loving & caring people!


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GIANT-STEPS 8/30/2012 5:23PM

  I'm so sick of people who use religion to justify their bigotry. During the days of slavery, segregation, and anti-miscegenation laws bigots claimed that black people carried the mark of Cain even though the Bible never even mentions what the mark of Cain was. Now people who don't like GLBT try to use religion to justify their bigotry. One thing I point out is that in all of Jesus' sermons he never even mentioned homosexuality. If being gay was such a bfd don't you think it would have come up at least once? Sure the Old Testament condemns it but it has lots of rules Christians cheerfully ignore but note they focus like a laser on anything condemning homosexuality. I'm not a Christian but one thing that always inspired me is Jesus's advice for identifying false prophets; he said that we will know them by their fruits. There was a group in the Bible that favored rule following over loving their fellow man; they were called Pharisees and Jesus didn't think much of them. Fundamentalists are today's Pharisees.

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LMGBRIAN 8/30/2012 4:34PM

    I'm glad that you called them out on there incorrect beliefs, For most people I think its the lack of exposure that breads hate, When people can't assign a name or a face with a generalization its easy to dismiss them or have animosity. I think that your exposing the group no mater how resistant they were was brave of you, You cant change everyone views but you can get people thinking. emoticon

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my appliances are rebelling

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

I woke to get some breakfast and found my milk and eggs warm,water in the freezer and the washer is making loud screeching noises!The fan just quit on me and the coffee pot broke and the dishwasher wont fill!Otherwise,I am in great shape!!Luckily,I found a fridge for free in the want ads.A fan on clearance for $10,instant coffee will be good,I can wash dishes by hand and a neighbor is loaning us a washer until we can replace the current one.A silver lining in our clouds!! emoticonSUSAN

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MARVEEME 8/26/2012 8:33AM

    When you've hit bottom, the only way to go is up! My prayers are with you!

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FRAN0426 8/23/2012 6:08PM

    Looks like you gewt everything under control, but ouch so many things breaking down at once.

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RAINBOWCHOC 8/23/2012 6:16AM

    what a great run of luck to go with all the broken stuff. I hope nothing else goes wrong this week

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I joined a group of HATERS!

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

I AM SO OVER THIS GROUP!!!My friend kept telling me what awesome people they were and I took a leap of faith.How could I know what bigotry and fear lurked?I soon came to realize how rude and hateful these people were.Bitter hateful words erupted from them.I am not to be molded by anyone.My family and friends have gay/lesbian members that I love dearly.Being gay does not affect how much I love them.When someone is hated for who they are and who they love,It's just plain wrong and I spoke up.I was afraid they might harm me but,I stood up and told them I was done!!!Nobody hates on the ones I LOVE!!I left and did'nt look back.People dont hate it only hurts others.... emoticonSUSAN

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KATEINMICHIGAN 8/24/2012 11:41AM

    Go YOU!

You did right thing, getting out of there. I'm glad to read that even within a group that I generally don't understand (church groups), there are people like YOU who really are thinking and caring. And getting the heck OUT when it's too much.


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IAM_HIS2 8/23/2012 2:02AM

    If you do not have love, you have nothing....glad you are strong and told them what you felt. I won't be surprised if some others thought about what you said and left too. emoticon emoticon

Comment edited on: 8/23/2012 2:02:47 AM

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RUNNER12COM 8/23/2012 1:40AM

    Thank you for having the courage of your comvictions. Your family members should be very proud of you and grateful to have you standing by them.

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SERAPHGYRL 8/22/2012 10:56PM

    I couldn't agree with you more. I wish people could just love and accept people for who they are, and not based on what religion, political preference, or sexual orientation they are.

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SUECHRIS50 8/22/2012 9:53PM

    it was group from a church

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BOHEMIANCAT 8/22/2012 2:52PM

    Great! I am happy it is not MY group.
I don't know which group it is, but I believe God loves all people.
I try my best to always avoid negative, toxic people.

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LJCANNON 8/22/2012 1:04PM

    emoticon emoticon emoticonGlad that you and your Friend saw the Group for what they were and you were able to walk away!!

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DIZZYDOC 8/22/2012 11:06AM

    Good Work! I am super proud of you. emoticon

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ANASONIC 8/22/2012 8:32AM

    Good for you! We all need to stand up for what we believe and those we love! emoticon

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MNOT2THICK 8/21/2012 11:43PM

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SUECHRIS50 8/21/2012 10:22PM

    Thank you all for your support!!My friend also left for good!

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ROCKYCPA 8/21/2012 10:04PM

    Good for you - it is so important to stand up for what you believe!

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DLDMIL 8/21/2012 9:49PM

    emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

Stand up for what you believe.

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JENNYD97 8/21/2012 8:05PM

    that stinks! good for you for walking out :)

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NSTARSMITH 8/21/2012 7:29PM

    I admire your courage and clarity! People like this are always looking to bolster their belief that they are right by recruiting others to endorse their beliefs. It is stupid, narrow and wrong! You GO!

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KOMTRIA 8/21/2012 7:13PM

  The best thing is you get to choose who you will hang with.
If a group isn't a good match, onward.

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READE2MOVE2012 8/21/2012 7:08PM

  Good for you. I have had to stare down and verbally chastise people all of my son's life.

When you love someone you feel their pain when stupid people find it necessary to express and/or show hostility towards someone whom they do not know and in most cases have never seen before.

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NANAWOO1 8/21/2012 7:02PM

  sorry but did the right thing

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PATTOMMC3 8/21/2012 6:19PM

    emoticon I agree!

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AJWALKLEY 8/21/2012 6:17PM

    I'm so sorry you've had to experience this. As a member of the LGBT community myself, I've seen this bigotry first-hand. There are plenty of other loving people out there, though!

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