The heat is on!

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

At 6:30 this morning it was already HOT!The dog had to be pushed out the door to pee and my skin was clammy.The AC went out in my car yesterday and the tech cant get to it till Friday.I made my walk in the park with Bryan but he wasnt into it and called for his van ride.My Daughter met me and we walked together.We talked and laughed until time to go and my smile was worth the sweat,we were soaked but felt good!Im about to embark on a trip to the dentist w/o AC!!It's already 103 SUSAN

  

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BOHEMIANCAT 6/30/2012 10:49AM

Get a fan going and hopefully cool off! Take care! Report Inappropriate Comment

MARTHASPARKS 6/28/2012 1:41PM

Susan, you keep amazing me! We have a heat advisory and pollution alert, so I plan to walk later this evening. I'm glad you are doing well. Come back and see us on Baby Steps - we miss you! Report Inappropriate Comment

BLEGNER1 6/27/2012 12:37PM

WOW! I believe it is great that you got the walk in even with the heat. We are supposed to be under a heat advisory starting tomorrow for at least three days. I will use you as an incentive to get out there and get things done. God bless Barb Report Inappropriate Comment

TRAVELISMYGAME 6/27/2012 11:00AM

Gotta love the heat and humidity! Great job getting that workout in in spite of the weather. Try to stay cool and hydrated! Tiffany 10k Leader Report Inappropriate Comment

MJ7DM33 6/26/2012 10:22PM

Take care in the HOT weather! Drink plenty of water!!! Report Inappropriate Comment

RUNNER12COM 6/26/2012 5:09PM

Oh, wow. I'm so grateful to be here in the cooler temps of San Diego. Stay cool! Report Inappropriate Comment

FIFIFRIZZLE 6/26/2012 2:42PM

Wish I was there, it's rather fresh here, but the bulbs are starting to poke their heads up, so there is some sign of spring. Keep up the Report Inappropriate Comment

We learn better,we do better!!

Monday, June 25, 2012

I always joke about my weight,it never seems to bring me down because,I love myself and who I am.I'm healthy and losing weight.My oldest DD decided to join me on my quest since she gained alot of weight through the years.BUT,she is driving me crazy!She tries to coach me on the way i walk,the way i eat and exercise.How far did you walk?,well thats not far enough.What did you eat?That's too much or not enough!What did you do for exercise?Try taebo!try jazzercise!ARG!!She's my closest baby girl(35) and she went back to work after months of being on hold aka laid off.She doesnt like my laid back,carefree attitude and thinks im too relaxed.This is serious! she pouts I want you around!!I laughed and she got mad!See,she smokes cigarettes and she's sneaking around about it.I dont judge her for it or tell her to quit.I know she loves me but,losing weight too fast has been bad for me.We learn better we do better!And we learn till the day we die!!I'm in this research mode to adapt to different flavors and textures of food and im enjoying it.I hurt my lower and upper back a few weeks ago and im getting physical therapy and nutritional classes to better myself.It has helped alot and im taking it slow.I take a swim class to get exercise but,she is modest about her body and wont go with me.If anyone has any advice for me it's highly appreciated SUSAN

  

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LASKIE2 6/25/2012 10:25PM

I think the Nutrition class will really help you in your weight loss journey, and even if your friend don't take the swin class with you try a Water Aerobic class at your local "Y" or Community Center. I hope this helps! Report Inappropriate Comment

LAINYC 6/25/2012 4:26PM

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GONEWLIFE 6/25/2012 3:19PM

great attitude ! Report Inappropriate Comment

Taking them hills is tough work!

Saturday, June 23, 2012

Going up a hill today with Mr.wheelchair himself.We "walked in silence"for a while and he needed to rest his arms in the shade of a maple tree.Sue?he asked what motivates you?Well,my kids,my husband,my friends,my dog,my home,walking with you!He grinned and joked about he knew it was his legs that excited me!Motioning to his missing legs.I turned his chair to me,sat on a bench and said Bryan,what's eating at ya?Oh he said i'm sad today because its my moms birthday and she's passed away.I know how you feel my mom is gone too.She is?He looked puzzled.You said you do this to honor your mom.I do because she never had the chance to finish her quest to be healthy before she passed.Bryan,your legs are not who you are!You said your little girl is 6 months old?Yeah he beamed My heart!She will never know you with the your legs and thats just awful but,she'll know you as the daddy that loves her.The daddy that survived Iraq!!He looked at me with tears glistening in his beautiful green eyes.Bryan,it's better to have her dad than a tombstone to visit...He let the tears flow and I took his hand and said now stop your blubbering and lets get you going so you can get your strength back and get some new legs to walk with me!!He laughed and said Sue,thanks!You've done more for me than any therapist could...Its alright my dear I smiled and almost cried myself.There are hills in life,hard going up but better going over and down..lots of hills to come. Susan

  

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BLEGNER1 6/23/2012 7:25PM

Sue, this touched my heart in a special way and the tears did more than come to my eyes. Thanks so much for telling this special little story. God bless Barb Report Inappropriate Comment

_RAMONA 6/23/2012 2:50PM

Susan, you are truly the most beautiful woman in the world!!! May today and every day bring to you a ridiculous abundance of whatever you need. May all your concerns, struggles, anxieties and fears fall like ashes as you rise on eagle's wings, SOARING above all that would hinder you along this tremendous adventure of being and becoming all you are created to be. May the grace of God simply "overtake" you moment by moment. May the joy and victory of the risen Lord be yours in a very personal way... may you always be overwhelmed by the grace of God, rather than by the cares of life! {{{{{{{{{ HUGS }}}}}}}}} Ramona Comment edited on: 6/23/2012 2:51:11 PM Report Inappropriate Comment

MNOT2THICK 6/23/2012 2:49PM

Sue, you sure know how to bring tears to my eyes. What a wonderful story and I will include you and Bryan in my prayers. Woman you are awesome! Comment edited on: 6/23/2012 2:50:23 PM Report Inappropriate Comment

Sometimes we are better than we think

Thursday, June 21, 2012

We all do what comes natural in life.We laugh,cry,complain,vent,and just act silly.There are a rare few that think of others and dont complain.My point is that yesterday as i was taking my walk,a wheelchair bound veteran came flying past me,no legs but a charming personality...you can do it he yelled giving me thumbs up!!To be honest,I was feeling like throwing in the towel when my back started hurting but,his constant cheering for me had me determined!!Just as I was headed up a hill,huffing and out of breath,here comes mr.wheelchair!Are you thinking of stopping?he asked,No,i grumbled why?Because,he answered you have your legs and you are awesome!!Laughing,I said Why are you here? to frustrate me or cheer me on?Both he yelled over his shoulder and sped off and i went home.I returned today and mr.wheelchair was nowhere in sight.I warmed up and took off with a good stride.Out of the corner of my eye I spotted the little bugger coming straight for me...holding out his hand he said hello,im Bryan..I took his hand and said im Susan!We traveled quietly for a few minutes when his flood gates opened and he told me about his life.I felt good to concentrate my thoughts on a friends problems and not think of my pain.We are "walking" together as a comeback team as he has alot of pain too.Funny how life comes around!His coach hangs around the trail keeping his eye on Bryan.He said That Bryan's attitude has changed and im glad... Susan

  

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MARTHASPARKS 6/23/2012 1:05PM

You are a kind, loving person. Report Inappropriate Comment

FRAN0426 6/22/2012 7:48PM

Motovational story, so glad you shared it with us. Everytime I think I must stop, will think of the two of you. One is the wheelchair and on walking getting your exercise in with another, pushing each other to continue the journey for the day. Report Inappropriate Comment

TRAVELISMYGAME 6/22/2012 8:40AM

Thank you so much for sharing this! Tiffany 10k leader Report Inappropriate Comment

ANASONIC 6/22/2012 8:16AM

Wow... You found a guardian angel. They show up when we least expect them and need them most. Sounds like Brian found his too. You are both challenging each other to be a better you. Awesome. Report Inappropriate Comment

DIBANANA 6/22/2012 6:33AM

What an awesome story. How nice that you have each other to talk and "walk" with. Report Inappropriate Comment

GAELA-I-CAN 6/21/2012 10:55PM

What a moving story. I'm so scared to excersize because of pain It seems like I work one day and need to rest the next day in order to work the day after. Now even with rest I'm in pain all the time. Sometimes I think I can't take it anymore. I shall try to follow your example and turn things around .. Maybe my cup will fill up.... Report Inappropriate Comment

because I am woman,i am not stupid

Monday, June 18, 2012

I was at my wits end with our old car!It left my DH stranded at work,we picked him up and had the car towed to a Dodge dealer at home.Of course he is gone before 4 each morning and im here to deal with the car.It's the fuel pump and its going to cost more than we thought.I was staring wide eyed and open mouthed at the man before me!895*^%$#@ dollars to repair it and the car wont get us but $300 at the junk yard???The smirk and smug look that man gave me made me want to become ninja and slap him bald headed!I called my DD,she has a boyfriend that worked with a 20 year veteran mechanic.He called me and said they would repair the car for $100 plus cost of the part at Auto Zone($192.43 with tax)So,my future son in law drives a tow truck and i arranged for him to pick up my car....Oh mam says the smug serviceman,I dont suggest you have a shadetree mechanic do the job...we have trained mechanics and I worry for your safety...now,he worries about me after I almost had a heart attack..I walked right past him,paid for the diagnostics and left!!One day later,$292.43 bill and im driving my car!!!!Just because we are women,dont mean we are stupid.I was almost taken advantage of and after I called around learned that the most it costed for a replaced fuel pump repair was $632...What do ya'll think? SUSAN

  

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MARTHASPARKS 6/21/2012 8:54PM

Shame on him and good for you. Report Inappropriate Comment

JANDK156 6/18/2012 5:40PM

Just because we have breasts doesn't mean our brains are dysfunctional! I actually think for some men, our breasts render THEIR brains dysfunctional! Good for you knowing manure when you smelled it and looking for other options! Dealerships are notoriously overpriced for labor and even parts around Long Island. Be sure to thank your daughter's boyfriend! Report Inappropriate Comment

LVMAMAW 6/18/2012 4:53PM

AMEN!! Report Inappropriate Comment

SHOAPIE 6/18/2012 4:46PM

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BLEGNER1 6/18/2012 3:51PM

i BELIEVE THAT AUTO REPAIRS HAVE KEPT UP WITH THE REST OF THE ECONOMY yOU HAVE TO TAKE OUT A LOAN ALMOST ANYMORE TO EVEN GET GAS. SOME ONE IS GETTING RICH AND IT AIN'T ME!! I figured up yesterday that if Jeff and I had not done the fence it would have been way over 2k as it was with the help of my son and an 11year old grandson it ran about $500. The only thing we haven't done to it is stain it and Jeff does not want me to do that. Report Inappropriate Comment

TXGRANDMA 6/18/2012 2:57PM

Yes, Susan! I definitely think that repairman thought he had you over a barrel! Thank goodness, my husband repairs most anything that goes wrong on our vehicles, and if he can't, we have found an HONEST repairman in town who we take all our vehicles too, if they are beyond my husband's ability to repair! Good for you, finding an alternative! I salute you! Report Inappropriate Comment

NIKKICOLE83 6/18/2012 2:56PM

Unfortunately this type of thing happens all of the time. I learned that I have to be stone-faced and cool when dealing with these types of guys. If you're too nice they will try to sell you over the moon. Its such a shame. Report Inappropriate Comment