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It's truly HOT in TEXAS!!

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Make sure ya'll are getting enough water and try to stay cool!That is if you are in a hot climate!Check on your furry friends if they stay outdoors and never leave a child,adult or pet in the car!!I watched a news report yesterday about a woman leaving her car running(with ac on) and her father who had just had surgery was asleep when the car conked out!Her luck was good because someone reported they thought the old man was dead!!He survived thank goodness.Even new cars can die!! emoticon I dont want anyone to be sorry emoticonSUSAN

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BOHEMIANCAT 6/29/2011 11:13AM

    Another good reason to NOT leave children, pets or elderly in the car!
I am in Texas too and don't like this unseasonable heat wave! My dh got heat exhaustion already.

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RATFINKROB 6/29/2011 9:38AM

    I love the Texas summers! You just have to dress properly, keep hydrated, and limit your sun exposure in the afternoon. Of course I drive to the mountains if I want to camp in the summer. I just can't sleep when the night time temperature never cools.

Cars are a death trap! Anyone that leaves their children unattended in a car should face the full penalty of the law.

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CRYSTLE4HIMTX10 6/28/2011 6:29PM

    Ready for the fall already. emoticon

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Caring about others!

Monday, June 27, 2011

I love people!My elderly friends(65-98)are always waiting for me with a hug and a smile!I was polishing Ruby's nails and she started telling me a story.You know the "I REMEMBER WHEN" stories.She stopped,looked embarrassed and said you are probably tired of these stories by now!Elijah yelled from across the dayroom "SUSAN LOVES US"why would she be tired of our stories?Almost all the residents laughed heartily.I took her hand in mine,looked her in the eyes and said Elijah is right,Because,I love you!And the things I learn can turn my face red...they are just like old teenagers!They flirt,hurt and play games.I learned today that one of my favorite nurses passed away last friday and I cried.The residents all lined up around me waiting for a hug and in all the sadness Elijah yells.."Dont hug her too hard she might break"he is a character and I cant believe that out of a family of 19 he has one great niece that comes by to see him!!She brings him chocolate that he passes out to the others.he winks at me and says "I dont want to ruin my girlish figure"I lost my grandparents in my early to late teens and these folks that I adore,fill a void.It does'nt take long to give them a little of your time...... emoticonSUSAN

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BARBAELLEN 6/27/2011 9:53PM

    Susan, you are the best!

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MNOT2THICK 6/27/2011 6:48PM

    That is so sweet. Thank you for sharing and caring. emoticon emoticon

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THEWINNER33 6/27/2011 4:33PM

    My last working years were at a long term care facility. I too was always good with the old folk. Now I am one of those elderly who act like a teenager. Wish I'd had this gumption when I WAS a teenager.

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MARVEEME 6/27/2011 4:19PM

    I'm with you here, too! We visit MIL every day, and sometimes, the folks are in that teenager mood and a lot of fun. It's dementia and Alzheimer's care, so the wits aren't always the same, but we do listen carefully to all the stories, and mess around with them, and have a few laughs. Some are consistent, but MIL isn't, so we do have to be careful because she gets jealous easily.

I used to believe that old saying "With age comes wisdom", but have discovered that sometimes, age arrives alone.


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BETTERHEALTH123 6/27/2011 3:39PM

    That is nice what you do. I was at a rehab facility for just a few moments while my husband was at the doctor's in the same building. It was kinda sad seeing many elderly people just sitting at the dinner room tables basically just looking at each other. It is a nice facility but there didn't seem too much verbal interaction between the people who resided there. It was sad because everyone seemed depressed.

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I wish everyone were as supportive as spark people!

Sunday, June 26, 2011

I talk about our spark people family all the time.I talk to anyone that will listen that sparkers are the best!I am so glad that I joined and will remain a member for as long as I can!! emoticon to you all!!SUSAN

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BIGMELITTLEME 6/28/2011 6:54AM

    I agree. I have found a friend in my spark friends. This PC community helps with support for weight loss but this forum also gives me a place to go when I need a friend. I have not met in person "yet" a single person from BUT I know that the people on here are awesome both on and off the screen. We all need a friend to listen to use and a place we can go to feel safe. This is that place for me. God Bless you,

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MNOT2THICK 6/27/2011 6:45PM

    Thanks and right back at you. emoticon emoticon

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MARVEEME 6/27/2011 8:12AM

    Me too!

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OUTDOORSDC 6/26/2011 10:12PM

    Oh, and one other thought...remember that you are a part of this community, too. And so I would say that the community is only reflecting back what you're putting out there. It takes one to support one!

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JESSICAMAE83 6/26/2011 9:53PM

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HANKENSTEIN 6/26/2011 8:59PM

    Aww. And you are a fine example of what makes it rock.

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CRYSTLE4HIMTX10 6/26/2011 8:55PM

    We love you too. emoticon

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Having some one on one time with hubby

Saturday, June 25, 2011

we shopped,ate lunch,watched a movie,sat outside in the shade(AM) and held hands!He has been working alot!But,reconnecting is really good and relaxing!Im really enjoying our time so..... emoticon spark buddies...SUSAN

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MARVEEME 6/25/2011 8:06PM

    emoticon emoticon
Love when times like these arrive.

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GONEWLIFE 6/25/2011 5:51PM

    Good for you.. enjoy !

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stuck between a rock and a hard place

Friday, June 24, 2011

I survived my parents bitter divorce!They fought right in front of us kids and did unmentionable things to each other!The verbal abuse was the worst of all.My daughter got divorced years ago...she was the scorned wife.Now she talks about my ex-son in law to my granddaughter.Awful bitter remarks that are wrong.I always thought he was an immature Jerk but,kept it to myself.My daughter lets her comments about him flow freely.It hurts Mercedes very much but,I've talked to Alisha and it hasnt done any good!I dont want to get Mercedes in trouble by talking to her mom but,she shouldnt have to hear her mom's bad mouthing her dad.Her dad has talked some awful stuff about us but,we wont stoop to that level.It has to end somewhere but where?If any of you have gone through this,I need advice!! emoticon SUSAN

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KATRINAKAT23 6/25/2011 10:36AM

  I went through the same thing with my son. He said terrible things about his kids Mom. Everyone told him to stop, that he was hurting his kids, hurting them more than their Mother.

My youngest son is the one I think who finally got through to him. He does try now not to talk bad about his ex in front of his kids, and I think time has also played a part.

All I can say is if there is someone your daughter really respects could talk to her and hopefully time will help.

I hope it all works out for you.

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MARVEEME 6/24/2011 4:24PM

    How about teaching Mercedes a special private prayer for peace and forgiveness, one that the two of you can say together each time you see two people that are mean to each other. Sooner or later, she will say that prayer for her mother, and maybe God can do what we cannot?

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KIKI601 6/24/2011 3:34PM

  I've been in simmilar sisuations my ex was verbally abusive amoung other things. I left him whem are son was 8 and found a great man but never bad mouthed the ex to his son he found out later how he was on his own. Your daughter is still ver angry but needs to think about what shes doing. good luck with your sisuation. emoticon

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SUNGIRL822 6/24/2011 2:43PM

  It's not fair for one parent to bad mouth about the other parent to the child. I am a product of this. As it turns out I now don't talk to my mother at all (she did the bad mouthing) and my father and i couldn't be closer.

Not stooping to his level is a great choice. Your daughter needs to follow your example. There's a time and a place, but not when the kids are around. Good luck.

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