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Saturday, April 19, 2014

We started on Tuesday with a dinner fir all the visitors from overseas. But things quickly got more elaborate & interesting. Lots of ceremonies, lots of fun, lots of food.....

Official Engagement (the 2 families actually sign a certificate in the temple). The bride was nervously watching....

then afterwards she was given many presents to welcome her to the family.

then the Chuni Ceremony, where the bride is given her official ceremonial sari. She will be expected to wear this whenever there are ceremonies in future.
The women of the grooms family come in singing carrying the sari on their shoulders

then they put it on the bride

then she got her bangles from her mother in law

After many blessings etc. finally the moment she had been waiting for: her groom walked in for the official engagement. He came in style bearing flowers and, yes he did! He went down on his knee before her.

Here the Hindu put on the wedding ring during this ceremony. This is actually the second engagement, since the first one is between the 2 families, not the bride & groom and happened a few months ago.
Now this is followed by more blessings:

then finally food, food & more food.
Here is my outfit of the day:

That evening we also did the Mendhi ceremony. Where the women decorate their hands with Henna. I forgot my camera that evening, but here is the result:

the henna is still on, but slowly crumbling off & I had applied some oil to make the color more intense.

Next day were more prayers & fire ceremonies

then the women danced again, bringing some holy water to bless the relationship

Then the big day came.
Sorry picture is a bit wobbly. But here I am ready to go

First I went to the African WEdding in a little Salvation Army Church outside Nairobi. I had not charged the phone, so no pictures inside. Bride & groom reached 2.5hours late, so I didn't stay until the end of the ceremony either. Just waited for the vows to be exchanged and dashed back to town.

To show you the difference:
Here are some of the bridesmaids of the African wedding

and then I went to the Hindu temple

Where the mother of the groom & her niece were happy to see us.

The ceremony was going on already

After lots of prayers, fire ceremonies, rice being thrown etc. finally the bride & groom walked the required times around the fire & were married

The presiding Brahmin had a great sense of humor and I wished he had talked in English throughout

Here is my good friend Geetha, who is the aunt of the groom and through whom we became so close to the family. Geetha is the one standing, the one in green / red is the mother of the groom & Geethas sister in law.

Even BF had dressed up for the occasion.

Now we remain with the reception tomorrow. In Indian weddings the reception is often the enxt day, since the ceremonies take so long.
So tomorrow evening we will have another fabulous party with colorful clothes and lots of fun

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ZELLAZM 4/27/2014 1:03PM

    Thanks for this window on another world!

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JMAHNKEN 4/20/2014 4:30PM

    Beautiful! Thanks for all the pics!

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NATPLUMMER 4/20/2014 10:30AM

    Wow…busy, busy…but fun :-)

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STEPHLOKI 4/20/2014 3:27AM

it sure does take stamina.....LOL even though I have been sleeping in every morning I feel drained.... Yet we have done nothing bu chatting, sitting around, eating wonderful food... LOL - I guess it is the sleep before midnight I miss.

Well only the reception is on this evening, so I can rest during the day. Am surely glad it is a holiday tomorrow.

Today I am going to wear the outfit I have worn during the last 2 Indian weddings. Here the Hindu dress up in sari or Indian clothes for all occasions. In other communities, like Sikh, half would come in western party dresses for the reception


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DDOORN 4/19/2014 10:41PM

    How beautiful and festive you all are for the wonderful occasion! :-)


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SMITTY4RL 4/19/2014 6:21PM

    Steph, love your clothes and thanks so much for the pics. It all looks pretty wonderful!

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LIVE2RUN4LIFE 4/19/2014 4:38PM

    That takes a lot of stamina!

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2BDYNAMIC 4/19/2014 4:35PM

    Quite elaborate and colorful .......... Looks like all are having a great time ....... :)

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LAURIE5658 4/19/2014 4:13PM

    Steph, you look awesome and THANK YOU for all of the photos and explanations. Love it!!!

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I'll throw that scale away!!!!

Saturday, April 12, 2014

Ok now after all these months of hard work the scale is still not budging.

But when I look at the pictures I took when I tried one of my new Kurtis on I think I am finally toning up again. What do you think?

Side view:

Yeah I know that Stomach is still sticking out, but only 1/2m not, not 2m like before....

This is too funny... Better don't do Selfies with flash.... LOL
But it shoes the important part (tummy)

Side view

BTW, these are my new jeans.

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JMAHNKEN 4/20/2014 4:19PM

    Looking good emoticon emoticon

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DDOORN 4/15/2014 9:51AM

    Looks like you've "arrived" at maintenance to me! Congrats! Savor! Stay vigilant! :-)

I know deciding on what is a satisfactory goal weight is going to be a question I'll be wrestling with soon...sorta already am as I'm 14 pounds from what I thus far have designated as my goal.


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-BLESSINGS- 4/12/2014 1:26PM

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Looking good...

Wishing you all the Best
BLESSings ALLways ~Deby

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RAPUNZEL53 4/12/2014 1:00PM

  You look good! emoticon

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Getting Ready for another Indian Wedding

Saturday, April 12, 2014

Next week I have 2 weddings to attend. One will last a week and one the usual 1 day. Both religious ceremonies are on Saturday.

Now how is someone expected to find time to work inbetween?...LOL


Ok First the simple 1 day wedding: A friend from my time at German School is finally tying the knot with his long time life-in Girlfriend with whom he has 3 kids. So I will go for the church wedding and then excuse myself. His Relatives will have to figure out themselves, why this white woman shows up in church in an Indian Suit.... LOL Because I will have to rush from there straight to the temple (other side of town) for the next ceremony.

the Indian wedding is in the family of very close friends. So close in fact that the groom considers BF & myself as family and he introduced me as his aunt to his bride.
He is a cute guy who will make her a wonderful husband.
They are Hindus, so I will be priviledged to participate in a full Hindu wedding.
It all starts on Tuesday when they will have the first Family dinner. Lots of relatives are coming over from England, so it is easier to have family dinners at the grooms families house. They will be serving 3 meals a day there, but I am excused for breakfast & lunch since I am working - which is good, since I would blow up like a balloon with all the goodies they are going to serving. I mean the smell alone puts about 3 pounds on your hips.... LOL

On Thursday there will be the official engagement. Indians have usually 2 "engagements, the first where the families officially meet and make the connection official, that was several months ago. Now the actual engagement. I understand the Hindu actually exchange rings.
I will be wearing this:

t comes with the grey trouser & headscarf you can see peeing out on the hanger. Bought it last week

In the evening I will change back into normal clothes, since we will have the Mendhi ceremony, where the women put Henna on their hands - will be messy.... Problem is always you get the food after the Henna has been put, now you have problems eating... emoticon

On Friday there are several other ceremonies, not sure what they are, but I think we don;t need to dress up.
On Saturday is the wedding in the temple. And on Sunday is the wedding reception. I will wear the following 2 outfits, just not yet sure which on which day:

It will be another amazing experience

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JMAHNKEN 4/20/2014 4:15PM

    Lovely outfits! Yes, I hope to see pictures too!

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STEPHLOKI 4/14/2014 2:58PM

    Thanks Everyone,

I will have fun and you will get pictures

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LIVE2RUN4LIFE 4/12/2014 7:36PM

    What lovely outfits. It all sounds like a wonderful experience.

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NATPLUMMER 4/12/2014 6:46PM

    Have fun!

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LAURIE5658 4/12/2014 5:42PM

    PLEASE take photos like you did at the other wedding. I enjoyed them so much!!!

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SHERIO5 4/12/2014 4:56PM

    Busy girl! Your outfits look amazing!

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ALICIA214 4/12/2014 12:42PM


Will we be lucky enough to see pictures?


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WDIPIM 4/12/2014 12:42PM

  sounds like fun

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PICKIE98 4/12/2014 12:40PM

    I have visions of you rushing around, getting confused and showing up at Temple with the Indian clothing on, ,and vice-versa! One weekend you won't soon forget!! Have fun!

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Changing Jobs

Friday, February 21, 2014

Wow this is a different expereience all together.....

When I finally got the job offer after the long wait, I kind of deflated. It was all I wanted, but instead fo being Happy I was just tired. Must have really been under tension.
At my old job, everything was going crazy as well, so i was more sure than ever that the move is the best thing for me.
Well the happiness did set in after a while.
Now I am winding up at the old job. Only today & Monday left, then I am done. But I am glad that yesterday I finally had a feeling of success:
We finally did the presentation of the PM Methodology we developoed to the Senior Management. It had taken me for ever to figure out how to put it on graphs. But it was worth it! We had the full attention of those present, but did not get all to attend. There were lively discussions, but in the end they agreed with us, only suggested some minor changes. Yes! A buy-in! Now I can leave in the assurance that all the hard work was nto in vain and the team I am leaving behind will have the Senior Support they need to take things further. I know it will not be smooth sailing, but at least it is a start.

I am also glad that I decided to take my leave days next week instead of having them paid out, since I need a few days to compose myself and get internally ready for the new job.

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KENDRACARROLL 2/28/2014 6:51PM

    Hope you had time to recharge and relax this week.
Good luck with your new job.

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STEPHLOKI 2/23/2014 11:59AM

    Wow I am overwhelmed! Thanks everyone!

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DDOORN 2/22/2014 11:02PM

    Cheers to the re-charge and new, hopefully greener pastures!


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NYARAMULA 2/21/2014 1:25PM

    emoticon All the best with your new job.

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NATPLUMMER 2/21/2014 12:24PM

    I'm glad the happiness has kicked in...I totally understand the tiredness.

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SHERIO5 2/21/2014 8:37AM


Fully enjoy your down time next wishes!

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IFDEEVARUNS2 2/21/2014 8:34AM

    I think you made the right choice: you really need a break!
Congrats on the new job. emoticon

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LAURIE5658 2/21/2014 8:24AM

    Best wishes with your new job, Steph. I'm thinking of you!!!!


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CELLOSONG 2/21/2014 8:15AM

    Congrats on finally starting your new job, I hope it's a really good fit for you!

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POSITIVE41 2/21/2014 5:24AM

    Good luck with your new job!

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Another beautiful Trip in Kenya - Nanyuki & Meru National Park - with photos

Sunday, January 05, 2014

I was privileged to go on another wonderful trip with BF.

We started out with a nice lunch in the Trout Tree Restaurant near Nanyuki. A restaurant build into a tree like a tree house on a trout farm.

From there we went to Nanyuki, we stayed at the Sports Club, one of the quirky old Clubs started by the Colonialists.

Poli played a round of golf and I walked with him.

Then we had drinks and a nice BBQ dinner. That evening Mt. Kenya was hiding in its usualy clouds.

Next morning we found bright sunshine and a cloudless sky, so of course I took lots of pictures of the beautiful Mt. Kenya.

The road from Nanyuki to Meru National Park basically goes around the mountain and then down towards the next mountain range near Maua over which you have to drive as well. It was a beautiful drive & we stopped every once in a while to take pictures. It looks like the snow fields on Mt. Kenya have grown a bit during the last heavy wet season, which is a good sign, since global warming is depleting the snow on both Mt Kenya & Mt. Kilimanjaro.

We reached the park at 1pm and went to the banda where we were staying, unloaded the car, had a quick lunch and off we were for a game drive.

The Park is one of Kenya's wildest, but after the good rains it was very green and had a park like feeling.

Bushes were blooming with flowers, it was green and all the dry river beds still had some water. But the roads were more or less dry, so it was easy driving.

First we drove all the way to Tana River at the end of the park to see Adamson's Falls.

then we started meandering through the park. WE looked at Pippa's Grave,

then Elsa's Kopje and all the other reminders of the Born Free story,

and saw lots of wild life. Even though we did not see any big cats or rhino, we saw almost every other animal you can see in the park. Lots of birdlife, big herds of elephant & buffalo etc.

That evening as we were cooking our stew for dinner, a Gazelle with a young one came out of the bush and passed our banda, what a beautiful sight!

The next morning we drove around some more and saw lots of animals again. For some reason they did not open the gate for the rhino sanctuary, so we couldn't enter, but maybe that has to do with the heavy poaching we are experiencing every where in Africa.

We had to be out of the park by lunch time, since the tickets are valid for 24 hrs, but we also had another 350km drive back home.

It started out as a cloudy dull day, but cleared up and driving down to Nairobi, now on the other side of Mt Kenya was fun.

We stopped several times at road side stalls to buy fruits, rice etc. at very cheap prices. Price increase as you get closer to Nairobi.....

Here are the rice fields around Mwea

Here a view from Maua Hountain Range up into the North of Kenya

It was another wonderful outing and we came back quite refreshed.

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BIENKE 2/9/2014 6:07PM

    I really enjoyed looking at your photos Steph, Thanks for sharing.

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LIVE2RUN4LIFE 1/6/2014 8:56PM

    Beautiful photos!

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    Awesome! What great pictures.
Thanks for sharing your trip, Steffi.

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CELLOSONG 1/6/2014 1:49PM

    How beautiful! I can't wait to get back to Kenya!

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DDOORN 1/6/2014 9:19AM

    Gorgeous! Thx for the armchair travel! Hoping all is safe & secure around your area...there is so much unrest around your country!


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STEPHLOKI 1/6/2014 3:40AM

    Thanks guys, I have managed to insert the pictures. It was a memorable trip.

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LIVE2RUN4LIFE 1/6/2014 12:49AM

    Sounds wonderful -- hope you can get those photos added!

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NATPLUMMER 1/5/2014 9:13PM

    It sounds fabulous!!

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SHERIO5 1/5/2014 7:39PM

    Your trip sounds amazing, Steph!

I'm looking forward to seeing your photos!

Great job on getting some fitness in while BF folded!

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SEABREEZE64 1/5/2014 3:41PM

    Sounds like another memorable trip. Would love to visit your area some day.

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