Monday, February 07, 2011
I went to see my therapist this morning and just love her. She is my mom's age and so completely different. So awesome to have her to bounce ideas and healthy solutions off of. Adam came home after his therapist appt. and said he doesn't want to tell our younger son he is gay until closer to summer because he is worried how his friends would handle it. My therapist seems to believe its important for our younger son to know because he will feel that he was betrayed if he hears it from someone else. Our older son has told our family friend who is his age. She has been wonderful about it but I'm concerned about getting together as families now and having Josh overhear their conversation. My therapist is also concerned. We decided that I should tell my son that we won't be getting together as families until he feels comfortable about telling Josh because it could be very toxic to keep this from him and have him find out from someone else. Thanks for letting me vent and let me know if you have any words of wisdom to pass on. Thanks again Sparkfriends and I hope everyone had a great weekend! Hopefully not to much binging on Super Bowl goodies.