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Already Started Waving Goodbye to 2010 (and don't let the door hit on the way out)

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Usually unconcerned about beginning and ending of years, I've already started waving goodbye to 2010 and will continue to do so until the new one arrives. (yes, I'm standing in one place this entire week, waving my hand up and down.)

This year evaporated and I was in a constant fog, absorbed with helping my cousin in her last months of struggle. And then in July, her passing. And that of many other dear ones.

The latest news is yet another loved one who is in advanced stage of liver disease, so I am trying to learn to prepare and let go better than I've done in the past.

I hope to be more present in 2011 and perhaps be able to attend to some of my own life's challenges. I also have major redirections (adjusting to the correct course again) to do with health. Not starting over, but things I've fallen a bit by the wayside that I'll cover in future blogs.

Good riddance to 2010. Here's making 2011 a much better one. Wishing all of you a wonderful week.

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GRAYGRANNY 12/27/2010 9:08AM

    Goodbye 2010??? Amen to that!! Wishing you a better year my friend. This past year has been a struggle mentally and physically for me as well so if you don't mind I will stand beside you to keep you company whilst we both wave BYE BYE Here's to a better year for us all

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NANCY- 12/27/2010 7:40AM

    Taking care of yourself is the greatest gift. There will always be challenges.
A quote I love is:
Our lives are a sum total of the choices we have made.
- Wayne Dyer
We are fortunate as we do get to choose how we react, feel, and act in every situation we are presented with.
The quote helped me realize that even in adversity we still have a choice.
For me 2011 is all about choice, what I choose to do.
WTG for choosing to make 2011 a better one for yourself.

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JLITT62 12/27/2010 5:29AM

    1-1-11. Must be something important about that, eh?

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SIMPLELIFE4REAL 12/26/2010 11:53PM

    I hope 2011 is much better for you. This year was a tough one.

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Merry Christmas!

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Wishing everyone a joyous Christmas and holiday season. Merry Christmas!

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NANCY- 12/25/2010 6:48AM

    Merry Christmas
best wishes for a wonderful 2011!

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SIMPLELIFE4REAL 12/25/2010 2:32AM

    You too!! emoticon Merry Christmas!

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JAMER123 12/25/2010 12:15AM

    Merry Christmas to you and your family. May you have a wonderful day of celebration.

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Take Time to Hug Your Heart

Friday, December 24, 2010

Whatever your festivities during this holiday season, take a moment to just wrap your arms around yourself (either literally or figuratively) and give yourself congratulations for getting through 2010 - no matter the bumps in the road. Give yourself a hug of affirmation that you will continue the climb toward your goals.

Wishing my sparkfriends a healthy, happy Christmas eve. Love you guys and gals!

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NANCY- 12/25/2010 6:50AM

    What wonderful advice. This should be a daily practice.

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SAMMYSWEETPEA 12/24/2010 4:08PM

    Great advice!

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JLITT62 12/24/2010 12:45PM

    Thank you for the reminder -- and of course, you will be doing the same for yourself. And we're doing it for you virtually!

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JOYATLAST 12/24/2010 12:22PM

    Awwwww . . . message received. Hug given.

And here's one from me to YOU!


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MY_LIFE_NOW 12/24/2010 11:26AM

    and i hope you take your words of love and wrap them around yourself've been the best support to me this whole year..and wishing you a healed heart for the new you emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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JAMARIGOLD 12/24/2010 11:08AM

    emoticon and happy holidays to you! emoticon

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1CRAZYDOG 12/24/2010 10:45AM

    Happy holidays to you, too! Great advice. WE all need to take time to appreciate and love ourselves.

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Bites, Licks, and Tastes? Not On My Radar. Maybe someday.

Saturday, December 18, 2010

I just read my sparkfriend's blog (JLITT) and she mentions blt's. Of course, I've read of this behavior before and even have a friend who does this routinely.

Have to admit that I am in awe of those who can do just a bite, lick, and taste. In total awe, as it's not on my radar nor part of my reality in any way. In fact, it never even occurs to me.

Maybe someday I will have evolved and will blog differently, but for now, hats off to those of you who know how to do, and routinely partake in, the BLT syndrome. I will aspire to that goal at some point.

Wishing all a fun weekend.

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SIMPLELIFE4REAL 12/18/2010 7:53PM

    Those BLT's can add up calorie-wise. I try to log them (but occasionally miss emoticon)

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JLITT62 12/18/2010 12:50PM

    Generally when I do have BLTs they're not recorded anywhere but in my brain, which really doesn't count. It might be a handful of raisins . . . a mini clif bar . . . some chocolate covered savi seeds (something new I tried which is kind of like peanuts, but a seed).

It's a bad habit, and one I'm usually fairly on top of, but not lately.

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KTMAE2006 12/18/2010 12:13PM

    I am FAMOUS for asking for a bite of something. It has been a conversation in every relationship I've been in. I order a reasonable-ish meal, eat most of it, box some of it for the next day. But I ALWAYS ask for a bite of whatever my dining partner is eating. Boyfriends complain, girlfriends agree, and I have to hold my tongue when I first meet people. But once that boundary is down, good luck! I will ask for a bite! Its a great tool, even with Healthy food, its good to have variety in life! You never know what you may start liking!

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What My Interview Suit Told Me the Other Day

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Ouch! Yikes! Holy guacamole! The other day I had a meeting, and it's been awhile (maybe 6 months) since I had to don my "interview suit." You know, that one that you go to for the ultimate professional look?

I was astonished (not in a good way) to feel the jacket too tight to button properly. In fact, at first I didn't get it and thought something was catching. Then realized all of the things that this tight fit was telling me about my recent behavior.

I've recently blogged that I'm making progress. Well, sure, in some ways I am. However, I realized that I have lapsed back into some "stinkin thinkin." For example, I've always been able to eat anything and not gain. Now that I have been on a plateau forever, I took that to mean that my body would revert to not gaining any more. (yes, I know - very dumb thinking!)

And I realized that I'd been rationalizing my "little extra" eating (read - lots more than I'd admitted to myself) with the fact that I've been do a lot of exercising.

So, what my interview suit told me (btw, it was too late to change and I had to wear it and keep the jacket unbuttoned) was to be very careful. That two years of a healthy lifestyle change can still be sabotaged by a lifetime of bad habits and erroneous rationalizing. And that I still have to be careful about denial.

Haven't been on the scale lately, but soon I'll have to face the music and name that tune. I guess I owe a lot to the reality-basing I received the other day. But I still had the nerve to say to myself that the suit fabric size was "cut small." Can you believe the nerve of me! (smiling)

Wishing all a happy day.

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CHERIRIDDELL 12/18/2010 1:55AM

    Darn clothes they tend to pull us up by the bootstraps on occasion! You are making progress though you noticed and are doing something about it! love and hugs,Cheri

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FLORIDASUN 12/16/2010 9:29PM

    Drat...I hate when our clothes shrink without informing us of their intent! emoticon You'll get back on track I know you will! I too...even in losing pretty regularly these last few months sometimes have an insanity day where I think I'm back in the 80's able to imbibe in anything my little heart wants...not eat for a day and lose 5 pounds in the process. Yep...those days are DONE! I do know that I enjoy feeling of being in control of my choices and I definitely LIKE the way my clothes fit when I do make those wise choices. Nothing beats the feeling of slender...NOTHING! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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DDHEART 12/16/2010 6:23PM

    Look at it this way, that suit is doing you a favor...a gentle wake up call before the damage is too great! Now you've got fresh resolve...and you'll make the most of it I'm sure!

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JLITT62 12/16/2010 4:19PM

    Sometimes it's a hard pill to swallow, but sometimes that reality check is -- in reality -- exactly what we need.

For me, it's weighing in each week. It took me 20 years to realize that I just need that accountability -- and probably need it from someone other than myself, as well.

Well, as Oprah likes to quote, when you know better, you do better, right?

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SIMPLELIFE4REAL 12/16/2010 2:59PM

    I think it's hard to change the way we think when we could eat what we wanted to for years and not gain weight. I used to be able to do that to and I still like to think I can. All that tracking that I've been doing since Sept is slowly, slowly teaching me that it just ain't so!!! Yuck!

Good thing your interview suit was polite about it all. emoticon

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LIBBYFITZ 12/16/2010 12:39PM

    There is a joke out there about clothes in wardrobes shrinking! emoticon

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PEGGY-BEE 12/16/2010 11:39AM

    Ouch! Our clothes don't lie nearly as well as we do ourselves! But I know you'll now be even more determined. I am so impressed with how you lowered your sugar and caffeine intake so I don't doubt you'll be buttoned up in the near future.
How did the pumpkin seeds turn out? I love them but have never roasted my own.

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NANCY- 12/16/2010 11:03AM

    Yes sometimes reality takes and hits us upside the head.
The good news is that you have this awareness and are making changes. That takes practice. You have been making progress, you are making changes. Be kind to yourself and hang in there... You will build on your successes.

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