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day 2...again

Monday, October 27, 2014

Well, an interesting thing happened today. I read a Spark Article yesterday about hunger, and feeling hungry. I decided to try to be aware of my hunger today. The interesting thing is that I never actually felt hungry all day! I had a bit of breakfast just because I am supposed to....then I waited. Actual hunger NEVER hit. I had a lunch at 3pm....just because I was supposed to! Then nothing. I thought about eating several times, but took a breath and evaluated my hunger level...nope, not hungry. I had some chicken and steamed veggies for dinner at 10 pm!!! (Just because I am supposed to.) I still didn't actually feel hunger. I'll see what tomorrow brings.

  
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WALLAHALLA 10/27/2014 11:25PM

    interesting...when I eat, it usually has very little to do with actual hunger

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Day 1...again.

Sunday, October 26, 2014

Hi all. Here I am again. Time to pull myself up by my boot straps and get things done! My mom passed away at the end of July and I miss her terribly. I was her sole care giver/guardian for 4 years. I have a lot to do concerning the sale of the house (that I actually live in with my family....but a sibling is not making it possible to stay...that's a story for another day)So. I start and get overwhelmed and just sit down and watch TV. My life is so out of control that I decided to start to take come control back. So, here I am.

  
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SLIMCRUISER 10/27/2014 10:31PM

  thanks all for the support and kind words...and Spark goodies!!

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WALLAHALLA 10/26/2014 2:57PM

    This is a good 1st step to recovery.

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JIBBIE49 10/26/2014 1:28PM

    What a shame that your mother didn't leave you the house in her Will after you took care of her for four years, but I've heard so many stories like that. I just read about a guy in South Florida who shot and killed his brother and himself and wounded his sister who was 60, as he wanted a 1/3 of the house from his mother who'd died at age 90, and the older brother had lived with her for 10 years and had taken care of her all that time, but she didn't leave him the house in the Will. What a sad story.
With the real estate market what it is, I'd think about getting a loan on the house and paying off your sibling, and staying there if it is a problem with selling it. I know a lot of people in certain areas of the country have some real issues with selling property.

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CRACKERS4554 10/26/2014 1:22PM

    Glad you are willing to take care of yourself during this difficult time. I am proud of you for taking this first step.

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not sure what to do with myself....

Sunday, August 31, 2014

On July 10th my 92 year old mom fell and broke her hip. She had surgery, and spent two weeks in the hospital. Once the delerium cleared and she was coming back to herself she was healing beautifully. She was a star at physical therapy. She was transferred to rehab where she passed away 16 hours later. I had been her sole care giver and legal guardian for 4 years. We were together every day. We had a lot of fun on the week ends going out to beaches and parks, community concerts and events. She had advanced dementia, but she knew me and she had a great sense of humor.
Some days it was terribly hard to answer the same questions over and over...I tried not to be impatient. I know I did a great job making the end of her life happy. She lived at home until the day she fell....I really miss her.

  
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WALLAHALLA 8/31/2014 11:35PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss. How nice that you have such beautiful memories of your time together.

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HUSKEYSJ 8/31/2014 5:45PM

    I don't know how you did it for 4 years. My mother has dementia and we have two caregivers who help my sister and me take care of her. Our children also help. I'll be remembering you in my prayers. I don't know what we'll do without our mom. God bless you.

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MM11113 8/31/2014 5:29PM

    That kind of loss takes a lot of time and supportive love to get yourself in the level again. I will keep you in my prayers.

You miss having her with you, but you have her in your heart. Not enough though some days, I understand.

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GERIKRAGH 8/31/2014 5:22PM

    I had that experience too. I had my mom with me the last two years of her life. It was a wonderful experience. The first six months were the hardest. I was so used to helping her I didn't know what to do with myself. It will get better.

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documentary on Hunger in America has me thinking....

Monday, June 30, 2014

A couple of days ago I saw the documentary "A Place at the Table". It is about hunger in America. It broke my heart and made me angry at the same time. There are so many people, including children (1 in 5 children are hungry every day) not knowing where their next meal is coming from. I sat and thought about all the money I spend on Dunkin', and pizza, and take out. And I thought about all the leftovers in my 'fridge that gets tossed after a few days. And I thought about how I have too much food every day! I'm disgusted with myself.
The problem is so complicated...and I know my having an abundance is not what is causing others to not have enough. It is about money, and people living on the edge of poverty. It is about nutritional education. It is about having fresh fruits and vegetables for young children so they are nourished and can learn. BUT, it's about not having money for fresh food because someone lives on the edge of poverty. I just can't stop thinking about the hungry children and families and here I am eating burgers and cream puffs! I plan to do SOMETHING to help. I'll let you know if I come up with any solution.

  
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SAPHRAEL 7/7/2014 1:11AM

    You may want to check out dosomething.org. They have a number of campaigns geared to affect social change.



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JEB03253 7/6/2014 11:22AM

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ANAWESOMELIFE 7/5/2014 10:43PM

    Thank you for bring this up. I'm kind of disgusted with my own behavior. I'm throwing tons of food away and eating out on a whim ... And others are going to bed hungry.

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SLIMCRUISER 7/4/2014 8:17PM

  Miamojo, that is basically what I did. After seeing the documentary "A Place at the Table" I took a long look at what I spend and waste and throw away. I figured out I could supplement the food budget of 3 families!!! I added the amounts I spend on my debit card at take out and DD....and it's outrageous! (and that doesn't include cash expenses). I have made a monthly recurring donation to Jeff Bridges project "No Kid Hungry". I am happy with myself and will continue to talk to people and bring awareness to as many people as possible.
Thanks for all the encouragement and support.
Patty


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MIAMOJO 7/4/2014 4:13PM

    Great post and an important reminder to all of us. Why not figure out how much you spend on food per month, set a budget for next month, and then donate the difference to your local food bank? It would help you while helping others. I'm going to do this! emoticon

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SHAKESALOT 7/4/2014 8:53AM

    well said!

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ROXYCARIN 7/3/2014 12:56AM

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DWORB415 7/1/2014 10:46PM

    Food banks are always a great way to help!

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WALLAHALLA 7/1/2014 10:10PM

    It always amazes me how many people won't spend the money to feed their kids, but they always have enough money for alcohol and cigarettes, smart phones, satellite, etc. In many cases, it is a matter of priorities.

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SLIMCRUISER 7/1/2014 8:46PM

  Ok...in talking to many people here (Boston) one thing I heard over and over again is that food banks NEED DONATIONS IN THE SUMMER! Many donations come in during the holidays, but not so much during the summer months....when families have their food budgets stretched to the max (with kids home for the summer) That is something that can be done immediately. Perishables can not be donated....but peanut butter, Parmalat (non refrigerated boxed milk), tuna, and canned meals like beef stew, etc. are all very welcome.
I have always tried to donate things that people on a limited budget would pass on due to price....like tuna,and peanut butter. This is quick fix temporary band-aid, but as a lot of you have said "every little bit helps". Thanks. I really appreciate that so many of you feel that it is an important issue!






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PEAR-170 7/1/2014 4:27PM

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TDAENE 7/1/2014 3:41PM

    it's also from greed, unfortunately. When the government is paying off farmers to NOT grow food to control food costs as opposed to telling them to go a=on and grow it and it will be donated for those who could use it, it is mind boggling.

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KELLYB60 7/1/2014 1:16PM

  Very thought provoking. I know there are people in need in my community, but I have not been consistent in providing support. The grocery store I shop at usually has coupons that allow me to get items for free. I put them in a box and when the opportunity arises I have donations ready to give. I love that Puddle13 has a place that is permanently set up for donations. I need to find one of those.

I would caution you when thinking of an idea of how to help, there are some cities that have laws that prohibit help. Some cities don't let restaurants donate leftovers, or allow someone without a food license to distribute food. With all the need there is - I have read about people who found themselves in trouble after making and distributing sandwiches from their own kitchens. emoticon

You are right - you having abundance doesn't cause someone else to go without. So, don't beat yourself up. Use that energy to spread a spark!

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SANDRA_E 7/1/2014 10:37AM

    Local food pantries can always use donations.

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LOSER_ZIMM 7/1/2014 9:31AM

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NEWGOALS4ME 7/1/2014 9:02AM

    Great points you make in this blog. Please keep us up to date on what you find that we can all do to help... even if it is small.

Thank you

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SLEEKDEAC 7/1/2014 8:36AM

    I have so much while others have so little. More people need to be educated about the complex issues involved in hunger and poverty. I am working with others to address them in our community.

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CARRIELYN56 7/1/2014 7:47AM

    Sad things in our world.... good reminders for us in our choices for ourselves, for helping others, for remembering we all are connected.

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GRAMPIAN 7/1/2014 6:38AM

  We do the same as Puddle13. It must help a little. emoticon

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PUDDLE13 7/1/2014 1:49AM

    I felt the same when I heard about the food-banks here in the UK.

I wanted to volunteer because we didn't have much money (and I couldn't afford to buy much) but my shifts don't really allow for it. Then I found out that my local supermarket has a collection point for the food bank (ours is one of the busiest in the country).

So every week when I do the big shop I buy a bag of pasta and a tin of tomatoes and put it in the food bank bin. The checkout operators look at us strangely and yesterday one admitted she hadn't known the bin was there.It's not much but I figure if I am giving one person a couple of pasta dinners that has to be better.

As my OH would say, best would be not to live in one of the richest countries in the world and there be people who need food-banks but hey ho we do our little bit. For a while we were close to the edge thankfully we didn't go over but it was close a few times.

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NASFKAB 6/30/2014 4:41AM

  great thought provoking blog thanks a lot

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PRAIRIECROCUS 6/30/2014 1:11AM

    emoticon for your thought-provoking blog !

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Tuesday....

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

AAAWWWWW MAN!! I lost my streak !! I didn't log in yesterday....my daughter, who seven and a half months pregnant was admitted to the hospital last evening. She is high risk and severely asthmatic. This pregnancy has been rough...this is the second time she has been admitted in 6 weeks. She kept spiking a fever for several days and was having a tough time with the wheezing. Well, it turns out she has FLU! Kinda crazy....it's so late in the season AND she had her flu shot months ago!! it was way after midnight when I got home. Oh well, back to the drawing board!!!
Despite it all I'm not doing too badly with the calorie intake....my nutrition components still need just a little tweaking! ( really, just a little.)

  
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WALLAHALLA 5/14/2014 10:31PM

    Sorry about your daughter...I'll keep her in my prayers.

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