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Saturday, January 15, 2011

Still going to do Beck, but hoping for a day with some down time to really process and prepare. I need to copy my Advantages Response card and put it several places. I find myself trying to remember it and not having it to read at the times I've committed to read it. I haven't done all the writing exercises either. I will.

Very good weigh in at Weight Watchers today, 129.0! That is only .8 over my lowest ever Weight Watcher weigh in. On my home scale I'm still about 3 pounds over my lowest weigh in the last 3 decades. I was considering going back on SparkPeople tracking &/or meal plans, but I'm doing so well on the new Weight Watcher PointsPlus, I'm sticking with it for now. I've never lost weight with so little hunger before. Still planning to really get my weight where I want it and keep it there for quite a few months before I give up the scale obsession.

If you read my status, I rewarded myself for achieving my January 2010 goal of staying under 135 for the whole year. (My highest weight was 133 and some tenths. ) I bought a heart rate monitor. Now to learn to use it. My daughter has been sick and I've had the kids so much I've just not had enough "me" time. Gonna get some!! -Marsha

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WALKINGANNIE 1/16/2011 3:44PM

    Glad that you're doing so well. The harder you work at this the luckier you get!

Hope you enjoy the HRM and look forward to hearing more about it. Hope your daughter feels better soon.

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AQUAGIRL08 1/16/2011 11:03AM

    "Me time" is so important! I hope your daughter is feeling better soon. Congratulations on earning that heart monitor. I know that you've really worked at it. You are continuing to do a fantastic job Marsha!

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TJCADDO 1/15/2011 10:29PM

    Now I see other than incredible genes how you stay so fit and gorgeous. Maybe just maybe there is hope for me.

Congrats on the weight loss emoticon emoticon

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KALIGIRL 1/15/2011 8:29PM

    emoticondoing SUPER good!
Hope you get that down time soon.

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HAPPYSOUL91 1/15/2011 4:52PM

    exellent blog, you give me hope!

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JOYINKY 1/15/2011 1:19PM

    Marsha, You've had an amazing year. In maintenance I'm finding it helps to mix up routines once in awhile too. Just to I never go back to "mindless" eating. Be well, Joy

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RAYLINSTEPHENS 1/15/2011 12:52PM

    I never realized you were so worried about maintaining.

I sat myself down with Ray and told him that I just have to learn how to think like a normal person. I want the freedom to eat what I want, so long as I am willing to "pay the price" and cut back again later.

I must learn that if I want to eat more, I also have to burn more calories. It's a win-win situation since my video workouts all have strength training in them too. I cannot record it as such, but my muscles know!

You are doing great!! I thought you knew that!

Love you,

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Beck - Day 6

Thursday, January 13, 2011

Day 6 Beck says find a diet coach. My coaches are my SparkFriends! Spark Friends provide lots of understanding, support, and guidance.

I also have my Weight Watcher leader. I adore her. She's an excellent presenter, always amusing and interesting, and she is amazing with names. I've known her over 16 years and she remembered my name even when I'd been gone for 4 years. She remembers friends and relatives I've brought with me and always asks about them. But she was homecoming queen at her high school and never had a weight problem until she was in her 40's. Even then it was only 22 pounds she lost. So I've never thought she really understood the depths of my struggles. I've learned much from her, but I'm aware that she recites the Weight Watcher line more than she shares her own struggles and learnings.

Anyway, I don't think I need another diet coach. I am particularly grateful for my SparkFriends because I think many of you understand more than anyone else in my life about my struggles with food and weight and weight-related self esteem issues.

Probably I'll take tomorrow as a review day for Beck and not move on, as I don't think I have absorbed everything to date.

Take care, SparkFriends! And thanks for all the understanding and support. -Marsha

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ONEKIDSMOM 1/19/2011 8:36PM

    My "coaches" are also my Spark friends, but I have others, too. I can use all the help I can get keeping that motivation going! emoticon

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JHADZHIA 1/17/2011 6:26PM

    I think we all really know what we are supposed to be eating,, no coach needed, but support is always nice when you get it.. I would guess a beauty queen with a minor weight problem wouldn't get what obese plain Janes go through..

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BIKE82X 1/14/2011 5:08PM

    Thanks for sharing the information about this Beck plan. It sounds like a worthwhile read and approach.

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KALIGIRL 1/13/2011 9:13PM

    Diet is a 'dirty' word in my book - wish they'd said find a nutrition coach...
Oh well, you can't satisfy everyone all the time

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AQUAGIRL08 1/13/2011 6:00PM

    You're making such progress! Did you read today's reflection? It's like they're plugged into Beck too. I thought of you when I read it. I'm going to run off a copy for myself and read it over and over!

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HAPPYSOUL91 1/13/2011 4:32PM

    Thx for posting these Marsha, they really help

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BECKYQUIGLEY 1/13/2011 3:48PM

    I read some of The Beck Solution a few years ago and really liked her approach. It's great to see your feedback on it!

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Beck Solution - Day 5

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Eat slowly. Three groups of volunteers ate and established their baseline eating speed. Then they were to take a bite only when the computer beeped. One day they ate twice their normal speed, one day at their normal speed and one day at half their normal speed. Every participant - thin and fat - ate more when they ate fast. Enough said!

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ONEKIDSMOM 1/19/2011 8:34PM

    This is one I have to work on.

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JHADZHIA 1/17/2011 6:23PM

    I always have big problems with this. My whole family is used to wolfing down their food and running :((

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AQUAGIRL08 1/13/2011 6:08PM

    That sounds logical to me.

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HAPPYSOUL91 1/13/2011 10:33AM

    This is one step I always need to work on without a doubt

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FIT-AT-50 1/12/2011 8:57PM

    Totally agree!

Thanks for sharing!

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    I have trouble with this one.

I know you can do it!!

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GONABFIT 1/12/2011 4:26PM

    Love BECK! Best of luck! I may have to add you so I can have a beck partner! :)

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TWINKIEQUEEN 1/12/2011 4:09PM

    yes...this makes sense...

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Beck Solution - Day Four

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Day Four is all about giving yourself credit. When you choose to sit down to eat, you say to yourself, "good decision." Every time you check something off your day's To Do List, you say "good job". You reflect on your eating behavior whenever you finish a meal or snack. You celebrate your good food choices, eating mindfully, stopping eating, etc.

Beck says people with weight problems are generally very hard on themselves. They need to consciously counter that tendency by building in positive recognition. She suggests putting sticky notes around that say "credit" to remind yourself, buying a golf swing clicker to keep track of all the positive things you do, and using stars on your To Do List.

She gives an example of using giving credit to stop overeating, too. In a restaurant there is a woman who tries to resist that wonderful smelling bread basket, but finally she gives in. She tells herself that she was so weak, she has no willpower, she'll never succeed. Another person in the same situation uses different self talk. "Okay. So I gave in. But I did wait 10 minutes. I deserve credit for that. I only ate one slice. I'll just eat a quarter of the baked potato I ordered so I stay within my calorie limit."

As anyone who regularly reads my blogs knows, I love to celebrate and brag on myself. I'm all for it and do it pretty regularly. But I think in the areas I'm still struggling, including overuse of artificial sweeteners and occasional binge eating, I can benefit from giving credit on progress rather than being too hard on myself.

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ONEKIDSMOM 1/19/2011 8:33PM

    I'm all for giving ourselves credit... it reinforces the good behavior! And brag away... it's inspiring among us maintainers to remind ourselves how far we've come. emoticon

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PARKERB2 1/11/2011 2:57PM

    I over do artifical sweeteners too. I think it's fine to brag (don't over do it) on ourselves as that gives us confidence and a purpose to continue to succeed. Thanks for your wonderful blogs. Keep up the encouraging words. emoticon

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KALIGIRL 1/11/2011 1:10PM

    Here's to patting ourselves on the back - you're a great mentor!

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AQUAGIRL08 1/11/2011 11:50AM

    I don't think you do a lot of bragging Marsha. Sharing your accomplishments and bragging are two different things. You share, you don't brag - there is a difference. The thing that really matters is the kind of self talk that we all do especially when nobody else is around.

If you learned to be critical of yourself as a child because your parents were critical of you, then you have to "un-learn" that behavior as an adult. It's really hard to do. If you're anything like me, you tried to be perfect to avoid the criticism. Being human, you will make a mistake and then you come down hard on yourself. Our parents don't even have to be in the room (or in my case even alive) they are in our heads criticising us for our mistakes. What can I say, we're works in progress. I think you are doing a fantastic job!!!!!

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HAPPYSOUL91 1/11/2011 10:34AM

    Giving myself credit is something I usually don't do and it is so important. Thx for the reminder

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JOYINKY 1/11/2011 9:30AM

    This is THE place to give yourself credit and share your accomplishments! Don't ever stop!

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    Keep on celebrating! Keep on bragging (although I never thought you to be bragging!) just keep on doing what you're doing - you're very good at it!!


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Beck Solution - Day Three

Monday, January 10, 2011

Day Three is all about sitting down to eat. Do not stand up to eat. When I first read it I thought that did not apply to me as I never eat standing up. Then yesterday I caught myself as I was putting away food after supper. I did take one more bite as I was packing! Okay. I'm not sure if it is a mindless eating habit I'm unaware of or whether that was an aberration, but I'll be alert to it now. Don't need that one more bite.

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ONEKIDSMOM 1/19/2011 8:31PM

    Stolen from an old black and white film, "The Mating Season" a line delivered by Thelma Ritter, one of my favorite wise-cracking actresses:

"Never cook sittin', never eat standin'"

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MONTY68 1/10/2011 6:54PM

Hi Marsha
A great reminder, I won't say all the ways I use to eat, but now I sit at a real table and eat my meals. I will say it does make a real difference in the mind.

Thank you

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MEXGAL1 1/10/2011 5:55PM

    thanks for sharing. I think that I might do some of that mindless bites off the plate when cleaning up as well. gonna pay more attention to that now.

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JOYINKY 1/10/2011 3:44PM

    I'm all for mindful eating! Thanks for sharing.

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    That's a good one! I catch my self eating on the run sometimes and make myself sit down.


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KALIGIRL 1/10/2011 1:08PM

    Very cool - mindful eating!

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