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Comfortable AcquaintancesWednesday, December 01, 2010
I've been thinking that I need to look for at least one good before picture. I sure enjoy reading other people's SparkPages and success stories, especially when they show dramatic before and after pictures. I have pictures of me 40 pounds overweight in my gallery, but I don't have any taken near my highest weight -- over 80 pounds heavier than I weighed this morning. I was pretty good at avoiding the camera when I was overweight, so I'm not sure what I am looking for exists. ![]()
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AQUAGIRL08
12/2/2010 3:16PM
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It doesn't matter that you don't have a picture of what you used to look like because you aren't going back there. Staying in the here and now is all that matters and you are doing a wonderful job of it! Making friends with yourself as you are now is important and you are doing it!
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HAWKEYERANT
12/2/2010 12:27PM
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Great job on a changing attitude. I tried to find a good before pic but it was hard, because I didn't let people take photos of me when I was overweight. I don't mind the camera as much now either!!
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JOYINKY
12/2/2010 8:52AM
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Although what I have are dramatic enough; I not only don't have an accurate before picture, I also don't have an accurate before weight! I avoided both the camera and the scale; I had just given up! Exploring here I realize I may very well have been 240 or more at a size 24--had to buy clothes so couldn't avoid that number. None of that matters; I too am comfortable with what I see today. But, I understand Marsha; the desire for an accurate picture of your journey now. Monty's right, it's today that counts. You look great!
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MONKEYSNUFFER
12/2/2010 12:19AM
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You are beautiful! Pose for that camera baby lol
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JHADZHIA
12/1/2010 11:33PM
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That is exactly how it was with me -no before photos. I was very good at avoiding the lens, made easier by being the one designated to always take the photos. Being a maiden aunt has its privileges, only the kids with families need photos. I also wore good cover up clothing, and would hide in the back row behind the taller members of my family for any group shots. I have never looked in the mirror, thin or fat, and continue not to bother. Other than making sure I have no food stains on my face, there is no reason for me to mirror gaze at myself. I will allow body shot photos now, but you still can't make silk out of a sow's ear, so I prefer not to be photographed at all. Well done changing your attitude about it!! Just one more measure of your fabulous success!! Report Inappropriate Comment |


MONTY68
12/1/2010 10:57PM
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Hi Marsha It would be nice if you had a before picture, but it is really wonderful to look in the mirror at who we are now. The 2 before pictures were done the day I started my program and I did not see them until I hit my goal weight. I was so shocked, I guess I really never looked in the mirror when I was heavy. You should be so proud of your self, you have done an awesome job on you and you continue to work hard at this. You have and will continue to be an inspiration to many people. Forget the before picture, I like your pictures I have seen recently. Monty Report Inappropriate Comment |


LALASLAND
12/1/2010 10:47PM
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Awww, I loved your blog tonight! I could relate, too. It's so wonderful to be getting healthier all the time! I'll be glad when I get to my goal weight like you are! Report Inappropriate Comment |


MEXGAL1
12/1/2010 10:20PM
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Gosh, I am the same way.....I don't have a good before photo. I too love the stories. Hope you can find one to remind you how far you have come. Enjoy the rest of your evening. Sallie Report Inappropriate Comment |


I answered the last six questions correctly on trivia and ended up the month at 90%. Hooray! I am a happy trophy junkie!!
I try to apply the information I learn in trivia as well as SparkPeople articles to improve my nutrition and exercise program. There are only two things I can think of that I simply have not yet adopted: 1) sticking to no more than 4 sweetener packets a day and 2) drinking tea and coffee without milk. Evidently the protein in milk blocks antioxidants that are good for you. The artificial sweeteners, well, I guess that should be obvious. We should limit artificial things we eat. I know people who say they taste terrible. Unfortunately, it doesn't matter whether it is saccharine, aspartame, sucralose, or stevia, I like anything sweet.
I would like to become a person who drinks glasses of nonfat milk with meals and drinks plain black tea and coffee in reasonable amounts between meals. But I have enjoyed artificially sweetened decaf and regular coffee and tea with skim milk ever since I started losing weight. It is a pleasure and comfort I'm having a hard time giving up. I have managed to do it for a week or two, but found myself repeatedly slipping back to my comfort drinks.
Perhaps I see a New Year's resolution staring me in the face. We'll see.


AQUAGIRL08
12/1/2010 8:07PM
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Way to go Marsha! Report Inappropriate Comment |


WALKINGANNIE
12/1/2010 3:43PM
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You are making great progress - continually building on the basis of such considerable achievements during your Sparklife. Report Inappropriate Comment |


KALIGIRL
11/30/2010 11:08PM
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sounds like some resolutions to me...
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HEALTHYME162
11/30/2010 11:16AM
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I keep trying on the trivia, but stay in the 70's Equal in my coffee is one of my last guilty pleasures. I gave up all diet soda and am still patting myself on the back for that one! I must have saved $1000 by now, given my 4 Diet Cokes/day habit! You will do whatever you set your mind to....Look at how much you have already accomplished! Report Inappropriate Comment |


HAPPYSOUL91
11/30/2010 11:00AM
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LOL, I love trivia and do it everyday. But (isn't there always), I am only in the 85%
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GATOR12
11/30/2010 10:51AM
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My trivia scores are improving but still in high 70's.. Good for your knowledge!!!
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JHADZHIA
11/30/2010 10:44AM
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Congratulations on the trivia!! Well done!! Interesting, your addiction to sweeteners. I had an an out of town friend stay with me once. All I had for breakfast was strawberries and a standard cereal. When my friend asked for sugar, I couldn't understand what for, she said to put on the strawberries!! I was shocked! I can't imagine many things sweeter than strawberries! I don't drink coffee and never have. So putting milk in it seems strange to me (wouldn't it mask the flavor?). I started drinking herbal teas while on the diet, especially green tea as it was supposed to be so good for you, but it never occurred to me to consider adding milk or sugar to it. I guess if you are not used to something.. Water remains my number 1 drink of choice and is what I drink the most of. Its not that I don't like sweets, nothing better get in the way of me and any buttercream icing cake (I get so mad at those who actually scrape the icing off -me I look for the most icing LOL) ;) But I am not in the habit of eating this stuff, so I don't crave it... Its all about habits.. Your automatic response to something. Milk and sugar in the coffee is what is ingrained in you.. If you can break this habit, it would be amazing.. I don't know that milk is all that bad, you do need the calcium.. Good luck with it.. Report Inappropriate Comment |


MONTY68
11/30/2010 10:10AM
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Hi Marsha congratulations on trivia. You are amazing. On this road to healthy living, there are so many things suggested to either give up or should be doing or eating. Marsha, you have done so many wonderful things on your journey, you eat well, exercise more than most and probably at a good weight although you want it a little lower. So, I am saying to you, if you are enjoying your coffee and tea withmilk and sweetener, DO IT!!!! Thank you for sharing and enjoy your coffee and tea. Monty Report Inappropriate Comment |


HAWKEYERANT
11/30/2010 10:01AM
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Congrats on your trivia score! I love winning :P and trophies!
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JOHAL52
11/30/2010 9:52AM
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Does soy milk block the antioxidants too?? I need to look that up somewhere.... I drink herbal tea and herbal coffee but except for the mint teas, I don't like them without soy milk at least.
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HUMLADY1
11/30/2010 9:48AM
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The only suggestion I would make is this: Nope, can't think of one!!! It appears to me as if you have done a wonderful job in achieving your goals. And YOU are probably the one who could give ME (US) suggestions what I/WE should do differently!!!! Congratulati ons on your NO GAIN HOLIDAY wreath!!! And THANK YOU for being an inspiration to the rest of us!! ~~Jocelyn Newton~~ Report Inappropriate Comment |


RAYLINSTEPHENS
11/30/2010 9:14AM
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Rather than give you an opinion - I am just going to say that you can do anything you set your mind to. If you wish to cutback on milk and artificial sweeteners - then I know you will do it! **P.S. WTG on another trophy!! I think my average remains around 67% on Trivia. Comment edited on: 11/30/2010 9:15:19 AM Report Inappropriate Comment |


JOYINKY
11/30/2010 9:02AM
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As vices go, I say enjoy your comfort treats. But, I'd prefer a little sugar to the artifical sweeteners. You do so many things right Marsha; have to have some simple pleasures!
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LALASLAND
11/30/2010 9:00AM
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Hurray! I love to win the trivia, too, but I'm only at 78%. Report Inappropriate Comment |

