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Waiting for The Spark

Sunday, January 03, 2010

My book hasn't arrived yet. Can't wait! I'm jealous of those who are already into it. Oh, well. Patience has never been one of my better virtues. Maybe I need the practice.

  
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WALKINGANNIE 1/4/2010 3:14PM

    I think theyr'e rowing the Atlantic with the ones destined for England!

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PEGGYANNSCH 1/4/2010 10:06AM

    Didn't have the money to get one

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PAULASTRAS 1/4/2010 1:14AM

    I am waiting for mine too, was shipped though.

Patience is a virtue and sometimes mine is missing lol

take care,
God Bless You
paula:) hugs

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AQUAGIRL08 1/3/2010 3:51PM

    Mine came on Thursday. It's cool. I'm getting ready to read chapter one. We can comment on the chapters on the Read the Spark team. Yours will come soon!

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SUNNY238 1/3/2010 11:18AM

    I'm one of those to be jealous of, lol. If you have a Barnes and Noble close by you could always go in there and take a sneak peek, lol. I went to the store to buy mine so I've had it for several days and trust me, it's worth the wait!! Good luck harnessing your patience!!

Have a great Spark Year!!

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CHYCHY01 1/3/2010 11:17AM

    im sure it will be there soon

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Mother's Coat (Warning: More Obnoxious Blowing My Own Horn!)

Saturday, January 02, 2010

It was crispy cold this morning even in central Florida. I reached for my sloppy loose coat, when flat black leather caught my eye. Maybe, just maybe. I slipped it on and sure enough I could button every button, tie the belt, and even still breathe.

I smiled. I'll have to tell mom. She bought the full length coat with fitted waist and flared skirt more than 25 years ago. She'd been dieting and bought it as incentive. Sadly, she never did fit into it.

Probably a decade ago she gave it to my daughter who was a teen then. My daughter left the coat here when she went to college because, although she was not overweight, it was too small for her.

Well, it's not too small for me now!

You got fair warning this time. I unabashedly am blowing my own horn and celebrating every small success to help me stay on track.

  
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ZELLAZM 1/6/2010 4:09PM

    So you're happy for the cold weather in Florida! I'm sure you don't have many chances to wear that coat, so take advantage!

Blessings in the New Year,
Michelle

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AQUAGIRL08 1/3/2010 3:53PM

    Marsha, I think that's wonderful! You deserve to blow your own horn after all of your hard work!
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WALKINGANNIE 1/3/2010 11:44AM

    You worked hard to fasten every button! Well done you.

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PEGGYANNSCH 1/3/2010 8:26AM

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PO_PAZZA 1/2/2010 9:49PM

    And what's wrong with tooting our flute? Good for you. That coat buttoning was one of those yippee wahoo moments. May you have many more.

Mary

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DONNYE2008 1/2/2010 8:38PM

    WTG!!

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WANNABE_A_PINUP 1/2/2010 8:14PM

    YAY!!!

Congratulations :o)

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A New Start?

Friday, January 01, 2010

A new year.... a new start. Well, it could be. But maybe this year I don't want it to be, for a change. Maybe that is good.

We moved to Florida when I was in 3rd grade. I remember wanting to start all over, wanting to meet new people who didn't know how I had been teased and the stupid things I was known for.

I've "reinvented"myself over and over, moving to follow my husband's career and changing career directions myself several times. Each time it was kind of freeing.

This year I'm ready to accept who I am and how I got here, warts and trophies all! I'm not starting over. I'm carrying forward lots of strengths, but some baggage, too. That's okay. It's going to be another good year. Going forward, but not starting over.

  
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R-U-JELLEN 1/1/2010 2:49PM

    Thank you for such an insightful blog. We all talk about new year -- new me and so forth. But your attitidue of accepting who we are a going forth with a new attitiude including all our old baggage---inspiring!! And thanks for your comments on my blog.
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Jo

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GOALIEGRANDMA3 1/1/2010 2:16PM

    Great attitude. Sounds a lot less stressful, too.

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PEGGYANNSCH 1/1/2010 1:30PM

    I am ready to start a new me in a new year

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AQUAGIRL08 1/1/2010 1:22PM

    Learning to accept ourselves as we are now is very important. I admire the way you are going about embracing yourself with all of your strengths and weaknesses. I know that you're going to be successful!

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PO_PAZZA 1/1/2010 12:59PM

    Once again, you've shined a light on a piece of wisdom. You call yourself Old Mom, but what you are is an Old Soul in a young body.

Gratefully,
Mary

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RAYLINSTEPHENS 1/1/2010 12:07PM

    I liked this blog! A lot!! I am voting for it!!

Baggage is part of who we are!

I love you,
Linda

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WALKINGANNIE 1/1/2010 11:26AM

    I strongly suspect that success to date with SP will mean that we shouldn't need to start over again - with weight loss anyway - ever again. I don't think that backsliding too far will be an option because of all the support.

Thanks for sharing another positive insight.

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YELLOWLABLUV 1/1/2010 9:34AM

    How very insightful! Embracing the person you are, recognizing your strengths and your weaknesses and loving the whole package. Life isn't about looking for perfection, but rather seeing the uniqueness that we all have. Happy New Year! emoticon

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What Clicked? ... continued

Thursday, December 31, 2009

I can eat almost anything. Sure, there are things I like more than others. But I have found if there is something that is good for me, if I will start eating a little of it, soon I'll like it.

When I was a Peace Corps Volunteer 1971-1974, expecially the first two years in India, I really couldn't get foods that were familiar. Mostly I just ate for fuel. There was little enjoyment to it. But funny, one day after I had lived in India for 7 months I woke up and surprised myself. I was craving potato curry for breakfast!

Since I can eat almost anything, I can choose the foods that are best for me.

  
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AQUAGIRL08 1/1/2010 1:19PM

    I admire your ability to try new things! I've adjusted to many new foods and a reduction of salt and sugar in my diet. With time, I think many of us can adjust to new foods if we work at it!

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WATERMELLEN 12/31/2009 4:35PM

    It is absolutely the case for me that the more I choose to eat healthy foods, the more I crave healthy foods: and the less I want the other stuff.

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DIANELEARN 12/31/2009 3:36PM

  I think we all eat what we want. I have also observed that thin people eat food that is good for them while others eat things that aren't as healthy and can't stop with just one or control portions. If we could do both, we would probably be able to control our weight and feel healthier.

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What Clicked? ... continued

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Another important thing that I have learned is to nourish my body. It seems pretty obvious now, but for years I just tried not to eat instead of to meet my nutritional needs. For those of you who have done Weight Watchers you know there are 9 GHG - good health guidelines. They include 2 servings of milk daily, 2 teaspoons of healthy oils (olive, canola, flax, safflower, sunflower) daily, 5 servings fruit/veg, 2 servings lean protein, 6 glasses water/fluid, exercise, whole grains, multi vitamin pill, and limit sugar and alcohol. Those were the nutritional goals I was meeting regularly before coming to SparkPeople.

Also, on WW there is a list of filling foods. You are encouraged to eat many filling foods while sticking to your points total. I found this list extremely valuable. Filling foods enabled me to manage hunger better than I ever had before. Filling foods are the healthiest foods there are. There are tricks like eat the whole fruit instead of drink the juice. More filling. Of course, but I hadn't thought it through before.

When I came to SparkPeople I brought my WW eating habits. But on SP I learned I was not eating enough fat and I was eating too much sodium. I've improved in both those areas.

I have benefited from both WW and SP. I have learned to eat healthy, eat regularly, and feel good (not guilty) about eating good. When I nourish my body properly I can be at my best weight without hunger.

  
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AQUAGIRL08 12/30/2009 3:26PM

    Great information! Thanks so much for sharing with us!

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DONNABRIGHT 12/30/2009 2:41PM

    Good thoughts - thanks for sharing.

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WALKINGANNIE 12/30/2009 1:30PM

    Sorry. My comment came through twice. You may well ask, "What clicked?" I think it was the Enter key this time!


Comment edited on: 12/30/2009 1:32:38 PM

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WALKINGANNIE 12/30/2009 1:27PM

    I always thought that the WW approach was sound because it's based on 'real' food. (I'm a lifetime member!) I used the filling foods idea on the GI (Glycaemic Index) diet. I followed both successfully in the past - before falling off the wagon by forgetting about portion control and the importance of exercise.

I've learnt that, for me, the key is to eat consciously rather than grazing mindlessly. This means that I tend to have 3 meals and planned snacks every day, tracking everything to make sure that I stay in range. I can still have 'treats' as long as they're planned.

Thanks as ever. Your blogs always make me reflect and consolidate what I've learnt as well.


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PEGGYANNSCH 12/30/2009 10:29AM

    I been with SP for 1 year and learn alot in that 1 year

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