Monday, November 26, 2012
I seemed to have disappeared for a while, about 5 weeks to be exact. Some things have changed over that short amount of time...and I am SO welcoming the end of Mercury Retrograde tomorrow!
Work - I gave notice, sort of and had been working a different full-time job, my old job as a part-time job and free lance. I also had a 3 hour commute each day (only 16 miles one way) in gridlock. Needless to say, I was overwhelmed, had no time for myself and was a bit miserable. I have to hand it to the people who work three jobs...all I wanted was sleep. It did make me realize though that I was eating way too much throughout the day and at night. In those 5 weeks, I have dropped about 9 pounds. The week I quit the new job, I gained 3.
Family - Since I work for family, I kept my family job on a part-time basis, thank goodness! I had something to fall back on. However, I am now on full commission, no safety net and am going to be about $1200 short a month. I need to figure something out soon! However, from a family standpoint, things are much, much better! Now that I don't have this weird tension between my boss and a co-worker. My brother on the other hand...he is still giving my parents grief and is holding visits with their grandson, hostage. Its a horrible situation and I am somewhat removed from it, well...except for the fact that we just had two Thanksgivings to attend to (Thurs and Sat).
Love - This is usually pretty boring here for me as I haven't seriously dated anyone in a long time. I have a hard time accepting myself because of my body, my past, society and...in some respects, some family members...those have all reinforced the thought that I will not find love because of my weight. Dating is difficult because of some past personal trauma, but it's even more difficult because of my weight. About a week ago, I went to a sort of reunion with some friends from grad school. One of my friends lives out of state and he came back to visit and stayed with his family for the holidays. He just got divorced about two months ago and I have thought of him always as a friend. Well...two of our mutual friends told me under their breath that he likes me and of course, I thought they were drinking too much. I've allowed my brain to entertain this thought and now...I am not sure how to feel at all. We haven't talked since and I did send him a text, along with other friends, on Thanksgiving. He didn't reply at all. My brain says...he just got divorced, I know he can be very shallow, it's probably a joke and not to trust what our mutual friends were saying because they are just...wrong. On the other hand, we do get along well, he is kinda cute...in a Bill Rancic kind of way and I can usually tell what he is thinking because its written on his face. The latter, I just figure everyone else can too, but maybe thats not true?? I don't know...what I do know about myself is that I am extremely guarded, I don't like to be vulnerable and I don't do well with emotion - I usually eat or drink my emotions away.
Food - The last sentence above leads into this...Given the stuff with my brother, my parents arguing about what is going on with my brother because they are both hurt, the whole "friend" thing, quitting a job, being short financially and the holidays...my weight has fluctuated. I was doing good...but when I quit, I went up 3.2 lbs. This week I lost one pound. I know how to "feel" but I just don't really know what to do with myself when I don't want to feel what I am feeling. I realized over the holidays that my mom has a really bad relationship with food. She has had lap band, and is down, but never learned to eat healthy. She did eat her emotions and it was a bit surreal to see this in real life, it could have easily been me. Now I know where I learned it, how do I unlearn it? It's not going to be easy, I turn 35 in May and I think I started to learn this when I was about 9. What is it they say? Knowing what the problem is is half of the battle? Well, now I know. Time to change habits.
Career - What I do now, medical sales, I am not super excited about. I do it well (not trying to brag), but my heart is not in it. I really want to do something creative and I want to wake up each morning excited about what I am doing and looking forward to each day. I know that many of us don't get that opportunity. I want that opportunity...I think so much so, that I put myself in financial danger which is not smart. But, it has made my heart happy. Now...I don't have this crazy commute, I am not waking up at 5-6 am and working till midnight, I have time to focus on a career. I want to become a Producer, I know it's far fetched and it is very naive of me to believe I can still have this dream at 35, but it feels like, "Too bad. It's what I want." The only real way for me to get there at this age is to write. I have everything I need, including traumatic life experience, but it has been hard for me to write. Not literally or ability wise, but emotionally. I know it will be cathartic for me to do, but it is also painful and it hurts. I've heard that writing is sometimes a love/hate relationship. For me, I think that's true...
So now, you are all caught up. This has been a difficult, crazy, instructive five weeks. Looking back at 2012 - I think this has been the hardest part of the year...and before this, it wasn't much easier.
For now, I think my main goal for the remainder of 2012, is to get as close to 199 as is possible! Any loss is a loss and I know that the emotional work I do to get there will be much more important than the number on the scale...
Thursday, October 11, 2012
So...I have been really sick! I have taken 3 days off, and am sort of off today too, working from home. I have only been sick once in the last 5 years, where I really needed time off. I had salmonella poisoning.
Anyhow, I have still been tracking and trying to get as much water, veggies, apples, and salt in my diet as I can. I know the salt seems weird, but my body was draining the fluids so for one day, I had popcorn (salt) and that helped tremendously! I had made my own chicken soup in the crock pot. Thank goodness I had two frozen chicken breasts, some potatoes, carrots, bell peppers and a bay leaf. I also added salt and pepper and a little chili powder. So below is what I have pretty much been eating the last few days.
Drinking this throughout the day:
Chicken Soup made in the crock pot...usually eating this for lunch and/or dinner:
I had the lo-carb cuc sandwich when I was sick of soup...
My throat was sore and cured it with hot tea, but sometimes that hurt. So I had these mini Frozen Greek Yogurts, 100 calories each and had protein too!
When the sick breath was much too much, I had a couple of these left over mints from the bachlorette party. They looked better than they taste!
I am realizing how much work it is to do a photo blog, no wonder the challenges are only ONE week at a time! Duh! So...I think after this week...I am going to write a daily blog of how things went for the day, how I feel with my weight loss progress, mindset and attitude, and anything else I feel like writing. I am just going to make sure I post my calories in my status updates or my blog and that I have a new entry once each day until NYE. If I am so inclined, I will take a photo of my food! LOL!
Hope you all don't get the flu, it's horrible. Stay healthy and eat your apples!
Sunday, October 07, 2012
So I slept like 12 hours last night...I think I have a sinus infection. Explains the tiredness (not achy body), sore throat, ear plugged and stuffiness. I forgot to take my sinus meds last week 2 days in a row...See what happens?! LOL!
Here is my breakfast...this is what I typically make when I make breakfast. It's Frozen Potatoes O'brien (plain potatoes with peppers), 1 egg, 2 egg whites, 1 serving Canadian Bacon, asparagus, mushrooms, zucchini, and a little parmesan on top. Yum!
I did stop and get my OJ...feeling a little better!
Went to the Abbott Kinney Street Festival today and got so many cute things! Got a gorgeous necklace for my grandma for Christmas, got myself 2 necklaces (a brain and a Dopamine necklace that is the carbon make up for it), a cute overnight bag and 2 gluten free cookies! We walking around for over 5 hours! Wow! I added it as 300 minutes of a 26min mile...equalled just over 900 calories! It was hot too and I was a sweat betty! Lunch, I actually found something GF and not too bad on calories!
To say there were strange people at the Festival is an understatement! But, I love diversity and think that there is a spot for everyone in this world! Including...the magician and his shoulder cat!
They also had lots of tempting things...especially these massive cookies! Of course I couldn't eat them, but don't they look good?! Planet Cookie (that's the brand) is supposed to be amazing...That's okay, I found a gf treat later on down the road!
I found...GF cookies! I had one today and it was good! I had to estimate the calories because they don't have them since they are a little mom & pop type shop. But, finally, a cookie! I am going to make my healthy lifestyle work, that does include occasional treats, as long as I exercise and track it!
For dinner, I am having my favorite Pinterest recipe! It's a low carb sandwich. Meaning, no bread, yay GF! Take one cucumber, peel and seed it. Add your favorite Laughing Cow cheese (I have Garlic & Herb Light), a little Grey Poupon (I added this cause it gave it an added kick!) and top with one serving of deli meat, I usually use Hormel Honey Ham, which is also GF. It is really good and cheap, yet pretty filling!
Saturday, October 06, 2012
Well...I went to Zumba this morning...I feel like I am getting sick. I was dragging my legs around, they felt like stumps! Oh well! I made it through. I weighed in at WW this morning and knew I was going to gain because the week was terrible, except for yesterday. I gained one pound, I am so happy, it was just one pound! I am back on track now, so next week that pound will be gone forever!
So...for breakfast I had Starbucks Oatmeal with raisins and nuts, no brown sugar because they were out, and a hot tea. I took a pic, but my phone somehow didn't save it! So, I found one online that was similar!
It's 11:22a and I need to re-shower, change and drive to a friends house an hour and a half away. I am going to take a apple, grapes and a string cheese with me so I am not starving when I get there. I still have some hot tea left, thankfully, it feels great on my sore throat!
I went to a friends for lunch and we were going to go to a restaurant nearby. Instead, we ate cut up fruit, veggies, dip and cheese (I couldn't eat the crackers). Also, she made a cake from scratch, which I couldn't eat...but had a taste of the frosting! I had taken pics, but again, I guess I need to double check my phone because some are not keeping if I close the phone too fast! Here is the fruit:
I was starving when I got home...probably because there wasn't too much protein! I was about to grab just anything and then I remember, Ugh! I have to post it! So...I made some Gluten Free Quinoa Pasta with veggies. It was really good and I know that the veggies will help me to feel better. I think I have a sinus infection. Going to bite the bullet tomorrow morning and buy some Orange Juice, even though I never like to drink juice because of the calories!
Friday, October 05, 2012
This week...I just lost it! I think all of the crazy changes that happened last week just sinked in and I went beserk! I have to realize too...the second week before my peroid, I have the worst cravings and my brain jumps out the window. Note to self: Don't do that next month!
A very supportive SP Friend was doing a challenge where she posted what she ate each day. I think I am going to start doing that. I need to be more accountable and I will make myself take a pic, even if it's after! I think I need to visually SEE what I am doing to my body. I am going to do this for 87 days....since that's how many days are left until New Years Eve! And...it will get me through the holidays. I would like to be below 200, yes 199, by then. That's a goal of 23 pounds in 12 weeks, just under 2 lbs a week which is not super fast, but still healthy!
So here are my pics from today...haven't had dinner yet, so will add a little later.
Breakfast: 3/4 of a packet of Salted Caramel Smoothie + 6 oz of Almond Milk + Apple
Below is my Banana for my mid-morning snack, yup....got the apple in there but should have had it with the above photo. Learning process! LOL!
For lunch, I had a salad (Romaine under there!), with 3 cut up chicken sliders, sauteed (in Pam) veggies - Asparagus, Mushrooms, Broccoli, Zucchini, Garlic, Basil and 2tbsp of Balsamic Vinaigarette (45cal for 2tbsp) dressing. I added a little grated Parmesan (not in pic) after for 10 calories! Yum!
Second Snack (I was up at 5am this morning, hungry)
2- Light Fresh & Easy String Cheese
Dinner...hmmm....1c brown rice, with 3 chicken sliders, and asparagus! Had this after my 1hr Zumba class...
Dessert - Grapes! Was craving sweets....probably because this was my first day Sugar Sober! Woo hoo!
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