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My Unexpected Source of Motivation

Sunday, February 17, 2013

One of my favorite inspirational quotes is this one:



I even had that made into a big magnet that I keep where I see it every day. Some days I take time to specifically read it. Some days I barely look at it. Some days I move it out of my way as it has fallen down from its spot yet again.

Today, I really read it and spent some time contemplating what it means to me. This extra reflection was triggered by the fact that I am co-leading this week's new member class team -- you know, the one that SparkPeople automatically puts you in when you first create an account here. All these new members signing up and most of them are very excited and optimistic about the possibility of achieving their goals with the help of SparkPeople and the support of new friends that they are about to make here.

Do you remember how excited and motivated you were when you first joined SparkPeople? Have you kept that same level of excitement? Probably not. Do you actively work to renew your sources of motivation and inspiration? That is what I believe we each need to do: constantly seek out new motivation and support as we continue and improve our journeys and create new goals.

This week, my motivation is well stoked as I read the posts of this week's brand new Sparkers. So much enthusiasm, hope, determination and inspiration. They are already motivating me. I am sure that is not why they joined SparkPeople; it probably has more to do with finding motivation themselves. :-) But, I thank each and every one of them for helping to keep my spark alive and for giving me some new motivation.

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BOPPY_ 4/2/2013 11:26PM

    Nice.

Keep after it!

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COMPUCATHY 3/5/2013 10:36PM

    You never know where you will find inspiration! Just have to keep yourself open and ready to find and seek! Keep up the good work! Thanks for the encouragement! Spark on! emoticon emoticon

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SP_COACH_NANCY 2/28/2013 9:08AM

  You are a great motivator, my friend! HAPPY SPARKING!

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QUERIDAANA 2/27/2013 12:57PM

    It is nice to see that you are still working for Spark after the livemind classes ended. Sparklive was great. Now I am doing Sparkcoach, which is different than Sparklive.

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1BEACHWALKER 2/26/2013 1:56AM

    For 2 1/2 years now I still have the same excitement for SP as I did at first , maybe even more. I think it does have a lot with keeping things fresh and supporting others, even new ones, keeps it fun! And encouraging for me too! I love visiting blogs the most!
Although I must admit this past week, I have been a little burnt out by it all...just been so busy offline and sometimes...it does get overwhelming. But, I wouldn't give up my Sparking time for anything...just have cut back a bit.
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MUSCLE-UP 2/21/2013 3:21PM

  I found one new member that really has motivated me and he is under the username Samuel54S. I know that I am shameless SheenaDee, but if everybody could give him a big warm welcome.

I know you are probably being run ragged, but you have always inspired me.

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CANDOK1260 2/20/2013 10:45AM

    you will be a great leader for this new team.,

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BOBBYD31 2/19/2013 11:04PM

    no doubt, just like our old live classes

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LYNNANN43 2/18/2013 7:50PM

    Gotta love new Sparkpeeps! emoticon

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MIKIIO 2/18/2013 5:15PM

    Very cool magnet!
I am sure you'll be a great source of inspiration for them too. They are also very lucky to have you to start off their journey.

Keep sparking!

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BE-THE-CHANGE 2/18/2013 8:29AM

    I love working with new member teams. They are definitely motivating!

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MJ7DM33 2/17/2013 10:57PM

  It's a great source of motivation!

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CASSIOEPIA 2/17/2013 9:51PM

    I have been busy today helping to set up the new member team that starts next week, and it truly is a new source of excitement and motivation. This is a great way to give back, and get benefits ourselves.

Wonderful quote!

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MARYLOUQUINN 2/17/2013 8:26PM

    thanks for the reminder

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MAW_OH 2/17/2013 8:14PM

    Great way to Spread the Spark!

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CINDHOLM 2/17/2013 8:11PM

    It IS a GREAT reminder!! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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LOPEYP 2/17/2013 6:58PM

    Interesting
Perhaps i need to check out their blogs

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MAXMAMA45 2/17/2013 6:18PM

    Great reminder -- I am barely over a month old in spark time and I already need to kickstart my motivation!!

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SPIRALDOWN 2/17/2013 6:17PM

    thats for the thoughts... emoticon

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DAJAMOGU1 2/17/2013 6:11PM

  Great way to remember that "I can (and have to) do this" I feel my motivation waning so needed this!

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January Steps Goal Exceeded

Friday, February 01, 2013

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One of my new goals is to average 7,000 steps per day walking. I'm happy to share that I exceeded that goal for the first month. Yay me! Not by a lot: I was over by just 6,512 steps total for January. But, I figure that's like cramming a 32nd day of walking into January. Here's my SP steps tracking report:



I was not tracking steps previously so cannot really quantify how much of an improvement this is over say a year ago. But, an improvement it is for sure.

I use my Fitbit One to track steps and have been pretty faithful about keeping the Fitbit attached to me at all times. There was one day when I left the house without it; however, that wasn't a big walking day so it's not like I lost many steps because of that. I'm trying not to obsess over making sure I have it clipped on as soon as I get up; but, it is a little addicting.

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I love this Fitbit and it definitely helps push me to get up off my butt and walk. This month, I started my training for the Flying Pig Half Marathon walk so that is certainly helping to rack up my steps. After the HM in May, I am going to have to find new motivation to make my steps goal -- will deal with that later.


How are you doing with your 2013 goals?
Do you have a steps goal?
Do you use a Fitbit or some other device, pedometer, etc. to count steps? Does it help you to walk / run more?

I hope all my Spark friends are off to a good start for 2013 in terms of your health and fitness goals. If you don't have formal goals set...how about setting one today? Setting a goal really can help you to achieve that and more.

Have a fabulous February! I'll be back at month's end to report on my steps count again. Until then, keep on moving!

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1BEACHWALKER 2/11/2013 3:42PM

    emoticon emoticon I love making goals and setting up streaks on my page!! It really helps!! emoticon

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VAILIEN1 2/7/2013 8:48PM

    Fantastic job! It really motivates me when I read of others' success stories in meeting their goals. That Fitbit seems like the right tool for the job. I'm not sure exactly what it is but I am going to look it up right after this post. Congratulations on meeting your goals and best of strength for you as you train for the half marathon!

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JINLYNN 2/2/2013 3:48PM

    emoticon emoticon Good for you! I am impressed with all your steps!


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BE-THE-CHANGE 2/2/2013 8:35AM

    I love my FitBit - I have forgotten it a couple of times and I really get upset when that happens.

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BUFFALOKAY 2/1/2013 4:39PM

    Good for you Merle!!!
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MIKIIO 2/1/2013 4:09PM

    Congrats! Isn't Fibit a great tool?

Time for you and Diane to catch up with me today... I've stayed in bed (I'm still in!!) the whole day, except for a short trip to the drugstore... not many steps today for me, I'm afraid!

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WIO_ALISA 2/1/2013 2:10PM

    Way to go!
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I use a Striiv Pedometer. My goal for January was to average 12,000 steps a day. My average was 13,111. I love the challenges it gives to get me up and moving throughout the day.



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LOPEYP 2/1/2013 12:05PM

    That fabulous! Congrats to you!!
I am addicted to my fitbit too! Keep walking!! emoticon emoticon emoticon

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WALKINGMAMMA 2/1/2013 11:36AM

    emoticon emoticon Great blog! Wonderful job of hitting your goal!!!!! I don't have Fitbit, I just keep track of my exercise on SP. It does sound like a wonderful tool.

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Saying Goodbye to Mom

Sunday, January 27, 2013

Hello Spark Friends!

I wasn't going to blog about this; but, some of you have asked for updates on my Mom so here goes... I thank you for your follow-ups and asking how she was doing. Sadly, Mom passed away earlier this month. The past couple months were difficult for her and she was very ready to go. Knowing that helps a lot; but, it is still tough. I miss her a lot. I'm VERY thankful for her fabulous 88 years. I can tell you she was the best, strongest, kindest woman I ever met. I wish everyone could have a Mom like ours. We were all truly blessed to have been her children.

Following are just a few of my favorite pics to give you a glimpse of this fabulous woman that was my Mom.

My very fist pic with Mom:


With her sister and others (always smiling):


With my son when he completed Navy bootcamp and on his wedding day:


Mom and me last April:

  
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LVMAMAW 2/3/2013 12:00PM

    emoticon emoticon Beautiful tribute, beautiful woman. I miss my Mom, too, but we know they are in peace and we have those beautiful memories! emoticon

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SWDOTB2 1/30/2013 6:07AM

    sending my heartfelt condolences for the loss of your mother, thank you for sharing these glimpses into your life and hers...sending love...


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NEWKATHYNOW 1/28/2013 8:40PM

    I can feel your pain and I share it. Losing your Mother is a very difficult time. My wonderful Mother died in 2001 and it feels like yesterday. I wish you comfort and peace at this time. The close relationship you had together is a very special one. She will always live on in your heart and your memories. God bless.

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BOBBYD31 1/28/2013 8:12PM

    the memories in your heart and pictures will keep her near and dear to you.
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What a wonderful collection of pictures of your mom. I hope her last days were relatively pain-free and that she went quickly in the end. My heart goes out to you.

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EUPHRATES 1/28/2013 6:47AM

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I know how hard it is lady. Thank you for sharing your memories with us.

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1BEACHWALKER 1/28/2013 12:32AM

    My condolences Merle to you and your family! What great pics! Looks like she lived a fabulous life with you and your family! So sorry to hear she passed away...thank you for the update. Very nice blog about her! emoticon

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GRACIEC 1/28/2013 12:26AM

    What a wonderful tribute to her! Hugs and prayers!

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JINLYNN 1/27/2013 11:51PM

    What a lovely and loving tribute to your dear Mom! I was sorry to hear about her passing. I know you were very close to her, and how you looked forward to and enjoyed your weekly lunches together. May you find comfort in all the many special and treasure memories of your times together, and in knowing that I, and others, are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
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SANDICANE 1/27/2013 10:58PM

    Your wonderful mother lives on...in you. That's the beauty of having fabulous people in our lives...we carry them along with us for the rest of our lives.

You'll miss her for a very long time and at times when you don't expect it, her memory will pop into your head and then tears will flood your eyes as you remember some wonderful moment the two of you had.

Thinking of you,
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NORASPAT 1/27/2013 7:35PM

    Sorry for your loss.
I lost my Darling mother way too early from a Factory accident. It is great you have so many photos and fond memories. I can conjure up her lovely face in a heartbeat. It is so nice to have the happy memories in our lives. HUGS Pat in Maine. emoticon emoticon

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CALIDREAMER76 1/27/2013 7:30PM

    Merle,
There are no words to fill the empty spot her passing has left in your life.
God Grant you and your family peace and comfort!
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CASSIOEPIA 1/27/2013 7:08PM

    Memories can be blessings. So sorry for the loss of such a wonderful woman.

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RUTHE_51 1/27/2013 5:51PM

    I'm so glad for your wonderful memories with your mom. You have a good heritage and so much to be thankful for. However, the pain of the loss with still be with you a while. My prayers are with you. Ruth

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LIVINGSIMPLY355 1/27/2013 5:02PM

    Sorry to hear of the loss of you mom.
Sounds like she was a great lady!
I'm glad you were able to share about her in this blog.
Having memories to remember and to share is precious.
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KIN59VARA 1/27/2013 4:43PM

    emoticon So sorry for your loss.

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ANJAYS-JOURNEY 1/27/2013 3:43PM

    so very sorry for your loss, much hugs

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TXGRANDMA 1/27/2013 3:24PM

    So very sorry for your loss......... She had 88 years though, and sounds like she had a great life. I know my husband's mother lived to be 98, and she remarked many times about how all her friends and her immediate family was already gone. She missed them and said she did not fear or dread her passing over between this world and the next. I know they are both at peace. emoticon being sent to you and your family at this difficult time.

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MILPAM3 1/27/2013 3:23PM

  Wonderful memories will sustain you, although there will be times when you'll miss her oh, so much. She is waiting patiently till you will join her for eternity.

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BE-THE-CHANGE 1/27/2013 3:19PM

    So sorry for your loss, Merle. It look like you and your mom had a great relationship.
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LOPEYP 1/27/2013 3:18PM

    Merle, so sorry for your loss. It is always difficult to lose a parent but I am glad that you have lots of great memories. Big hugs to you and your family. emoticon

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VAILIEN1 1/27/2013 2:47PM

    Thanks for sharing - it is very tough to lose a parent. I remember that when my father passed away and still many years later, I think of him. He visits me in my dreams and I am always remembering things that occurred between us. I hope memories of your MOM are good ones and that they bring you comfort.

Wishing you PEACE and much STRENGTH!

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DLDMIL 1/27/2013 1:57PM

    Sorry for your loss, hugs and prayers for your entire family.

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MIKIIO 1/27/2013 1:56PM

    I am so sorry for your loss, Merle. I should have understood that something was wrong and be more present for you during this tough time. emoticon

You have the same great smile than your Mom.
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~INDYGIRL 1/27/2013 1:53PM

    So sorry for your loss, Merle.

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LASARRE 1/27/2013 1:49PM

    So sorry. I know how you feel. I lost my mother who was also 88 in July. That's why this trip to Vegas is bittersweet. This is my first time going without her in 15 years. The last trip was December 2011. She started getting dementia then and I didn't realize it. Just remember all the great times you had. emoticon

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ALWAYSROSY 1/27/2013 1:45PM

    emoticon So sorry.

Loved your tribute. Sending gentle cyber hugs (((((((( Sheenadee ))))))))))

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BATCHICK 1/27/2013 1:30PM

    I'm sorry for your loss. Your mother will live on in your heart. Treasure the memories you have of her.

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Plateau Busting Plan

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

I'm embarking on a 4 week Plateau Busting Plan starting today with the help of the new SparkCoach Plateau Buster program. I decided to publicly blog about it here for accountability and support.

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I have been stuck at the same weight for quite a while. I am not completely sure I should call it a plateau as that may imply that I have been staying on track better than I have been. I've been struggling with eating things that are not-so-good-for-me and blaming my husband for bringing it into the house.

I've given advice to many Sparkers who were try to bust their plateaus, had non-supportive family members, temptations, etc. It's time I start taking my own advice again. So, please bear with me as I get back on track, friends. I'll take all the encouragement and support you can send my way.

I think this SparkCoach program is just the extra structure that I need. Here I go.... wish me luck.

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KLSART 12/14/2012 6:09AM

    Good for you! So glad I read your blog because this is exactly what I need to do. Blaming my husband for bringing bad stuff in isn't going to help! : ) Time to take responsibility and track EVERYTHING.

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    I know you can do it!!!! emoticon

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MIKIIO 12/12/2012 5:32PM

    Way to go for looking for guidance and support!

Seems like a great and supportive program, and I've been using the trial SparkDiet (90+ Days) .

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BOBBYD31 12/11/2012 10:13PM

    you know the routine, now you just got to put it in the action plan. believe in yourself because i know you can do it

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CASSIOEPIA 12/11/2012 7:52PM

    I'm on that program myself.

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1BEACHWALKER 12/11/2012 7:38PM

    Good for you!!! I know the feeling! Started 2 days ago staying off the sweets-got a streak going! I have been eating way too much of them here lately-almost out of control. I am on a plateau or like you said, just not eating the right things lately and it needs to get better! Good luck!!! emoticon emoticon

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LOPEYP 12/11/2012 7:05PM

    emoticon Go, Merle!

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    you can do it! emoticon

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BRIAN36 12/11/2012 5:17PM

    I'm right there with you. I've got 5 unwanted pounds that have taken up residence and I'd like to kick them to the curb. I know exactly what I need to do to fix the problem and that's to track, track, track my food. I could blame it on a lot of things but those are all just excuses.





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AJB121299 12/11/2012 5:07PM

    good luck

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Sitting In Mom's Hospital Room

Tuesday, December 04, 2012

Sitting In The Hospital Room...lights turned out, listening to my Mom's breathing as she sleeps. It could almost be relaxing if it hadn't been such a nerve-racking day.

My Mom had a hip pinning surgery scheduled today. Earlier this week, she had a spontaneous fracture in her hip -- meaning she did not fall or anything, it just fractured / cracked. Although the surgeon was set to go and said the procedure itself was simple enough, when her team of doctors met (after reviewing latest chest xray), they decided to cancel the surgery altogether. Permanently.

She has several other health issues that have worsened, and the combination makes the surgery entirely too risky. The doctor actually said it would have been "surgery suicide".

We won't have the final recommendations for a couple days; but, it seems they will suggest some form of physical therapy and pain management. Luckily she currently has little pain; as long as she keeps weight off her right hip that is. But, I'm afraid her days of easily using her walker are over.

At times like this, I feel lucky to come from such a large family -- I have 9 siblings. There are plenty of us to help Mom. (Although, sometimes I think the doctors and nurses may wish that they had fewer of us to deal with. )

Tonight, I am taking the first overnight shift to stay here with Mom. She doesn't really like to stay alone and we'd rather be here to watch over her too. I hope she can sleep well.

I guess that's the end of my sad blog. Just thought a little journaling would help.

Good night Sparkers.

  
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MIKIIO 12/10/2012 2:54AM

    Hope your Mom is doing better now. You seem to have a wonderful supportive family, and thankfully she is well looked after.
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JINLYNN 12/7/2012 8:57PM

    So sorry to hear about your Mom - it is a very emotional time for you, your Mom, and your siblings. She is blessed to have such a wonderful family who are devoted to caring for her. My thoughts and prayers will be with you all during this time and I hope that with bed rest you Mom will be able to achieve some mobility again.
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NEWKATHYNOW 12/6/2012 10:14PM

    You are very fortunate to have such a large and supportive family. I know how stressful it must be for all of you to see your Mom in the hospital. I will keep your Mom in my prayers and you as well.

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CASSIOEPIA 12/5/2012 6:36PM

    I am just reading this now, and hope your mom had a better day today, and also that you got some sleep. I'm glad you have so many siblings for support at a time like this.

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ABRANNEWME2013 12/5/2012 3:24PM

    Hi Merle I'm very sorry your mom isn't feeling her best right now...but I'm sure the doctors know what's best at this time who knows things may change I certainly hope and pray that they will for her....I'm glad you have such a large group of siblings at this time you all need each other right now...Mom is truly blessed to have such wonderful kids in her time of need God bless you and your mom Merle....Praying for your both emoticon

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SHEENADEE 12/5/2012 12:52PM

    emoticon for all your comments. Each and everyone of you has contributed to this being a better day.

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LASARRE 12/5/2012 11:12AM

    So sorry about your mom. At least you have siblings helping you. emoticon

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    Keeping your family and mom in prayer. emoticon emoticon

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LOPEYP 12/5/2012 9:36AM

    Sorry to hear about your Mom, Merle. She is lucky to have you and your siblings to watch over her. Take care. emoticon

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BRIAN36 12/5/2012 8:40AM

    I'm sorry to hear about your mom. I know how much you enjoy spending time with her. I suppose you could think of this as just another venue.

Now that I'm an only child and my parents are in their 70s and not the best of health, I certainly don't look forward to what the future holds for me in that facet of my life. I try not to let my mind wander in that direction...

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WIDELOADROAD 12/5/2012 7:24AM

    I'm sorry to hear about your Mom. I hope she feels better soon and that they are able to find the best solution for her problem.

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BROOKLYN_BORN 12/5/2012 7:13AM

    I'm sorry about your Mom. Your comment about siblings was meaningful to me. I'm an only child and at the end of Mom's life I said that this was the only time I ever missed having siblings. All decisions etc were mine alone. It was a difficult place to be. Take care of yourself too.

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FEMISLIM 12/5/2012 2:57AM

    My prayers are with you!

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MATER88 12/5/2012 2:37AM

    I guess you could say it was a sad blog. But looking at it another way, all of you are truly blessed. Well, maybe not the doctors. My sister and I have both moved as far away from our mother as possible. We won't want to come when we have to. It is so sad that so many hurts (deep ones) from our childhood cause us to stay away. But I got the best Christmas present last week. We now live about two miles from our daughter, son-in-law, and oldest granddaughter. We were at her house and she just suddenly said "I'm so glad you live here." And our son is busily trying to make plans for us to fly to them since we couldn't go in October as planned because of my surgery. I am truly blessed. And so is your mother. Does she know the number of times you have updated your status to say you are spending time with her and how great it is? If you haven't you should.

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BIGREDANGEL 12/5/2012 1:32AM

    So sorry about your Mom...my thoughts and prayers are with you both! emoticon

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LAURIEJG 12/5/2012 12:46AM

    It is tough. My mom has been in and out of hospitals for years, and lives in a nursing home now. You are blessed to have family willing to help. To many of us are the only one helping. I hope they are successful in helping her manage her pain.

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LYNNANN43 12/5/2012 12:13AM

    Poor Merle's Mom emoticon

Thoughts, hugs & prayers your way.

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    I am so sorry about your mother. I am glad you have siblings for support. Hang in there girl. emoticon

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BOBBYD31 12/5/2012 12:07AM

    saying a prayer for you guys, i am glad they elected not to do the surgery, i am sure it was in her best interests. hugs

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FENWAYGIRL18 12/4/2012 11:27PM

    So sorry to hear about your mom, it's tough when our parents get old and we have to watch this once strong person struggle to walk. My dad can barely move as he was on a respirator last year for 16 days (but they didn't even think he'd live so it was a miracle that he came out of it ).
I don't know how old your mom is but you should see if you can get a case worker in the house and see if they can help her get a scooter for when she needs to go out. My dad tried getting one on his own (too much money) and a case worker talked to medicare and his insurance and he got one for free!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I know there are 9 of you, but you still might need some help and they have people that will go to the house for free to prepare meals, clean and go shopping (also meals on wheels program that is free).
I wish you all the best! I hope your mom will be okay and you'll all be able to have a joyous holiday season! emoticon

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JUDYAMK 12/4/2012 11:16PM

    I am sorry this happened to your Mom. She is so blessed to have a large family with so many taking care of her needs.I will be praying
Judy

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TJCADDO 12/4/2012 11:15PM

    It is comforting to know that you are with your mom. I know that she can rest easier with you there.

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MARJIMAC63 12/4/2012 11:15PM

    Best wishes during a difficult time.
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BE-THE-CHANGE 12/4/2012 11:14PM

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MSBEKANATOR 12/4/2012 11:13PM

    It is so hard to see our parents age, and to have to deal with the issues that come with that. Hugs to you, and lots of prayers for you and your family. Hoping that your Mom will be able to get back to enjoying a fairly active life! emoticon

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1BEACHWALKER 12/4/2012 11:08PM

    That is too bad about your Mom, Merle! Hope all works out for her so that she can lead as active a life as she can. It is tough to deal with ailing parents or anyone we love for that matter. I feel for you....hang in there. emoticon emoticon

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