Thursday, January 27, 2011
Okay... so you know I talk about my roomates a lot and how I wish they would motivate me and what. But this has reached my limit. They ate some of my fresh bananas I bought the other day from the grocery store. Not a problem in most cases right ??? Well in this case its a big problem, especially since I use my fruits as replacements for unhealthy snacks. Now if we were all equally contributing to this factor in the house it wouldn't be a big deal. But they still eat out or are cooking things with a lot of carbs that are unhealthy for me to eat. They share with each other but not with me.. (mainly because they are closer friends) nonetheless this upset me today, because I felt that was something that they should have understood..... I wasn't always buying fruits and vegetables and salads. Now that I am if you want some ASK DAMMIT... don't just take at your leisure because you live there. Now it makes me wonder what else is being eaten of mine... thats "healthy" I left a very detailed note and I hope nobody got offended by it but if they did I am in the I don't care mode, because, this diet and exercise thing is important to me and even if they are not in the same boat then they can at least respect me I feel.
I want your opinions on this spark people family... if they do get upset how should I handle the situation and help them to see things through my eyes. Especially since they don't understand me counting the calories and me avoiding certain foods. They don't understand the backlash that can happen. I may have been a bit brash with them but still..... this is a rough journey and it means a lot to me to lose this weight and get confident again.