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Keeping myself accountable! Motivation for YOU and ME

Tuesday, May 21, 2013




It's Tuesday, weigh in day and I am still at 199 pounds ( I wanted to get to 198) but instead of being sad about this, I am holding myself accountable. I am still making this post, because I know if I stick with it, every Tuesday no matter what the scale says, I will succeed.
I am feeling strong, and motivated. I found some amazing quotes to share.

I think making goals specific is vital for weight loss, that is why every week I aim for 2 pound weight loss,this is slow and healthy and that is the key!



Even a slow weight loss, even if it's one pound adds up and makes a difference.
Lets do this, I am ready to do this. YOU can do this.
See you next Tuesday, time to step it up and eat better. GOAL- 2 pounds this week! I am going to do this.

  
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EG8383 5/21/2013 12:57PM

    great motivational quotes and attitude. This attitude is what will help you keep pushing regardless of outcomes...I think it's also called stubborness but the good kind! I am hanging in this journey with you. I'm pushing myself also. Regardless we keep pushing and aim to make good choices daily with food, activity, portion, etc. We will conquer!!! Cant wait to see your results next Tuesday =)

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8MOREB4 5/21/2013 10:30AM

  I love the quotes you found. Slow and steady is my motto.

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JACQUELINE2010 5/21/2013 10:16AM

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Alright, still gradually losing baby weight :)

Saturday, May 18, 2013

Baby boy will be 2 weeks on tuesday.
When I weighed myself last while pregnant I was 40 weeks 4 days and 223 pounds.
As of this morning I am 199 pounds
That is a total of 24 pounds lost so far.
I am still gradually losing the water weight/ blood weight among other things because I was 202 a few days ago,
I am still eating lost of food, only I am loading up on more healthy choices. ( I am breastfeeding)
Yesterday I bought some 2 pound weights for my arms, for very light work out and a pedometer to track how much I walk, which I will slowly increase with time, and hoping start jogging after my 6 week check up,,
I am hopefully to make it into the 180s before my family reunion trip.
That gives me about 5 weeks to lose 10 pounds, so I really feel I can do it, especially because some of the weight is still falling of from pregnancy.
I think once baby is 4 weeks, I will really know how hard I have to work to lose the weight.
RIGHT NOW, I am just grateful to be less than 200 pounds. YEAH!
Only 9 away from no loner being obese.
MY goal is to lose 2 pounds a week, and I am going to do this!!! I think I will start weekly weigh ins on Tuesdays,
So, I will be on here more regularly to keep myself accountable, you might get sick of me ;). See you on Tuesday where I plan to be 198 pounds.
WISH ME LUCK

  
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DRSUNSHINE1 5/21/2013 12:56AM

    Totally take this time to enjoy your tiny jewel! The weight will come off with healthy choices and a gradual return to exercise when you're ready. There is no deadline!

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AWOLF24 5/20/2013 3:37PM

    You can do it - no problem! It has only been 2 weeks! And CONGRATS on the new little guy!!!

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BAKER1009 5/20/2013 7:02AM

    You got this momma! It's not like you are new to this journey, so do remember to give yourself adequate time. Babies are so unpredictable, so you have to allow room for that. Like Tara said, I was hard on myself at first, so make sure you relax and remember, YOU JUST HAD A BABY!!
Congrats! And I'm here for you!!

Hugs,
Beth

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TARANITUP 5/18/2013 11:52AM

    You have a really good attitude about it! I spent alot of time in my baby's first weeks beating myself up about not making the progress I felt I should be making... things really improved when I cut myself some slack and set my goals to lose at a slower pace. Now if I do it faster it will just be icing on the cake! Enjoy your new baby :)

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MICHSTATE 5/18/2013 10:50AM

    Good luck!!!! Sounds like a reasonable plan!!!!

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Weight loss journey begins, AGAIN

Thursday, May 16, 2013

Well my 4th and last baby boy is now 8 days old. I am enjoying sweet baby boy, and have been sooo busy! I would like to start going on walks again soon. I weighed 223 at my last pregnant appointment with him, 40 weeks apt. But didn't have him until 40 weeks and 4 days.
That was a total weight gain from pregnancy of 58 pounds... and that for me is sadly normal
gained 50 with first
60 with second
62 with third
and 58 with fourth
haha
Oh well, we wanted 4 kids and now we are done. So excited to focus on myself again, and know that this time, I wont have to gain it all back again!
So when baby boy was a few days old I weighed myself for the first time, I think I was about 210 ish.
I am now 202 which is 21 pounds down since the birth of baby boy. Since he is still so young, I am still losing weight randomly, so I think once he is about 4-6 weeks old I will really know how hard I have to work this time around... yikes.
Still hoping to be 190 by the time I go to the family reunion at the end of June.
Anyway, not going to force myself hard, or starve myself.. I am nursing so my main goal is to eat fresh and healthy, try to give my body and baby what we need, not so much what sounds good. I am thinking that with the combination of walking and drinking plenty of water will help me safely and gradually lose weight this next few weeks and once I am able to work out again, I plan to jog, and eventually run 5 or so days a week.
I also recently found out that my husband is deploying for 4 months at the end of sept.. not a long deployment but I am sad, he will miss our 8th wedding anniversary, halloween, thanksgiving, my bday, and Christmas! Oh well it could be worse and I am already trying to find the positive to this all, one being, a great time to make and set weight loss goals for while he is gone. I plan to be one hot wife when he comes back, which might not be so hard since I will be nursing and taking care of 4 boys all 6 and under by myself! haha Anyway, really excited to get healthy for myself, my children and husband cause of right now, I will be starting off my journey at "obese". 9 POUNDS to overweight for my height (190) I am gonna get that soon ;) Day by day, every choice matters, I will do this!

  
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HEARTS116 5/19/2013 9:47PM

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MAXMAMA45 5/18/2013 9:13AM

    Came across your blog from the "fit and pregnant" team. I JUST found out I'm pregnant and the weight gain is my biggest concern, since I have finally been losing weight! Thanks for your awesome healthy attitude about it. Congrats on your newest addition and good luck on losing the weight! You can do it!

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DJ4HEALTH 5/17/2013 9:48PM

    You can do it, just make sure that you also get one night out for y0urself and that will also give the boys a break from you too. One advice from a military wife to another.

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ONE*BUSY*MOM 5/16/2013 1:13PM

    Selena, you've done it before and I have no doubt you'll do it again. You rock, mama! Enjoy your 4 beautiful boys and the warm summer weather.

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EG8383 5/16/2013 11:53AM

    You have already conquered a lot in these few days! I'm sure you will meet that reunion goal by end of June. I know things are probably crazy right now with the new baby boy and other three kiddos to care for, yourself and hubby also! You're doing so great and love that you're in good mood mentally and physically. I will be difficult to have your hubby leave in September but you're a strong woman. The kids will keep you very busy and you will be a super hot momma! take care ttyl =)

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GAILSQUEST 5/16/2013 8:34AM

    What a beautiful baby!You are doing awesome .You will be back in shape in no time.

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he is here!!!!

Wednesday, May 08, 2013

Well went 4 days past my due date. Doctor strongly recommended indusing me and didn't want me to go past 41 weeks. So I finally agreed, and thank God I did what doc and I felt was best and stopped listening to others. Sweet baby boy already had his first bowel movement in me, he could have been one sick baby, but thankfully he didn't get the poop in his systom. Went in yesterday the 7th at 7 in the morning they started potocin at 805 and he was born at 959 (told ya my labors are fast) too fast in fact, no time for an epidural.. ouch!!!! His name is Moses Fernando and was 8 pounds 2 oz and 22 inches long. Breastfeeding like a champ, but we have to stay another night thanks to jaundice :(. Will post pics soon!!!

  
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TWINZMOM7 5/12/2013 8:51AM

  Beautiful family!!!!

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GARDENCHRIS 5/11/2013 9:48AM

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NEEDBU66 5/10/2013 1:40PM

    Congratulations! Welcome baby Moses!

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EG8383 5/10/2013 1:26PM

    Congrats!!!!! I'm glad you went with your gut feeling and that Moses and you are doing well! Wow that is a super fast labor! Lucky you but ouch is not a good word for labor pain lol. Take care and check in with you later! HUGS =D

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RSSSLHB 5/10/2013 7:43AM

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MICHSTATE 5/8/2013 9:57PM

    Congrats!!!!!!

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JLPEASE 5/8/2013 7:46PM

    Congratulations!!!!
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JESUSLIGHTSMEUP 5/8/2013 6:50PM

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ONE*BUSY*MOM 5/8/2013 2:45PM

    Congratulations & welcome Moses. So glad the labour went well and that both you & baby are doing well. Hope he recovers from the jaundice quickly. Enjoy those first special days with your sweet little boy!

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*DAISYJO* 5/8/2013 1:08PM

    Oh yay!! Congratulations. I'm so happy he is here safe and sound. What a cute name. Can't wait to see pics!


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IMAVISION 5/8/2013 12:37PM

    emoticon Welcome to baby Moses Fernando! emoticon

My prayer for your precious baby son is that his life be all the good Lord God intends that it should be.

God bless!



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CHEPRBYTHEDOZN 5/8/2013 12:22PM

    Congrats!!!! so glad he wasn't sick from the meconium!!! Enjoy this newborn time...

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EGREENE4 5/8/2013 11:44AM

  Congrats!

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decided not to get induced....

Sunday, April 28, 2013

Doctor offered to induce me today, 5 days before my due date. I have extremely fast labors and live a good distance from the hospital... But I changed my mind, and canceled this morning. I would have literally been at the hospital right now in labor, maybe even about to hold my baby.. it would be so wonderful to see his face.
BUT, I decided that since this is probably my last baby, I want to enjoy the excitement of him coming on his own. I am nervous, hopefully it's soon and not in the middle of the night when I can't get a hold of anyone.. haha Like I said earlier my labors are fast.. and my husband is in the military so we have no family near by to help with the other kids. I have a few friends that offered, but doubt they are literally waiting by their phone for me haha...
So now is the waiting game... Hoping baby decides to come soon. I have a son who was born on May 6th, my middle child, and he is very sensitive and I really don't want to be in the hospital on his birthday or have him have to share is birthday. hoping baby decides to come in the next few days!!!
Come on baby!!

  
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BAKER1009 5/2/2013 11:14AM

    I'll send ya some contraction vibes today! Tomorrows the DD, right? Maybe you'll go right on time...that's what my last 2 did. Actually my last came the next day technically, but I went into labor with her on her due date!
Wishing you nothing but the best, all the way around!

Hugs,
Beth

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EG8383 5/1/2013 1:37PM

    his day is near and i know you guys are very excited! That's awesome that you could cancel your induced date. Because I was high risk I guess I was forced to be induced Jan. 3rd. Come on baby!!!!!! Make mommy and brother happy =) I really hope new baby has his own bday so your middle baby can be happy about still being extra special with his own bday. I'll just on you later! =)

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ASHWILLDOTHIS 4/30/2013 7:52AM

    So exciting :]

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NUOVAELLE 4/29/2013 3:10AM

    I really wish all the best for you and your baby. And I hope he decides to come soon and you can all be back home for his brother's birthday!

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LINDSEYJ 4/28/2013 7:58PM

    Woohoo...BabyWatch is both fun and exhausting!! Praying for the perfect timing!

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TWINZMOM7 4/28/2013 6:09PM

  Baby boy 4 on the way!! How wonderful! Congratulations!

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OOPSIEDAYZ45 4/28/2013 4:39PM

    Best of luck to you and your baby. I hope everything goes well for you both.

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NANCYPAT1 4/28/2013 4:35PM

    This is an exciting time - I agree that waiting for it to come naturally is the best decision. Your friends WILL be there for you - while not literally waiting by their phones, someone will be there when you need them. When I had my second son, I had people lined up and then had to go to the hospital at 11 p.m. on a Sunday night and ended up calling a single guy who arrived 30 minutes later on his motorcycle. He took care of son number one. I was also put on the spot by a neighbor one Sunday afternoon when a neighbor came over and their plans had fallen through on the sitter for THEIR kids, and I ended up watching her 3 kids that I had not ever even met before. Stuff happens and people step up and take care and show their best side when the NEED is there. You will be fine and your decision will be okay too. God knows what and who you will need and they will be there for you.

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MOM2OR 4/28/2013 3:41PM

    Best of luck!!

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SHAMROCKY2K 4/28/2013 1:13PM

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