Friday, May 01, 2009
Thankfully I am not posting that title as an SOS call. Just wanting to post some updates . . .
I'm not making any progress on weight/fitness to speak of. I've been going out running on Saturdays, but work & other things have been keeping me up too late on weeknights to get up in time for morning exercise. And my eating has been more maintenance mode than weight-loss mode. Gotta change that.
The issues at church were resolved last night in a good conversation with our pastor & an elder. It turned out that the problems were all rooted in the elder's mistakes, delays & forgetfulness, not in church policy. Apologies were offered & received, & we all understand each other better now. I'm thankful.
Our current step in controlling our finances is refinancing our home to get a good fixed interest rate. It's a big relief to have gotten the appraisal, which places our condo just where it needs to be, & a great interest rate of 4.875%. I'm not sure yet when closing will be, but all the basic work is done.
My husband sent out a work proposal yesterday for the kind of project he enjoys! We're not holding our breath, but it is good for him to have a bid out there.
My poetry reading on April 26 went pretty well--the best part about it was the chance to reconnect with several old friends who came out to hear us. I have sent in my application for a week at the writing workshop I enjoyed last summer; admission isn't competitive, so I'm sure I'm in. It will require me to do some focused work to get ready in the coming weeks, since I hope to be in a poetry MANUSCRIPT (book) class with a poet I greatly admire. I have a pretty substantial series of poems about Colombia that I hope to get published as a book.
The first case of H1N1 flu in Illinois was in an elementary school just a few blocks from my home! We're taking extra care with cleanliness these days; I even wear a respirator mask on public transportation. It's mainly for my husband's peace of mind. It's amusing to see that people are generally avoiding sitting by me when I wear it, as if the mask marked me as an actual flu patient! Fortunately I'm feeling just fine.
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
April 2009 has been a challenging month for me so far! With my husband back, I am not doing very well at getting to bed early or controlling my eating, so my weight is back up a bit.
We are waiting with trepidation to see how a problem at church is resolved. Too much to go into here; suffice it to say that this was NOT the most glorious Holy Week of my life, though the services were lovely. It is sad to contemplate parting ways with my beloved community--I pray that it doesn't come to that.
During Communion on Easter Sunday, while I was singing with the rest of the music team, I lost a contact. (Yes, I use gas-permeable hard ones, because they're comfortable for me & give me better vision than soft lenses would.) After the service a dozen or more people tried to help me find it, but no luck.
My husband is feeling quite gloomy about prospects for getting an appropriate job.
But there are some good things, as always.
1. On Saturday I went back to regular strength-training exercises for the first time since I injured my arm--& I did fine, with smaller dumbbells to begin working back up to my previous level.
2. The weather is ever-so-slowly getting warmer.
3. We did our taxes yesterday & found that we had been pretty close to the target for paycheck withholding (a small federal refund, a somewhat larger state payout). That was a big relief.
4. Easter afternoon we had an especially nice time with my kids, who came for dinner & did some of the prep & lingered afterward for a game of Trivial Pursuit & then prolonged conversation.
5. Recently another of my poems was accepted for publication. And a friend & I will be featured readers at a monthly poetry reading on April 26!--a real honor during National Poetry Month.
Edited to add two more:
6. My hot flashes really are fading away!
7. The lost contact prompted me to make an appointment for my husband & me at the eye doc. I did need an adjustment on my lenses, & my husband needed his first bifocals. And there was enough money on our flex savings card to cover the charges for both.
I have to keep reminding myself of the good stuff. And I'm thankful that I am loved by a God who knows what it is to suffer.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
I have a few small things to update & celebrate . . .
1. Tomorrow I have a PT evaluation, to see how much progress I've made. I think the PT will agree it's been a lot! Yesterday & today I have even tried modified pushups & can do them without pain to my arm. Keep in mind that I've never been good at even modified pushups . . . it's something I should work on consistently.
2. I love the way I feel after doing my PT exercises & the final stretches.
3. Mentally I've been counting my PT as my main exercise these days, & finally today I made it official. It takes me at least half an hour daily, so I should give myself credit. I found 5 strength-training exercises in the SP menu that are close enough to the ones I've been doing, & entered them on my fitness tracker.
4. Nowadays, any day I am going to go straight from work to a meeting or event, in the morning I usually try to pack a supper as well as my lunch, to heat up & eat at the office before I leave. This means I can be efficient & do my food tracking all at once over the lunch hour. It's great to already know that I'm well within my calorie range--& to have a specific yummy supper to look forward to: dhal with a bit of brown rice; papaya chunks; & half a cup of extremely creamy but nonfat cottage cheese. A scrumptious dinner for just 332 calories!
5. My husband started daily walking yesterday! In January when he had a long-overdue checkup, his new doctor advised him to walk at least 20 mins. per day. He is finally getting started, & of course he felt really good afterward. Yay!
6. The hot flashes seem to be petering out (knock on wood)!! OK, it's too soon to say for sure, because last June I had a whole month of no hot flashes but then they returned in July . . . but what I started noticing yesterday is that I had only a couple, both in the evening, & they were "mini" flashes. The heat started coming over me but then it sorta faded away. I had another one like that just now. It would be GREAT to see them fade away altogether this spring!
7. I'm meeting my sister tonight (maybe her husband too) to hear a presentation by Bill McKibben, a really excellent writer/thinker on earthcare/environmental issues. Really looking forward to it!
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Yesterday I was feeling a bit smug because I had tallied my calories (ahead of time, because what I was going to eat for supper was measured out) & was a little below the minimum. One of my colleagues had filled her treat bowl with chocolate miniatures, so I helped myself to four of those. I was still well within the recommended calorie range . . .
But after Bible study last night, my friend who hosts us brought out a cold Coke each for Emily & me, & then poured some Doritos into a bowl for us. Normally I would just respond with a polite no (I don't drink Coke OR eat Doritos!), but this was definitely a moment that required a cheerful yes. A. & J. (married couple) & their kids are originally Burundian; they were refugees in Tanzania for a number of years & came to the U.S. about a year ago. They are currently unemployed & plan to move to Nashville soon to be near some relatives, who have told them it's easier to get work there--& a lot cheaper to rent an apartment.
Emily & I (both native to the U.S.) have been using Bible study as a way to help J. & A. learn English--we print out "easy English" copies of the Scripture that will be the preaching text on the upcoming Sunday & read through them together. (These are available online, easy to find by googling "easy English Bible.") It has been wonderful to immerse myself in the accounts of Jesus' life in the gospel of Mark in this way: trying to explain the most basic terms, sometimes by acting them out. A. & J. are Christian, which helps, but Emily & I don't know any Swahili or Kirundi, the languages they're most familiar with. Yet I feel as if I've gotten inside these Bible passages in a new way.
Currently living on unemployment & food stamps, A. was offering the chips & Coke out of pure love. No way was I going to say no. My calorie count was just a bit higher than it should have been yesterday as a result, but it was well worth it. Oh--& the jolt of caffeine shortly before bedtime didn't make my insomnia flare up at all!
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