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T-96 - So Thankful!!

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

On Monday, we got our paperwork in the mail, our application for "Permission to Reapply" as it's called, off to North Carolina. Feels good to have that out the door!

I also called and talked to our immigration officer, the one who actually interviewed us on January 30th. I wanted to see if she could put in her word into the offices in North Carolina, to help speed up the processing..... Well, she can't really help us in that area.

BUT, she was so nice, and she told me she was very sorry and felt really bad for telling us the wrong thing at our interview. She said as far as she could see, there should have been absolutely no problem, but when it went to a different department for reviewing right before they were to process it, it came to light that, due to a TINY LITTLE TECHNICALITY in the immigration law, he has a ban of 10 years. I guess there was a big debate about it between the departments, and she didn't seem to agree at all with the decision that was made. That was super encouraging.

AND THEN, she very emphatically told me that there is NO REASON at all that my husband should be denied "Permission to Reapply." She confirmed my own logic, that our case is so basic and straight-forward that there should be no problems getting back in. (Of course, she also said she could NOT guarantee, but I KNOW she wouldn't have even told me that if there was any doubt.)

So, what it all comes down to, ladies and gentlemen, is processing T.I.M.E!! It is not a matter of "IF," but "WHEN" it gets approved. And the people in Frankfurt are standing by, ready to process his visa immediately once they receive our approval.

This was such an encouragement to DH yesterday, as well as myself. We are definitely proceeding just as planned. I am so thankful that she actually talked to me and was so nice. It was really great.

While she may have made a mistake, I seriously do not believe ANY mistake was made. I believe that through that interview, DH & I were encouraged to keep moving forward with this move; whereas, I think we would have been a little down if we had been denied. The "approval" at the interview also prompted DH to contact his old employer, who replied by saying they will do everything possible to hire him back (VERY ENCOURAGING!!). The entire situation has caused us to be MORE optimistic and MORE determined with our plans, not less. So, as crazy as it seems, I am glad she told us the "WRONG" thing at our interview!!

Running is also going GREAT!! I am doing a plan where I run 5 days a week -

Sunday - rest
Monday - an interval run, either 800m or 1600m intervals, PLUS BodyPump (S/T)
Tuesday - EZ 4-miler
Wednesday - Tempo run, 1 mile warmup + 35 min (sometimes varying) TR + cool down, PLUS Bodypump (S/T)
Thursday - EZ 4-miler
Friday - rest
Saturday - long run

I have been so surprised at my speed, because I am still packing around more weight than I want! I definitely have my running spark back. All that indifference and unmotivation I was feeling a few months ago is G.O.N.E!

But my weight isn't budging right now. It's frustrating. I lost a little, but it's just not really moving like I want. Gonna need to revamp and come up with a better game plan..... Hmmmm......

But my spirits are up! We are moving forward!! I am still shooting for a sub-1:50 HM in May! And it's only 96 Days until our planned homecoming!!!!!

Spark on, Sparkers!!

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HAKAPES 2/18/2012 8:26AM

    Wow, sounds so complicated to get into the US...

Great for the running spark!

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KKINNEA 2/15/2012 11:00AM

    You are really turning things to positive - love it!

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SEEHOLZ 2/15/2012 10:12AM

    Sounds so promising and to have her on your side is HUGE!

It's going to happen Darcy- nice job on the running!

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LAURIE5658 2/15/2012 9:58AM

    I am continuing to think about you daily and offer prayers. You know that though. One day closer!


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WONDERWOMAN 2/15/2012 9:54AM

    Prayers for continued good news. You'll be stateside before you know it. Any news on the house?

I love your running/workout plan. It looks simple, yet tough enough (does that make sense?) Think I'm going to borrow it if I can get this foot to agree.

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MARATHON_MOM 2/15/2012 6:15AM

    I am continuing to pray that everything is expedited and goes smoothly!
Your workouts are going awesome! You rock!

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Sunday, February 12, 2012

YEAH, we are under 100 days! WOOOOOHOOOOO!! Getting closer and closer!

We got everything together for our waiver with Immigration, and will be mailing that off tomorrow. If nothing else, it was something to keep us busy for the past week. emoticon I told my husband, God must have just not wanted us to be bored for the next 100+ days, He wanted to give us something to do to keep us busy and on our toes. LOL Keepin' it positive, people!!

Thanks for everyone's supportive comments about our house showings yesterday. I totally agree - those first people were just prepping us for a low-ball offer. I think the most disheartening thing about that showing was just that they were people we know, and I was thinking it would go really positively.... and it didn't.

But like I said, the second couple/family was GREAT! And we are looking forward to having a couple of other appointments possibly this week.

I cannot wait to have this house sold... and I cannot wait to hear back from our waiver with Immigration.... and I CANNOT WAIT UNTIL MAY!!!!

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LAURIE5658 2/12/2012 9:44AM

    Sending positive {{{vibes}}} your way. Oh and lots and lots of prayers and hugs!!!!


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CONFIDENTLY_FIT 2/12/2012 6:44AM

    :) Sending positive energy your way!

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T-100 - House Update!

Saturday, February 11, 2012

What an emotional roller coaster!!!! But only 100 days until we leave! Trying to stay focused on the light at the end of the tunnel.........

So, we had 3 appts booked today for potential buyers. The first showing was for the people from our village here. The guy and girl ended up bringing both their parents with. And let's just say, they tried the old let's-point-out-all-the-negative negotiating technique. So, although they admitted that the house was in great overall condition, they criticized every negative point they could.... the biggest of which being that our heater is old and not very energy efficient. That is a big point for Germans.

But the thing is, we have taken ALL of these things into consideration in our price! We are not stupid, and we are not being unreasonable, even though they were trying HARD to make us feel that way. We even consulted a realtor last year, and our asking price is based on what he told us... so I do NOT think we are THAT far off.

Anyway.... The second people cancelled due to sickness, but wanna come next week.

Between the showings, I was sooooooooooo nervous & a bit disheartened by the first showing. I guess I had expected the first showing to be much more positive, since it's people we know. I just kept hoping and praying the next people were at least nice, if not more positive. I thought if they criticized our house like the first people, I would just break down and cry... literally.... right in front of them. I was so nervous, I felt like I was gonna barf!! Ugghhh.

The third people came and it went REALLY well! THANK GOD!! They were about the same age as us, couple of kids, VERY positive, and all of the improvements or upgrades that could be made were absolutely NOT a problem! The whole thing went so well, & if nothing more, it really uplifted my spirits, & helped me recover from this morning.....

I think, realistically, we could expect an offer from the last couple! I'll try not to get my hopes up too much, but I really think it went that well.

We are still looking forward to hearing from the other couple that cancelled today - they are also a family with 3 kids. In addition to them, we also got YET ANOTHER call today on the house!! They *should* be contacting us next week to set up an appointment as well!!!

So, we are going to stay positive!

I blew off some steam after the 2 showings were over - pumped out a 12.3 mile run!! My plan called for 12 miles, the last 4 miles of which @ goal pace. The last 4 were between 8:30-8:35, a tad slower than my goal pace, but still good, I think! I'll take it!

Feelin' better after a good run!

Spark on, Sparkers!!

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TWINSMOMMY607 2/15/2012 7:41AM

    I hope things work out for you guys!!

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STEFFIROCKSIT 2/13/2012 2:14AM

    Hi Darcy,

do not let yourself be troubled - selling a house IS stressy, I know from experience. We sold our "old" house in 2010 but we needed more than ONE year to even get an OFFER. I don't know how many showings we had but I guess it must have been over 30. And this negative talking is normal procedure to try and get the price down. Do not take this personally (I know, it's hard not to). There were times when I wanted to just throw these negative talkers out of the house, screaming at them! Some came twice or three times, only to insult us in the end. Whew, those were hard times, I can tell ya. But in the end we got an offer -which was way too low in my opinion but we were happy to at least sell the house and move into our current house (we rented this one, though).
All I wanna say is: don't let yourself be discouraged, keep you spirits up high. Things will work out the right way eventually.

All the best,

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WONDERWOMAN 2/12/2012 4:34PM

    OMG - 8:30 is slower than race pace?!?! You are super fast!

The house stuff looks great; hoping for a speedy sale and everything else to fall into place.

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HEALTHYCHIC 2/12/2012 12:05PM

    The right people will come along and everything will work out as it should. We are prepping our house to go on the market, so i know your stress. I'm not looking forward to trying to sell our house. We're not in a huge rush, but still, it's nerve wracking. That's a great RUN!

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MARLIMOO 2/11/2012 5:32PM

    Exactly- STAY postitive. The right buyers are coming. I know it. Good luck. Countdown is ON SISTAH!

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LAURIE5658 2/11/2012 3:16PM

    I'm with john. The first folks were playing nasty games. Fingers crossed and prayers offered. Darcy, you are one speedy runner! Wowzer lady!

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HAKAPES 2/11/2012 2:48PM

    Or why not look at it in a way that this is just price negotiation, and they try to lower the price? And then it sounds to me that saying negative things about the house - this is really not the way when negotiating with you. :-)

I was just wondering, what would make you sell your house for less?
Signing the contract tomorrow, and paying in cash?
Saying nice things about the house?
The buyer showing that they are a nice family similar in life conditions to you?
Could be interesting for yourself, and maybe can give more emotional distance of the process.

For your run - that is a distance!
Alles Gute!

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JOPAPGH 2/11/2012 2:37PM

    Sounds like the first folks were just trying to set up a low ball offer. Glad to hear the second showing went so well.

I would gladly take 8:30 as race pace!

Fingers still crossed...

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T-101 - MORE Surprises!

Friday, February 10, 2012

More interested people in our house, I mean!!! We just got another call this morning, asking us if our wonderful house was still available! So, we booked them for a showing tomorrow. That makes 3 different showings tomorrow.

These people are also from the area, which is a really good thing. See, we live WAAAAAAAAAYYYY out in the German countryside, just in a tiny village. If people do not know the area, or are not from here, they shy away from it because it is so "far." Germans don't like ANY kind of a commute, as you can understand with outrageous fuel prices here in Europe.

Anyway, this is just AWESOME!! I am praying so much over the outcome!! And I am busy whipping my house into shape, so this blog has to be quick! emoticon

We also will probably have everything sent off on Monday for our waiver with US Immigration! We are still staying hopeful that WE WILL BE LEAVING on May 22!!!!


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HAKAPES 2/11/2012 2:18AM

    Same in Austria - they have such an excellent public transport and highway here, but still, I prefer to spend my time doing something, instead of commuting, so I choose to live close to my workplace. :-)

Fingers crossed for you show-around - let us know the outcome!

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APIRLRAIN888 2/10/2012 9:40AM

    Nice good luck

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LAURIE5658 2/10/2012 9:06AM

    I am so looking forward to that day when you actually come home for good and it WILL HAPPEN!


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MAGGIE101857 2/10/2012 6:38AM

    Everything is falling into place!!! So exciting to see it all come together - I am so happy for you!! emoticon

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CONFIDENTLY_FIT 2/10/2012 5:44AM

    Great news!! Best of luck with all the showings!

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T-102 - Surprises, Surprises!

Thursday, February 09, 2012

After weeks of silence, and no serious inquiries about our house.... WE GOT 2 CALLS yesterday!! They both want to come see the house Saturday. This is just GREAT!

On top of it just being great to have someone interested again, one of the couples is a boyfriend/girlfriend pair, the boyfriend living right here in our little village! They are looking for a place of their own, but would like to stay in this little village. And.... get this.... his mom is one of the ladies I work with at the cafe in our village! She popped over here this morning, to see if it was REALLY us selling our house (we have been keeping it very quiet since DH's employers live nearby too), and we told her. So, they will be coming over on Saturday for an official viewing, but that whole situation may be VERY VERY positive for us!!

We have resorted to thinking that we might just have to declare bankruptcy, if we don't sell our house.... Our finances right now are just in shambles, and there is no getting ahead! Even apart from moving, we are at the end of our rope. Bankruptcy is not what we want, but if there is no other way, there is no other way. The housing market is lagging here too, just like in the US.

So, selling this house will be a MAJOR BLESSING!! And a major act of God emoticon

I'll keep you posted, Sparkers!!

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JENN26POINT2 2/10/2012 9:04AM

    Oh, I hope on of your viewings turns into a sale! or maybe BOTH of them can provide offers! How cool would it be to have no interest and then all of a sudden be entertaining TWO offers at once! That would be sweet! Good luck and definitely keep us posted!

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LIVE4THETRAIL 2/9/2012 4:33PM

    Wishing it all goes well for you both.

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APIRLRAIN888 2/9/2012 4:08PM

    Good luck fingers crossed

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-POLEDANCEGIRL- 2/9/2012 1:50PM

    Sending prayers!!!

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TWINSMOMMY607 2/9/2012 12:36PM

    Fingers, toes, legs, arms etc. crossed for you and your family!!

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JOPAPGH 2/9/2012 10:52AM

    Hope tings work out. Sending positive thoughts your way.

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RUNTRILAUGH 2/9/2012 10:17AM

    Fingers crossed! But you already knew that!

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LAURIE5658 2/9/2012 9:30AM

    I have every body part crossed that this happens pronto!!


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that sounds so fantastic! I will pray for you and all my good thoughs will be with you on Saturday. Hope you won't get the hickups (it's a German expression..)!


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    Can you do something like we do in the states and have a short sale. It means that the bank sells it for what you owe on it or close to that.

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    Crossing fingers and sending positive buying vibes across the ocean.

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MARATHON_MOM 2/9/2012 6:37AM

    Praying for that house to sell... AND SOON! I can't wait to have you here in the States!!!

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MAGGIE101857 2/9/2012 6:34AM

    Will keep praying for your miracle!!

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AZMOMXTWO 2/9/2012 6:25AM

  I pray that the house sells and at a good value for you.

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