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My Most Unforgettable Character--Gene-- His Life Lessons for MeSaturday, July 24, 2010
What an emotional week this has been! For the past month I have dreaded Tuesday when I would be losing the job I've loved. I have taken care of Gene, an 89 year old man with Parkinson's Disease for the past 2+ years. He has been such a source of inspiration to me as I've seen him fight his disease with grace and strength and very little complaint! This while I was trying to learn to eat more appropriately and exercise regularly to lose weight and improve my health. ![]()
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LINIS_THIN
8/11/2010 3:15PM
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Beautiful story. When one chapter of your life closes another opens... Look with eagerness at what your life will bring! Report Inappropriate Comment |


LINDAKAY228
7/24/2010 7:13PM
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I work with elderly and disabled and have since 1995. I see some that are so inspiring and work to overcome so much and I love working with them. I also see a few who don't have near as much wrong with them and whine and cry all the time about how miserable their life is and how no one cares. I try to treat them all the same and actually learn a lot from both groups. From the whiners I learn to watch my own attitude and make sure I be grateful instead of focusing on the bad. From the hero's like your gentleman, I learn so much much more. Some of that is about what it is to keep pushing on and not give up and how much courage they have. I believe you have touched his life tremendously too, especially since many people want to avoid those with disabilities and illnesses and your willingness to look beyond what is initially seen and to see the beauty of the man underneath is a precious gift you also gave, and still continue to give, to him. Report Inappropriate Comment |


KASEYCOFF
7/24/2010 6:04PM
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And I have no doubt, Rita, that he learned as much from you as you did from him. It's wonderful that you can continue to visit him - and even better that it will give you additional exercise and help keep him more fit. His life is a blessing to others - and so is yours. Report Inappropriate Comment |


HAPPY1049
7/24/2010 3:25PM
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You are probably his most unforgettable character! That's why he needs you to be there to keep helping him cope. It's amazing how our attitude can be such a blessing to others along the road of life. Thanks for sharing about Gene. Report Inappropriate Comment |


JUST_TRI_IT
7/24/2010 12:42PM
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OH wow... This is inspiring. TO know that someone with his condition still gave his 100% can remind us all to get things done even if perhaps we do not feel like it. Thank you for sharing your most unforgettable character, Gene :) Report Inappropriate Comment |


MSWEEZER
7/24/2010 12:41PM
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What a wonderful story and clearly you impacted one another's lives at a most important time. I love the elderly and hope to find a way to interact with them again. I spent a lot of time at an assisted living facility when my mom was still alive. I grew to love so many of them and they looked forward to my visits just as much as my mom did. And when it got to where she didn't know me, some of them would know me and appreciate my stopping by, sharing a smile and a touch. You've been truly blessed, as has Gene, to have the 2+ years you've had together.
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APRILLSCOTT
7/24/2010 12:07PM
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Rita what a wonderful patient you had! People like this give us a whole new prospective on life! They make us see that anything is possible! They help us always be positive even when life is not the greatest! People like this have so much to offer if someone will just take the time to help! I know you will miss him and have learned a lot being with him! God puts people in our lives sometimes for a reason! Remember though the season has changed! God has put you in this job for a reason and evidently He has someone else that needs that positive energy passed down to or is there someone else coming in to teach you something new? This will be interesting to find out! Report Inappropriate Comment |


SUNNY332
7/24/2010 11:40AM
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Awe, what a wonderful person Gene must be. Thanks so much, Rita, for sharing his story and your story. I am happy that you will get to see him at his new place and how nice of his daughter to call and ask you. What a blessing your brought to us this morning. Thanks so much! Hugs, Sunny Report Inappropriate Comment |


DREMARGRL
7/24/2010 10:49AM
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This brought tears to my eyes and joy to my heart this morning. To find strength and inspriation....to learn and love the elderly is truly a blessing. So many don't even want to sit down and talk with a sick person or old person. They have so much to offer, if we would just take the time to listen. I'm sure you mean as much to Gene as he does to you and that YOU have made his life better. In his mind and heart, I know he loves you, too, and appreciates all that you do for him. Keep up the good work....keep exercising. I think I'll think of the both of you when I do my elliptical this a.m. Have a blessed day and give Gene a little hug for me, too. Thanks for the inspirational blog!!!!!!!!! Report Inappropriate Comment |


I'm literally shocked that I've lost 70#! The journey began April 2009 on my own after my doctor told me I was going to be a diabetic. I tried to exercise and eat better. I think I lost about 12 pounds until August when the program my doctor signed me up for started on diabetes prevention. To get into the program I had to agree to 1)track my food daily and 2) weigh myself daily. I was upset on both accounts, but to be part of the program I had to do it, so I did!
After a month, I was into it and looked forward to watching my progress.
Spark People came along for me when my program was winding down and I was in panic mode about how I could continue to lose weight. It has been so much more than I would have dreamed or even hoped it could be!
I have a mini goal that I've been working toward since April for my son's wedding August 7th. I am 7# away from that. I don't think I will reach it, but even if I don't I've been chipping away at the 20# goal I made in April.
I've been surprised by my determination to walk wherever possible even when the weather is challenging. It was a pleasure to learn that every week just walking to and from work is 20 miles! The walking is very enjoyable and the time passes quickly.
I learned last week that the job I have caring for an elderly man with Parkinson's Disease in his home will be ending next week as he moves to assisted living. I'm very sad about this change for him and for me!
He's taught me so much about determination and just doing what you have to do no matter how hard it is! Every morning and evening during the week I exercise with him, even when he's having a bad day, when asked if he's ready to exercise he tells me, "we'll see what we can do!" His legs hardly work anymore, but when we do our exercises it's like he's a new man. I will miss him so much. A few months ago, in the middle of exercise he turned to me and said, "don't you realize I'm almost 90 years old? That's OLD!" I will miss him and his great sense of humor!
It's with a grateful heart that I blog this morning, realizing if not for Spark People I would not have gotten to this point in my weight loss journey. Without my spark friends encouraging me along the road, I would not be here, without the Lord I would not be where I am today. He gave me the tools at just the right time for me to use them and have success. I thank the Lord for his mercy, grace and kindness in my life!
Have a great day fellow sparkies!


LONELYMOON86
8/4/2010 10:01AM
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70 Pounds!! Congratulations, that's amazing! I haven't been able to get off more than 25# a year, which is discouraging seeing what others can do. I don't know how you do it, but I'm very happy for you! Report Inappropriate Comment |


JUST_TRI_IT
7/24/2010 12:45PM
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Just catching up with your journey, Rita. WHAT a great view in that rear view mirror. Ciao, so long.. bye bye 70 pounds. And in the front view you see... a stronger you.. an healthier you. Pretty darn awesome, my dear, pretty darn awesome :) Report Inappropriate Comment |


WOODSYGIRL
7/23/2010 11:01PM
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Rita, I'm catching up on my friends' blogs and was so happy to see yours! CONGRATULATIONS on losing 70 lbs!!!! That is just terrific and I couldn't be more proud of you! I love your commitment and determination and your wonderful attitude about all facets of this journey. You are an amazing inspiration! I am sorry to hear that you won't be working with your gentleman any longer. I remember the stories you've shared with me about him and I know he is very special to you, and will remain so. Perhaps you can visit him in assisted living and help to encourage him to keep those exercises going while he can. God definitely had a plan when He put you two together, and you're both the better for it. Keep the lessons this man taught you and remember the joy he brought to your heart. I can't wait to hear all about the wedding--it's only 2 weeks away!! Wow! You are going to look mahhhhvelous, darling! Love & hugs, Shannon Report Inappropriate Comment |


KASEYCOFF
7/15/2010 5:53AM
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Rita, you are doing just great - and you are a real inspiration for me! Your blog gives us a view of one facet of the jewel we call Life. You are changing, becoming healthier... the man you've been working with is moving to the assisted-living, bringing change for him and for you... and the Wheel turns. Not to wax too philosophical, but that's what your post brought to mind. :-)
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LJCANNON
7/15/2010 12:24AM
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MELAPHANTN
7/14/2010 4:02PM
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ANONALEE
7/14/2010 3:48PM
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Congratulations, Rita! What an awesome accomplishment and a wonderful tribute to your patient. If each of us could hold ourselves to doing the "hard things" on our own behalf, we, like your patient, would feel better too. You're doing a wonderful job becoming a person you can rely on. Cheers, Debra Report Inappropriate Comment |


LUCICAMP
7/14/2010 12:32PM
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BUGGYS
7/14/2010 12:20PM
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SUNNY332
7/14/2010 12:01PM
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You are definitely my "SHERO" of the day - more likely the year. What a GREAT job. I am so happy for you. BTW - what color is your dress for the wedding. I can't wait to see photos. Hugs, Sunny Report Inappropriate Comment |


MSWEEZER
7/14/2010 11:30AM
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Oh what a great blog and congratulations on your success. I can understand about your client. He clearly is/was much more and I know you will miss him. He was blessed, as were you, to have each other during this time and individual journies. You will be beautiful inside and out at your son's wedding next month. Please do share with your Spark family so we can be there for you to applaud you!!! Have a lovely day! Report Inappropriate Comment |


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BIKERBABE2BE
7/14/2010 9:52AM
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You are an inspiration! You have done such an amazing job and stuck to your plan. Thanks for sharing your journey with us!!
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FLUENTFROG
7/14/2010 9:15AM
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Wow, wow, wow -- HOORAY for you! Report Inappropriate Comment |

