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A Lack of Commitment

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Sunday evening the BW wanted a Subway sub for supper, but I wasn't really hungry because I had eaten some peanuts an hour earlier. As a consequence I suggested that I guy one 12 inch sub and we each eat half. She really wanted two 12 inch subs, and I didn't suggest that I have a bowl of soup or something else - I just went out and got two oven roasted subs, exactly alike, with
Swiss cheese and mayo.

When we sat down for supper I ate my entire sub, and she ate just the first half of hers, then decided to save the other half because she was full. It was an extreme lack of both my sales ability and my restraint.

Today, a friend wanted me to meet him for a couple of beers about four in the afternoon, and I told him that I was in the middle of making chicken noodle soup, with the stock made and the meat separated on the chicken. The BW told me to go head - keep him company because his wife was away, so I did. I met him and stayed until after seven, drinking four beers and eating chips and fries, and hearing that he had been fired today and the story of his latest marriage. I still haven't got the hang of drinking without eating, or the knack of nursing a beer.

So I have overindulged twice in three days without a reasonable excuse either time. I consider it a lack of commitment.

  
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THINRONNA 5/19/2011 6:54AM

    Oh dear! I had that same problem on Mai 17...I know the feeling. You are here though that does show commitment.

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MS.ELENI 5/18/2011 10:16AM

    Not a lack of commitment.Just a minor slip up which i know you will correct. It isn't going to ruin all your good by taking a break once in awhile.

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BREWMASTERBILL 5/18/2011 7:01AM

    I think you're usually pretty consistent, a couple of days isn't going to make or break. I think you made a good decision (hanging out with a friend who needed it) so long as it doesn't turn into something long term. Which I would guess it won't.

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S3XYDIVASMOM 5/18/2011 12:08AM

    My calorie count was over the limit yesterday, so I decided to "flame out." Oh yes. I enjoyed that graham cracker with frosting and chocolate. And, somehow, since I was already over, it made sense. NOT!

Well, I guess we both have the opportunity to do better tomorrow.

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JIMDAB 5/17/2011 10:45PM

    I know what you mean, I often seem to encounter those "well just this time" situations. But just looking at you shows that overall you've got it together.

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MRDPOLING 5/17/2011 10:35PM

    UUUGH. Seems you and I havne't been doing well with our life choices.

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Free Anti-malware Software

Sunday, May 15, 2011

I have been paying for AOL for many years - originally I switched because a financial column was only on that service, later because I could automatically upload and download all my e-mail is a short time (when we were in a campground with telephone access), and the last few years because our oldest daughter wanted to keep her AOL user id. After it was free (she has high-speed internet) I kept it because there were two of us using the McAfee antivirus software. I saw an article (I think within the last year) about free suites that gave you good protection, but didn't do anything about it, but this month's Consumer reports rated the antivirus software, and several of the free programs rated much higher than McAfee.

I saw that article a couple of days after I got a notice from my phone/cable/internet provider that my monthly bill was going up $11 right now. Since I'm paying $9.99 a month for AOL I decided the check out the free software. The first thing I did was to check with the other kids, and our son tells me he is running four antivirus (AV) programs at the same time on his computers. The youngest daughter and son-in-law had copious advice (with four kids who aren't careful, and lots of computers, they have had lots of bad experiences) and I got recommendations for several other free programs.

I did download Avira a few days ago, and it ran just fine along with McAfee, and found two trojans and another bad file that McAfee had missed. Then I downloaded and stored AVG and Avast! but didn't start them. After a couple more days I tried to start AVG, but it wouldn't start because the McAfee firewall was turned on. I checked and turned the Microsoft firewall on before turning the McAfee firewall off. Everything went fine for a day, so I completely shut down McAfee for a couple of days.

One thing that our son-in-law said was that the multiple programs would slow down the computer, but I wasn't able to see any difference is response times. Today I tried to install AVG, and it did install, but didn't do anything. I told it to repair itself, and it said that it couldn't run because McAfee was there, so I told it to remove itself, which it did. Then I went to the Control Panel and removed McAfee, so now this computer is running with just the Microsoft firewall and the free Avira.

What I noticed today was a much faster response of the computer with only Avira running. It is significantly faster than it was with McAfee running by itself. That really blows my mind, because the Avira is a much larger program than McAfee, and it checks nearly four times as many files on the computer as McAfee claimed to check. I don't know - I checked and I have 70 GB used, and I don't really see how I used up that much memory.

I will let things go for a while, and if there are no problems, and I can convince Annie to get some other antivirus software, I'm going to cancel AOL. It's not much of a hit to the outside world, but it gets irritating that everything keeps going up by hugh percentages, and I keep having the same amount of income. I though about just cancelling the cable, but sometimes we do want to watch TV, and without cable we only get one TV station here.

  
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MRDPOLING 5/17/2011 10:13PM

    My brother-in-law (a computer guru) hooked me up a few months back with free spyware and virus programs. If you are interested, get in touch with me either on SP or via email (mrdpoling@yahoo.com) and I will get that info to you.

Oh and he as an amazing new book out that he wrong on the very basics on computer cleaning and protection. If you are interested in that I can hook you up as well.



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MS.ELENI 5/16/2011 10:38AM

    I have been so lucky that I am afraid to even say anything. I had Norton for years and never had a problem.When I got this new comper they talked me into putting a free one on that they said was better than Norton and McAfee. It seems to be working fine.I have McAfee on my little laptop.

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THINRONNA 5/15/2011 2:33PM

    Thank you for this blog...I am going to show it to my husband and maybe we will switch too. We have had some virus problems in the past year.

We don't actually watch TV...we don't own one BUT we do still watch TV when we want to by downloading or streaming shows from the internet on our computer. I like it because I watch when I want to and what I want to with no commercials. Just a thought for you...plus you could get more shows than me since you are in the US.

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Bountiful Peach Crop

Saturday, May 14, 2011

I intended to take the day off and just fool around, but the BW wanted me to put up the twine for her climbing plant because I was taller. I didn't change my clothes because it was just a little job, but being taller wasn't enough - I had to get out a stepladder to reach the top hooks on the porch frame. Then I had to hunt up some pegs to hold the twine to the ground, and string the twine through everything. I used four pegs, five hooks, and a tent rope know on the end so she (or I) can tighten the twine if it sage too much.

Then she wanted to plant the flower, so I got the wheelbarrow and a round shovel from the shed, and brought the fertilized peat moss with them. After the plant was in, we spread three bags of pine bark nuggets and washed off the pavers in front.

After I washed an put away the shovel and wheelbarrow, and was headed for the house the BW mentioned the peaches again, so I picked peaches. We had 16 on the ground, which I picked up and threw away afterward, and I picked another 42 peaches today. There were two that dropped on the ground just because I touched the tree and I collected them. After I was all done an had all the drops in a bag another one fell just because I touched the tree. I thought I had tried them all, but obviously I missed that one.

All together we have collected about 100 peaches from a tiny little tree, and most of the crop is still hanging there. We finished peeling and cutting up the first pick last night, and I guess I'll be checking the tree every day now until they're all gone.

Unfortunately we only have one showing avocado on the avocado tree. There were a lot, then only 10, and now only one. I have no idea what is eating them, but I'm going to use sevin on all the fruit trees next year. They disappeared while they were very small.

The neem oil seems to do enough for the citrus crops, but not for other stuff. We do have dozens of limes getting big all at once, which makes me wonder about the "everbearing" designation. That is supposed to mean a long season, but they're all getting big together as far as I can see.

It was cloudy, and it's raining now, but I was our nearly two hours and the house was like a cold shower (at 79 degrees) when we came in. I scalded and peeled four peaches for my lunch, and NOW I'm goofing off.

  
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ALEXTHEHUNN 5/14/2011 4:51PM

    You do a lot even when you goof off.

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MS.ELENI 5/14/2011 3:55PM

    I am glad you are finally goofing off.
Your fruit trees do so good. I would love to have a red grapefuit and honeybell trees

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THINRONNA 5/14/2011 3:30PM

    Well at least you are resting. emoticon Your peaches sound wonderful though and it may be my son who is eating all those avocados...he is two and can eat several in one sitting!

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Bad Day at Palm Harbor

Friday, May 13, 2011

Today I walked to dogs to start things off - and the sun was just up when we got back. Later I took Jack to lunch, and after lunch I spent the rest of the day (until seven) planting ten sweet viburnum. I first moved four St. Augustine plugs to the back yard. In the morning, before I picked up Jack, I measured and marked where the ten plants would go, and figured out what to do with the new grass plugs that I had just got well started.

To handle the excess sand I did the planting serially - that is, I dug one hole at a time, mixed fertilized peat moss with some sand, soaked the hole with water and waited for it to soak in (just a couple of minutes) got the plant out of the plastic pot and placed it, and then filled the hole around the plant and soaked the new dirt to settle the fill.

By the time I finished the second one my back was absolutely killing me and I though about just doing a couple a day. Of course, the four plugs I moved were about as much trouble as the viburnums, so maybe I could have done five or six tomorrow, and finished up Sunday. All of that was immaterial as I just kept going until I finally finished. The last two plants were in the middle of the television cables - two unbroken for the next to last plant, and three unbroken for the last plant, along with two that were cut off. It is hard to get the plant in, but there is an incentive to do it right because one of those cables is our television, internet, and telephone connection to the outside world.

I did get them in without cutting any cables. Unfortunately it took me four hours to get everything done, and even though I didn't feel hot, my shirt and pants were soaked, and I was shot. The pain in my back blanked out any other discomfort.

I did manage to have a shower and put on clean clothes, but we didn't have supper until 7:30 today, and I still am not completely pain free. A half hour in the recliner helped a lot, though.

  
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THINRONNA 5/14/2011 3:26PM

    I hope you are feeling better...that worries me...your back pain. Take care not to over do it again anytime soon!

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MS.ELENI 5/14/2011 11:49AM

    You are so amazing. Men half your age couldn't do all you do. Hope you take some time to rest this weekend

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ALEXTHEHUNN 5/13/2011 11:49PM

    Pace yourself!

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S3XYDIVASMOM 5/13/2011 9:37PM

    You simply must learn to be a slacker. I could give you lessons.

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A Little More Gardening

Thursday, May 12, 2011

Today we went to Home Depot and got 10 viburnum in three gallon pots, and one mandevillea. The viburnum are to put a hedge along the east fence in front, just like the one along the west fence. The BW went crazy for bamboos one year, and we had clumping bamboo various places - including a bunch of "six foot" varieties along the east fence. She got to pruning and trimming, and eventually I had to dig them all out. The viburnum on the west were OK, so maybe these will make her happy.

One morning I saw a new house yard that had been sodded, and there were tiny little bamboos planted every foot along the sidewalk. My observation was that the "six foot" bamboos grew to be 15 feet tall, and I suspect that the owner will be pruning the bamboo frequently, or the county zoning board will be telling him to cut it back.

We also got just one mandevillea in a three gallon pot. It will climb and spread to make a screen as well as put out a lot of large fragrant blossoms. There are plenty of hooks at the top of the porch, so she can tie the twine up to make something climbable, but I only have one tent peg so we will have to buy more.

I don't plan to plant all of this at one time - some tomorrow, some Saturday - maybe even some Sunday. It's a lot of work if you want to make sure the stuff will grow.

  
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ALEXTHEHUNN 5/12/2011 11:57PM

    I love bamboo, but I learned my lesson about planting it.

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MRDPOLING 5/12/2011 8:37PM

    I been in the garden a lot too and I am just loving it!!!!

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MS.ELENI 5/12/2011 4:27PM

    There is a big clumping batch of bamboo in neighbors yard in corner next to our fence. It is huge and the birds love it.It has gotten too big as they never do anything to their yard. The house is up for sale so we will see what new people do. I hope they keep it but maybe just cut it back instead of down. I like it because of birds but Bill hates the leaves blowing off it.
Bill has bought mandevilla several tmes trying to get it to go up a trellis he put out front. They all die on him. You make me want to go check out Home Depot to see what is new. But I better not. I still have two crotons that need to either go in ground or larger pots. I am very pleased with the yellow hibiscus we got there.The blooms are huge and the bright yellow stands out.

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REXTINE1 5/12/2011 4:09PM

    There are many varieties of two kinds of bamboo - clumping bamboo, which stays in one spot but the spot gets bigger with time. Then there is the spreading stuff, where the roots sun many feet under the ground and come up everywhere. You should be very careful to never ever buy the spreading kind, because it's almost impossible to ever get rid of it if you change your mind. We had just two varieties of clumping bamboo, but one was the timber bamboo that can grow 70 feet or more tall. That had to go first.

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RICCILYNN 5/12/2011 3:38PM

    sounds lovely! my folks had an issue with bamboo when I was young - that lousy stuff wouldn't go away no matter how much my parents dug at it! Such a pain!

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