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Friday, February 26, 2010

DId i get a rude awaking by trusting one of my daughter she did all my banking and all financial matters she did so bad that i was homeless for awhile i felt so much pain sleepless nights it was not even the money or the house that we lost but its the betrayal i trusted my daughter with my life it was a eye opener for me.How do you stop loving your children when they hurt you. you stay awake all night trying to comprehend it i still wait for the phone to ring.

  
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HUGGERS1 3/10/2010 10:08PM

    I cannot understand your situation completely as I do not have children. However, I have been helping my mom financially to find out that she has not been using her money wisely and has even treated us horribly and talked bad about me to her friends because I try to explain that she needs to pay her bills and not throw the money away. I love my mom very much but right now Satan has invaded her life and is making her ignorant to the hurt she is causing. I believe that this is happening to your daughter as well. Satan tempted her and she gave in to the temptation and now it is so difficult all around. Satan is the deceiver and breaker of families and it is only through time and prayer that we can overcome this deception. You will always love your daughter and it is because of this love that it hurts so much. If it was a stranger, you would be angry but the hurt wouldn't be as strong. I am praying for you and sending you virtual hugs knowing that even through this trial in your life God will provide you strength to overcome.

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Amber

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FLAMINGOLESLIE 3/9/2010 9:57PM

    emoticonIt hurts when one of our loved ones betray us (especially our children) but you never quit loving them! The Lord teaches forgiveness-just look how many times He has forgiven us. What if He hadn't? Praying for you-I know it hurts. My youngest son betrayed me many times ,but when he died by suicide the first line in his note was that I was the greatest woman there was. I never quit loving him and I will continue to love him until the day that I die even though he did what he did. It left me in great pain forever, but I can't imagine the pain that he must have been in. I guess sometimes people mess up so bad that they honestly think that nobody loves them anymore and that they would be better off dead because there is no way out. I will be praying for you and your situation! God bless!-Leslie emoticon

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ADHARVEY 3/9/2010 7:20PM

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MARTY19 3/9/2010 7:21AM

    When we love our family, any betrayal breakes our hearts. I can't honestly say what I would do. I would hope I could build a bridge and get over it but I'm not sure. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this time.

Marty

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GRAYGRANNY 3/9/2010 7:13AM

    Sweetie, so sorry for what you have gone through..........and we can be disappointed in what our children do but we love them unconditionally just as our Father in Heaven does. Best wishes going out to you to regain a normal life
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PIGGYS1 3/9/2010 6:51AM

  you are in my prayers

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TINAXX1 3/9/2010 5:22AM

    oh honey really am sorry. we r all with u, ur in my tohoughts

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CHUNKSTER63 3/9/2010 5:14AM

    I am sorry to hear what you are going through but know that I am thinking of you and praying for you may God Bless.


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CRUZINCARIL 3/9/2010 1:17AM

    this is a hard thing to happen to you. i wouldnt know how to handle it either..just trust your instincts and do what u think is right..we are all behind you..good luck

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SUPREME5 3/9/2010 12:19AM

    IT IS SO SAD TO THINK A DAUTER WOULD DO THAT TO HER MOTHER
AND YOU NEVER QUIT LOVING A CHILD BUT I DO HOPE YOU CAN DO SOMETHING SO IT WOULNT HAPPEN AGAIN
DORENE

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CAROLFAITHWALKR 3/8/2010 1:18AM

    Retalee I am so sorry for the betrayal by your daughter and loosing your house. At least you have the other daughter, is she still helping you? So sorry I know this must make your heart ache and I wish we were close I would give you a hug. I hope you press charges against the embezzling daughter (if that's possible and you can do that, legally).
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SUNNYDJ1971 2/26/2010 10:00PM

    WOW! I am so sorry for your hurt. I am not even sure what to say. May God keep you close and watch out for you! You will be in my prayers.

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MOMMA_BEAR_69 2/26/2010 9:13PM

    You remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Blessings and hugs,
Helen

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RENEW STRENGTH

Wednesday, February 03, 2010

Boy have i been struggling but give thanks for one of my daughter who refuse to let me give up ,She plan meals set up excerise programs give encouragementcheck up on me. Ihave been going through a lot lately about to loose my house of 11years no fault of my own but very trusting of others and is now left in the cold back to appartment againafter years living in a house its sad but i have to do my best not to think too much about it but to me it seem i'm going backwards and have not achive nothing (ALL BECAUSE I TRUST TO MUCH.) emoticon

  
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CRUZINCARIL 3/9/2010 1:19AM

    i feel for you in your situation..im sure better days are ahead for you..try to hold on and keep your head up..good people are rewarded..

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SUPREME5 2/4/2010 1:10PM

    emoticon you can do anything you set your mind to do good for your daughter she is proving without knowing how much she loves you good luck on the appartment who knows you may get a house yet emoticon
dorene

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LOVINMY30S 2/4/2010 12:43PM

    Momma it will be ok. When one door closes another opens. In this case your literal door has closed but the psychological and spiritual doors it will open for you will be better.

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encouragement

Thursday, January 07, 2010

I want yo thank all of my sp friends who respond to my last blog THANKS FOR ALL YOUR ENCORAGEMENT. I have start trying again. emoticon

  
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SUPREME5 1/7/2010 10:04PM

    SO GLAD YOU CHOSE NOPT TO BE BEATON I KNOW YOU CAN DO THIS
YOU MAY CALL ON ME ANYTIME
DORENE

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HUGGERS1 1/7/2010 10:59AM

    I am so glad you are starting again. I have decided this year is a year of renewal for me as I have let so many things get me down and put myself last instead first. I hope that you will lean on me and don't be afraid to let us know when you struggle. We are in this together.

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Amber

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DISCOURAGE

Sunday, November 29, 2009

I have not blog for a while but although i don't blog i know my spark friends are there for me that's comfort so much have happen to me since i have not blog fallen of the waggon gain back three pounds feel like a looser asking my self how can others do it why can't i.NOW im back to sleepless nights and blames like maybe i'm just greedy and have no self control.I have try starting over again this week pray for me. emoticon

  
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LOVINMY30S 11/30/2009 12:46PM

    Don't worry about falling off t he wagon Retalee. Just get bavk on one step at a time. First try getting all your water in for 1 week. Next move to calories and then add in exercise. Remember it is a process and blame and shame will get you nowhere. Go for it girl, I'm in your corner and I know you can. Good luck.

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ALEXSGIRL1 11/29/2009 3:38PM

    remember small steps will get you there. look me up i can help i am in your corner. emoticon

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SUPREME5 11/29/2009 12:53PM

    CLIMB BACK ON THE WAGON AND GET AT IT GIRL
ONLY YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR OUTLOOK IF YOU THINK YOUR A LOSER YOU WILL BE ONE IF YOU THINK YOU CAN NOT DO IT YOU WOULN'T SO BUCK UIP TO THE PLATE AND HIT ONE OUT OF THE FARK
THINK YOU CAN DO IT AND YOU WILL SO LETS GO ALREADY
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STORMFAN 11/29/2009 12:44PM

    I bet you have self control but had hit a curb in your travels Always remember that bad times are time limited. so take steps that show progress I am here for you together we can make this happen.

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life time changes.

Friday, August 14, 2009

I found out that dieting does not always work loosing weight is a life time change.with deiting you want to see the pounds go quickly like yesterday but we did not gain the weight in one day we have to be patient and don't give up it's easy to throw in the towel trust me i know so i'm encouraging you also my self DON'TGIVE UP KEEP GOING IT'S BETTER TO BE DOING SOMETHING THAN NOTHING. emoticon

  
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SUPREME5 8/14/2009 11:55PM

    YOU ARE RIGHT ON WITH YOUR STATMENTS
DORENE

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ALEXSGIRL1 8/14/2009 10:09PM

    no dieting only eating healthy for life. emoticon

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CAZMAC 8/14/2009 7:22PM

    That is true, but tricky to remember every day.
Thank you for reminding me.

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