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Number 15. of 55 simple actions that make a huge difference to your life..

Sunday, February 05, 2012

15. Don’t assume your emotions are always trustworthy. How you feel isn’t always a good indicator of how things are. Just because you feel it, that doesn’t make it true. Sometimes that emotion comes from nothing more profound than being tired, hungry, annoyed, or about to get a head-cold. The future won’t change because you feel bad—nor because you feel great. Feelings may be true, but they aren’t the truth.

Non violent communication will help you center and find the real deal in what other people say to us many times.. This is what takes effort not our emotions..


  
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MAVERICK59 2/6/2012 12:00AM

    I really liked this one. Thank you for sharing.

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TIDOFEXPERIENCE 2/5/2012 8:31PM

    Cool post. I'm enjoying reading these things. :)

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_RAMONA 2/5/2012 1:30AM

    "Feelings may be true, but they aren’t the truth."

AMEN!!!

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Pro and con's of Juicing, fasting and cleanses..

Saturday, February 04, 2012

The answer is a resounding no! Juice fasts and cleanses, which involve consuming 1,200 calories or less in just liquids each day, go up and down in popularity, depending on how many celebrities are on them. Joe Cross is the latest- but they are always an unhealthy way to lose weight and often an unpleasant one as well.

Why?

Well, first of all, the body doesn't know if a person just wants to drop a few pounds. Instead, it thinks the owner starving it. The result: Just like any crash diet, the metabolism slows and the body holds on to fat in order to preserve itself. Any weight a person does lose will be mostly water, which they'll quickly regain as soon as start eating real food again. In addition, the body is perfectly able to cleanse itself without a juice fast. It doesn't need one (or the colonics that are often recommended with them) to detox.

And if planning to fast, better stay at home and away from friends, family, coworkers ... basically everyone. An all-liquid diet is far from satisfying. You can expect to be hungry all the time -- and really, really cranky and anyone who tried this diet before they will perhaps describe feeling so ravenous that they couldn't think of anything but food. That inevitably leads to bingeing, and all one has to show for your suffering is several days of torture.

Finally, real health risks are associated with this type of diet.. With all the fiber removed in the juicing process, your body gets a big shot of sugar from the fruit juice and even the vegetable juice. This can cause dangerous blood sugar spikes and crashes in diabetics (including many who are undiagnosed) or those who are insulin-resistant. And if one does this often enough, it could permanently lower metabolism.

Another aspect that had me scratching my head is that teeth suffer from the huge exposure to simple sugars and lack of chewing.. We encourage the elderly to eat up and to eat enough food so not to loss muscle mass or their abilities to chew.. Some of these outrageous diets put people back in the cave man way of thinking.. Juice is also like soda is very acidy on the teeth and the daily recommendation is ½ glass..

Stick to a weight loss plan where you can eat real food and enough of it so you aren't hungry. I recommend that your total daily calories never dip below 10 times your goal weight (e.g., 1,500 calories if your goal weight is 150 pounds). That's the way to lose weight without suffering -- and actually have a plan ready to keep it off. Remember sparkspeople is free advice- life is still choices so make safe ones.. There is no fire to get the weight off- it is a "for" lifestyle change that is needed not quick fixes..

I see alot of stuff on the message boards- try to say things to people and it is like jumping to a sharks tank with the play nicely crap division.. The person I followed on the HCG diet has never come back- sometimes it is tough sitting on ones mouth letting others get their aha moments....

Life is still choices and I guess we will never save everyone no matter how much we reach out to people..

  
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WOLFSPIRITMOM 2/5/2012 11:44AM

    Yes, so true. A glass a day is fine but 1/2 water, 1/2 juice and make sure you eat healthy.

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NUTRON3 2/5/2012 9:23AM

    I couldn't imagine an all liquid diet

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DDOORN 2/4/2012 11:35PM

    No thx...give me my plain old, unadulterated real food, ala what Michael Pollan writes about in Food Rules and other great books!

Don

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SSYEAW 2/4/2012 11:17PM

    Brave of you to try though!!! emoticon

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_RAMONA 2/4/2012 3:55PM

    "I recommend that your total daily calories never dip below 10 times your goal weight."

I'd never heard this before... a niuce general way to ballpark it... thnaks!

...I agree with the rest, too. NOTHING replaces good food and all it entails... fibre, nutrients, chewing. And it is hard keeping one's mouth shut at times, but it really is the only way. Some people around here, when challenged, make sharks look like pussy cats. LOL! There's one young Spark who friended me who is using the 'Sacred Heart Diet' to achieve her miracle. I've left her some links to better information (which she's ignoring), and let it be. She's going to do what she's going to do. I predict she's gone by the end of February.

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NEWBIEBAIT 2/4/2012 3:27PM

    if you go on a "good" juice fast, you're eating fruits and veggies all day with the juice as snacks or drinks to go with the meals. Most juice diets fail at the main picture, which is to get your palate used to vegetables and help with learning how to balance nutrition while also learning to switch to vegetarian. I never juiced, but I did make tons of veggie smoothies that helped me learn to enjoy the taste of vegetables. It helped me switch over to a mainly vegetarian diet and cut out the processed foods. I think people just need to see that juicing, fasting, or cleansing isn't supposed to be for weight loss, but to learn your body and figure out what you really want in those few days, while still being responsible and taking precautions to ensure your body isn't being starved. Celebrities emoticon

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GETMETO50 2/4/2012 1:38PM

    The body has an amazing ability to take care of itself and I never understood the colon cleanses and detoxes and all that...I firmly believe it is the MIND and what you believe that makes you feel that this stuff works and makes you feel great...not the cleanse/detox itself but you can't convince anyone who wants to believe it otherwise. (I tried a detox and cleanse and I went into it skeptically whereas everyone else I knew went into it expecting miracles and they got results and I didn't and I believe it is because they believed it and I never really bought into it...I could be wrong but that is how I see it)

It is really easy to fall into the trap of believing everything you see and hear about but we need to really challenge what we see and believe...I have seen too many documentaries on how most of these people have deceived us and we bought it! People are so desperate to lose weight they will almost believe anything even if it is blatently obvious that it is a scam.

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The hunt for our dollars is hard on us folks.. Read bios before purchasing stuff like DVD's..

Saturday, February 04, 2012

Dear Blog and friends,
I think some people selling DVD's are a little bit naughty.. Lets take Tiffany Rothe, and all those trainers whom are like guru's to alot of people.. People sometimes think if they do these peoples workouts they will end up looking like their idiols..
Tiffany Rothe to my shock has been a natural "all her life"- she doesn't have to do much to look awesome.. Reading her bio in short she hasn't done anything else short of dance and exercise forms from the age of 3..


Get flat, sexy abs with Tiffany Rothe Workouts "5" minute routine- hmm I thought it was nutrition that burnt off abs fat?
No more back fat!Improve your posture and firm your back with this fun and effective routine. Again we can't spot train ladies and gentlemen..
Tighten your triceps and lift your butt with this 6 minute workout- Well honey I have been training many years too- genetics and amount of weight needing lost may make you unpopular when it sinks in lady your DVD doesn't keep its promises..

But that's were we are folks- catchy titles sell.. The honest truth is unpopular and takes more work than they actually mention..

www.tiffanyrotheworkouts.com/contact
/bio.html
5 minute workouts are a drop in the bucket to keep a women like her in her fine shape.. She forgot to write she does kick boxing, yoga and a whole lot of other forms of exercise to keep in shape..

Remember all the stuff she does for money you can find absolutely free on sparkspeople.com and youtube.com from trainers whom help people for free.. Believe it or not not everyone out there is trying to take our purse to the cleaners and times are hard enough without being peer pressured into purchasing crap we don't need..

If you do zumba, don't need to dress up like a bright pink, green and blue neon light to move more.. A simple t-shirt and workout tights will also do the job- the instructor at my gym make huge amounts of cash selling their crap to people, also tasteless selling zumba shoes in the changing rooms. They don't think about peoples feet shapes and the need to get the correct shoes.. Don't forget the workout tops, bras and what about a bag too...

  
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ENDUROVET 2/4/2012 10:39PM

    Good one! You are oh-so-right...

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SIGMA1208 2/4/2012 9:11PM

    So true emoticon

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WOLFSPIRITMOM 2/4/2012 8:12AM

    Yes, they all want to make money.

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PICKIE98 2/4/2012 7:48AM

    There's one born every minute!!! Got "AllDay" tatted on their foreheads!!!

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NWLIFESRC 2/4/2012 7:30AM

    Yep and gets worse every day

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60 day motivation saying challenge Day 10

Saturday, February 04, 2012

  
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SRHALLIN 2/4/2012 4:49AM

    Sooo much truth in this! And it is seen time and time again. Those who are afraid to embrace life are the first to decry the attempts of another to do so.

When someone tries to distract me from being healthy or exercising, it is always at the forefront of my thoughts that the person doing so is A) Unhealthy, and B) Plans to stay that way. So, what value am I really going to put on their opinions about what constitutes a healthy lifestyle? :)

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30 day photo challenge day 24 Some elses loved pet..

Saturday, February 04, 2012


To a COL patient this little bird means the world- having him around makes her relax and feel good..
I can't relate to other people whom dislike working in the resthome industry whom hate pets or expect it is okay to say no to assignments where there are pets- animals can open doors to better communication and a contact with their owner..
I have had a terrible experience owning budgies- this lady explained how to have a better relationship with a simple little bird most people don't think have brains.. I got 2 whom were unwanted the previous owners had them with a young girl whom teased them- their neglect made them hard to keep calm.. I had to give them to another budgie owner whom has a huge cage of 30 or more birds.. I know they will have a good life there.

  
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_RAMONA 2/4/2012 1:47AM

    I used to work in homecare, and I agree with you... pets can be a very real and important factor in person's well-being! I actually liked the animal clients and learned a lot.

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