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Thankful on Thursday!

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Yesterday my dad fell on the oven door - the oven had been heated to 375 to bake a pizza.

He skinned the underside of his forearm from wrist to elbow in a strip about 1" wide.

Why am I thankful? Because he didn't get burned. The damage is bad enough due to the location of the boo-boo; he leans on his arm all the time and the bleeding continues. But I have learned how to bandage this type scrape using "petroleum gauze" and home health-care is coming tomorrow and might give additional insight of what to do.

Also, we have a fantastic local health clinic that will take him on a walk-in basis anytime.

Your prayers are most welcome for the bleeding to stop. He is on plavix and low-dose aspirin due to heart problems.

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WALKINGANNIE 8/13/2010 2:02PM

    So sorry to hear about your Dad Linda and hope that he is on the mend.

He is fortunate to have you around to attend to emergencies like this. It sounds as if you have developed the skills to respond well to his specific needs - as well as providing loving care.

Love to you and yours.

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MARTY19 8/13/2010 9:01AM

    OUCH! I certainly will keep your dad in my prayers. I am also grateful it was not more serious than it is. Maybe they can pad the bandage so he won't be constantly irritating himself.

Hugs,
Marty

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JLWOF1 8/13/2010 7:49AM

    So sorry to hear about your Dad. Hope the bleeding has stopped. Will keep you both in our thoughts and prayers.

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SHEILA2BFITTER 8/13/2010 4:44AM

    Sorry to hear about your Dad hope the bleeding stops soon and that everything is OK.

Sheila

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MSLZZY 8/12/2010 11:55PM

    Give my best to Dad! Those types of wounds are so painful. Being an easy bleeder and not on medication, I can relate to wanting it to stop. I'll be praying for all of you. HUGS!

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BESTSUSIEYET 8/12/2010 10:17PM

    Praying for a speedy recovery with no complication! God Bless You and guide you as you care for your father! It's not an easy season of life!

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GRALLEN 8/12/2010 10:16PM

    Your father has been added to my prayer list.

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SHERRY257 8/12/2010 9:57PM

    I am praying for your Dad and for the Bleeding to stop. Plavix and aspirin are a double sword! emoticon

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SIMPLELIFE4REAL 8/12/2010 9:08PM

    I agree that it was so fortunate that he didn't get burned. That could have been much worse! Aren't walk-in clinics great for things like that?

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COOLMAMA11 8/12/2010 8:46PM

    So sorry to hear about your dad, my 91 yr old mom had a bad fall, and broke her arm(she tripped over her backless slippers) guess where all those slippers went !!! I will include your dad on my prayer list..hope he is feeling better soon!

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LOPEYP 8/12/2010 8:32PM

    Glad that it wasn't too serious. He could have gotten burned. Very scary! I'm sure the visiting nurse will fix him up and have some ideas.
Thinking of you!

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GINILEE4 8/12/2010 8:31PM

    I hope for the best for your dad. I know how hard it is to get bleeding stopped in a person who is taking just aspirin so with the Plavix, hmmmm. Keep a close eye on him and be sure he knows to call you if he needs you. Prayers for your father are ongoing, my friend.

Gini

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ONEKIDSMOM 8/12/2010 7:42PM

    Thoughts and prayers headed your way. We'll take blessings as they come!

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SLENDERELLA61 8/12/2010 7:41PM

    Thankful is a great attitude! So sorry your dad fell; glad he didn't get burned. It is great home health can give you some professional advice so you can confidently provide care. Your dad is so lucky to have you. -Marsha

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Thank you!

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Thank you for the outpouring of love to Ray & Me on our 24th Anniversary yesterday.

Ray will be 89 next month and I pray for many more years to share with him.

... and to think, no one thought it would last a year!

We love each and every one of you!

Love,
Linda & Ray
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SOPHIADARE 8/12/2010 9:15AM

    I started to say I was astonished that anyone was foolish enough to be so negative to someone planning a wedding. Then I remembered some of the prejudice displayed and cruelties I have seen practiced about the tiniest differences and most personal choices and I realized that Pride and Prejudice are still with us, and so are the good hearted people who triumph over them.

Good for you and Ray!

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DAWNWATERWOMAN 8/11/2010 5:58PM

    Happy Anniversary late... better late than never.... I pray for you many many more happy years with your Prince Charming.

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JLWOF1 8/11/2010 8:43AM

    Sorry I'm late, Happy Anniversary! May you have many, many more! Congratulations!

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MSLZZY 8/11/2010 8:32AM

    You made it work and that is what counts! emoticon emoticon

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GRALLEN 8/10/2010 9:49PM

    I'm sorry I'm late. Congratulations!!

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RISSASPIECES 8/10/2010 9:43PM

    You go girl!

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SHEILA2BFITTER 8/10/2010 8:33PM

    Congratulations!!! Jim & I celebrated our 38th this year and people said IT wouldn't last. I hope you have many more.

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SUNNY2DAY2 8/10/2010 7:43PM

    Happy Anniversary ! emoticon

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COOLMAMA11 8/10/2010 6:56PM

    So sorry I missed it, so a belated Happy Anniversary, hubby and I celebrated ours on the 2nd of Aug! Many ,many more years of happiness!

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ANNIEONLI 8/10/2010 6:54PM

    Happy Anniversary!!!! That is awesome!!
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MARTY19 8/10/2010 6:43PM

    It just goes to show that following your heart and not listening to naysayers can lead to alifetime of joy and happiness. You deserve it all.

Love you,
Marty

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WALKINGANNIE 8/10/2010 6:40PM

    Wishing you a very happy, healthy lead-up to your silver wedding next year!

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EMMABE1 8/10/2010 6:40PM

    Opps!! Sorry - I missed that!!
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And may you have many more happy years

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It's a life sentence!

Monday, August 09, 2010

It's a life sentence!
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Today Ray & I are married 24 years!
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I was just kidding about the life sentence emoticon

I pray for many more years with my DH!

  
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AMAS92568 8/10/2010 12:24PM

    Happy Anniversary!

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ASTORRES1 8/10/2010 11:52AM

    WOOOHOOO to the both of you....
emoticonto many more years of wedded bliss....



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SYLVIALYNN2 8/10/2010 11:06AM

    Happy Anniversary and may you have many more wonderful years together!

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SOPHIADARE 8/10/2010 10:16AM

    Happy Anniversary, and may you have many more!

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LOPEYP 8/10/2010 6:49AM

    Happy anniversary!

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MEMORYAMETHYST 8/10/2010 6:25AM

  Isn't it great to have a life time of memories together?

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VEGEFARMER 8/9/2010 11:45PM

    Happy anniversary to you both. :)

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VEGEFARMER 8/9/2010 11:45PM

    Happy anniversary to you both. :)

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MSLZZY 8/9/2010 11:17PM

    Happy anniversary! I'd say you are a very lucky couple! HUGS!

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ALLYALLYT 8/9/2010 11:04PM

    Happy Anniversary! Its a life sentence to be proud of!

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ANDI571 8/9/2010 10:53PM

    Happy Anniversary, with many more to come. emoticon

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ONEKIDSMOM 8/9/2010 10:26PM

    Happy Anniversary! emoticon And many happy returns.

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GRALLEN 8/9/2010 10:18PM

    Congratulations!!!

I know there are days it feels like a life sentence but that's why it's important to place value in good rather then the bad.

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SLENDERELLA61 8/9/2010 10:13PM

    Happy Anniversary, Linda and Ray!!! Very sweet of you to celebrate it with us!! Thanks.

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BARNABABY1 8/9/2010 9:12PM

    CONGRATS!! I'm glad you're so happy together! emoticon emoticon

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SHERRY257 8/9/2010 7:59PM

    Happy Anniversary! emoticon

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DESERTDREAMERS 8/9/2010 7:56PM

    Mucho congratulations! So wonderful to hear of people staying together and happy for a lifetime! emoticon

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LAURLEW 8/9/2010 7:41PM

    Wow! emoticon

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MARTY19 8/9/2010 7:28PM

    emoticon How wonderful. next year is am big party and I want an invite!

Loveya
Marty

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OREOSMILE 8/9/2010 6:10PM

    congrats!

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POLARBEARSCAT 8/9/2010 6:09PM

    Happy Anniversary! A good man IS hard to find! emoticon

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BESTSUSIEYET 8/9/2010 5:29PM

    emoticon Congratulations on your anniversary
emoticon Today's the 1st day of the NEXT 24 years!
Enjoy!!! Some day you'll be 'old married folks' like hubby & me (we will celebrate 40 years in December!!)

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WALKINGANNIE 8/9/2010 5:23PM

    Happy Anniversary to you both.

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    Happy Anniversary! emoticon

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_VALEO_ 8/9/2010 5:08PM

    Happy Anniversary!

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HANNAHEP 8/9/2010 5:07PM

    congratulations! I'm sure it's been a wonderful journey!

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QUIKSYLVER 8/9/2010 5:05PM

    My DH is Ray, too! Although we're only at 12 1/2 years. emoticon

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It was terrible! OMG!!

Friday, August 06, 2010

I was so glad to wake up from this dream I had last night! It is almost too scary to even write about it.
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I dreamed I was eating all day long
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... but I never logged a bite!
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DAWNWATERWOMAN 8/8/2010 7:57PM

    sorry about the bad dream. Glad that it was only a dream though. Love, Dawn

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LOPEYP 8/8/2010 5:59PM

    Good thing it was only a dream! emoticon

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SLENDERELLA61 8/8/2010 8:36AM

    I had to laugh, but then I almost cried! Luckily eating in dreams does not show on the scale. -Marsha

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SOPHIADARE 8/7/2010 9:53AM

    I hate those "I missed the exam" dreams!

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MSLZZY 8/7/2010 8:03AM

    I hate that when I have those kind of dreams but thank goodness, it was only a dream! emoticon

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LAFFLOTS57 8/6/2010 9:28PM

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THAMLEY 8/6/2010 8:49PM

    Good Grief! Definitely a nightmare. Thank God awaking to the reality of our relief-- SP!
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PEGGYSTILLHERE 8/6/2010 8:36PM

    Oh you are too funny! That was a horrible, retched dream, that many of us lived for many years. Thank goodness it's behind us now! emoticon

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ALLYALLYT 8/6/2010 2:27PM

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NANCYMT6151 8/6/2010 1:11PM

    LOL!!! Sounds like a real nightmare! Hope your day goes a lot better! emoticon

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MARTY19 8/6/2010 11:54AM

    I can remember a time when that wasn't a dream - it was a reality. Aren't we glad those days are gone?

Hugs,
Marty

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ASTORRES1 8/6/2010 11:49AM

    Whew....thank goodness you woke up........lol

Love ya Linda...You are awesome


amy

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SHERRY257 8/6/2010 10:59AM

    I am glad you woke up! I sometimes dream I have gained it all back! Are we obsessed or what? LOL emoticon

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JHADZHIA 8/6/2010 10:38AM

    emoticon Good thing dreams don't put on calories!!!
Have a fabulous, fun and fit Friday!!

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PAIGESMAMA 8/6/2010 10:25AM

    That is funny. I hope you are better now know ing it was just a dream

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BIJOUX7 8/6/2010 10:16AM

  NOOOOO!!! That is a nightmare!!!!! That would have had me waking up in a cold sweat!!

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It's too hot to think...

Sunday, August 01, 2010

... and yet, I need to blog.

I have been hugely affected by the heat this past week and my body has been craving pretzels, peanut butter and bread. It led to a temporary 2 lb gain.

Today I decided to up my protein and add a slice of bread to my breakfast - it only cost me 1/2 a fruit - and tonight I have no desire for anything extra.

Like everything else, this too shall pass.

Tomorrow we bring the treadmill back home so I can still get an evening walk daily. I'd rather do 20 minutes on a treadmill than nothing if I can't get my hour walk outdoors.

One day at a time my friends. Soon enough you will be hearing me complain about the cold cold winter again.

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**edit: It seems that the peanut butter was calling for the salt and the protein! I am feeling loads better adding the bread and protein to my meal plan!!
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***edit: This is working so well - I have no doubts I will maintain 116 this time!

  
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PEGGYSTILLHERE 8/5/2010 8:53PM

    You are such an encouragement to us all! I can't wait to be in maintenance! One day at a time though! Thanks for your encouraging words! emoticon emoticon

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JERSEYGIRL24 8/5/2010 9:58AM

    It has been an unbelievably hot summer in NY/NJ. I went to a funeral on April 7, and it was over 90 degrees out! Of course it cooled down after that, but as a whole the summer has been very hot. Our A/C broke to boot. I momentarily thought about trying to live without it for the time being, but we were able to get it repaired at very low cost. As it turns out, it would have been impossible to live like that.

I heard that we were on track to have the hottest July on record, but July 31 was actually a cooler day, and as a result it is only the second hottest July on record. It has been very hard to stay on track with this heat. I like to sneak in a little extra walking, especially when I am walking the dog, but in this weather there is less motivation to do so.

Can only imagine what it is like down south!

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JODILYNNREEVES1 8/5/2010 9:36AM

    All that I can say is WOW!! You know what to do when it comes to eating right and how to over come the heat issue. And yes, I think that we will all be complaining about the cold weather when it returns. I live in KS so it does get rather cold here.

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PATIPATTI 8/4/2010 2:23PM

    This is plan B! Thanks for showing me how to cope with some of the very things that sometimes stop me in my tracks! emoticon

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CATHEITE 8/4/2010 1:52PM

    Congratulations for being so in tune with your body's needs! emoticon

I haven't had any major cravings in a while. Maybe that means my system is balanced.

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MICHELLELEE150 8/3/2010 11:36AM

    I hear you about the heat! Same thing here. Good on you for choosing to work out indoors, regardless of the circumstances.

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WALKINGANNIE 8/3/2010 8:54AM

    Congratulations on your self-awareness. Glad that you're feeling better now.
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SIMPLELIFE4REAL 8/2/2010 5:42PM

    It's been hot here too. I've been swimming a lot because of the heat. Even the water in the lake is warm, but it feels good.

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SOPHIADARE 8/2/2010 11:10AM

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Three cheers for you for your quick response to recognizing your need to deal with the heat and planning a response to it so you can take care of yourself.

You're setting a great example for all of us!

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TRPL7KAT 8/2/2010 9:48AM

    103 here yesterday. Heat index 122. And I've been eating horrible. Thought there might be a connection to the heat. Hope all is well!

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GTRGRL97 8/2/2010 8:58AM

    I can completely relate! Treadmills do come in handy sometimes!
And sometimes I have to arrange my foods because of cravings, too! LOL
Be blessed, be well and take it all one day at a time!

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ASTORRES1 8/2/2010 8:56AM

    WE have a few good days of weather...actually able to open the windows and turn the AC off....wishing you better weather soon.


amy

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MARTY19 8/2/2010 8:32AM

    The humidity has finally passed here. At least for now. I got outside for a 45 min walk. It felt terrific.

Marty

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MSLZZY 8/2/2010 7:16AM

    Let's hope those days are more than a few months away LOL! emoticon

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_VALEO_ 8/2/2010 1:49AM

    We are opposite! When it is summer I can't eat at all, and I have to be careful as I can easily go below the 1,200. My cravings right now are strawberries (no, I am not pregnant! lol), canteloupe, tomatoe, salad from my garden,... and not really ice cream this year (that's a real change and improvement for me!)

When it is winter, that's another story! I crave for fondue, raclette... all kind of heavy dishes made with cheese! And of course I crave for chocolate around Christmas.

Each season brings its temptation. Be strong and keep your usual good mood and your sense of humor!

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EMMABE1 8/1/2010 8:52PM

    As Dawn says - interesting - pretzels are salty - and you need more salt in the heat!!
Peanut butter often has salt too - and the extra protein tends to be filling for longer.
I hope that the weather returns to normal as soon as possible and that we don't get the excessive heat you seem to be getting when our summer comes around!!

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GRALLEN 8/1/2010 8:47PM

    You are so right, one day at a time.

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DAWNWATERWOMAN 8/1/2010 8:44PM

    Interesting blog. The two things that I had my "mini-binge" on were related to my body's reaction to the excessive heat. I'm glad to know that I am not the only one. Keep on sparking my friend. You're doing GREAT! Love ya, Dawn

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