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Just Don't Quit!

Thursday, January 08, 2009

A poem I read on Spark People, it inspired me!

I found this on MEGANFAMILY6's SparkPage! I just had to blog it for others to read! It is truly fantastic!!

When you've eaten too much and you can't write it down,
And you feel like the biggest failure in town.
When you want to give up just because you gave in,
And forget all about being healthy and thin.
So what! You went over your points a bit,
It's your next move that counts...So don't you quit!
It's a moment of truth, it's an attitude change.
It's learning the skills to get back in your range.
It's telling yourself, "You've done great up till now.
You can take on this challenge and beat it somehow."
It's part of your journey toward reaching your goal.
You're still gonna make it, just stay in control.
To stumble and fall is not a disgrace,
If you summon the will to get back in the race.
But, often the struggler's, when loosing their grip,
Just throw in the towel and continue to slip.
And learn too late when the damage is done,
That the race wasn't over...they still could have won.
Lifestyle change can be awkward and slow,
But facing each challenge will help you grow.
Success is failure turned inside out,
The silver tint in a cloud of doubt.
When you're pushing to the brink, just refuse to submit,
If you bite it, you write it...But DON'T YOU QUIT!
-Author Unknown

  
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LIVNFITNHAPPY 1/8/2009 3:17PM

    Thanks so much for sharing!!!

Truth and Humor always help keep me on track! When we can laugh at ourselves a little it gives us room to make the choices we truly want instead of just remaining stuck in the habits we've had.

emoticon Janet

P.S. - Not sure where to post our daily stats for Buddy Team #3

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LIFES*2*SHORT 1/8/2009 12:52PM

  We need constant reminders. Giving up is NOT an option!

N

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MARTY19 1/8/2009 12:04PM

    I have something similar at my house on a poster. Every time I think "phooey" I look at this and get back up again. The winers in life are the people who simply refused to give up. And I am going to be victorious in this war on fat.

Marty

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CRTSANG 1/8/2009 9:44AM

    I like it. It's like a proverb I've been told is Japanese, though I haven't run across it myself: "Fall down seven times, get up eight."

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ANGELME28613 1/8/2009 9:07AM

    I can see why you liked it! It's Great! Thanks So Much For Sharing This:)

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Pammy

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140.9!!

Wednesday, January 07, 2009

140.9!

Can I say it again?

140.9!

Wow, this feels so good! I have waited so long to see this!

140.9!

Officially down 70 lbs today if only by .1 lb!!

140.9!

Bring on 139!!

Love,
Linda

**I know, I know, I need a picture. Maybe later in the week. I bought 3 pair of Spandex/Twill pants on the clearance rack for $3 - are you ready? Size 4-6!! Very very tight but they are on and I can sit!!
This is the "NEW" size 4-6 which I believe equates to the older size 10-12? But since it is all new to me who never stayed in the older size 12 I am ecstatic! I was never a 10 and now I am officially there!

This is as low as I will be going in the sizes but I need to shave off a few edges. The last 10 lbs or so and then on to the toning!
My calves are still too big emoticon

  
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SUPREME5 1/8/2009 1:21PM

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DINA:-) 1/8/2009 12:28AM

    size 4-6! holy cow! great job, linda! you are such an inspiration!

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JENIFIREHARP 1/7/2009 11:06PM

    What?!?

Can you shout that again?

140.9

Got it!

I am so very proud of you!!!
You finally got your 70 pounds lost logo!!!

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CRTSANG 1/7/2009 3:48PM

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What an amazing weight loss, and wow--size 4-6! Please, please, lets have some pics.



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WALKING_GIRL 1/7/2009 12:48PM

    Linda that is fantastic!!!!! You are my hero! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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LBSTRINGER 1/7/2009 11:00AM

  Hey Aunt L.
Congratulations! I have been away from my computer during the holidays and am just trying to get cranked up again. (I got the package you sent me the next day, "Thanks a bunch.") I appreciate all the help you have been to me. Now it is up to me to try and do as well as you have. BYW, Daddy said you really looked good, like a different person. Keep up the good work.
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LIVNFITNHAPPY 1/7/2009 10:29AM

    emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticonI bet you feel lighter than AIR!!! What A TRIUMPH! Doesn't it just make you want to dance and sing! Love & Hugs, Janet

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MARTY19 1/7/2009 10:25AM

    emoticon How awesome. I am so proud of you. You are really rocking.
Hugs,
Marty

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LIFES*2*SHORT 1/7/2009 9:34AM

  Way to go! I can't imagine EVER seeing that number! You rock!

N

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_VALEO_ 1/7/2009 8:41AM

    Congratulations! emoticon
You are out of 140-ville! Welcome to 130-ville!

It's good to reward yourself -especially with a size 4-6!

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TABBYKAT75 1/7/2009 8:40AM

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Thank you for your support!

Monday, January 05, 2009

I have a bad shoulder and the Jumping Jacks brought back the pain. I didn't want anyone worried about me needlessly. But I am finally able to move the arm so much more freely and just cannot see chancing injury.

I had wondered if I could do Jumping Jacks - now I know. Who would have thought the jumping would be ok but not the arm movements?!

Add to that all the confusion of which steps and when and I just got overwhelmed. Then I took a peek at today's video and I have enough trouble on both legs, really afraid of injuring my knee if I do the exercise on one leg. I can barely complete the set as it is and I do the Wall Squats with Ball.

I do feel like a coward and a sissy but I cannot afford to get hurt - I have 2 old men counting on me to be their aides, my dad and DH. 85 and 87 respectively.

But I am going to peek at and try every video. I am in the last leg of my journey and need to get the weight moving again. I am stuck in 142-ville.

The good news is how many people tell me "you are there" when I tell them I am getting closer to my goal. It feels good but I still have a mirror and I know how to use it.
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Thank you Walking_Girl! I welcome the company!!
I did the Walk Slim Fast Start 3 Fast Miles last night!!

Hugs,
Linda

  
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_VALEO_ 1/7/2009 8:32AM

    Don't forget to stretch before and after to avoid injuries. Coach Nicole always mentions that if you're not confortable with one exercice, you can go back to the marching stance!

I had to modify the jumping jack as I can't really do it as much as I would -not because of my health condition, but because of my neighbours living under me! emoticon

Congrats for the Walk Slim Fast Start 3 Fast Miles!

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KAREN42BOYS 1/5/2009 11:10PM

    linda,
you are being responsible for your body, not a sissy. that sense of responsibility has gotten you this far and it's quite reasonable to trust your own knowledge of your body. :)

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KAREN42BOYS 1/5/2009 11:10PM

    linda,
you are being responsible for your body, not a sissy. that sense of responsibility has gotten you this far and it's quite reasonable to trust your own knowledge of your body. :)

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CRTSANG 1/5/2009 7:19PM

    I don't think I need to tell you that nothing is worth injuring yourself. Just do what you can and that should work. The boot camp doesn't depend on doing everything exactly and perfectly. Modify, modify, modify. For the jumping jacks, if the jumping doesn't bother you, why not just do them without the arm movements? That would get you a lot of the benefit without the pain.

You go!



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SUPREME5 1/5/2009 4:13PM

    I RELATE GIRL AND JUST DO ONES I CAN AND FIND OTHERS CLOSE TO IT GOOD WORK TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF NO ONE ELSE CAN DO THAT FOR YOU
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WALKING_GIRL 1/5/2009 12:49PM

    Way to go!!!! I can't wait till I can do 3 miles with Leslie like you. I am only at the 1 miles but I will get there! :-)

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HUGGERS1 1/5/2009 12:23PM

    The second video was very hard for me as well. The first one, i modified the jumping jacks so i didn't lift my shoulders as high as i have tendonitis in my left one.

I could barely squat down on the one leg but i tried it.

I am so proud of how far you have come and I know that you are so motivated that you will overcome this slight pause at 142ville. Don't stress it. You are healthier than you have been in a long time and it is important to know what we can do. I love that you are trying each video and doing what you can do. It is so motivating to know that it is the fact that we are not giving up that makes us move forward.

I hope your day is blessed as you take care of your dad and DH.

sending you big hugs
Amber

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LIFES*2*SHORT 1/5/2009 9:51AM

  You know your body better than anybody else. You know when you can push through something... and you know when that pushing it will lead to injury. Most people would give up all together... but you keep trying. I am glad you know your limitations... without throwing in the towel completely... a definite sign of an up and coming success story!

N

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MARTY19 1/5/2009 8:13AM

    Linda,
It is great that you will still be in the cheering section. Have you tried the Leslie Sansone walking tapes. I have the walk away your waist complete with belt and I love it.
Take care of yourself! And you do look great but I know what you are saying about the mirror.

Marty

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I want to be happy, not stressed, too!

Sunday, January 04, 2009

I was just reading a friend's blog and advising her that I would rather she be happy than stressed.

My problem is I tried the first Video in the Official SP Boot Camp and I hurt myself. But like the little camper I am I was willing to give it another go.

Well, after telling another sparker that I wanted her to be happy and not stressed I think maybe I need to take my own advice. So I am going to be the unofficial cheering squad for all you members competing in the Official SP Boot Camp this month!

Rah emoticon Rah emoticon Rah emoticon

Now I am going to hobble off and do another WATP video! emoticon

  
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_VALEO_ 1/5/2009 7:31AM

    We definitively need cheerleaders for the bootcamp! Bring it on!


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PS: I hope it's a minor injury! We might also need Medic people!

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WALKING_GIRL 1/4/2009 11:57PM

    I will be a cheerleader with you! I am very happy just sticking with my walking and Leslie! I haven't been doing them like I should and it shows but this year will be different and you will see me shrinking soon.. :-)

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JENIFIREHARP 1/4/2009 9:59PM

    You are not allowed to injure yourself Linda! I want to complete boot camp with you by my side!

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SUPREME5 1/4/2009 9:18PM

    THANK YOU FOR BIEING OUR CHEER LEADER. I DONT KNOW HOW LONG ILL BE IN BUT GONNA GIVE IT ALL I GOT . IF I START TO WHINE KICK MY BUTT.
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LIFES*2*SHORT 1/4/2009 8:17PM

  yep... I want to see a picture of you in a cheerleader outfit too. lol Thanks for cheering us on!

N

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RODEOMOMSK 1/4/2009 7:17PM

    My son's girlfriend is a cheerleader.
You and her get together! emoticon

Take care and have fun cheering.

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MARTY19 1/4/2009 6:13PM

    YAY! A cheerleader in our mist. All right. Just don't let me whine alot or often. Kick my butt.
I'm so sorry you hurt yourself. Please take care. And dust off those pom-poms.

Hugs,
Marty

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TABBYKAT75 1/4/2009 6:09PM

    I am doing the bootcamp It will be great having a cheering section. Sorry to hear you hurt yourself though , hope you will in top shape again soon
Tab

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GIVENTHANKS 1/4/2009 6:09PM

    I had to modify the Bootcamp workout today or I would have hurt myself also. At this point (until I get in better shape) my body just won't do those kickboxing moves. emoticon
I hope that you recover quickly!
Pat

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This is who I am.

Saturday, January 03, 2009

This is who I am!

I blew up in the 4th grade at age 10 when my mother had to go back to work. But it wasn't her fault although everybody told her it was. It was my dad and sisters fault because all they cooked was spaghetti and garlic bread and I just couldn't keep up with all that starch. I had been very active but it just was never enough.

I don't blame anyone, I just feel badly that my mother carried the guilt for almost 20 years before I found out.

We were very close for all of my life and I was sorry to lose her 5 years ago but I have few regrets as we did spend a lot of time together before her passing. Before she was diagnosed with Diabetes (which I never did believe she had) we used to enjoy each other and would get ice cream sundaes now and again. We still had fun after that but quit the ice cream when we would go out together. I think we always felt we had lost something. Mama's passion was ice cream and it just became the thing to do when she needed a break from reality.

I wish I had found SparkPeople when she was still alive as we could have "sparked" together.

  
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LIVNFITNHAPPY 1/7/2009 10:50AM

    Linda, What a lovely sharing!

It has been my experience that as we release the weight, the emotions and experiences that were present when we put it on rise to the surface waiting to be released too. This time we are not stuffing them back down with food.

I have had struggles with weight all my life and thought that I finally had control over it until Oct. 2003 when my Mother passed. It had been an extremely challenging year with health issues of my own, forced retirement from my career of 30yrs., and beloved animals passing. Since I was out of work at the time, I spent every day with Mom. We played cards together and I took her to her doctor appointments. When she passed I comforted myself
with food again.

It has taken me all these years to work my way back. My Mom was a cheerleader for me all her life and I feel her presence daily. I know that your Mom is cheering for you too!!! She is your angel Spark Buddy!!!

Her guilt is gone and now yours is flying away too!

emoticon Janet

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_VALEO_ 1/3/2009 7:11PM

    You've made significant changes in your life and for that you must be proud. And I'm sure your mother was proud of you, and would have been proud of your weight lost.
Guilt is a burden we have to lost too. Glad you found time to communicate with her and ease her mind -over an ice cream ;)

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DINA:-) 1/3/2009 6:23PM

    your mom would be so proud of you, linda! you have worked so hard to become healthy.

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LIFES*2*SHORT 1/3/2009 12:27PM

  Aw... it's nice to have that bond, isn't it? I wish you would have had SP then too! Hang in there.

N

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SUPREME5 1/3/2009 12:20PM

    MY MOTHER PASSED AWAY WHEN I WAS 19 OVER 20 YEARS AGO BUT SOMEDAYS IT SEEMS LIKE YEATERDAY I REMEMBER HER WITH FOND THOUGHTS SHE WAS MY BEST FRIEND
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MARTY19 1/3/2009 9:57AM

    You have a point. You can't really blame anyone for the weight. Back then starch was cheap and filling so all families used it. Mine as well.
My mom died when I was 17 - never really had a chance to know her. I was my dad that I grew so close to. I still miss him.

Marty

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