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BLC 19 GoalsSunday, April 29, 2012
Here is a list of my goals for the next 12 weeks. ![]()
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JECKIE
5/1/2012 12:18PM
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You have been such an amazing example over the past 3+ months. I'm so excited to see what you do for the next 12 weeks! Report Inappropriate Comment |


MNGIRLIE
4/30/2012 7:04AM
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Those are some great goals! You'll do great!
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AKASHELLY
4/29/2012 11:47PM
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You can and you will do all those things :o) Report Inappropriate Comment |


SUNSHINEY22
4/29/2012 11:40PM
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Sounds like a pretty solid plan! Someday, Ill have a phone that I can actually use the SP app on. :) Would make tracking sooo much easier! Where is the Steamboat Classic? Report Inappropriate Comment |


WELCOME TO HOLLAND
by
Emily Perl Kingsley.
c1987 by Emily Perl Kingsley. All rights reserved
I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this......
When you're going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.
After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."
"Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."
But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.
The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.
So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.
It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around.... and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills....and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.
But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."
And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away... because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss.
But... if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland.


JBENTLEY98
9/19/2011 7:47PM
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Every time I read this I can't help but tearing up a little. It is so accurate. Thank you for sharing here.
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BARKLESSWAGMORE
9/19/2011 5:58PM
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This is one of the best blogs I've ever read and so clearly explains the unexplainable! I wish for you and your family many, many wonderful times in Holland!! Report Inappropriate Comment |


JMCADE
9/19/2011 1:11PM
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How true is this story, and not just for living with a child with a disability. Everyone's life is different. Some just more so than others. Thanks for this post. It made me think about life's challenges. Report Inappropriate Comment |


DEBSZOO74
9/18/2011 8:25PM
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THETURTLEBEAR
9/18/2011 5:32PM
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What a beautiful blog! It explains so much, that might otherwise be missed by someone who had not walked in your shoes. Report Inappropriate Comment |

