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Who am I?

Friday, January 15, 2010



I am your constant companion. I
am your greatest asset or heaviest
burden. I will push you up to success
or down to disappointment. I am at
your command. Half the things you
do might just as well be turned over
to me, for I can do them quickly,
correctly, and profitably. I am easily
managed; just be firm with me.
Those who are great, I have made
great. Those who are failures, I have
made failures. I am not a machine,
though I work with the precision of
a machine and the intelligence of a
person. You can run me for profit,
or you can run me for ruin.
Show me how you want it done.
Educate me. Train me. Lead me.
Reward me. And I will then do it
automatically. I am your servant.
Who am I? I am a habit

Aristotle said “Excellence is not an act…it’s
a habit.” If you make good habits, good
habits will make you. This wisdom
has been around since ancient
times...Try creating a good habit-you will be amazed at the results!



(This blog was an excerpt from the book "The Essence of Leadership")

  
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ALEXSGIRL1 1/17/2010 6:14PM

    really good blog. emoticon

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PISTL67 1/17/2010 4:38PM

    emoticon thoughts=attitudes=habits..thoughts take us where we go.

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ANEPANALIPTI 1/16/2010 10:05AM

    Thank you for sharing this!!

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SKAYT77 1/16/2010 8:08AM

    Great blog, thanks for sharing. Something that we should keep handy to review often!

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BRAVE_NEW_ME 1/15/2010 10:12PM

    Great blog! Thanks for sharing!

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MYTURN11 1/15/2010 8:02PM

    I loved this blog. I am going to format it, print it out on the large format HP plotter at work and place in my workout room with smaller copy on my fridge. emoticon

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RUN2BEFREE 1/15/2010 7:48PM

    Wonderful blog - and great reminder to kick my rear into gear!

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AMALIA8 1/15/2010 4:22PM

    That's wonderful. :) Thanks for sharing it.

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PRINCESSNURSE 1/15/2010 3:44PM

    I am glad everyone enjoyed this. I found it of all places in my employee news letter at work. I thought that it was very relevent to Sparkpeople. I plan to re-read it frequently to help keep myself on track.

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VXWALL1942 1/15/2010 10:47AM

    Thanks for the reminder! I've focused too long on my "bad" habits, forgetting that good habits are simply a daily affirmation of the positive I wish to achieve. I like this excerpt especially well.

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TRICIA1685 1/15/2010 10:34AM

    Awesome blog. Thanks for bringing it to our attention :-)

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LOOKFORWARD2IT 1/15/2010 10:23AM

    Excellent blog! Thank you!

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I_AM_ENOUGH 1/15/2010 9:44AM

    Wow! It's a real eye opener. Habits can truly change your life.

Thanks for sharing.

~Brandi

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SPOTLIGHTANGEL 1/15/2010 9:41AM

    Love it! thanks for sharing!

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KATJAMN 1/15/2010 9:30AM

    This is AWESOME!! Thank you!

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SPARKLINGDAWN 1/15/2010 8:43AM

    Woaw - thanks. I will keep these words in mind.

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BABE741 1/15/2010 8:07AM

  This is so encouraging--you are good at this!!!!

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SWOMIC 1/15/2010 7:56AM

    Very Inspiring, Thank you!

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Book 3 of 50 books read in 2010: Two Truths and a Lie by Katrina Kittle

Tuesday, January 12, 2010



Two Truths and a Lie has you hooked in the first couple of pages with some amazing insight into Dair...a woman for whom lying has become something of a habit, if not a compulsion. She witnesses a horrific incident which ends up having an effect on her, her husband and their entire circle of friends and family. Secrets and lies abound and leave you hungry to find out more about everyone this tragedy affects.

This was a unique book. I couldn't put it down. Murder, mystery, addiction, reincarnation, acting and animal communication are just some of the many elements involved in this story. In simplest terms, it can be described as a mystery, but it's also so much more.

Set in Cincinnati, Ohio, the book explores our relationships with and how we communicate with other people as well as with animals. In fact, animals play a huge role in helping to solve the primary mystery of the story: the murder of one of the best friends of the protagonist, Dair Canard. If Dair could just overcome her addiction to alcohol, all the answers would be clear for her to see. And then there's her addiction to lying, which is getting her into deeper trouble. As Dair fights to overcome her addictions, she reconnects with her family and with an ability she had long buried. She finds out that one of her biggest lies actually contained a truth that even she was unaware of. I don't want to give too much away, but the reader should know that the author takes us on some pretty wild plot twists, but not too worry. Ms. Kittle skilfully brings in all back to reality in the end.

I am not much of a mystery/thriller fan, but this book was very engaging. It is worth reading and would make a great book for a plane ride or beach reading. Plus, it is available at amazon.com for only $ 5.75, so it is a bargain as well!

  
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MSPLACEDAGAIN 1/20/2010 12:53PM

    Ok. You have interested me. I will try this. I don't keep very good track of what I read. My mom and sister like to count their books read, sounds like you do too!

Eden

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KUANGIE 1/15/2010 8:14AM

    Sounds like another good one. I'll have to add it to my list!

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PRINCESSNURSE 1/13/2010 4:38AM

    I love to read so I am always browsing in book stores, reading book reviews in the Sunday paper and magazines and surfing amazon.com or Weread on facebook for new books to read. I have no particuliar agenda for the books I will read for my 50 book challenge this year. Most likely it will be whatever book I run into that strikes my fancy! This particuliar book I found because I had already read another book by the same author and enjoyed it

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NOMORELIMITS 1/12/2010 9:52PM

    Girl, you read so fast! Where do you find the time!
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DANCINGPENGUIN 1/12/2010 6:12PM

    Oh, I am SO going to keep checking here for your book reviews this year! Just enough info to get me hooked!
P.S. I just finished Year of Wonders yesterday. It's a novel about the Plague. And far better than that sounds!

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LINDAKAY228 1/12/2010 3:52PM

    I do like mysteries, and mysteries with animals that help solve the case, so that sounds like one I'm definitely going to have to look for. Thanks for your great review!

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AMALIA8 1/12/2010 3:45PM

    Sounds like something I would enjoy reading. :) Thanks for sharing. I'll look it up at the library!

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VXWALL1942 1/12/2010 3:37PM

    Another well written book review. Thanks. vicki

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BRAVE_NEW_ME 1/12/2010 2:53PM

    Sounds like an interesting book! How are you going about choosing your 50, out of curiosity?

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Half Marathon Training Week #14

Sunday, January 10, 2010

Week of December28-January 3



Monday:
Elliptical
45 minutes
Run 2.35 miles (Treadmill)
I did not use any walk breaks for this run

Tuesday:
Elliptical
42 minutes

Wednesday:
Long Run
8 miles
1:29:42
6:1 ratio

Thursday:
Elliptical
45 minutes

Friday:
Run 3 miles (Treadmill)
33:36
13:1

Saturday:
Elliptical 45 minutes

Sunday:
Elliptical
43 minutes

I am still using the Galloway method. I usually use a 6:1 run/walk ratio and it is still working out pretty well, but I did experiment with other ratios this week as I was adjusting to tread mill running again. I had to run twice on the treadmill this week due to snow and cold, but at least my long run was outside must say that I HATE the treadmill and this cold icy weather is really messing with my running mojo..........no problems or injuries to report.

  
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ANEPANALIPTI 1/13/2010 7:33AM

    Way to go on consistency!! Whens your 1/2!

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VXWALL1942 1/11/2010 11:18PM

    Way to go! Your usual inspirational blog. Wishing for warmer weather for you soon!

vicki

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MSWEEZER 1/10/2010 6:54PM

    That's awesome. You're doing GREAT!!!

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ANGELLACOLE 1/10/2010 4:41PM

    You're doing a great job! Keep it up!!!
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NOMORELIMITS 1/10/2010 12:47PM

    Keep up the great work!
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AMALIA8 1/10/2010 12:40PM

    Sounds like you're doing a great job! :) Keep up the great work! Winter will be gone soon I hope. :)

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STEPHANIE0904 1/10/2010 8:55AM

    I think everyone is hoping for some warmer weather if not for exercising just to warm up. Geez - it's terrible out. Your plan as usual sounds great (I'm no expert as you know - lol) but I will certainly be here to cheer you on. Here's to some warm weather baby!!!!

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IPA-RAY 1/10/2010 8:32AM

    You are doing so well!

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I was expecting 10 degree weather for my run yesterday morning and was pleasantly surprised to find it 21 degrees with no wind. I agree with you that it is so much better to be outside than on this:

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but I am not 100% recovered from a piriformis injury and I am so afraid that I will slip and aggravate it that I am getting many of my miles on the treadmill at the gym.

It has snowed every day this year which is unusual.

I am running a half marathon on trails in Cuyahoga Valley National Park near Cleveland, Ohio next Sunday morning which should be quite an adventure with all the snow they have there.

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SPOTLIGHTANGEL 1/10/2010 8:12AM

    You are a champ!!! You will do great in your half marathon! I envy you and cheer you on!!

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Book 2 of 50 books read in 2010: The Cider House Rules by John Irving

Friday, January 08, 2010



The title "The Cider House Rules" refers to a list of rules that were posted in the cider house that migrant workers were expected to follow. It is an interesting title considering the fact that these rules were routinely broken. This concept is a major theme of this book and the truth of this story. The novel is a master class in the study of compromise and consequence. It challenges, under sometimes a very harsh and hot spotlight, some of the most profound concepts - Love is Truth and Honesty (is it?), Good and Evil are clearly distinguishable (are they?) and how, sometimes, the greatest sins are not the choices we make, but rather the ones we shy away from. As always, Irving’s grasp of characters, events and a deep understanding of who we are as people is amazing. He peels back and exposes the prejudices, hopes and fears that we have wrapped around ourselves.

You can't evaluate "The Cider House Rules" on the basis of the plot: to say that the book is about an orphan who grows up in an orphanage run by an abortionist, meets a young couple (there for an abortion), leaves with them, and falls in love with the woman, is to miss about 90 percent of what makes the book special. I am a huge John Irving fan, his novels are so incredibly character-driven. As you read the books, you get the sense that he is so attuned to the people who populate his world that he could write novels centered on any of them.

However, it must be noted that a central topic in the book is the issue of abortion. It amazes me how Irving can broach topics like adoption, abortion, love, faithfulness with such empathy and balance. This is the only discussion I've ever encountered of abortion, pro or con that zeroed in on the issue and then explored both sides of it in such an enlightening manner. It doesn't matter whether you're liberal, conservative, or somewhere in between. Irving will make you think about the issue of abortion, and give you a chance to question and refine some of your own views, while at the same time read a very engaging story that provokes and entertains from beginning to end. Although abortion is a major theme in this novel, it's not what the book is about. Irving also weaves many other issues into The Cider House Rules: adoption, friendship, family, and most importantly, love, especially the importance of love to a child.

Yes, they made a movie with the same name, and yes, the movie was remarkably true to the book. Yet the movie contained only about 1% of the plot and the depth of the novel. Irving tells so many different stories here, but these stories are not about Homer Wells or Dr. Larch or any of the other characters he depicts. If we look deeply enough, we realize that the real story here is actually our own. If you don't like Irving, you won't like this one, either. But if you've never sampled his work, this is as good a place to start as any. It's not endearing, but it was never meant to be. It's a heartfelt statement not only about the way the world is, but how it should be.

  
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DANCINGPENGUIN 1/12/2010 7:25AM

    Funny, I'd forgotten that abortion was such a big part of that book. :-) I just recall getting to the last page and crying for half an hour because it was over and I wouldn't get to see the characters anymore.

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AIAMWHITE 1/10/2010 2:51AM

  I read it many years ago and loved it. Thanks for reminding me what a good book it was! It often seems that the movies can't beat the books for depth, but I like the movie too. Thanks

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NEED2DROP50 1/8/2010 7:46PM

    I appreciate the review. I have about 4-5 books to read and I wouldn't have time for this one. And the Spark book just arrived the other day. I'm reading two books at a time right now. So I hope you'll keep posting these. I like to know what to read next! Thanks.

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SOPHIE711 1/8/2010 7:00PM

  iam going to have toread that one your review was really good

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NATALIE1964 1/8/2010 6:47PM

    Loved this book! a great read.

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IPA-RAY 1/8/2010 4:47PM

    I thought the movie was excellent. At the time, I had a real crush on Charlize Theron and my wife even gave me permission to have an affair with her!

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I guess my wife figured (correctly) that the odds were better that I would win the Powerball (miniscule better than nonexistant).

Great review.

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FINDINGMEIN2012 1/8/2010 4:45PM

    I read this book many years ago and LOVED it. I am also a big John Irving fan, though I haven't read his newest one yet.

What a great idea to blog about the books you are reading this year!!

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TAMTAM64 1/8/2010 4:38PM

    I will be getting this book to read! Thanks for sharing your thoughts about the book. I'm have never read any of his books. I'm going to steal your idea & start posting the book I have read on my weekly training blogs. :)

Tammy

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VXWALL1942 1/8/2010 4:30PM

    Thanks for the perspective. I too am a John Irving fan. Great book - great summary on your part. vicki

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KUANGIE 1/8/2010 3:47PM

    Thanks for posting your book reviews. I'm lways on the lookout for new books to read. You a re a fast reader. I'll have to check it out! Are you in any book clubs?

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CHERIRIDDELL 1/8/2010 3:46PM

    What a fascinating blog! I have never read John Irving but on your recommendation I will! The diversity on Spark never fails to fascinate me and inspire me ,thank-you!

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Book 1 of 50 for the year 2010: The Spark

Thursday, January 07, 2010

I joined the team "50 books in 2010" this week and officially made reading 50 books in 2010 one of my long term goals this year. The first book I read was The Spark by Chris Downie (huge surprise I chose this one, I know)



I have belonged to sparkpeople for a long time and have been active on the site for well over a year. I have lost 50 lbs, and recently had the honor of becoming a sparkpeople motivator. Therefore, I shouldn't need to read this book. After all, all the information you need is on the website right?



Everyone here should read this book!

I wish the book had been available when I joined because there is so much information on the sparkpeople website it takes a while to figure it all out (one of my friends refers to it as a "very busy" looking website). The Spark manages to put all the information about sparkpeople into an informative and engaging book. Reading the book I learned so much about the philosophy behind sparkpople. The book has a great deal of information regarding motivation and why the spark program works. Also, I learned a lot about the founder of sparkpeople Chris Downie. As a sparkfriend noted in his blog, the book is a little light on fitness information, but fitness information is prevelant both on the spark people website and elsewhere so I was not too bothered by its absence.

I recommend every one read the book, "The Spark". It gives you overview of the entire spark program which crisscrosses all aspects of your life. The Spark is so much more than just a weight loss program, and Sparkpeople truly has changed my life. The book is awesome, as is Chris Downie! Can you imagine investing over $5M of your own money to help others? Thank you Sparkguy for everything you have done for each one of us!

  
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RUNNINGCRAZY1 1/7/2010 10:50PM

    Thanks for the review. I was wondering if it was worth reading. I'll have to check it out


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DANCERGIRL9763 1/7/2010 9:56PM

  I agree, I love the book and I recommend it to everyone!

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LINDAKAY228 1/7/2010 5:37PM

    I haven't been here that long but I agree with you the book is great. A lot of the stuff on the site I"ve figures out, but the book ties so much together, including how this applies to every area of our life and not just fitness and nutrition. I have read so many self-help and diet books and was not too excited to get this one but pre-ordered it because I know Chris Downie had invested so much in this site that I kind of figures I should do it. But I am really and truly loving it and it is different from other books I've read. I also want to say thank you to Chris Downie for everything he's done and all the other staff and volunteers also. THANKS!!

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ANGELLACOLE 1/7/2010 1:58PM

    Thanks so much for the review! I have been going back and forth and whether or not I would get The Spark. Like you said, it seemed like I already had all the information on this website for free - why by the book?

Well based on your blog and several others' comments, I think I will have to go ahead and get it. Thanks again!

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