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Who does this? Men do this!

Thursday, January 24, 2013

Before I start... I apologize for the language!

My f#%king ex boyfriend, James, broke up with me over facebook. This is exact message I received.

Ok I hate telling you this at the time that you are having but my ex wife and I are working things out and are getting back together. I love the time we had together but we live too far away and you are twice as pushy a woman as I have ever seen or met. I hope you find everything you are looking for and I hope you understand that this is not just about me or you or her. It's mainly about the kids that I have. I'm very sorry! And hope you understand.

So being a woman that I am... I need to vent because I didn't and I am not planning on responding to such an asshole!

When we had our first date I asked him if there was any possibilities that the ex wife and him would get back together.

His responses, "No, I can't trust her. She is a cheat. We were dealing with each other 10 years and it didn't work out."

Next thing, Yes we live a little bit farther that I would like. I thought it was ok for now. If you like someone it shouldn't matter the distant. I was wrong.

PUSHY! Hmmm... how can I be pushy if we only see each other once every 7 to 10 days! PUSHY MY ASS! HE JUST DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN! F@CK HIM! We had to plan to see each other because we lived so far away! What the F@CK? We both have kids, jobs and responsibilities! Planning is necessary it is not pushy!

Then to end it all...its about the kids! What the f@ck?!!! Was he looking for a babysitter? I am a woman that wants a real relationship! F@ck him. F@ck this!

Yes I am hurt but this was b@llsh!t!

  
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MALISNEWLIFE 1/25/2013 1:52AM

    been there and done that you will meet mr right at the right time you dont deserve this im sorry your hurting and if theres anything i can do let me know

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SHOOTIN4STARS 1/24/2013 2:48PM

    OMG! That guy lacks any class whatsoever. I can't believe he broke up with you on FB. What a wimp! That's almost as bad as when Berger broke up with Carrie on a post-it on a Sex and the City episode. I am so glad you chose not to respond to that bull#@!! MEN!!!

With that being said, my opinion: You are too good for that guy. Count your losses and thank your lucky stars you did end up with a guy that has no b@lls! They're so good at disguising that stuff in the beginning. Take some comfort in the fact that he's returning to the misery of his marriage, while you are free to meet someone worthy of your greatness!
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PRINCESSAMY 1/24/2013 9:56AM

    They had been seperated for 2 years and their divorce was finalized in February of last year.

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CAROLIAN 1/24/2013 9:35AM

    emoticon You don't need this ah be patient you will find that someone who realy deserves you ,and will treat you the way you need there is always another fish in the sea of life Hope you find yours xxx

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LASKIE2 1/24/2013 9:04AM

    emoticon I understand that you are hurt, but calm down! First of all, how long had he & his Ex-wide been separated? You asked the right question "Do you think you will get back together" & he lied.

Okay, so let's move on from this point. Its was wrong for him to lie....but lesson leaned. I know its going to be difficult, but pick yourself up & keep going...this relationship not meant to be.

Give it some time you will find someone that lives closer to your area that hopefully you can share a mire healthy relationship. Good luck & I wish you well!

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I am having a well deserved pitty party!

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

This is my first day back to work. I ended up going to NY over the weekend. It was a horrible trip. On the way it wasn't so bad, however, on the way back it was the worst trip ever.

first: My tire blows
Second: Where my tire blow was very dangerous so I had to call a tow truck.
Third: Got to a garage and they didn't have an exact match for a tire so I had to get a slightly larger width.
Fourth: I couldn't get my car started to get tire fixed so I had to plead for a jump
Fifth: I am back on the road and we stop an hour away to get the kids something to eat and my battery died again.
Sixth: Once I got my car started again everything was peachy until I got to VA where my engine blow. I was stuck at a truck stop at 2:30 am. I was 5 1/2 hours from home with 2 adults (not including myself), 2 children and a caged cat.
Seven: I called everyone I could and the last resort was my parents. I had to hear them bitch to me because I am so irresponsible. Even if the engine blowing was not my fault which I found out once we got home with the car.

That was just the trip. I had issues once I got home. I will probably will be getting bitched at for at least a couple more weeks. One of the only good things besides my best friend actually being here now is that I lost several pounds from being stressed.

To add insult to injury... somehow I got bedbugs! I haven't been anywhere and I dont know how I would have gotten them. My life is so flipping frustrating.

  
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SHOOTIN4STARS 1/23/2013 1:53PM

    I agree. . . your pity party is well deserved!

You poor "little" thing. I had to laugh when you said you lost weight dealing with this debacle. At least something good came of it-- That, and you're all safe and home.

I hope the stars turn in your favor now. emoticon

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NEEDBU66 1/23/2013 11:54AM

    My mom would say hell, dammit and spit. She also says, Kids cats and cars.

And yeah, I have parental "issues" myself. I go home, and it's like I'm 10 years old again. And they nag and nag and nag about this or that or the other. But they're in their mid/late 80s and each visit ea year is a gift, I guess. We read alot about people whose parent's have passed on...how they'd take back any nag of any kind....but it's hard to take now....

I'm planning on going down the end of FEb/ first of march.


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Disappointed

Friday, January 18, 2013

I am so disappointed. Since the weather is so crappy out, my trip to New York is postponed. emoticon Instead of seeing Pete and moving my friend down.

I am home for a three day weekend. I tried making plans with James. He has to work.

Honestly... I just want to crawl into bed and cry. emoticon

This is the first weekend that I was suppose to be baby free since he was born. I was very much looking forward to it. emoticon

  
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MOMTO2HEINZS 1/18/2013 2:30PM

    It's hard to change gears like that. Keep your chin up...another opportunity will present itself. emoticon

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SUECHRIS50 1/18/2013 1:33PM

    the thing about days are they pass quickly!Life is what you make it so have fun instead of sadness! emoticon instead of emoticon

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NSTARSMITH 1/18/2013 12:58PM

    Hey, I posted on your Page and then saw your blog. Now I know why you are so down. You have my permission to crawl into bed and cry, but if you can't do it, then at least you know someone out in the world thinks you deserve a good cry. Hang in there - weather changes ...eventually! Keep posting! emoticon

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Timing is Everything!

Thursday, January 17, 2013

My sister had her baby yesterday at 12:11 pm. She is 7 pounds 14.75 oz and 19 inches long. She has brown hair and eyes. After I was told about her having the baby, my amazing boss let me leave early paid to be an Auntie! I was the third person to hold the little one. emoticon

What an emoticon visit I had!

I am going to the gym after work tonight instead of going to the gym yesterday because of all the excitement. I have to get at least two strength training days in a week. emoticon Today will be the only day to do that.

Tomorrow, after work I am going to NY to help my best friend and her family move. Since I will be heading that way anyways I will also stop and see my biological father, Pete. emoticon He is in hospice but at least I can see him one last time.

So far...things just have been perfect emoticon time. I thank God for it! emoticon

  
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FAVALL 1/18/2013 12:14PM

    If you can't find the time to go to the gym for strength training, try using the SP videos. They are great and quick to do at home and still count toward fitness AND tone your body. Sorry about the biological father's situation. Take care of yourself. Don't let yourself be sidelined on the program by events and emotions that float through your life. Emotions come and emotions go. So don't eat from the current emotion. Rather work the program you have planned and are committed to doing. Take care of yourself.

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TIGGERJEAN 1/17/2013 4:18PM

    Wow! Congrats on your new neice! That is so exciting.

I hope you have a good visit with your father - these family times are so important.

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My relationship My blessing

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Last night, James and I went out to pickup my modular shelving units. I got spend 4 hours with him. I loved it. I sat in the truck and he held my hand. emoticon

We talked and talked. emoticon I found out that he use to run. emoticon He use to play football. emoticon He is at his heaviest weight which I think it bothers him a great deal. I don't think he is a big guy. I think he is very handsome.

This is my emoticon moment.

I have inspired him to go to the doctor emoticon to figure out why he is having pain in this side all the time. He wants to start emoticon exercising. I have inspired him to start eating more emoticon veggies. The proudest moment is went he told me he went out to lunch yesterday emoticon and he only ate half of what he ordered. He started to drink more emoticon water as well.

This relationship emoticon we have is wonderful. I feel very comfortable discussing my own struggles with weight. Actually, I talk a lot about my goals. What I do. Why I do it. The fact that I am very passionate went I speak about my journey and I can share it with James I think this might make us be even emoticon closer.

It was a wonderful night. I cannot wait to really get to know him better. He has a lot of aspirations. For me, that is the biggest turn on ever! I am so happy, blessed and lucky! emoticon

  
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GINNJEN1974 1/16/2013 7:04PM

    This is wonderful the relationship and that you are having such a positive effect too.

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