Monday, August 31, 2009
Ok, my dear friend, Nita, posted this on her blog, and i thought this would be fun to do.... and i promised to post my results...so here is...it's the color quiz at www.colorquiz.com/ i would love to see your results also :)
Your Existing Situation
Needs excitement and constant stimulation. Willingly participates in activities that are thrilling and offer adventure.
Your Stress Sources
"Feels that life must give more than it has and that her hopes and desires should be fully achieved. her existing circumstances are causing her to be anxious and worry; she is on edge and fears her missing out on opportunity. Eagar to avoid future setbacks or loss of status, she tries to make herself notice and to standout and is need of security."
Your Restrained Characteristics
"Demanding and picky in her relationships, but careful not to bring out conflict or disagreements and this may decrease her chances of achieving her goals and ideas."
Current situations force her into compromise and placing her own hopes and desires on hold for the time being. (ok, this could be true)
"He is able to find satisfaction through sexual activity, but can be restless and emotionally distant so she never really gets too involved with others." (uh..ok then...)
OK...I am not even going into the desired object part...oh my....lol.
Your Actual Problem
Is afraid she will be held back from obtaining the things she wants leading her to act out with a hectic intensity.
Your Actual Problem #2
"Is disappointed and let down, feels there is no point in making new goals as they will leave her feeling the same way. Looking for friendly, pleasant relationships with others, who will further develop her intellect. Feels her current relationships are empty and holding her back. Reacting with an intense desire to become involved in various activities aimed at achieving her goals." (yea...that's it...lol)
So according to my color test that is me...according to me...i don't think so. Of course... maybe i am in denial...lol.
Saturday, August 22, 2009
Work was slow, which was good...with all the stress that has been going on with the home front...slow was needed... the boss was back to his good mood self... as for son... well... we are getting there... after i get home, i tell ds we are going to talk later... well...he couldn't wait until later...so it ended up a family discussion...i think i handled it well...i did not lose my temper... even when he did... then he got depressed...life sucks...and he just thinks he should leave...this one has always been a hard phase for me to get through... that is when i normally would lose it...but i took a deep breath and explained why running from our problems are not going to solve them...and whether he liked it or not, we were going to work through this together, as a family and ride it out... we were going to learn from this, which we could not do if we ran from it, and that we will be stronger, as a person and as a family because of it... i then repeated (as i did many times before and since then) that no matter what he, or any of my children do, i will still love them...nothing could change that... i will stand beside them...yes, i will let them know when they are dead wrong...yes there will be consequences...but i will still be right behind them and beside them every step of the way....with the girls, these phases were made slightly easier because i was there once myself...but these male phases... oiy... but as i explained to ds...that doesn't change anything...i still love him and while we work on this, together, i will be right there for him... yes, he is still being punished...no, he's still not happy about it...but he's moving through this... it was a roller coaster of a night last night...but all in all...i truly believe he will come out of this... and i did see hopes of the boy i once knew and the good man he will become...hopefully...before i pull out all of my hair or am left shaking in a corner...lol...
Thursday, August 20, 2009
Ok...most of them...lol...why is it they only call when they want something...ggggrrrrr... and then...boss in cranky mood...son...just don't know what is going on with him...it's almost like he doesn't care about his family anymore...just so he gets what he wants...oh...wait... it's the male thing...right??? and i swear...all day, if i was held up...it was by a MAN!!! really... are you serious?? please...somebody tell me that i will find someone that really wants to be a friend...even when he can't get any.... that the boss is just having a bad day (hhhmmm... maybe cause he didn't get what he wanted...lol) and tell me my son will grow out of this and be the loving son i know i once had...one that respects his mom for all the sacrifices and hard work and love that she gives to him.... please...somebody give me hope...cause today... i'm feeling pretty hopeless :(
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