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Sad day

Monday, July 12, 2010

Today a lovely young woman came into our office for her last check up before her planned C-section tomorrow of full term identical twin boys. Much to our surprise and dismay, there were no heart beats on either baby emoticon An ultrasound confirmed their deaths.

I can only imagine what she felt, I know I was heartbroken, as was everyone else...and they weren't my beloved babies that I had planned for and was going to meet tomorrow.

I haven't stopped thinking about her...all the way home and since I've been home..

Please keep her and her family and those precious baby boys in your thoughts and prayers as she goes through their delivery and then goes home without them.

Thanks to all of you for your thoughts and prayers! She delivered 2 beautiful boys, 6lb-7oz and 6lb-9oz late last night. There was nothing to indicate a problem... They got to hold them, take pictures of and with them and got a lovely memory box for each of them with pictures, footprints and a lock of hair. They are planning the funeral now and are coping as best as could be expected.

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MTNGRL 7/17/2010 9:41PM

    I will lift her and her family up in prayer. What a difficult thing to have happen. Thank you for sharing this so we can send prayers out in support of this young mother.

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    Definitely sad...I was with a friend when she delivered her stillborn baby. It was one of the saddest experiences that I have ever had. My friend had four other children and still took a long time to recover emotionally. This family will definitely be in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

How nice it was of the doctor/hospital to make the best of this situation. I think it will help the family alot as it gave them something to take home with them acknowledging the love & life they created.

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    Hard thing to read...I can empathize with the mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you both!

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KIMSTUTZ 7/14/2010 6:26AM

    I am still thinking about this family and my heart and stomach are just wrenched. How can you understand that? praying for God to give them the strength to carry them through. Thanks for sharing. emoticon

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YAFENELRA 7/13/2010 12:23PM

    That is so sad. To carry them all that time and then not have them to hold and love. My prayers are with that family. And with you as I know how hard it is to be in your position to see such saddness.

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AVEARE 7/13/2010 12:04PM

    That is so terrible...I can't even imagine the pain that family is in. My thoughts are with her and her family today.

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CAROL3SAN 7/13/2010 11:33AM

    WOW, that is sad and very disappointing. I've almost been in heaven over the last couple of weeks since the birth of my new grandson. I was delighted that he was born healthy and almost perfect in every way. I never thought of the people who carry their children to term, and only to be faced with disappointment due to death or birth defects.
I pray for those families today that their disappoint will one day be lightened with renewed joy.

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DEEGEE2 7/13/2010 11:23AM

    This is really sad to read - my thoughts are with her and her family. I cannot imagine a loss like this.

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JELLI-LEAN 7/13/2010 10:34AM

    What a tragic story! I feel so bad right now for her and her family! I will keep her in my prayers!

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STPJUDGE 7/13/2010 9:46AM

    So tragic, every pregnant woman's fear come true. I'm so sorry for her and her family. They are in my prayers today.

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JODIE0321 7/13/2010 9:41AM

    Oh Carla, this made me so sad. That poor family. I know how you and she feel. This also happened to my sister. God Bless their family and God Bless those little boys they are in Gods arms now.

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IHAVETOO10 7/13/2010 9:27AM

    Oh my.. My thought and prayer are with her and family!

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NANFACEMIRE1 7/13/2010 8:13AM

    We talked on your way home and you told me this so very sad story. I am keeping the girl's family in my thoughts as well as you and the other staff members. Today especially and many days to come are going to be so hard for all of you.

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CHOPOLA 7/13/2010 8:07AM

    Oh Carla that is so terrible :(

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BETHGILLIGAN 7/13/2010 7:57AM

    This is truly heartbreaking! This young woman and her family are in my prayers. You and your co-workers are also in my prayers as you deal with this difficult, tragic situation.

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MARENAMOO 7/13/2010 7:46AM

    That happened to my brother with his first born - it was a strep infection. I am so sorry for her loss - so sorry.

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RUN2MYDREAMS 7/13/2010 6:57AM

    Oh my. This brought tears to my eyes! emoticon I will keep them in my prayers! emoticon

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INDIUMRED 7/13/2010 6:35AM

    I will keep them in my prayers.

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SPARKPIXIE 7/13/2010 6:07AM

    This is so heartbreaking. I can't even imagine her pain. I am praying for her and her family.

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RORYLYONS 7/13/2010 4:09AM

    How tragic for this mom who tonight is mourning her loss. What was to be joy turns into heartbreak.
So sad for her & you's never easy & you wonder why. A prayer for her unthinkable pain she is experiencing.

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JANE1216 7/12/2010 11:54PM

    Oh my -- this is just so sad -- I am so sorry to read about this young lady and I will certainly be praying for her and her family. None of us can begin to understand how she must feel. I am also praying for you and the other staff -- this has to be hard for all of you as you're the ones who have seen her from month to month and then week to week - I know it's your job, but you must get involved in some of your patients' pregnancies almost as if you were family. May God bless all of you with His strength and comfort in this most difficult time.

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LITTLE_QUEEN 7/12/2010 11:46PM

    That is so sad Carla,

Also when you go to your blogs you hear fireworks, and my cat is sleeping by me and computer, he just jumped about a mile, LOL! Looking all around.

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POOSIE12 7/12/2010 11:43PM

    My thoughts go out to you and the family affected by the loss.

My sister recently lost her baby after only 5 hours of life, complications led to an emergency c-section. Ironic thing is, the day before she was going to have a scheduled c-section but decided to cary them to term and have her naturally since she was healthy.


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Caribou Coffee and Spark friends

Saturday, July 10, 2010

I had a great time today with my NOVA Spark friends at Caribou Coffee. There were a lot fewer of us than normal. Between people being out of town and Tammie getting married today (Congrats Tammie and Chris!!), there was just a small group of 5 of us today.

I loved seeing Mary Lou (AuntyEm) again. When we did the Komen race in June, I didn't get to talk to her much, but I so enjoyed the time we got to talk today. She's lost an incredible 100++ pounds and is just an awesome person! I enjoyed hearing her stories of her time at the Spark convention, her flower child days and the awesome work she does teaching handicapped kids to swim. It was really nice to catch up with the others too. My oldest daughter came with me, but she had been at work since 4am and she spent most of the time sleeping in the car, waking up and wondering if I was ever going to take her home.

I think I need to always look up drinks at Caribou coffee BEFORE I order them, LOL. The last time, I had a turtle blended drink. I had looked that one up and it was a whopping 680 calories! I knew that ahead of time and planned the rest of what I ate around it. Today I knew I wasn't going to spend those kind of calories so I chose what I thought was going to be a decent drink calorie wise. Mary Lou and I both got a Signature mint lime white iced tea. After we ordered, I looked it up on my phone and saw it was 360 calories. Ouch...that's a lot of calories for a drink! Then I realized I could have asked for it made with splenda instead of whatever sweetener they use, so before we left, I sent Emily in to get me one with splenda. Got home and went to their website and realized that it didn't use any added was just sweetened limeade, mint and white tea. Sooo, I guess mine was just extra sweet with added splenda! To top that off, once I was looking at a normal sized screen, I realized I had looked up the calories for a SMALL and we had a LARGE. The large was 490 calories and I had two of them!! It's a really good thing I only go there once a month! emoticon I think next time I better have water....

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    Sorry, this made me chuckle. I do feel for you though.

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LMSTRAW 7/13/2010 12:14AM

    This makes me happy that I only like plain ole coffee!

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CANBDONE 7/12/2010 2:00PM

    You gave me a smile and a chuckle...thanks! emoticon

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    No more smoothies for me! LOL. It was great to see you again :D

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RUN2MYDREAMS 7/12/2010 8:43AM

    I'm glad you had a fun time! Yeah, I would definitely be taking my water bottle there emoticon-to save on calories AND $$$.

I can't wait to attend next month! emoticon

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NANFACEMIRE1 7/11/2010 2:29PM

    Glad you had a good time. Like you said, You might want to drink water next time. emoticon Sounds like a really great bunch of ladies. It was so nice of AuntyEm to give me the spark book. Did you do any pics this time?

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TERMITEMOM 7/11/2010 9:50AM

    Sounds like a lot of fun! I'd like to join you one of these days...

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MARENAMOO 7/11/2010 9:01AM

    Can't wait to meet you all - probably in September. The NoVa sparkers sound like such a great group of women - I am glad that I found you all. I keep posting on the Montgomery County team page if anyone wants to become active - not much happening there.

I hate when that happens with foods that I did not anticipate.

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LLTS01 7/11/2010 2:25AM

    You crack me up. Our monthly get together is really your monthly treat. I am so sorry I missed our get together. Next month we should be a larger crowd.

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AVEARE 7/11/2010 12:38AM

    Lol I know how you feel - with me, it's frozen yogurt! My family and I always get together and go to this place with amazing flavors of fat free frozen yogurt, and here I am thinking "it's frozen yogurt and fat free" and pigging out on their HUGE portion I was able to find some calorie estimates online and they are definitely not calorie free! I realized I had put away almost 500 calories in frozen yogurt that I definitely had not planned for that day...

But there is no harm in enjoying a splurge once in awhile! Glad to hear you had a fun day :)

And I love the wallpaper, it's hilarious

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SHELLYED 7/11/2010 12:34AM

    Sounds fun! And you learned you can have what you want as far as coffee goes, with just a little modification! I love finding out those "secrets". : ) emoticon

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BALLOUZOO 7/10/2010 11:30PM

    Yay you! Getting together with other sparkers must be GREAT! And good for you for doing your coffee research too!

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LITTLE_QUEEN 7/10/2010 11:27PM

    Sounds like you had a great time, it is always good when spark friends can get together

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4th of July Fireworks and video

Monday, July 05, 2010

We had a great time at the fireworks and 4th of July celebration today!

We went around 4 pm, got a great spot right at our car:

We walked around a lot, visited the band they had playing:

They also had wagon rides:

There was so much to do. Lots of games and booths to visit. This year Disney radio was there with prizes and games for the kids. Funnel cakes and all sorts of food (I was good! Only ate what I brought).

This year it was me:


And Brandon and his girlfriend, Lisa:

We packed our chairs and 2 coolers full of yummy and healthy food and drinks. We talked, walked, danced and enjoyed ourselves until time for the fireworks.

The display is the largest in Northern Virginia. I've lived here my whole life and we never go anywhere else since we started going here about 5 years ago, it rivals the show in nearby Washington DC which we used to go to, although the entertainment and activities are much nicer in DC. Almost all of the show is like most places's literally almost non stop the entire time. The city uses it's own money, but for the last 5 years they have had an anonymous donor give a large sum of money that they use also, making it one of the biggest shows in the entire DC MD VA Metro area.

Tonights started right at 9:15, but after about 5 minutes, it abruptly stopped. All of a sudden, we saw the firetrucks racing towards where they are set off. We saw smoke and flames, but it quickly went out and after about 10 minutes the music and show restarted. I have no idea what happened, but whatever it was, it was over very quickly. I hope no one was hurt. We sit pretty close to where they are set off as you can see in the pics and videos...

Here are a few of the pics:

It was a very enjoyable day :-) I hope everyone else had a wonderful 4th!
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    Loved the video & pics! We didn't go to see the fireworks this year. Usually we park on the side of the road near Old Town and watch. We had friends over @ 4:30 and enjoyed good food and played cards until late in the eve. Unfortunately, it wasn't all healthy.

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SUZIB123 7/8/2010 2:35PM

    Hi Just want thank you for peeking in on me! We watched the Manassas fireworks also. We did not go all the way into Manassas. We drove up 28 to Wellington Rd, there is a small shopping center and people were relaxing in chairs so we joined them! emoticon emoticon emoticon

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MOMHAWKOF3 7/6/2010 12:21PM

    Loved the video of the fireworks. We went to see the fireworks on Quantico Marine Corps Base. We sat in the sun for 3 hours to see 15 minutes of fireworks. They were okay but maybe we will have to go to Old Town Manassas next year. Sounds like they might be much better. Thanks for sharing!

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RUN2MYDREAMS 7/6/2010 10:07AM

    Looks like you guys had a blast! emoticon We ended up parking in this grassy area not quite in front of Ruby Tuesdays. We actually saw the stadium and there were 3-4 sets behind us too. Emma was sticking her body through the sunroof emoticon She really enjoyed it!

The heat's coming back full force, isn't it? Is it possible I can ride with you on Saturday?

Hope you have a fantastic week!

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TERMITEMOM 7/5/2010 9:46PM

    Wonderful! What a great video. Thank you so much for sharing - I felt I was there with you!

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NANFACEMIRE1 7/5/2010 8:17PM

    Oh my goodness.......those were really great fireworks. You really were good not to eat the funnel cake. I love those and I am not sure I could have resisted. Glad you had a good time.

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LLTS01 7/5/2010 1:52PM

    Thanks so much for the video especially since I missed any celebrations yesterday. emoticon

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    These are the only fireworks I got to see!!! I didn't get back on spark in time to see your post. Otherwise I totally would've gone. I'm glad you had a great time!

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RONIE11 7/5/2010 12:23PM

    Thanks for sharing this was awsome...

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CAROL3SAN 7/5/2010 12:18PM

    Beautiful. I always enjoy the fireworks. emoticon

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LITTLE_QUEEN 7/5/2010 10:37AM

    Looks like a great time for everyone, The fireworks video was especially nice

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CAMELA_55 7/5/2010 10:18AM

    Awesome video! Thanks for sharing!

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LEAH57 7/5/2010 10:10AM

    We went to the PNats game on Saturday and stayed for fireworks after. Thought about going to watch the stadium fireworks again on the 4th, but decided to stay home and not head out in to the madness. Sounds like you had fun, will have to look in to this for next year!

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UVAGRL928 7/5/2010 9:42AM

    I lived out in Manassas Park last year, and watched the fireworks there last year... they were awesome. We had planned on staying in last year because I wasn't feeling well, but then about 5 minutes before the show started, we changed our mind. We planned on just driving around, but found an empty parking lot with a great view of the show. It was great because we were able to go at the last minute, and then get home quick!

This year we were really disappointed that we couldn't find any good fireworks shows in the area (Lorton)... this was the one thing we found that we missed about Manassas Park!

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BETHGILLIGAN 7/5/2010 8:49AM

    Looks like a great time! We have a boat on Potomac by Pentagon so we headed down with the entire family about 6, loaded everyone on boat and anchored close to monument. Fireworks were glorious! 3 year old granddaughter mesmerized (and not afraid! LOL). Great time--we are all exhausted this morning!

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FRIENDOFBACH 7/5/2010 12:55AM

  Thanks for sharing the video. I didn't get to see any, so it's great!

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MSDELISLE 7/5/2010 12:53AM

    Nice! Thanks for sharing!

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4th of July Parade

Saturday, July 03, 2010

I really enjoyed the 4th of July parade in my community today. Meghan and I went this morning and then Simone found us. She had come with her daughter, Emma and a neighbor. The parade lasted about an hour to an hour and a half. It wasn't as big as I remember each prior year being, but it was still nice. Thankfully we'd had a couple of really nice days. Today was nice, but standing out in the direct sun for over 2 hours, it was hot!!

Here are a couple pics of what we enjoyed seeing:

We came home and grilled up a storm-2 chickens, a big tray of grilled veggies marinated in FF Italian dressing, corn on the cob, sweet potatoes, FF hot dogs, chicken breast burgers and a boneless pork roast. We have more than enough to last for several days.

Tomorrow is the day we go and have a picnic and enjoy all the festivities in Old Towne Manassas during the afternoon and early evening and then the fireworks display. They have an awesome one every year. It will be my son Brandon and his GF and my daughter Emily and her BF and Meghan and I. Aaron and Amber have other plans so there won't be as many of us as there normally is. We pack a picnic lunch (dinner) and I have all sorts of low fat things planned for us. It will be a fun day with family (most of us anyway). More to follow on that tomorrow :-)

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    Sounds like a fun day with family!

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NANFACEMIRE1 7/6/2010 1:00PM

    Your pics are just wonderful and I can't believe all of the food you guys prepared. Healthy choices. Hopefully, next year I can join you guys. That would really be fun.

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AVEARE 7/4/2010 2:28PM

    Sounds like your 4th of july activities are very fun! I love grilling too! It's great that such a healthy way of eating tastes so good :) Have fun with the rest of the long weekend!

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FIGHT2SURVIVE 7/4/2010 11:16AM

    I am so glad you got your parade in. It is raining cats and dogs here and they had to call ours off - not postpone it till tomorrow but call it off completely. Hundreds of hours went into preparing some of those floats and no one will see them. They even are canceling the fire works for tonight because the river bank where they set everything up is now under two feet of water and so are the fireworks. It's been a bad year for rain here.

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MARENAMOO 7/4/2010 9:15AM

    Sounds like a wonderful old-fashioned Fourth of July. And good for you doing it with healthy food choices. I got my monthly digest from NoVa Sparkers and I think you are the leader in both points and minutes. Good for you Carla in your motivation and consistency.

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CANBDONE 7/4/2010 8:14AM

    Let freedom ring! emoticon

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KIMSTUTZ 7/4/2010 7:14AM

    Sounds like a great time planned for all! if i lived closer i would beg to tag along! I am going to make shrimp kabobs for our dinner tonite and just relax and go see the fireworks probably at my parents. My dh is working and the boys hang with their own friends, LOL

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RORYLYONS 7/4/2010 2:23AM

    Wow what a great way to celebrate the 4th with a parade..Been ages since I attended one..Your cookout sounds delish. We had a barbeque also this evening.have fun tomorrow! emoticon emoticon emoticon

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PUGRAD1995 7/3/2010 11:38PM

    Ah, I remember our small town's 4th of July parade. A ton of bicycles with crepe paper through the spokes and hanging off the handlebars. Such fun. Then when I was in high school and in the marching band, it was nice hot wool uniforms in the school colors of red white and blue. Too bad more towns don't still do that!

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LLTS01 7/3/2010 11:26PM

    Have a wonderful time. It looks like you are prepared to have fun while eating healthy. That is the best combination.
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TERMITEMOM 7/3/2010 10:57PM

    Good pics! We enjoyed the one in Fairfax City this morning and the fireworks were good (we are able to see them from our driveway, the High School where they take place is close by).

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YAFENELRA 7/3/2010 10:50PM

    I haven't been to a parade like that in ever so long. They are such fun!!

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LITTLE_QUEEN 7/3/2010 10:49PM

    Sounds like you had a fun time, and have a great time tomorrow too!

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July goals

Thursday, July 01, 2010

I really enjoy summer and all of the fresh fruits and veggies and the sunshine (not the heat and humidity!)

Summer time is always a good time for me weight wise. I'm more active, despite the heat, I eat much better and I just tend to do better overall.

My goals for July:
To lose at least 4 pounds. Surely 1 pound a week is not asking too much :-)

To continue to work on C25K and not miss any days

To look into The Jeff Galloway way to train for a race

To continue to get at least 120 minutes of exercise in each and every day

To learn to proportion my calories, carbs, fat and protein in a way that works best for me. Since diabetes runs in my family and my fasting glucoses have always been slightly above normal, I added "pre diabetes" to my spark page this week and it changed the allotment of above and broke it down into how much of each I should have at each meal. I'm having trouble getting that part right!

To continue to drink at least 12 glasses of water a day

To continue to get great portions of fruits and veggies in per day

To try a new recipe at least twice a week

That's where I will start. Many of these I already do, so continuing to do them should not be a problem.

This is my year...the year I should reach my goal weight. With half the year now gone, I need to be diligent to make sure I am successful!

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UVAGRL928 7/3/2010 8:40AM

    Sounds like you have some great goals! It seems that everyone has blogged about their July goals, so I think I'm going to have to get on board!

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KIMSTUTZ 7/2/2010 8:27PM

    wow thats am impressive list! emoticon

i need to spend a few minutes and come up with my own list. but going in to work tomorrow at 4 for 12 hours so not tonite!

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CAROL3SAN 7/2/2010 12:54PM

    Good luck with the goals. emoticon
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LOZUKE 7/2/2010 6:52AM

    Wonderful lists of goals Carla! I don't know if I could drink that much water although it was pretty hot here for awhile!
The new recipe is a great goal! I wish you the best of luck emoticon emoticonDebbie

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    Girl, just reading your goals made me tired! lol

But you can do it! You are amazing!!! Whoo hoo!

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CHANSEN_20001 7/1/2010 8:02PM

    Great list of goals. If it's OK, I'm going to copy some of your goals.

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CANBDONE 7/1/2010 6:22PM

    Your goals are impressive! I'm aiming to do NO mindless snacking this month!

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DEBSZOO74 7/1/2010 5:30PM

    You have fantastic goals for July! I know that emoticon
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FIGHT2SURVIVE 7/1/2010 5:27PM

    If you find any really good recipes, please share. Your goals sound very straight forward and do-able. Good luck.

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RUN2MYDREAMS 7/1/2010 5:12PM

    Yes, Carla, this is definitely your year...your year to emoticon behind! GO GIRL! emoticon emoticon

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    This plan sounds great and definitely doable!

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LITTLE_QUEEN 7/1/2010 4:06PM

    This is such a great plan, and it is so awesome that you do 25K

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