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My DH was almost an arsonist

Monday, December 13, 2010

DH is a smoker (boo, hiss) - and I have asthma - a match made in Heaven, right? So he goes outside to smoke - either out on the balcony (after closing all the sliding glass doors), or out on the walkway. He tries - and I've established a 10 foot radius around myself, and he isn't allowed to get smoke into my circle.

But he does have a very bad habit of tossing the butts into the bush around the house.

So - yes, you guessed it - I came home today and DH was happily napping - and a dead stump outside was not only smoldering but the area nearby had some flames licking the stump. I quickly attached the hose, dragged it out to the area, climbed over the wall and a bit down the hill, and doused the whole thing thoroughly. One part kept smoking, so I had to find a long stick to turn the piece of log over so I could drown that, too.

Wow. DH eventually woke up from his nap (I did try to wake him to deal with his fire, but he's an extremely sound sleeper and I figured putting out the fire was more important than making him do this) - and of course he denies starting this fire. Duh - no one else was around, including the workmen building the wall - obviously it was his cigarette.

Let's hope he's more responsible in the future!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

  
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JLPNURSE 12/14/2010 3:44PM

    This happened in my condo complex so they banned all smoking anywhere on the property, including the parking lots.

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ROCKYCPA 12/14/2010 12:28PM

    I am so glad you were able to put out the fire and there wasn't much damage. Hopefully he will own up and either be more careful or quit altogether. Next put the hose on him, lol!

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GITTYB 12/13/2010 9:09PM

    wow, you are so forgiving! glad everything worked out!

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PHEBESS 12/13/2010 9:02PM

    Maybe next time I'll dump water on him in bed, and tell him HE was on fire!

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SHOSHANADP 12/13/2010 8:57PM

    B"H nothing serious happened. I think this is another sign that he needs to quit smoking. I know, I know, it's very hard. Maybe, just maybe, this will wake him up to some of the other dangers of smoking (though his reluctance to accept responsibility for the fire makes this unlikely).

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HIKETOHEIGHTS 12/13/2010 8:38PM

    You are so understanding. Wouldnt it be nice if he just quit! Maybe this will motivate him. Close call!

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AIDELADE27 12/13/2010 7:54PM

    Thank goodness you averted THAT disaster. I remember an incident where me and my friend nearly set our apartment on fire when we were playing around with the Chanukah menorahs. Not good. emoticon

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There are mitzvot (plural of mitzvah) and there are mitzvot

Saturday, December 11, 2010

A very dear friend who used to live here came down with her family - her 13 year old son (born here) was having his Bar Mitzvah. Mitzvah literally means "commandment" (and Bar Mitzvah is "son of the commandment", while Bat Mitzvah is "daughter of the commandment). But mitzvah has come to mean a good deed, helping someone out - or, as a friend of mine said, something you do to that makes G-d proud.

So - my friend asked me to make rugelach - a very yummy cookie-type pastry of cream cheese and butter dough, rolled out in cinnamon sugar and filled with great stuff like mini chocolate chips, or walnuts and raisins.

I made 120 rugelach. Gave some to DH last night to keep him happy. Brought the rest to synagogue. Left the Bar Mitzvah early to set up the lunch with a few other women. And stayed late to put away food and clean up.

I have to add, my friend's 4 year old was the MOST adorable little boy! I introduced myself, and we talked for a while. Then I introduced my husband, and this little cutie says, "It's very nice to meet you." He sat eating his food, quietly leaned over to the rabbi and asked if he liked olives - the rabbi said yes - so the little boy quietly picked up each of HIS olives and put them on the rabbi's plate. Absolutely adorable little guy, we enjoyed him very much!!!!

All in all, a fun day.

  
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EUPHRATES 12/12/2010 1:43AM

    And this is when I wish I knew more about my heritage. *sighs...goes back to reading "Born to Kvetch"*

Thanks for sharing!

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ILOVEROSES 12/11/2010 11:59PM

    It sound like you had a very happy day and congratulations to the Bar Mitzvah boy! He sure has an adorable brother!
How about posting the recipe for all of us. emoticon
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WATERMELLEN 12/11/2010 9:10PM

    How about the ones with raspberry preserves? Also very very good.

Love the story about the little boy contributing his olives: so sweet!!

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PHEBESS 12/11/2010 6:49PM

    When I'm eating the chocolate ones, they're my fave. But then when I eat the walnut and raisin ones, they're my fave!!!!! I think I just really like both!!!!!

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SAPNA. 12/11/2010 6:34PM

    I just love to eat the chocolate ones. Shabbas treat!

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Some days my spaciness amazes even me

Friday, December 10, 2010

I was tired from the back and forth to St. Croix, minus luggage, and then back to school (including loading the kiln). I went to the gas station to fill the car. I took my credit card and put it in the slot. The transaction was cancelled. I couldn't get the card to come out. I looked, I pulled, I pushed buttons, I looked some more - and then it hit me. I had put my card into the slot where the receipt comes OUT, not where the credit card should go IN. OY! So I went inside and explained to the lady - she came out, and called the owner, her dad, who was the only person with the key to the receipt part of the machines. He told her to get a long-nose plier and try to get the card out. A young man came out with the pliers, and I had to hold the metal slot up so he could reach my card and pull it out.

THEN, the machine was so freaked out it refused to take my card in the proper slot - so I had to go back in and use the machine inside to buy my gas.

I will admit, I felt like a complete idiot. (And this is the station I go to all the time!!!!!)

  
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ROCKYCPA 12/10/2010 10:27PM

    Well, we all have days like that - it is funny and actually sounds like something that I would do.

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WATERMELLEN 12/10/2010 9:57PM

    Oh, I'm so glad there is another person out there besides me capable of this kind of thing: deeply reassuring.

My mother used to say of me, "Book learning smart and common sense stupid"! I hated it but . . .

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Half my luggage - AGAIN

Thursday, December 09, 2010

To balance the seaplane coming back from St. Croix, we all had to leave our luggage. We were allowed purses and small day packs. The rolling carryon bags with clothes had to stay.

I can't figure out if they were sending over luggage from passengers earlier in the day, or if everyone on our flight was just very overweight.

And the people sponsoring our meeting always give us goodies - so I have several pieces of fruit in that bag - I hope it comes over soon!

  
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ROCKYCPA 12/9/2010 9:29PM

    Hope you get everything back soon!

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"Better than jewelry!"

Wednesday, December 08, 2010

I brought my new little MacBook Air (11" screen) to the task force meetings - on day 1, all the people at my table wanted to see it, hold it to test how light it is, see how clear the screen is and the great resolution, etc. People were passing the Mac around like it was a little baby.

Keep in mind that these are all educators - so we're totally into our little computers.

One woman looked up at me with a huge smile, and said, "This is even better than jewelry!"

Cracked me up!!!!

  
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SAMI199 12/9/2010 7:20AM

    I agree-but I'm not telling the hubs -lol

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SAPNA. 12/9/2010 3:55AM

    I have a new netbook so I know what you all mean. Sorry I have not popped in for a while. I am overwhelmed with this move.

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AIDELADE27 12/8/2010 11:03PM

    Cute!

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WATERMELLEN 12/8/2010 8:49PM

    Well this is a marketable idea for sure -- some kind of pendant thingy to wear 'em around your neck or whatever!!

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MILLISMA 12/8/2010 7:45PM

    I have to agree!

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RUNBAREFOOTMAMA 12/8/2010 6:49PM

    I think she's right!

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