Wednesday, June 09, 2010
For two mornings in a row, my husband, upon wakening, has criticised something I did. This has been the first thing he utters. Yesterday,he said the kitchen floor was a mess. (He handed me the broom and dustpan!) This morning, he started criticising me about the time of day I take my medicines. He clanimed I was not taking them at the "proper" (his) time. If I had a bad reaction, he wouldn't support me. I've been taking these same medicines for a year and a half. A person would assume that I know what I'm doing and that if I was going to have a reaction, I already would have.
It is very difficult to have a positive attitude when someone around me starts the day off like this. I can't help but wonder what I'm doing wrong for him to feel he must criticise me when he gets up. I would understand it more if it happened at the end of the day; I would assume he was tired.