PATTYKLAVER   236,017
SparkPoints
100,000 or more SparkPoints
 
 
PATTYKLAVER's Recent Blog Entries

The Package

Wednesday, January 05, 2011

I went to my mom's to get the box my husband sent there instead of to me. It contained junk mail, a baseball hat and 2 self-help books that he said he read and were my Christmas and anniversary presents. ??????????????????? And he wonders why I couldn't continue living with him.

  
  Member Comments About This Blog Post:

JAREJIL 1/6/2011 12:07AM

    ok, that kinda made me laugh, I guess you made a good choice, can't imagine what life would have been WITH him, but you must feel lighter withOUT him!!

Report Inappropriate Comment
JUSTA123 1/5/2011 1:03PM

    emoticon a real gem . emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
KAMAPERRY 1/5/2011 12:30PM

    emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
MBSKIT 1/5/2011 11:08AM

    I am sorry that you had to go and get that!

Report Inappropriate Comment
TESHIE4ME 1/5/2011 10:14AM

    Sounds like a very juvenille thing to do and he needs to grow up, move on with his life, and let you do the same.

Report Inappropriate Comment


The Package

Wednesday, January 05, 2011

I went to my mother's to get my package from my DH. In it was some junk mail, a baseball cap, a soda or beer can container for the summer, and two books that he claimed were for Christmas and our anniversary. They were both books he said he had read: "Depression for Dummies" and a book on what to do if you're in an abusive relationship. ???????? I'm not depressed anymore and I am not in an abusive relationshop: that's why I left him. I don't think I'll ever understand completely his way of thinking.

  
  Member Comments About This Blog Post:

CARRAND 1/6/2011 8:47PM

    Stress can definitely make you sick, and you certainly have some stress in your life right now. Take care of yourself.

Report Inappropriate Comment


Life's Difficult Sometimes

Tuesday, January 04, 2011

I had two phone calls when I got home from work and the combination left me a little shaken. The first was from my mother. She told me that DH in Alabama sent a package to her house with a note for her and stuff for me. (He knows my address!) The note was a sob story about how he knows he goofed and is patiently waiting for me to return to him (to be the "dutiful" wife). It was definitely a note to make her feel sorry for him. The second was from a dear male friend who told me that he will be purchasing a 2006 Chevy Malibu for me tomorrow since my van died. He's not expecting anything in return. So...I'm feeling a little numb at the moment and am not sure what to think. It was a bit to swallow in two calls.

  
  Member Comments About This Blog Post:

KAMAPERRY 1/5/2011 12:53PM

    I agree with the above, how awesome.

Report Inappropriate Comment
CARRAND 1/4/2011 8:05PM

    Be happy you have such a good friend. Take your time and let the situation clarify itself. Your husband sounds a little manipulative.

Report Inappropriate Comment
SONGOFJOY27 1/4/2011 7:36PM

    Take a deep breath. Say "thank you" for the gift. And then move on.

You ARE doing it!

Report Inappropriate Comment


Getting Tough on Myself

Monday, January 03, 2011

Okay - the holidays are over, it's a new year (and a new age for me): it's now time to buckle down and firm up all the plans and goals that I had floating in my head last week. I'm going to start off my day by exercising, planning my week, and starting to organize my closet. I will continue with other closets and cabinets as I can. I think that once my house is organized, my mind will follow.

  
  Member Comments About This Blog Post:

KKP4673 1/4/2011 1:39AM

    Organizing things outside of me always helps me to feel organized inside of me! I encourage you, girlfriend!! Go for it!! AND enjoy the journey and the process of it all!

Hope you have a great week this week!!

emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
KAMAPERRY 1/3/2011 12:06PM

    You can do it!

Report Inappropriate Comment
INGMARIE 1/3/2011 10:05AM

    emoticon such a good idea. emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
SUNRISE14 1/3/2011 6:47AM

    emoticon emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment


Putting Puzzle Pieces Together

Sunday, January 02, 2011

The light bulb went on this morning. All last week, I had this overwhelming urge to clean out and organize my house and my life. I still haven't finished partly due to the holiday activities. The reason for feeling this way dawned on me this morning. I know I have these feelings because a new year is beginning. But for me, I get a double dose of that feeling because a new year is literally beginning for me: it's my birthday. I do have a rough draft of what I want to accomplish this year. I will at least get this month's goals set by the end of the week. It is time.

  
  Member Comments About This Blog Post:

KAMAPERRY 1/2/2011 5:02PM

    Happy Birthday!! emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
SUGARBUNNIE1577 1/2/2011 11:29AM

    Happy Birthday! I love the feeling of new beginnings emoticon

emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
KXW561 1/2/2011 11:22AM

    Happy Birthday and Happy New Year. emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
WILLHAPPEN 1/2/2011 10:03AM

  Happy Birthday!!

Report Inappropriate Comment
NPA4LOSS 1/2/2011 9:54AM

    My son's birthday is today also! Happy Birthday! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

Report Inappropriate Comment
WYOBZM 1/2/2011 9:38AM

    emoticon emoticon emoticon Happy Birthday!

Report Inappropriate Comment


First Page  1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112 113 114 115 116 117 118 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 126 127 128 129 130 131 132 133 134 135 136 137 138 139 140 141 142 143 144 145 146 147 148 149 150 151 152 153 154 155 156 157 158 159 160 161 162 163 164 165 166 167 168 169 170 171 172 173 174 175 176 177 178 179 180 181 182 183 184 185 186 187 188 189 190 191 192 Last Page