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Feeling defeated...by life

Friday, April 18, 2014

I am by far a person who always "makes it work" come hell or high water, as the saying goes. But the man I am engaged to right now has me defeated. He has been living with me for 8 months and pays zero bills and I am paying his bills. I am broke! Completely. Not just financially but emotionally too.

I love this man but I cannot and will not live like this anymore. He is going to have to simply go back to his family. I am a single mom, I am a full time student and I now am working on my weekends to pay my bills, the house bills and his bills. I am done! Relationships are supposed to be about 2 people working together for a similar goal. This is me working and him not.

I am defeated......but I will change the situation this week because enough is enough!

  
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CLEARNIGHTSKY 5/1/2014 11:15PM

    I support you. You deserve the best.

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Maggie

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BEEANDHAM 4/18/2014 4:23PM

    I agree with Clesher! That is not okay! emoticon

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OTRADIOGIRL 4/18/2014 3:51PM

    Thank you all for the supportive comments. emoticon

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CLESHER 4/18/2014 2:21PM

    Trust your insincts here...no second guessing....you will do what is best...I have no doubt

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Cherrie

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GEMINICHIK 4/18/2014 2:02PM

    Its cheaper for you to move on before you say I do. Do not settle for anything OR anyone....you need to recognize & believe you deserve the best for you & your child. Your child that needs a strong, positive role models from both mom & the male you choose to bring into your childs life. Best of luck.
Blessings

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JOYCECAIN 4/18/2014 1:41PM

    Living together means sharing responsibilities. Of all things his own bills. Get rid of him, and if he gives you trouble, call the cops. No one should be living this way. emoticon

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LISASGONNADOIT 4/18/2014 1:38PM

    You can do it! Thankfully you realized what you need and what you deserve! emoticon emoticon emoticon

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Finally the scale is moving again

Saturday, October 26, 2013

I have been taking the thyroid supplements now for over 2 months and apparently they are beginning to take effect. I am losing again. Good eating + exercising = finally losing weight. Before I went to the dr I was tired, had to nap daily and couldn't lose anything.

The dr did not put me on thyroid medication (my thyroid although underactive isn't at a number that allowed for medicine) so I found a thyroid supplement and have been faithfully taking it.

Now? I am less tired, more alert, I rarely need naps and I am losing again! YAY!!! I walk and eat right (working on my water intake again its cold I prefer tea) So I am happy I found a supplement that is helping!

Have a happy SP day everyone!!

  
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OTRADIOGIRL 10/30/2013 9:23PM

    Thank you all!! It is so gratifying to know that my low energy and stagnated weight had an underlying cause! emoticon

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Walking more but not losing

Saturday, October 12, 2013

I am walking more, but my eating has been erratic......so of course I am not losing a thing. I am taking my thyroid supplements (doctor visit revealed an underactive thyroid but not enough to warrant medication) I finally am back to tracking my food and I feel better again. My walking is great I need to increase it so I walk on my non school days too. I have increased my thyroid supplement as of today and I will see if that helps.

The biggest thing for me is the erratic eating...on again off again...does not work! I need to stay diligent. And my water even has been erratic I have to get back to what works!

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Busy with school.....but walking lots more on campus

Monday, September 09, 2013

And for all my friends? Please take a moment and vote for me! I am trying to get lots of votes as I can use help with my education bills! Remember if you do vote check to see that your vote counts! Thank you!

http://www.drpeppertuition.com/profile This is the link to vote and for me? Kathleen M. You can read my story!

Lets try this one..... http://www.drpeppertuition.com/profile/164
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OTRADIOGIRL 9/13/2013 8:53PM

    Ok I added I think the corrected link! Thanks!!

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BEEANDHAM 9/12/2013 10:42AM

    Ye emoticon ah I'd be happy to vote but didn't work for me either. :(

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CLESHER 9/12/2013 9:06AM

    Link does not go to profile, just sign up :(

Please resend

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Going to the Doctor tomorrow

Monday, August 12, 2013

Well I finally made a decision to go to the local clinic to see and speak with a dr. I desperately need to figure out what is going on with this excessive tiredness! It could be various things but at my age I need to be sure what it is. So off to the dr at the clinic I will have a book to read and water to drink and a granola bar to eat (free clinic = long wait)

  
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OTRADIOGIRL 8/13/2013 8:11PM

    Thank you all!! I have tried so many natural and vitamin things but so far nothing has worked so hopefully some testing will bring results! I got to the clinic today and they made me an appointment for tomorrow! But it is affordable to me and that is a good thing! emoticon

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BEEANDHAM 8/13/2013 11:22AM

    Hoping you get good news and a easy solution!

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CLESHER 8/13/2013 9:48AM

    Very smart idea.....you can work with it, once you know what is causing it....

My fingers are crossed for you...enjoy the book...

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Cherrie

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PJMOMMATO3 8/13/2013 8:20AM

    Good Luck.

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MAW_OH 8/12/2013 10:43PM

    I also wish you the best.

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MELIS_24 8/12/2013 9:39PM

    Good luck. I know when I'm extra tired it's because I've been forgetting to take my B vitamins. It might be something completely different for you. I hope you find the answer.

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