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Beginning to Gear UP

Saturday, August 15, 2009

Well, I've been in a bit of a slump lately. Not much motivated to exercise or log much of anything, or in fact do much of any thing.

After some reflection, and "discussion" with friends, I think it's because I am back to work in the Kindergarten soon, and I've enjoyed being a SAHM for the better part of the last 5 months.

I have been disappointed in myself for not getting ALL the jobs on "my list" done, especially with the additional time I had off while on medical leave. But, the bottom line is I did get a lot done, and I still have some time to get at the rest. I'll look at my slump time as rest, regeneration and introspection and learn from it, and get moving.

I took a page from T's book and scheduled my turn at the neighborhood "girl's night". That gives me a deadline to work for. (I rarely allow myself to miss on those.) That will force me to get at that dining room, and weed out around the deck. Will host outside if possible, but have to be ready for the possibility that we're inside. That will also get my turn done BEFORE school starts. I do not need to be trying to host in September with school starting, and sports starting for the kids, and my BILs big 50th party to help host.

I know I haven't back slid too far, my smaller clothes still fit, and I'm still ordering Chicken Fiesta salads from McDonald's (and so is my 13 year old now!)

So, the glass is still half full, and I will be a busy girl for the next few weeks, with a full calendar, I always get more done... I think too much unscheduled time may be good for my soul, but not my body, or my home.

Balance is coming easier, but I'm no yogi yet!

  
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NO-41_RAZZYS_PL 8/16/2009 12:08AM

    hahahahaha!! Oh, GR8 Swami... teach *us* the scheduling way... emoticon hahahahaha!! SHEESH, Irish, how the heck did you plan on SQUEEEEEEEEZZZZZZZZing in anymore 'to do' on that list?!! Did ya' plan on NOT allowing your body to heal?!! Jiminy Cricket, girl-y girl, you've painted nearly every room in the house, totally remodeled the bathroom, started your 'summer brain expanding' routine, pulled off a MAJOR Kindergarten Celebration, went through that devastating 'learn to tell time' clock trauma emoticon on top of ALL the other smelly catastrophes of school year endings, PLUS... encouraging all of us here at SP with touching, uplifting, heartfelt, quotes we could ponder, as well as 'words to live by' and... not only sending your kids to camp or setting up sports for them, but taking time for extended family vaca!!

Lynn, my sweet friend, grounded to steadily set goals and achieve them... anchoring sooo many of us in the BALANCE you endeaver to maintain... how can you say that there is disappointment, except by admitting that you may be a tad OBSESSIVE over perfection!! Come, my long time friend... and RAISE your glass with me, to TOAST how INCREDIBLE you are!! emoticon You're the emoticon Lynn!!

Wish I Could STICK to Plans the Way YOU Do, My Dearest!!
LOVE, yer'
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(¸.·´ (¸.·´ *Annie

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TINATC26 8/15/2009 10:37PM

    I am so glad you had all that extra time to recover, to spend time with the family, to recharge those batteries. The dining room table will be the final feather in the cap of a wonderful summer. I am so happy that I got to "spend" it with you, my friend..

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_RAMONA 8/15/2009 4:20PM

    Lovely, Lynn! Glad to hear you're feeling less discouraged. I know what you mean about 'unstructured' time... I also get a lot more done when I'm sticking to routines. Unstructured time is peceived by brain as 'drifting time' and I always come out of those phases feeling disappointed with myself, too (there is never any shortage of things to do around here!). I have to continuously remind myself that I'm on a journey to myself, not to a particular destination. When I view it that way, I can usually see that regardless of what got done or not, there are elements of my life that improved in more subtle ways. You were healing, and your body was resting, an soon you'll be going full tilt. When you look back you'll likely see that this time served you well, and might not have been as 'wasted' as you may think! ;)

{{{{{{{{{ HUGS }}}}}}}}

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GIRLINMOTION 8/15/2009 12:51PM

    Nothing like having the girls over to motivate you to clean up house (I had one of those in May, house looked wonderful for a while, lol).

Glad to hear that things aren't backsliding too much for you!

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2LABS2LOVE 8/15/2009 9:07AM

    Lynn: Considering the type of surgery you had and the amazing recovery, I think you have done a super fantastic job! You motivate me. Don't worry about the dining room table...I fight the battle too..sometimes win but mostly lose. You are doing great!

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RACHJOB 8/15/2009 1:32AM

    Think positive and good things will happen. you can do anything you set your mind to. emoticon

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Quote of the day #19- J.M. Barrie

Saturday, August 01, 2009

"All the world is made of faith, and trust, and pixie dust."

J.M. Barrie- Peter Pan

I just love this quote, if everyone lived this way what a great world it would be. To my mind...

... LIfe is so much better if you can trust and have faith in those around you. If you have faith and trust most of the time that means LOVE. Love of a person, love of your God.... love.

... the pixie dust, the brilliant antidote. If people just looked for the miracles that seem like magic in the world.... stopped trying to control... looked on the bright side.... had more fun...

Well, I can dream, can't I?

  
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SUETINGE 8/14/2009 11:10PM

    Dreams are a must! Otherwise, how would we know what to reach for?

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NO-41_RAZZYS_PL 8/14/2009 8:10PM

    emoticon OH emoticon MY emoticon WORD emoticon I completely forgot about this quote, Irish!! I LOVE this quote!! Chases all the 'ar-ar' emoticon pirates AWAY. Those who try to STEAL our faith, and trust, and pixie dust, girlfriend!! I am sooo gonna' trot this over to my page!! THANKS, BEAUTIFUL!!
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In Barrie's original tale, Peter led Wendy and her brothers to Neverland by flying 'second to the right, and straight on till morning' for many days, though it is stated in the novel that Peter made up these directions on the spot to impress Wendy, and that they found the island only because it was out looking for them.
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But with that... I'll leave ya' with- Second star to the right, and straight on till morning! 1953 Disney film, Peter Pan


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PJMOMMATO3 8/1/2009 3:39PM

    We all should dream! It is good for us!

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TINATC26 8/1/2009 12:21PM

    Yes, my friend, you CAN dream...and in your own little corner of the world, you can make this your reality..and so can all of us, if we want to..and who wouldn't want to? Thanks for reminding us it's ours for the taking, it's easy to forget that sometimes, isn't it??

Pixie dust for all of us!!

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GIRLINMOTION 8/1/2009 11:43AM

    Yes, you can!!!

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Call me "Mom", no call me "Lunch Lady", no call me painter and electrician, no call me "TIRED"

Monday, July 20, 2009

Here's a (busier than usual) day in the life...

-Got up at 7am, at the pool by 7:50 for the kids' swim practice. Friend Fran and I walked for 50 minutes while our kids swam. I caught up with some friends and then
left the pool for a

-10am chiropractor appt.

-Abby had a 2:30 physical for camp and school.

-Dropped camp physical form off at the church

-Dropped Abby off at home

-Dropped prescription off for Tommy

-I had a 4pm hair appt. ...the roots were looking bad.

-Got home and checked on DH who has an abscessed tooth and was at the dentist for the second time since his crown replacement LAST Monday

- made dinner as nobody thought about eating though by now it was 6pm

-Sat for half an hour before Abby reminded me I promised (I hate it when I do that) to help her get her ceiling painted TONIGHT. So, I got myself off the couch and changed into paint clothes. At this point I donned a clear plastic shower cap (YOU MAY LAUGH NOW) to protect my hair investment. Abby and Claire rolled on the floor howling "you look like a Lunch mom"

-Painted half the ceiling, uneventful and instructional for Abby

-got to the ceiling fan... no problem DH had told me how to take it off... I did as I was told, and Abby held as I painted, then we went to put it back up. Uhhh Ohhhh. I did what I had done in reverse, no luck, I'm sweating, Abby's arms seemed to be falling off. Finally gave up and got DH up to help us. (I hate it when I can't finish what I start.) He couldn't get it either. Finally we get one screw to hold and stick an awl in t he other hole til the morning. Did make DH laugh, though... I was so hot and sweaty my shower cap was steamed up.

-Fan is in place if not permanently, but it is now 10:20pm and I've got to finish the ceiling so that it can dry overnight, and through the day tomorrow and be taped to paint.

I came down from the bedroom to watch the news and breathe. I need a shower and to wash my hair (which I was trying to avoid) but, at least there's no paint in it. Whew!
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NO-41_RAZZYS_PL 8/14/2009 7:53PM

    hmm... 8 days AFTER your pretzel back... did that chiropractor appt. have anything to do with that?!! emoticon HILARIOUS!! emoticon I KNOW that shower cap!! hahahahaha!! I've wore the 'lunch mom' cap to power wash the siding on the house!! hahaha!! Ahh... too FUNNY!! emoticon I'm with JKPONYGIRL-Jenn on THAT ONE, Irish!! Gotta' see the steamy shower cap!! hahahahaha!! What a day/night, girl!! Hope your DH has all that behind him now, and Abby has a beautiful room!! You're a SUPERWOMAN, Lynn!!
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2LABS2LOVE 7/29/2009 9:59PM

    Wow...I am impressed! You have the energy of a kid! emoticon

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JKPONYGIRL 7/21/2009 9:23AM

    can you please share an after painting pic with you in the steamy shower cap! LOL! what a crazy day!

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CJROMB 7/21/2009 1:03AM

    I had a 14.5 hour nap yesterday! I've been running on empty for months, and it caught up to me. Sounds like you could use an hour or two of my nap! :)

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_RAMONA 7/21/2009 12:50AM

    {{{{{{{{{ HUGS }}}}}}}}
YOU are SUPERMOM!!!!

(Promise or not, I porbably would have welched on the ceiling.)

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GIRLINMOTION 7/20/2009 11:54PM

    You sure did have a non-stop day. But you survived, way to go!!! Hope you get plenty of rest, tomorrow sounds busy too.

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47 going on 17 going on 77

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Was on a week long fun family (Can you say 40 relatives ranging in age from 2 to 69?) vacation last week. We ate, drank,swam, floated in the lake, played Scrabble, boated and sat around the campfire.

On Thursday, I was the (in the water ) instructor as my son and several nieces and nephews tried to water ski for the first time. I "used to be " quite a skier, but haven't skied since my now 11 year old was 4 and totally freaked out in the boat because she thought I was going to drown.

I was feeling pretty good and having lost a bit of weight this year and being much more fit. I decided I was going to ski myself.

The 47 year old me ran back to the cottage to get "the right suit on" and take 2 Ibuprofen as a preemptive strike. I was excited to get in the water behind the boat, and after a couple of tumbles succeeded in dropping one ski and slalom skiing. ! I was 17 again, cutting back and forth behind the boat, jumping the wake! I 'm surprised I didn't catch any bugs in my teeth I was smiling so broadly and "hollerin" my excitement. My aunt, the boat driver, ski mentor and still a great skier herself was just as thrilled.

Skied til my arms were sore (and longer than I thought I could go). Swam back to the boat and still had enough to hoist myself on the platform of the boat and help my daughter and nephew again.

Smiled all day, am still smiling at the thought of it!

But, the next day... I was bent over like a pretzel. My arms and legs "had it" I was strong and had been walking and doing ST. But, nobody told my lower back that this was coming. Ouch. I was still smiling. But, it did hurt. I looked 77 at least and an "old" 77 at that.

But, as I said, I'm still smiling, and from the depth of my heart and the "retired files" in my brain I got that 17 year old feeling again. When I was strong and fit and brave and "lighter"(not talking about pounds here but responsibilities). I don't want to be 17 again, not by a long shot! But, it was nice to "find" it again.

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NO-41_RAZZYS_PL 8/14/2009 7:32PM

    How EVER did I miss THIS, Lynn?!! I am reasonably quite quick to pick up on my friends writing their blogs, but... it's like yours were lost by SP in the Twilight Zone or somethin'!! SHEESH!! This sounds like one a' those most PERFECT days, and you shared such a FUN experience, and I never got an email that you blogged!! Sooo... here I am, over a month gone by, laughin' & 'seein' ya' blow those kid's minds with your agility and grace!! LOVE IT, girl!! Hope you took tons a' pictures and hope more than anything else that you NEVER lose that 17 yr old girl, again!!
Love, yer'
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(¸.·´ (¸.·´ *Annie
Ya' know, Lynn... I just happened upon this blog, by glancing over (came to your site to talk about how AWESOME it was that I didn't know you taught other grades, but I thought you'd be good at em' and YOU wrote back stating that those were the EXACT grades you've taught in the past...) and... anyway... FREAKY that your blogs have been escaping me...

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NEWMOMOVER40 7/29/2009 10:28PM

    emoticon emoticon emoticon (they don't have a waterskiier icon)
Rock On Lynn!!! I know just what you mean - triumph and elation that you can recall a day later through your groans of Oh My Gosh What Did I Do To My Body - that's just how I felt after I tried ice skating again for the first time in years, a few months back. :)

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2LABS2LOVE 7/29/2009 9:58PM

    Sounds like fun!

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MISSDIANE1 7/13/2009 7:18AM

    Lynn, that is a picture that I would have loved to have seen in person. I can just see your smile and hear your "hollerin" as you floated effortlessly in the water (going 100 mph).

I'm so glad you had a great vacation.

Love,
Diane

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_RAMONA 7/12/2009 5:09PM

    OMG, Lynn!!! I know what smile you're talking about... I'm wearing it right now, too!!!! Good for you... that's going to be me on skates next year (I blame falling this year on lack of strength and flexibility in my legs and back).

I'm no great water skier, but I love it! I always wanted to ski, but had little opportunity, the one time I had as a girl (age 13), I fell backward (obviously a pattern in my life... darn back end of mine!), 'forgot' to let go of the rope, and got dragged a long way under water as the rope proceeded to tear the snot out of my legs... inner thighs to knees. I was a mess... used diapers to bandage them, and it took two weeks to heal! LOL! BUT I STILL WANTED TO SKI! I dreamed about it, fantasized, envisioned myself skiing well.

It wasn't until I met my husband 12 years ago that I got my chance. I was scared spitless (thought I might be too old to start this sort of stuff) but I went for it. I was up almost immediately, and I stayed up (shows you what positive visualization can do). I jumped the wake, I slalomed, I flew... and they couldn't peel that grin off my face, no way, no how! It was one of the BEST days of my life! Thanks so much for reminding me!

I'm so glad you had such a blast on your holiday! Next year you won't be sore afterward! We don't need to be 17 again (wouldn't be as sweet if we were), we just need to be the best and strongest we can be now... we've still got IT... we've just got to use it MORE!

{{{{{{{{{ HUGS }}}}}}}}}

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JKPONYGIRL 7/12/2009 4:56PM

    Take 2 more advil and get ready to do it again on your next trip!

Whoo hoo Lynn!

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TINATC26 7/12/2009 1:06PM

    Rock on, indeed... Oh I am so glad I heeded the call of the computer as I walked passed it just now. I am smiling at the thought of first, you out there skiing, but more, the thought of the smile on your face and in your heart.. Thank you for sharing that story with us, Lynn..

I hope that memory and feeling stays with you until you do it again next year!!

Love ya, T

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EDGE_OF_DAWN 7/12/2009 12:24PM

    To have that wonderful feeling all over again. Keep on smiling!

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GIRLINMOTION 7/12/2009 12:15PM

    Oh what a wonderful feeling to feel young again and that you can conquer the world, lol. Do you think if you would have done some stretching afterward it would have helped?

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Summer Brains: TV vs Something More

Monday, June 22, 2009

Well, we are now into our second week of summer vacation here in Michigan. It's due to be a long one as we don't start back to school until after Labor Day here.

I told my kids they could watch as much TV as they wanted last week, BUT the amount of TV time they got this week was directly (and minute for minute) related to how much brain expanding time they spent last week. (For our purposes brain expanding = reading, journaling, practicing their instruments, time spent in tutoring. ) And that , that plan would stand for the rest of the summer. They didn't believe me, I think, until when we got back home at 8:30 last night and they flipped the TV on I said you're going burn your TV time on that. (The most time any one person accrued was 3.5 hours) They were dumbfounded, but turned the TV off.

Today, all three had their instruments out, everyone read and two of the three journaled. They all have at least 1.5 hours set aside for next week, or half their total for the week before.

Record keeping is easy... write down start time, stop time and activity, and be prepared to defend your records.

I am hopeful!

  
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JKPONYGIRL 7/7/2009 10:24AM

    Did I ever mention that you were a genius?????

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BUGS_MOM 6/22/2009 8:59PM

    I love that plan Lynn.

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NO-41_RAZZYS_PL 6/22/2009 8:59PM

    My Dear Irish... you NEVER cease to amaze me! Every single 'brain expanding' item is simply BRILLIANT!! How do you come up with this stuff?!! Wow... you could run for President with your organizational skills, girlfriend!!

I'll bet (at this time in their lives) that the kids are thinking 'mom is pretty strict' but that won't last for long BECAUSE... as you said... THIS is 'brain expanding' which MEANS... they can't help but gain INTELLIGENCE (yoo-hoo, hello) and KNOW that their mom is pretty AWESOME!!

Thanks for the email, Love. Still a little 'in a' funk' today... but much better with all the support and care of my SP family. Figure I'll wait... not be as rash as I was when I left L.I.L. for the 2nd time... and maybe 'see my way' clear of 'the funk' which knocked the wind out a' my sails...

Love, yer'
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(¸.·´ (¸.·´ *Annie
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GIRLINMOTION 6/22/2009 7:13PM

    What a great idea!



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