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What's your choice?

Monday, July 09, 2012

Day by day.
Step by step.
Choice by choice.
That’s how you’ll reach your fitness goals. But the first day, the first step, the first choice will be your guide to all the following days, steps and choices. You have to decide HOW you want to lose weight.

There are two ways to lose weight: the fast and the permanent. You might be thinking that the categorization I’m doing is not right as the first describes the time required and the second describes the time it will last. But believe me, thousands of stories of weight loss from people all over the world can easily prove one thing: when it comes to weight loss, fast can’t be permanent and permanent can’t be fast.

That brings you at a crossroad just at the beginning of your journey. What is more important to you? To get rid of this weight fast, as soon as possible and be able to see a certain number on the scale even for a little while? Well, you can find hundreds of crash diets and promising diet pills and supplements out there that can help you reach your goal. If, on the other hand, your main interest is losing the weight and keeping it off forever, no matter how long it will take you, then you should vote for what we call a “lifestyle change”.

I’ve previously shared with you my experience of both dieting and lifestyle change. This is the blog link in case you want to have an idea.

www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_jo
urnal_individual.asp?blog_id=4821497


Choosing to change the way you live won’t be easy. It’s actually the hard way. It’s the road less traveled. And it’s a bumpy road. Quitting on the diet mentality that most of us have been used to for years can be very difficult. Getting rid of everyday habits of your life up to now, whether you’re 20 years old or at the first stages of retirement, is a big deal. And that’s where motivation comes to do the trick.

Picture it. What do you want to look like in a year from now? How do you want to feel like? Which ugly habits do you wish to have got rid of? Make a visual of yourself and keep it in the front window of your mind. Whenever things get tough – because they will – close your eyes and stop by your mind’s window. Your image is still there. And it’s up to you to make it real.

Just believe it.


  
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FIT_MAMA_2_FOUR 7/10/2012 8:07AM

    yup yup. you got it:)

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ZANNBEE 7/9/2012 10:56PM

    Awesome blog!

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SHANTODD420 7/9/2012 1:17PM

    Thanks for sharing what a great blog.

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ANNIEONLI 7/9/2012 10:56AM

    Great blog!
Amen!
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Mirror, mirror on the wall…

Thursday, June 28, 2012

… who’s the most honest of them all?

Whether it’s your first attempt to lose weight or you’ve actually lost count of them, every time you are on square one, you are likely to feel determined and ready to shed those pounds once and for all. But if you want the outcome to be successful, you should start by facing your biggest ally and at the same time your worst enemy on this journey: yourself!
So, stand in front of your mirror, be honest to yourself and answer three simple questions.

1. “Do I really need to lose weight?”

Over the past few months that my weight loss became obvious I heard comments like “How did you do it? Why can’t I succeed?” voiced by perfectly normal-sized people and sometimes people that one could easily call skinny! There are thousands of influences out there that could cause us to have a distorted opinion of our body image. Of course the important thing for everyone is to feel good in their body. But if you don’t, think about it again. Don’t just count on weight charts and indexes. They might be indicative of our overall size but some flexibility is always accepted even by experts. Who do you usually compare your body image to? Are you really overweight or are you being a very strict judge of yourself? Give it a second thought. Then go on and set realistic goals based on a real-life, ideal body image of yourself.



2. "Who am I doing this for?”

You might be doing this for your husband because you’ve noticed the way his eyebrow raises at the sight of your skinny, fit next-door neighbor. You might be doing this for your wife because she keeps “reminding” you how handsome you looked when she first met you. You might be doing this for your best friend who’s getting married in a few months and wants you to be his best man or her maid of honor and would like you to look your best. All these may sound like great motivation – and they are, as long as they’re just a motivating occasion and not your actual reason. Otherwise, you’ll be taking orders from someone to start something you might not be ready for. And the chances of failure begin to rise.
You have to do this for you! In other words, you must want this badly! And such a strong desire can only be yours!



3. “Am I ready for the changes involved?”

Let’s face it. Any big life change requires sacrifices. When you decided to go into university, when you moved far away to another city to pursue the career of your dreams, when you took the big step of getting married, when you accepted the huge responsibility of becoming a parent, you had to leave some of your habits behind. Well, now you’re about to change yourself. You’re about to change the only thing that has been with you ever since the first second of your life and will carry you through to your last breath on this planet: your body! Does this sound like an unimportant change compared to the ones mentioned above? Then why wouldn’t it require sacrifices?



Focus on your goal and make these sacrifices worthwhile. Embrace them and they’ll lead you to a new version of yourself!

That was easy, wasn’t it? You practiced your first lesson of honesty to yourself. It might sound simple but it isn’t. If you think about it, you’ve lied to yourself many times. You’ve found ridiculous excuses for not exercising or for overeating, haven’t you?

But honesty is the foundation for any successful and productive relationship. And only if you have established such a relationship with yourself, will you reach your goal one day.




Face yourself, face your fears, face your challenges. Get ready for change!
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FIT_MAMA_2_FOUR 7/4/2012 11:15AM

    honesty IS the best policy. and it totally fits with weightloss and fitness.
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BAKER1009 6/29/2012 8:33AM

    Great blog Elle!
I think it is always a good first step to try and see why you got where you are. It doesn't all have to be bad. I mean, some people emotional eat. Others gained weight during pregnancy and just didn't have the time to spend on themselves after the fact. Regardless...identify that reason! And be honest with yourself. If you can't be honest with yourself, who can you be honest with?!

I love everything you've wrote here, and the motivation quotes/pictures. Wonderful blog!! Thank you for taking the time to write this and to help us all on this journey!

Hugs,
Beth

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LUCINDARW 6/28/2012 5:07PM

    You have hit the nail on the head! Honesty is always the best policy whether with someone else or your self. It does take a lot of courage for some of us to do that and follow through with change for life. I want to do it for me and to be around for my daughter and grandchildren so I can set a good example. Thank you for your blog. Lucinda

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ZANNBEE 6/28/2012 5:06PM

    This was an awesome blog. Again. Great reminder as always that it's a process and that it's as much about our mind as it is about choices.

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The changing process

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

In my last blog, I announced the launch of a series of blogs concerning my weight loss journey. So, what is this all about? Let me explain.

Next September I will have been a member of Sparkpeople for three years. During this time I spent lots of time reading and learning new things about nutrition, exercise and healthy habits. It took me almost two years to actually start losing weight and be successful. So, you’ll assume that’s all you need to do. Spend hours reading, learn everything you can about all these subjects, literally “soak” your brain in the sea of information and articles you can find here on SP and on the internet and you’ll be ready to reach your goals.
Unfortunately, it’s not that simple…

I’m sure most of you have seen the film “Matrix”. Do you remember the way they “downloaded” any information or knowledge they needed directly to their brains? Wouldn’t that be great? Do you need to learn how to fly a helicopter? Just “plug” yourself in and in a few seconds you’re a pilot! Do you need to be a nutritionist, a personal trainer and a fitness expert, all in one? Wait a few moments, until the “loading meter” is filled and… that’s it!
Even if we could use this fictional technology – which could prove really useful in other areas of our lives! – we wouldn’t have solved the puzzle of weight loss. The information would be really important but the secret is not in some “highly confidential” nutrition facts or some “top secret” training techniques.

The secret lies within!

It’s a process of changing your frame of mind and the way you think about food, exercise, diets, health and all the subjects concerning weight loss. It’s about you becoming a self-taught psychiatrist of yourself and only. Every day you’ll have to sit yourself on the couch and ask and answer questions. You’ll have to find what helps you in your progress and boost it or what halts your progress and fight against it. The secrets are all in your mind and you’re going to have to discover them. YOU are the only one who can do this.

So, I’m here to share my changing process. Hoping that you can find a helping hand in your own. At the same time, I’ll be standing by you, exploring new ways of staying healthy and discovering if I can really practice what I preach for the rest of my life. Remember that each and every one of us is different. But we have the same goal: a change of lifestyle that will lead to a healthy, long life.

We are in this boat together.
Let’s sail to the ocean of success!

  
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FIT_MAMA_2_FOUR 6/27/2012 8:44AM

    We ARE on this boat together.

I, mostly, love this journey. There are moments of defeat but I always pick myself up the next day or week or even month. Thanks for all the encouragement. I look forward to reading your comments.

happy Wednesday to yoouu!
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AEROBISAURUS 6/26/2012 11:43PM

    Yep! emoticon Can't wait to read about you're journey :)

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WANT2BEFIT10 6/26/2012 6:58PM

    So true Elle! Well written :) I'm looking forward to reading your blogs!

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ZANNBEE 6/26/2012 12:43PM

    Great blog. How we think about ourselves is key to governing our choices. Great blog.

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BAKER1009 6/26/2012 12:41PM

    Beautiful blog Elle, and so very true!
I'm looking forward to your series of blogs. I love reading everything you write!
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A successful year in numbers, facts and pictures!

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

This blog was supposed to have been posted yesterday but certain things came up and I only found time at about 2 am! Being too sleepy to type and upload pictures, I postponed it for today.

19th June 2011. That’s the day my serious attempt here on Sparkpeople began. I had already been a member for almost two years but with no success. The date wasn’t chosen by chance. My husband is the person who talked me into seriously trying hard to reach my goal. He is the one who made me believe that if we really want something, we can work hard and achieve it. So I chose his birthday to start my journey. And finish with this weight battle once and for all.

19th June 2012. One year later. Let’s see my progress in numbers.

Weight: From 87 kilos to 69. From 191 pounds to 152.
A total loss of 18 kilos – 39 pounds.

Waistline: From 99 centimeters to 82. From 39 inches to 32.
A total loss of 17 centimeters – 7 inches.

Resting heart rate: From 94 to 66.

Blood cholesterol: From 254 to 220. (I still have to work on that one!)

Size: From 16 (occasionally 18!) to 10. From XXL to M – and sometimes S!

But the things I’m really proud of don’t involve numbers. They are the non-scale victories, my fitness achievements, my strength and health proofs that I trade for nothing. All these things that a year ago I couldn’t imagine myself doing and I couldn’t actually do more than one or a few no matter how hard I tried. I’m talking about pushups, jumping jacks, lunges, planks, reverse planks, bicycle crunches. I’m talking about jogging all my way to my kids’ school. I’m talking about running up three floors in my apartment building. I’m talking about chasing my kids in the park. About health. About endurance. About strength. About freedom.

The benefits of exercise are the invaluable gift I got from my fitness journey. My strength is much more important than reduced sizes, clothes that fit or the number on the scale. Not that these didn’t make me happy of course! But what makes me even happier are all those everyday moves that I can do freely now. I can bend and tie up my shoe laces without feeling that the increased pressure will make something burst! I can run if I’m in a hurry – no, I couldn’t do this simple thing before! And numerous other things that I know many of you can imagine.

This is how I looked before:



And a before-and-after picture:


The picture on the left was taken on the day I joined SP in 2009.

I haven’t reached my goal yet but I really don’t mind. It just seems so difficult to lose any more weight and to break through this plateau and I’m not sure I want to go to extremes in order to see a smaller number on the scale. After all, I feel happy with the image in the mirror. And those few things that bother me can either be fixed with exercise or can never be fixed! They are just “time and experience marks” as I usually call them - just like face wrinkles. The only thing that bothers me is this cholesterol which is still a bit high and my doctor is sure that a few more pounds lost will definitely make a difference. I’ll just keep on with my healthy habits, wait and see!

What I really hope is that in 2013 on my husband’s birthday I will be able to post a blog here with the same maintained numbers and maybe some fitness accomplishments. Until then, I decided to launch a blog series about my journey. I’ll remember and share with you my thoughts, my struggles, my feelings, my success strategies. If I can help just one person to find the key to their own success, it will really be worth this journey.

I’ll just spread the Spark! That’s my new mission.
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BLOOMINGLENA 9/4/2012 4:28AM

    You look great! You are an inspiration to me and thank you for all the motivation! I hope my journey with SparkPeople has the same results for me! CONGRATULATIONS! I adore you for all the things you have achieved and for your inner strength that led you to be NUOVAELLE! YOU ARE AMAZING! emoticon

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MINNA72 6/26/2012 12:45PM

    WHOA!!! Look at you, girl! You look amazing! Congrats!

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WANT2BEFIT10 6/25/2012 1:26PM

    AMAZING!!!! Look at your total transformation :) You should be so proud of yourself and what you've achieved! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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ZANNBEE 6/22/2012 12:51PM

    Wow! So nice to see pics of you and your successes! Thank you for sharing your journey. Read your tribute to Jess and it made me cry. Congratulations for all that you've done! I am 6 months on my journey and I love being healthier. Way to go. You are an inspiration!

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BAKER1009 6/21/2012 11:29AM

    Elle you are such an inspiration!! I love seeing the before and after pictures. I've known your for over a year now and it's nice to finally have a face to put with your name :)
And it's cool to see just how far you've come!! You've always been a beautiful person, but I can see on your face in these pictures how much happier you are now and that's awesome!!
Yes, NSVs are just as important, if not more important, than what the scale says. I'm so glad that you realize that.

Keep up the awesome work, and I know for a fact that you'll have maintained perfectly and in 2013 you'll be so impressed with your success!!

Super hugs!!
Beth

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MICHSTATE 6/20/2012 2:26PM

    Awesome job!!!!!! WooHoo!!!!

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FIT_MAMA_2_FOUR 6/20/2012 2:21PM

    Wow-you look fantastic...and soooo much younger. You really do. Its funny how weight adds years. I know you will maintain. Keep on doing what your doing:)
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03BFISCHER 6/20/2012 1:34PM

    Great journey!! Congratulations on your victories and the life you have gained!!!

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AEROBISAURUS 6/20/2012 1:24PM

    I LOVE your new mission. I LOVE your blog! I can't agree with you more about the non scale victories! I try to stress that to everyone I know who wants to be healthier and fitter. The scale means nothing! You are an inspiration! Way to work it! emoticon

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CATDUG19 6/20/2012 1:11PM

    Wow what a great year. Not only hav you loss a lot weight it looks like you have lost about 15 years. Congrats and keeping pushing yourself

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SHANTODD420 6/20/2012 1:08PM

    Congrats and you look amazing keep up the hardwork and dedication.

Shannon

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JESSNSTONE 6/20/2012 1:08PM

    Amazing! You should be so proud of all you have accomplished! Way to go!!!

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Good luck, Jess!

Friday, June 15, 2012

When I first joined Sparkpeople back in 2009, her story was the first inspirational success story I read. I was amazed by her courage, by her struggle as a parent, by her choices and her hard work. She became one of my first Sparkfriends. Without knowing it, she’s been one of my best sources of inspiration. She became a runner. I would always read her training blogs with enthusiasm because they would always help me find the strength inside me to follow her example and find the athlete in me. Her race blogs would bring tears to my eyes. Tears of pride and happiness for a friend I’ve never met, I probably never will but has made a great impact on my life.

Her name is Jess. In the Sparkpeople world, she is known as WANT2BEFIT10.

Tomorrow she’s running her first marathon. I really wish I could be there to support her, to tell her how much I believe in her, to celebrate her successful journey in the runners’ world. But since I can’t do that, I thought I’d write this blog to offer wholeheartedly my best wishes for good luck.

So, Jess, this is for you. A little inspiration for tomorrow. For YOUR day.
You can do this. Your mind and your soul have been ready for this for a long time now. Your body has no other choice but to follow.
I’ll “see” you at the finish line!













  
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WANT2BEFIT10 6/15/2012 4:38PM

    You are so incredibly sweet!!!! I have tears, and no words. I am so glad that I decided to log in tonight! I'll be sure to post after the race!

Hugs!
Jess :)

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BAKER1009 6/15/2012 7:43AM

    What a lovely tribute blog Elle!

Good luck Jess!

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