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This Drama of Wanting and Achieving

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

When it comes to the things we want, we all seem to have an endless bucket list. And no matter how many times we cross something off that list, we add new things to replace it. In life, this drama of wanting and achieving and wanting more is all a part of the dance. The things we want motivate us to get up and get them.

And yet, at the same time, we torment ourselves with the wanting, especially when we want something we can't have or find out of reach or unobtainable. It is in cases like these that it might be more fruitful to entertain the idea that maybe what you really want is already right in front of you. Maybe you are using the desire you can't fulfill to distract you from truly engaging the blessings you already have. It may seem like that doesn't make sense, yet we do it all the time. It is always easier to see this in other people than to see it in ourselves. We have all heard our friends wishing they were more this or less that, and looking at them we see clearly that they are everything they are wishing they were. We know people who have wonderful partners and yet envy you yours. We wish we could give these people a look at their situations from our perspective so that they could see that what they want really is already right in front of them.

It's not too far-fetched to consider that we might be victims of the same folly. It can be scary to actually have what we want. We get caught up in the chase and forget to enjoy the beauty right in front of us—like a child who never wants the toy she has in her hand but always the one just out of her reach. Take a moment today to consider the many things you are holding in the palm of your hand and how you might best play with them.

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SNOWMAIDEN 11/23/2011 1:58PM

    This is so powerful! I've sat here for ages but nothing I write seems to be what I want to say. Wow, this has really got under my skin, in a good way. I'm going to be thinking about this for a long time!

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The Ripple Effect

Friday, November 18, 2011

Why is it that we as humans automatically think that the only way to initiate profound transformation is to take extreme action when in fact each of us, carries within us the capacity to change our world in small ways for better or worse. Everything we do and think affects everything in our lives, and their reactions in turn affect others. As its impact grows it can become a source of great joy, inspiration, anxiety, or pain. Your thoughts and actions are like stones dropped into still waters, causing ripples to spread and expand as they move outward. The impact you have on your world is greater than you could ever imagine, and the choices you make can have far-reaching consequences. You can use the ripple effect to make a positive difference and spread waves of kindness not only in your own world but that will wash over the world.

.Every transformation, just like every ripple, has a point of origin. You must believe in your ability to be that point of origin if you want to use the ripples you create to spread. Consider the effect of your thoughts and actions, and try to act graciously as much as possible.
The momentum of your influence will grow as your ripples moves onward and outward. One of those ripples could become a tidal wave of positivity.

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    I agree! Well said.

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FORBANDE 11/21/2011 7:43AM

    Well said. It's so easy to get overwhelmed and think we have to do a total transformation to see any results.

Love your blogs!

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BRIGHTPENNY 11/19/2011 11:47PM

    Beautifully said! I don't know what you do for a living, but you have a gift with words. Ever think of compiling your blogs at the end of this journey and having them published??
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Breaking The Habit

Thursday, November 17, 2011

If you’re surprised every time you step on the scale, you may be eating more than you think.

Every day, we make decisions about what to eat and when to eat, yet most of us are completely in the dark about what influences how much we choose to eat. To some degree, everyone is guilty of unhealthy mindless eating, which is triggered by hidden cues that persuade us to overeat. By increasing our awareness of certain seemingly innocent triggers, we can and should become a healthy mindful eater and stop consuming unnecessary empty calories that add up to unwanted pounds. Here, in descending order, are the top 5 habits that are making you gain weight and how to break them.
Dr. OZ

Here's a rude awakening! How many of us knew that since the "cut down" on fat; low fat, fate free food craze began roughly 30 years ago, the obesity rate in America has actually more than doubled. Of course, many other factors are at play in fueling this health crisis, but what many people don’t realize is that “fat-free” does not mean low in calories. In fact, to make up for lack of flavor, manufacturers tend to add more refined sugars, flour and thickeners to fat-free products, which causes the calorie content to be greater. It's because the fats in these foods are replaced with low-performing white carbs that digest quickly and are rapidly absorbed into the bloodstream. This causes the classic sugar high and crash followed by a hunger rebound.
No wonder when we start cutting back or eliminating sugars altogether we experience withdrawal, with severe headaches, and cravings that will only squelched with succumbing to eating something sweet.
And how many, be honest, often view a low-fat or fat free label as a green light to eat much more than they normally would, unaware that low-fat versions or fat free of foods are usually not much lower in calories than the regular versions?

By staying away from deceptively low-fat packaged foods like cookies and chips we most certainly can Break the Habit! Only by choosing low-fat food items that are not highly processed, such as low-fat we can dairy products including milk, cheese and yogurt we can certainly Break the Habit .

And how many of us remain aware of how much and of what we are eating when we eat out with one or more persons be it family or friends? For instance, if you eat with just one other person, we’re likely to eat about 35% more than we normally would. And when we eat with four or mre people, our consumption rate jumps to 75% more. And when eating with a group of seven or more, you eat about 96% more than if you were eating alone!

Here's important food for thought: The average person eats out with a group about three times a week. This means that if you’re not cautious, you can consume 72,000 extra calories over the course of a year, which translates into about 20 pounds of weight gain.

I'm not saying we have to give up on our social life! Eating with others is not only part of life, but also has positive effects on our overall well-being. But we need to remember: The healthy part revolves around the company, not the food. To avoid mindless overeating:

Being mindful; don’t pace yourself with the fastest eater at the table. Instead, pace yourself with the slowest eater. Also, try to be the last person to start eating!
Making arrangements to do other things with friends and family besides just eat is also helpful. And if your plans do involve eating, make sure to also include a physical activity afterward. It can be as simple as a 20-30 minute walk.

And then there is meal multitasking How many of us doing other things while we’re eating, such as: watching TV, reading, working at the computer or driving while eating (which is also dangerous). These habits take the focus off the food and make you more likely to overeat without realizing it.

To Break The Habit; first, power down or move away from the distraction. Find a place away from your desk or TV that is peaceful and free of anything that may take your focus away from your food.
These days too many of us are busy and can’t even find 30 minutes to sit down and focus on a meal. However, 15 minutes is doable and better than eating in a distracted state for 30 minutes

And how many of us eat bag-to-mouth? This way of eating is a sure recipe for disaster since it’s impossible to gauge serving sizes this way. When you’re grabbing out of a seemingly bottomless pit, you’re likely to underestimate how much food you’ve actually eaten.

To Break the Habit; look before it’s too late. That means plate it and then eat it.
Pre-packaged snacks provide a visual cue that we’re finished. While putting together your own 100-calorie snack packs of fruits and vegetables, are a good idea here, there are more affordable ways to control your eating. Buy your favorite snack in bulk, measure out the appropriate serving, and pack it up in plastic baggies to save money and calories.

And the number one habit hiding in plain site Artificial Sweeteners

man oh man! Look at this!
The average American consumes 24 pounds of artificial sweeteners each year, a habit that could actually be making you heavier. Studies show how these substances may confuse the body’s regulatory systems that control hunger. Whenever you eat, your body is trained to expect calories, but it’s not getting them when you eat zero-calorie sweeteners. You actually end up craving more food and not feeling full. What’s more, artificial sweeteners are up to 7000 times sweeter than natural sugars and this can desensitize taste buds!

And too, beyond the commonly used serving packets, artificial sweeteners are often hidden in everyday items not advertised as diet foods such as cereal, vitamins, sauces and even baby food. Look for these key words on food labels to spot artificial substitutes:

Neotame (used in stable baked goods)
Acesulfame (found in diet sodas)

If addicted; To Break the Habit
Consume no more than two servings (two packets or one diet soda) of artificial sweeteners per day.
Try combining a half a teaspoon of your preferred artificial sweetener with a teaspoon of raw sugar. Then eventually wean yourself off the artificial sweetener.
Choose natural alternatives such as honey or agave. Or try coconut sap syrup, which has a low-glycemic index and just 10 calories per teaspoon. It also contains B vitamins, potassium and amino acids. Because these are all quite sweet tasting, you’ll find you don’t need to use much of them. Coconut syrup is available at health food stores for about $7.

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FORBANDE 11/21/2011 7:41AM

    What a great blog!! Thanks so much for the education and inspiration!

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BRIGHTPENNY 11/19/2011 11:51PM

    Really informative blog!

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RAINBOWCHOC 11/17/2011 2:20PM

    well worth reading! thank you for more useful insights into how we got into the state in the first place

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Breaking Your Boundaries

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

“When you're trying to motivate yourself, appreciate the fact that you're even thinking about making a change. And as you move forward, allow yourself to be good enough.”
— Alice Domar

Maybe you've hit a motivational wall and need to get back on track. Or maybe it's time to head down another road entirely. But how? What you're looking for is a breakthrough to make it happen.

When Grand Plans linger in the daydream stage, there's always a risk that they'll die there.

1. Go Public

Going on the record is one way to keep them alive. "If you tell everybody you're running a marathon, you don't want to quit "When you put your goals in front of others, there's accountability, and serious motivation in not wanting to lose face or let yourself down. Whatever your goal you can draw enthusiasm and ideas from like-minded dreamers.

2. Confront the Risks

You might think that projecting certainty will get your loved ones to buy into your goal, but often it's being honest and vulnerable about the stakes that can really activate your support system.

3. When in Doubt, DIY

If help isn't forthcoming ask yourself: 'Is there another way to make this happen?'
If you have a dream, you can't let people tell you no!

4. Know Your Strengths

Sometimes Strengths—our abilities seem so obvious, and so they're easy to overlook. Play it forward.

5. Spread the Word

"Develop a supportive community

6. Cultivate Wonder

"Many of the world's inventions don't come from people simply working hard and throwing themselves at a project," says life coach Kathlyn Hendricks, PhD. "They come from wonder—from curiosity and a willingness to be delighted. That is your fuel source and your reservoir, and most people need to practice it at least ten minutes a day." The best way to shake free of your usual thinking patterns, Hendricks adds, is to make the sound hmmm aloud. "It's impossible to criticize yourself when you're making that sound," she says. "Follow it up with a question: 'Hmmm, I wonder what I'll feel like after exercising for the first time?. Hmmm, I wonder if I need a Web site of supportive weight loss. Hmmm, I wonder if I can....'" The answers will often launch you into new territory.

7. Embrace Your Critics

Naysayers come with the territory. Take all the negativity and tell them where to stuff them." Your in this for the long haul whatever it takes Commitment, consistency and control!

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MARNIKENNEDY 11/16/2011 7:19PM

    Love this! Thanks so much for posting!!!


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Redefining The Scale

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

No matter what our weight, we can and should be using the cues from our physical and mental selves to judge how healthy we are rather than using the numbers on the scale as the defining rod.

Health is not and should not be a numerical concept and cannot be defined using statistics. Human beings, however, tend to want to quantify well-being into easily understandable figures. We feel compelled to ascribe numbers to every aspect of wellness, from the qualities of our food to our fitness levels to the physical space we occupy. As a consequence of social pressures, we turn our attention away from health and focus instead on the most contentious of these figures—weight—checking our scales to see how we measure up to our peers and role models. Yet low and behold each of us is actually equipped to gauge our relative healthfulness without any equipment whatsoever! Trouble is we seldom use it!

What we should be doing is as with everything else in life finding a balance. This includes the use of the scale, When we have that balance and stop defining our health by numbers we instead commit to a lifestyle that honors the innate wisdom that comes from within our bodies, mind and spirit. It is logical of course to examine how we feel while considering our health—as a strong, fit, and well-nourished individual we'll seldom feel heavy, bloated, or fatigued.

If we have concerns regarding our weight, we should remind ourselves that at its proper weight, our bodies will feel buoyant and agile. Movement becomes a source of joy. Sitting, standing, walking, and bending are all easier because our joints and organs are functioning as they were meant to. When we are physically healthy, our minds will also typically occupy a place of well-being. Mental clarity and an ability to focus are two natural traits of whole-self health. Surprisingly, promoting this type of easy-to-discern wellness within ourselves takes no special effort outside of satisfying our hunger with nourishing, wholesome foods and moving our bodies.

The numbers you see on the scale, while nominally informative, can prevent us from reaching our healthful eating goals by giving us a false indicator of health. You will know when you have achieved true health because every fiber of your being will send you signals of wellness. When we actually choose to listen to these signals instead of relying on the scale, our definition of well-being will be uniquely adapted to the needs of our body and of our mind.

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MARNIKENNEDY 11/16/2011 7:26PM

    Beautifully said! I think the scale is highly over used. It's how we feel that has the real meaning!

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DEE0973 11/16/2011 10:00AM

    So very true and difficult at the same time. I'm working on this aspect. Have a Blessed Day

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GONEWLIFE 11/16/2011 8:53AM

    Well said !

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