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Tuesday, July 20, 2010

I'm clam now and thinking rationally now but last night I could have chewed her up and spit her out but no I think before I speak I want to make sure there is nothing I say or do that I will have to regret later or apologize for.
My Denver has had a chronic sore on his back end for almost a year now and I've been working with the vet to heal it. Yesterday I took him to the groomers as I do every year to shed his winter coat. Well she seen it and when she called me she decided she had the right to presume asume and accuse me of neglect and that if I didn't do something about it swhe was calling the humane society; she had pictures for proof.
I held my tongue because she did everything in the book to make a complete fool of herself.
So I waited for today Called the vet for further medications and to follow up as scheduled; regardless of her tirade.
If she'd stopped to think before she spoke and inquired intead of presuming & accusing she would of found out that he was being treated.
She made a rash judgement call and followed through with it. She's about to find out not to cross me though because if she did do what she claimed; actually called the Humane Society and they follow up she's going to look like a complete ....... I called her on it this morning and she couldn't take the heat and hung up. (Laughing)
If they do follow up they are more than welcome to come into my home They'll only find out that the environment is clean, responsible; all outdoor cats male and female are neutered and spayed, loving and the animals are actually spoiled. They will find no neglect or abuse here! AH It will look good on her.

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CAPTNSHORTBOB 7/21/2010 8:55AM

    emoticon to you and your critters. You handled it very well. I am afraid I would have not been so well mannered.

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TAMMYTH64 7/20/2010 7:55PM

    I'm sure when they investigate, she'll eat her words! Bwahahaha

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WHISPERING-PINE 7/20/2010 6:36PM

  All the best to you and your dog. I hope everything goes well for you and the problem gets solved. Perhaps a new Vet is in order!! emoticon

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ROTTLADY 7/20/2010 6:27PM

    I am not sure I'd be able to wait until I calmed down.

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MARTY19 7/20/2010 3:59PM

    I would have been annoyed with her as well. At least you waited until you were calm.


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Sunday, July 18, 2010

If you follow the news about health and fitness these days and the constant focus on obesity, you may get the feeling that you're doing everything wrong. You sit all day at the computer -- wrong! You drive everywhere instead of walking -- wrong! You watch too much TV, don't take the stairs enough, don't exercise enough -- the list goes on and on. Sitting around, it seems, has become as dangerous as driving without a seat belt and, yet, that's how most of us spend our time.

It's clear that our sedentary world doesn't call for much activity, yet we need that activity to stay healthy and lose weight. So, how can we make exercise a more natural part of our lives? The first step is to figure out what's really behind our inactivity.

What's Stopping You from Exercise?

We're all familiar with the most common reasons we don't exercise -- we're too busy, too tired, it's too boring and confusing, etc. But are those reasons or are they excuses? We may tell ourselves we're too tired or busy, but the real reasons we don't exercise often go a little deeper.

1. We're not used to being active. For many people, structured exercise is something they've never had to do before. As a result, bringing exercise into an already busy schedule often feels like having an unexpected (and unwelcome) guest come for a visit. Having to rearrange your schedule to accommodate this guest causes stress, anxiety and even resentfulness. That's often how we feel when we realize that starting an exercise program may require major changes in how we live and schedule our time.

2. Today's world doesn't require as much movement. The way we live now doesn't provide many opportunities to move around -- we don't have to be active to get things done. If you come from an active family and have managed to stay active over the years, you may not have as much difficulty. But, if you don't have that foundation, you're now seeing how hard it is to work exercise in after years of being inactive.

3. We see exercise as a luxury. We know that exercise is necessary for good health, quality of life and weight management. Yet, even with experts asking us, practically begging us to exercise (and broadening the definition of exercise so much so that now housework is considered exercise), we're still trying to find a way around it. Whether it's a pill, a diet, a gadget or plastic surgery, too many of us still think we can get all the benefits of exercise without actually having to do it.

4. We view exercise as pointless or difficult. What do you picture when you think of exercise? Riding a stationary bike to nowhere, eyes rolling back into your head from boredom? Or maybe a complicated aerobics class where you're tripping over your feet? Unfortunately, too many of us see exercise (or at least what we've defined as exercise) as something negative. It's boring, pointless, difficult, repetitious...fill in the blank and you've probably thought it. And if that's how you view exercise, is it any wonder you don't want to do it?

5. The consequences aren't immediate. For most things in life, there are immediate consequences if we don't do what we're supposed to do. But what happens if you don't exercise? Usually, nothing. At least, not right away. Even knowing the possible consequences (such as weight gain, heart disease, diabetes, cancer) aren't enough to get us going because it's tough to worry about something that hasn't happened or may never happen, isn't it?

Do any of these ideas strike a cord with you? If so, you may be wondering if it's even possible to find the motivation to exercise. The good news is that even just a small change in how you think about exercise can make a difference
motivation isn't something that just happens to you, but something you create for yourself. Exercise may be all about moving the body, but you won't get anywhere until you move your mind first. Getting past your mental roadblocks can open the door for new ideas and new attitudes.

1. Accept the fact that you have to exercise. If you spend most of your time sitting and you want to lose weight and get healthy, exercise is a must. Nothing, no pill or diet or surgical procedure can take the place of being active. Making peace with that fact often makes doing it a little easier and, the good news is, your choices abound. Exercise doesn't have to happen in a gym or take up hours of your time. Knowing you can create your own exercise experience may help you get up and get moving.

2. Acknowledge your lifestyle. In the past, we had more reasons to move. We had to cut our own grass, wash our dishes by hand, walk to and from school through eight feet of snow uphill both ways -- oops, that's my grandmother talking. The point is, things are different today and we can't go back to the past. Most of us aren't going to get rid of our computers, TVs, cars and cell phones and that isn't necessarily the answer. After all, these things are useful and important to us. But, these things can contribute to our health problems if we let them take over. Acknowledging your responsibility as well as a need to find balance brings you one step closer to changing how you live.

3. Make exercise mean something to you. For many people, exercise is a means to an end -- a way to lose weight and get that perfect body...or at least a better one than they have now. Future goals are nice, but there's another part to the equation that, when missing, makes exercise hard to stick to: Purpose. In other words, your workouts need to have value, regardless of whether you ever reach your desired goal. Always working for some future, intangible thing isn't enough - we need it to mean something now.

So, what does exercise mean to you besides a way to lose weight? Is there any value, outside of your weight loss goals, to working out? For me, exercise is a way to reduce stress and keep my energy up. For you, exercise might be the only time you get to yourself each day. Find you're own value and meaning and you'll find your motivation.

4. Find your own exercise path. Too often, the mainstream idea of exercise involves things like health clubs, cardio machines, fitness classes, etc. That's unfortunate if the thought of doing those things makes you cringe. Here's some good news -- you have the freedom to do whatever activities you like. If you hate the gym, you don't have to join one to get fit. If you hate the repetition and boredom of machines, you can try more interactive things like basketball or spin class. If you like to keep things simple, you could take several walks throughout the day or add some laps the next time you shop at the mall. Find out what you like and forget the rules.

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TAMMYTH64 7/20/2010 2:34PM

    I love it! There are sooo many excuses that just one person can come up with! Get over it and get on with it! Baby steps can be the start of a great and healthy relationship!


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ROTTLADY 7/19/2010 11:18PM

    Very good insightful informative blogs. Right on. Awesome

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Thursday, July 15, 2010

We officially signed the final paperwork as to ownership of our house and propety today!!!!!! (a year and a half later of the last payment being made!) But it's done! Everyone is invited to a mortgage burning this weekend!!!


For what it's worth

Thursday, July 15, 2010

For what it's worth, after the day I've had today, I've decided that
from this point on, I'm going to let my hair down
and post more frequently to my blog.

No more putting pressure on myself to stick
mainly to principles of self health care, and to
tip toe around charged topics .

And if and when I feel like reading someone the riot act, Dad Gummit! I'll do it!
I'll do it on my blog; (annonumously of course)

Which means to:

Reprimand rowdy characters and warn them to stop behaving badly.
And beleive me I've had to do just that more than once twice three times in my life time!
These days, itís just a figurative expression meaning to give an individual or a group a severe scolding or caution, or to announce that some unruly behaviour must cease. But originally it was a deadly serious injunction to a rioting crowd to disperse.

The Riot Act was passed by the British government in 1714 and came into force in 1715. This was the period of the Catholic Jacobite riots, when mobs opposed to the new Hanoverian king, George I, were attacking the meeting houses of dissenting groups. There was a very real threat of invasion by supporters of the deposed Stuart kings ó as actually happened later that year and also in 1745. The government feared uprisings, and passed a draconian law making it a felony if a group of more than twelve persons refused to disperse more than an hour after magistrates had told them to do so. To invoke the law, the magistrates had to read the proclamation contained in the Act aloud to the mob, something that often required more courage than they could summon up:

Our sovereign Lord the King chargeth and commandeth all persons, being assembled, immediately to disperse themselves, and peaceably to depart to their habitations, or to their lawful business, upon the pains contained in the act made in the first year of King George, for preventing tumults and riotous assemblies. God save the King.

The pains or penalties were penal servitude for life or not less than three years, or imprisonment with or without hard labour for up to two years. The Act remained in force for a surprisingly long time, only finally being repealed in 1973, though it had been effectively defunct for decades.

And when I feel the urge to play my guitar and belt
out a tune; don't hold your breath waiting to hear me sing -
I think I need another couple of decades to develop
that kind of courage.

Of course, I'll continue to share thoughts on
self health care, things that I already know and
things that I learn in the days ahead.

Just wanted to give fair warning that I'm going to
show a few more colors that have long lived alongside
my thoughts on taking care of ourselves and others.

That's all for today.

May all of us have a safe, healthy, and restful
weekend ahead,



Wednesday, July 14, 2010


The courage to begin separates dreamers from achievers.

Your difficulty and the difficulty of everyone who ever desires to achieve anything worthwhile comes in the movement.

Don't always be intending to live a new life but never find a time to begin living it.

Most people fail because they never get started. They don't go they don't overcome inertia, they don't begin.

Begin to free yourself at once by doing all that is possible with the means you have.

As you proceed in this spirit, the way will open for you to do more. The worst you can do is not to try.

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JARYSE 7/15/2010 5:07PM

    Why, oh why must you (and HARPER369) always get me waaaay beyond motivated?
SERIOUSLY! I love this!

Would you mind so terribly if I copy it down and frame for my abode? It will certainly remind me that I'm not just a dreamer, but I am also an achiever! emoticon

Thank you so much for this!

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