Good Morning; I got up early to go to the gym b/c I have some errands to run this morning. Well after I opened my email, there was a legal document for us to review and then a conference call today. I have to rearrange my schedule again for DS.
I know this is needed for me to be involved with this case b/c DS does not always know what to ask. I hope we can get things done today and off to ex.
The lawyer is good and has laid out what DS needs. I hope this can be resolved peacefully and quickly with DS having some visitation rights. I am not sure how that form would take, but DS does not want to give up his rights as a father.
Ex does not want him involved in his daughter's life at all. She wants another man to adopt her. I am taking care of myself. Exercise and eating clean!!! Have a good day!
Good morning- Had some stress but b/c I have exercised nearly every day I do not feel so drained. Had 2 VA appts with DS. One was very beneficial and the other was not needed. I still think we learned much from the appt, but some how the appt was made for physical therapy but there was no orders for the appt. The therapist talked to DS and we got a pair of forearm crutches. We asked for water therapy but he said that DS would have to go to another VA. So to me last week was a success because I exercised and ate clean. have a good weekend!!
Good Morning; conference call with lawyer confusing. There is no way they can understand the entire picture in such a short time. I have to turn it over. As my DH keeps saying it is not our problem but our DS. I have to remember to keep me first with my exercise and my tracking of food. All of this is stressful, I was unable to sleep much last night. I got on the scale and I am my lowest in many years. The is the same weight I have been trying to lose for about a decade. This is a plus for me. It tells me that I am going in the right direction. I am going to keep going!!
Good afternoon; the situation with DS and his ex has been weighing on me. I got on the web and found a lawyer. we are getting a free consultation via phone b/c baby is out of state. The lawyer was very nice. She is going to lay out the pros and cons of the all scenarios. DS will have to decide. Ex says she does not want child support, but wants medical insurance. Depending on the scenario, there will be a fee. Pro-Bono lawyers are full and have a waiting list. DS has to response by end of next week. oh well, this has to get done. I am exercising and eating clean. For today, I am learning to manage stress through exercise and eating clean. DS is grateful for me helping him. He thanked me.
I told him it is not over.
Good afternoon-waiting to watch the World Cup. Today is a day to get little stuff in the house done. I wanted to get my exercise out of the way. I was at the gym very early while it was still cool. DS decided to go for a walk early instead of going to the gym. I am calling a lawyer tomorrow and hopefully I can get an appt very soon.
DS has to response back to this paperwork he was served. We also have some appts for the VA this week. One of them is still in the area of accessing his back. DS has to come up with some paperwork which is his problem. I am not willing to do everything myself. have a good day!!