Saturday, March 21, 2009
So my best friend lives 4 hours away from me. She is one of the most important persons in my life. She is going through a rough time because she is trying to decide if she wants to leave her husband or stick it out in an unhappy marriage. I feel I have done what I can do being this far away from her. I called her every day for a week to check on her, but she has never been much of the telephone talking type. I told her last friday to call me if she needed me. Then I got swallowed in to my hectic week and never heard from her. We were suppossed to go down and visit this weekend but we have absolutely ZERO money to buy gas to go down there. So I texted her mother today (who is my husbands aunt) and said, I am sorry we can't come..money troubles are bad. Thinking I would get a supportive response. I was WRONG. I got a response worthy of the devil saying she was furious with me for not only not coming down but for not calling her daughter all week to check on her because she had a bad week. Im sorry that she had a bad week but I am not psychic. I told her to call me if she needed me..because everytime I call she tries to rush off the phone and doesn't want to talk. So, now I am the bad guy. Because I didn't call. I had a very crazy week between work, school, money troubles, and being a wife..the week flew by in a blur. Before I knew it it was Friday. I don't think I did anything wrong? Do you think i did something wrong?