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Dr. Joseph MercolaSaturday, August 25, 2012
As many of you know, I have been on this journey since January 2011. I started by counting calories, carbs, protein, fat, etc as per the SP tracker. Earlier this year I started reading Mark's Daily Apple about eating Grok where the emphasis is eliminating grains and root veggies, while eating meat and veggies. I successfully eliminated breads, potatoes, pasta, etc but I still wasn't seeing any weight loss, even while exercising for hours at a time, literally. ![]()
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OUTDOORGIRL68
8/28/2012 4:23PM
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I also will check it out.
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GOSPELCLOWN
8/27/2012 9:14PM
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I will check it out! Karen in BC Report Inappropriate Comment |


ID_VANDAL
8/27/2012 1:08PM
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Thanks for the post. I'm going to check that out and I'm glad you found it and that it seems to be working for you!! Keep up the good work. Vandal Report Inappropriate Comment |


MRS_TOAD
8/27/2012 8:20AM
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I'm so glad you have found something that works for you! Report Inappropriate Comment |


RAINBOWCHOC
8/27/2012 6:38AM
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I think we all need a change now and again to fool our bodies. I'll have a look at the site and see what it makes of me, I love those sorts of things! Very well done for shifting 2lbs. It certainly isn't easy when it's the long haul. best wishes, Sandra Report Inappropriate Comment |


EBEAMS
8/26/2012 10:41PM
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I'm going to look right now ... Thanks!
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DETERMINEDJANET
8/26/2012 6:56PM
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I never saw the test. Hmmmmm
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TRAVELGRRL
8/26/2012 4:37PM
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Interesting! I'll have to check it out. Thank you for sharing!
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LVMAMAW
8/26/2012 1:57PM
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MDGARDENGIRL
8/26/2012 9:45AM
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Thanks for the blog and info. I didn't lose with Primal either. I think it was just too many calories really. Am getting closer to Paleo in my eating. The "typing" sounds interesting and will definitely check out the doctor's site. I believe my health food store does something similar. Thanks for sharing. Knowledge is key! Hugs.... Marg Report Inappropriate Comment |


MUTANTQUEEN
8/26/2012 12:06AM
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Congrats on getting the scale moving again. I'm moving more towards a 'Paleo' lifestyle myself. It's definitely revving things up for me.
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CHUBRUB3
8/25/2012 11:46PM
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Awesome news Karen. So happy your finding your path. Hugs Angela 👍 8516; Report Inappropriate Comment |


NANCYPAT1
8/25/2012 11:24PM
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You are so right. One size doesn't fit everyone. I will check it out - I love reading about various weight loss discoveries and ideas. I generally stick with the things that have been working for ME BUT I have been known to try a WHOLE lot of weirdness that caught my fancy in the past 40-50 years or so. LOL sometimes I just need a CHANGE
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It has been 82 full days since my beloved daughter last self-harmed. Has it been easy for her, definitely no. Has it been easy for me and/or her dad, definitely no. Has it been easy for her brother, no, but he has taken it easier with her than I have, for sure. You know, he suggests iPod aps, he suggests music he thinks she should hear (pretty insightful songs, I might add) and he just treats her as a brother treats a sister, no holds barred, no 'better not say that', no 'she's fragile so I'll coddle her'...he is, exactly who she needs him to be, her big (well, at least much taller!), older, not-wiser, pompous brother.
Oh, to have that luxury...Or don't I?
I have tended to take the place of counselor during this time..."How are you", "What do you think", How are you doing with being away from home? Friends?" What can we do for you? What do you need? And what are you thinking about?
Well, I'm learning...I'm not a counselor, I'm her mom. I'm not here to make things smooth, I'm here to make sure she can handle the rough spots. I'm not a counselor, I'm here to love unconditionally and I'm here to make sure that the next decision she makes (right or wrong) is what SHE is OK with, COMFORTABLE with! Really??? Yes.
When my dd wanted to be baptized at 33 days in short sleeves and tell the entire church (and whomever was watching on the internet) that she was a self-harmer (for the last 4 years), did I think it was a good idea? No, but it was her choice. And it was brave. When she has chosen to shop in clothing stores over the last 2 months in short sleeves, was that my choice? No, but she was brave! And when people 'noticed' the scars and didn't have the guts to ask anything...did I notice? You bet your bottom dollar I did! And when they asked nothing but I could see it in their eyes...did I ask? No. Did I answer before they asked? No! Did I melt, just a little inside, you bet I did. And when my dd commented later, I acknowledged that person probably (but not certainly) judged her..she is ok, I'm a little heart-broken but not completely like I was at day 5!!
We are Harmers in Healing...and it's a good place to be. Hug your kids, especially if they are small. Familiarize yourself with self-harm...and if your kids INSIST on privacy, modestly...don't let it go. Look at their bodies! You are their parent, it's ok! So you can stop this behavior before it takes hold of your child.
We are healing...and loving...and forgiving...and aware...Are You?


WATERMELLEN
8/11/2012 9:46AM
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What a powerful and courageous blog: I see where your daughter acquired her courage from!!
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MRS_TOAD
8/1/2012 8:34AM
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Congratulations to each and every one of you! And thank you for sharing such a inspirational blog.
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BLESSED2BEME
7/31/2012 11:39AM
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I found your blog through DETERMINEDJANET. Amen to what you are doing by sharing this with others. Your DD is obviously very strong in so many ways. Who knows who she will help by 'going public' with her past self-harming. My family is on day 79 of my 20 year old DS, who still lives with us, being drug and alcohol free! He is also being treated for bi-polar. It has been a journey for our family the past 2 years dealing with his troubled life. Hugs to you and your family! May God continue to help you heal, love, laugh and spread joy to others through forgiveness! Report Inappropriate Comment |


RAINBOWCHOC
7/31/2012 4:23AM
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Self harm is not easy to overcome, congratulations to your whole family for surviving this rollercoater
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DETERMINEDJANET
7/30/2012 7:45PM
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Great blog Karen. Thanks for the transparency and words of wisdom as one walking through this firsthand.
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_RAMONA
7/30/2012 6:19PM
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I'm so glad things are improving for all of you... and I pray my daughter can grow to be half as strong as is yours!!! May the peace that surpasses all undestanding be with all of you! {{{{{{{{{{ HUGS }}}}}}}}}} Ramona Report Inappropriate Comment |


-LINDA_S
7/30/2012 2:21PM
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I wish your family continued success and peace...I'm sure your blogs will help many. Report Inappropriate Comment |


TRAVELGRRL
7/30/2012 11:50AM
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I am sorry I didn't read your blog about this challenge until just now...my daughter also went through this when she was young (she's 32 now) and I totally identify with your emotions. Your daughter is getting great help and I'm so thankful for that! I loved what you said in your blog "Once you shine a light in a dark corner, it's never dark again." That's very similar to what I used to tell MY daughter: "A secret loses its power to hurt once it is exposed to the light." I will keep your family in my prayers. My daughter is now seemingly over all of the worst of her mental health issues. She is married and pregnant with her first child. We are so grateful. Take care of yourself and your family. Report Inappropriate Comment |


KALIGIRL
7/30/2012 8:22AM
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So glad you are all healing - hugs to you!
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SHIHJABO
7/30/2012 6:56AM
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Karen. . . God's grace is abundant. . .and He is certainly ministering to your family. Yea dd. . .she is healing. . .she is winning the battle Big long distance hug to you, my friend. .Barb Report Inappropriate Comment |


_LINDA
7/30/2012 1:59AM
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It looks like your family is handling this all around well. I hope that means the healing can begin. May your brave daughter continue to make strides and be harm free. Thanks for the insights on how deeply this condition affects everyone, especially you as a Mom.. Report Inappropriate Comment |


CHUBRUB3
7/29/2012 11:49PM
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Hugs Karen! Great blog, you all are doing well. Report Inappropriate Comment |

