Friday, February 19, 2010
I was replying to MOMMABILL 's blog this morning, and got a little long and reflective with my answer, so thought I'd share it as my blog. I don't know if this will help anyone else, but take what you like and leave the rest.
When I began trying to conquer my weight issue, I realized that until I loved myself, and felt that I was valuable to God, my spouse, my family, etc., I was not able to do the things I needed to do to take care of myself. In other words, I didn't think I was worth taking care of.
Once I began to like and then love myself, it became easier to take care of myself and do the things that were necessary to get to a healthy weight. How did I do that? A lot of hard work - but what made the most difference to me was when I asked a lady from church to mentor me spiritually. She helped me to see how much God loves me. My spiritual mentor directed me to scripture passages and other books about God's love.
“We have come to know and have believed the love which God has for us. God is love, and the one who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.” – 1 John 4:16
"We love, because He first loved us." – 1 John 4:19
"You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit – fruit that will last." – John 15:16
My spiritual mentor gave me focus questions to journal about daily – much like the journaling we do on SparkPeople (“Healthy Reflections” daily emails are great journaling starters).
Once I knew and believed that I was loved by God, I was able to love myself. I wanted my body to be the temple of God – and how would I take care of His temple? A whole lot better than I had been taking care of it! And when I finally started loving myself, I was able to love others more deeply as well. The more I loved others, the more I felt loved – and the more I wanted to take care of myself so that I could be present to others.
This didn't happen overnight. Learning to love myself is an ongoing process, but one that I feel is very worthwhile – because I'm worth it! And I deserve it!
Wednesday, January 06, 2010
Dear Spark Friends,
Someone sent this list to me in an email. Thought I would share it with all you.
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy.
5. Make time to pray.
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in 2009.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk daily. And while you walk, smile.
11. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Have a blessed 2010!
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
A couple of days ago, IUHRYTR posted a blog about writing a gratitude journal and asked us to join him in this exercise.
I have been keeping a gratitude journal for 5 years. I started this after I read an article about a study that was done on a group of 1,000 people. At the beginning of the study, the people were given medical (blood pressure, blood sugar, cholesterol, etc.) testing as well as psychological testing. The participants were then divided into 3 groups.
Group 1 journaled one thing they were upset about that day.
Group 2 journaled one thing they were envious about that day.
Group 3 journaled one thing they were grateful for that day.
After one year, the participants were given the same medical and psychological tests as at the beginning of the study. The groups that daily journaled something that they were upset or envious about had higher blood pressure, increased blood sugar, and/or higher cholesterol levels -- their physical health had suffered in some way over the year. And their psychological health scored lower than at the beginning of the study as well.
However, the group that journaled something that they were grateful for each day improved their scores on both their medical and psychological tests. Being grateful actually helped the third group improve their physical and emotional health.
What better reason to start a gratitude journal? Repeating IUHRYTR's challenge -- Will you join us on this journey?
Monday, December 28, 2009
I'm home recovering from neuroma removal and bunion correction on both feet. I'm supposed to keep my feet elevated above my heart for at least 2 weeks. The first week, I felt too crumby to get around much, and stayed at a friend's house, who brought me healthy meals. Now I'm home, and able to get around a little better -- get my own ice packs each hour, make my own meals. I found myself eating (over eating) out of boredom and self-pity.
I had not been on SparkPeople for over a week while staying at my friend's house, as she did not have wireless internet. So, I was not recording my food. I decided I needed to reconnect and be accountable with my food. So, I'm back -- in more ways than one. I'm back in connection with people who share my goals and encourage me. I'm back to reading others blogs and how they got through various challenges. I'm back to recording my food and being accountable. I'm back to conscious eating. I'm back to basics - 3 meals and a snack daily. I can't exercise like I used to right now, but I can use hand weights for a light upper body workout.
Thank you, SparkPeople, for being my life preserver. You saved me from the slippery slope of emotional eating. You guys are awesome, and I thank God for the gift you are to me -- the best Christmas present ever!
Together we can do what we cannot do alone.
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
I am taking a Healthy Eating class at College of DuPage. My professor is the one who introduced the class to Spark People. Last week in class, we watched a documentary on diabetes and were asked to write a reaction paper to the movie. Following is my paper.
Diabetes Reaction Paper
Physical Education 1154
Just before coming to class, I ate a piece of anniversary cake. Then I saw the movie, “Diabetes: The Quiet Killer” in class – and it scared me. I have a family history of women getting Type II diabetes. My mother passed away from a heart attack 5 years ago tomorrow (November 5). She was a cardiac care nurse, yet due to her Type II diabetes numbing her nerves, she did not realize that the pain in her chest was a heart attack. Rather than going to the emergency room or calling 911, she waited 3 hours to get into her doctor’s office. This movie really hit home for me.
Type II diabetes can be caused by either reduced insulin production by the pancreas or by insulin resistance – the inability for glucose to enter the cells. Diabetes can harm eyes, nerves, kidneys; damage blood vessels leading to heart disease and stroke; can reduce blood flow to parts of the body, especially the feet, causing pain and slow healing. According to the movie, 220 people a day get an amputation due to diabetes. Now that is scary.
Some of the lifestyle changes that minimize or prevent this disease are: Exercise regularly and consistently, eat balanced meals low in fat, eat low-glycemic foods, limit sugary foods, eat smaller meals more frequently, check blood sugar levels if pre-diabetic or diabetic, keep weight under control, and manage stress.
The movie pointed out that there is a strong genetic component to diabetes, with Asians, African Americans and Latinos being most affected. I don’t know if there is a genetic component to Type II diabetes. But since I have a family history of Type II diabetes, I try to do many of the aforementioned preventative lifestyle changes. I have a sweet tooth, though, so it is often best for me to just avoid eating sweets. This time of year is especially challenging with the holidays coming up. The ability to be able to exercise at the college Fitness Center before school 2 or 3 days a week sure makes it easy to implement the regular exercise. I also have 2 big dogs who want nothing more than a long walk in the dog park on weekends. I used to eat a lot of raw fruit and veggies, daily. But since I got braces, the raw foods are harder to chew. I need to be more creative in getting my fruits and veggies in now. This class is reinforcing my need to eat healthier and be persistent with my exercise routine.
I was doing some reading online recently about diabetes, knowing that this paper was coming up. I came across a British Medical Journal study on diabetes prevention. The study followed over 13,000 participants, ages 20 – 90, for over 4 years, who ate the traditional Mediterranean diet rich in olive oil, vegetables, fruits, nuts, cereals, legumes, and fish but relatively low in meat and dairy products. This large prospective study showed that a traditional Mediterranean food pattern is associated with a significant reduction (35%) in the risk of developing Type II diabetes. (1)
Our health care system is really a disease care system. It is easier to get an amputation than to see a podiatrist. There is something seriously wrong with that. Our attitude that we can eat poorly and not exercise and a pill will cure us of whatever ails us is going to bankrupt our healthcare system. I need to take individual responsibility for my health. In my opinion, it costs less to prevent disease than to cure it.
The movie ended with Patti LaBelle saying that there is a cure for diabetes – we are the cure. Diet alone is not enough, it also takes exercise. I’m grateful for this Healthy Eating class that is helping me on my “eating right” journey to preventing the family curse of Type II diabetes.
(1) Martínez-González, M Á, “Adherence to Mediterranean diet and risk of developing diabetes: prospective cohort study.” British Medical Journal. 2008. BMJ Publishing Group Ltd. November 3, 2009.
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