Day 32 (Black Friday)

Saturday, November 26, 2011

I didn't blog yesterday, so this is a quick catch-up.

I overate on Thanksgiving and I DON"T CARE!!! The food was delicious and time spent with family was a blast.

We had dinner at my home early because hubby works 4pm-midnight. So, I'll count that as lunch. It was quick and uneventful. My parents were there and my middle sister. The turkey was pink when we sliced into it, so we had to put it back in the oven. I told hubby when you get a turkey that size (21 lbs) you must get one with a pop-up timer. He didn't listen to me. And I didn't say, " I told you so." But I wanted to.

My baby sister, her man (who might as well be her husband) and their 4 kids arrived late, as always. We had already eaten by the time she arrived. Tracy, if you're reading this, you know I'm not lying. You are ALWAYS late. If dinner is at 4pm, I tell her it's at 1pm so she'll get here on time. She's picked up on the time switch thing, so it's no longer working.

We sent my hubby on his way and we packed up our dinner party and took it to Tracy's in-law's beautiful home. Don't even get me started on how beautiful their home is. I'm a real estate agent and wanna-be interior designer so I was in my element. Food was on my mind second to the tour of the house.

Then we ate dinner and laughed for hours. Now everyone who knows me knows that I go to been with the sunset. But I couldn't pull myself away from the wonderful feel of this evening. I sat at the couch and I needed toothpicks to hold my eyes open. The majority of the people, and there were a lot, were waiting to go to Walmart at 10pm to start their Black Friday shopping. I couldn't hang, so I said good-night to them at about 9:45PM. Ugh, I've been up since 4AM.

I had the best time ever and I can't wait to do it again on Christmas Eve.

  

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CODEMAULER 11/26/2011 11:50AM

It sounds like a lovely time (and don't you just love late guests?). For the next holiday, you might invest in a meat thermometer, just to be safe. Report Inappropriate Comment

Day 31 (Thanksgiving)

Thursday, November 24, 2011

The turkey has been in the oven since 5AM and it smells soooo good! I have fat-free gravy to go on top when it's done. Hubby is making the "real" stuff. I'm going to have to say a prayer to get me through that. His gravy is to die for. I used to pour it over EVERYTHING!

I just prepared the filling for the sweet potato pie. My weight watchers leader said to avoid BLT, which stands for biting. licking and tasting during the preparation of the meal. That's somewhat unrealistic because you cannot prepare a meal without tasting it before cooking and serving it to your guests. Oh well.

So far, I'm doing pretty well. I've had my cereal and banana for breakfast. Of course, I had my cup of coffee. I have an orange peeled, an apple sliced, pineapple chunks and a cucumber diced. I'm totally ready for today. I can nibble until my hearts content. And by the time dinner rolls (mmm...rolls) around, I won't be tempted to overeat.

I'm even going to wear a pair of jeans so I my stomach won't be able to expand too much. In the past, I would wear sweatpants so my tummy could expand as much as my skin would allow.

I'm probably going to update my status throughout the day to help keep myself accountable. This is the first time in my life that I am making conscious decisions regarding my eating habits during a holiday.

Wish me luck!
Hattie

  

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CANNIE50 11/24/2011 9:22PM

I hope you have/had a wonderful Thanksgiving and that you are now resting. I wore jeans to dinner at my brother and sister-in-laws. The food was fabulous. My tummy is stuffed. I am tempted to brave the nasty storm we are having and take my dog for a walk just to be a little more comfortable. In the meantime, I am going to enjoy the company of my family, and the comfort of being safe and warm on a stormy, stormy night. Report Inappropriate Comment

PEARL-LADY 11/24/2011 11:19AM

Hope all went well..no nibbling?? Report Inappropriate Comment

CODEMAULER 11/24/2011 10:11AM

You can do this! Stick to your good habits, drink water and keep moving; make those calories work to keep up with you! Have a wonderful holiday! Report Inappropriate Comment

Day 30 (missing my firstborn)

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

I'm feeling a little melancholy today. I'm missing my son. For those who don't know, he's studying abroad in Japan. And having a wonderful time I might add. But this is the first time ever that I haven't been able to see him or talk to him on this special day. He was born on Thanksgiving day, 23 years ago.

My son's father was in the military and was unable to be there for his birth. My dad stepped in. My dad is the cook in the family and he was also by my side in the hospital. So if you can, imagine this...

Our home was about 15 minutes away from the hospital. Dad puts the turkey in the oven. Then comes back to be by my side. Then goes home to make the side dishes. And then comes back to be by my side. Of course, he has to baste the turkey, make desserts, etc. And he went back and forth ALL day.

My mom was a nurse, so she was at work at a nearby nursing home. She doesn't drive so my dad had to pick her up from work and bring her to me. By that time, my son had arrived and dinner was done! After all of that work, I was starved. So dad went home and fixed me a plate and brought it back to me.

My mom used to work at the hospital that my son was born for about 20 years. A picture is on the wall of fame of my mom holding me after I was born. Most of the nurses that she worked with in the past were still there. They coddled me for days. They hid diapers and formula in my bag and had my parents take it home each day. I didn't have to buy diapers and formula for about 6 months. I had t-shirts, pacifiers, blankets, etc.

Hmmm... now that this blog is written, maybe it's not my son that I'm missing. I maybe missing all of that attention.

Happy Thanksgiving everyone,
Hattie

  

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CANNIE50 11/23/2011 11:41PM

Oh, Hattie I know how you are feeling - I haven't seen my eldest son for over 4 years and it makes my heart ache. My middle son (19) just came home from college. The two months I did not see him were the longest we had been apart his whole life. He is in the ROTC with plans to enlist in the military upon graduation so I am teaching my heart to get used to missing him for long periods of time. Thank you for telling the story of your son's birth. Oh my gosh, I was tired just reading about your daddy - what a great guy. For the record, I hope you get some pampering and extra attention today (and a phone call from your son so you can hear his voice). Happy Thanksgiving lovely Hattie. Report Inappropriate Comment

Day 29

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Yesterday I was a bit disappointed with my weight gain at the scale. I was so good last week. I ate well, added some fruits, veggies, water and walked. A lot.
The week before I wasn't as mindful to what I was eating. Did a bit more fast food than I should have. I lost 2.2 lbs at the scale 2 weigh-ins ago, so I thought I was scot-free. I should have known better. The scale never lies.

I came home with the attitude of, "Oh well. Why should I care? Thanksgiving is coming anyway and I'm going to be up at the scale again next week." That attitude lead me to put on a feedbag and graze my way through the rest of my day. It started at 1pm and lasted up until 9pm. UGH!

WHY, WHY, WHY do I keep doing this to myself?! This emotional eating has got to stop! Remember in the classic movies when someone needed to "snap out of it" and they got slapped across each cheek with a pair of white gloves? Will someone do that to me please?

Okay. Pity-party over. And all over 0.4 lbs. Really?

Today I've got my new attitude in place. I've started my day with a cup of tea and a grapefruit. My meals are all planned. And after yesterday, I'm not even hungry.

My M-I-L is coming for a visit this morning. I know she'll want to go out for breakfast but I will decline.

I have a service man coming over today and I have to wait from 10am-3pm. Seriously, can't they give us an estimated time. Do I have to sit at home ALL day?

I guess I'll paint my hallway. It used to be red. This should be fun.

Have a great day,
Hattie

  

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CANNIE50 11/23/2011 1:36AM

0.4? Well, Miss Hattie, that is the equivalent of extra polish on your cute toes! Sheesh, if you were closer I would volunteer to slap you with white gloves. No more giving that evil scale so much power. Okay, not to be critical but your breakfast sounds mighty puny, honey. If I don't eat enough breakfast, esp protein, it catches up to me at night and turns me into a stark-raving, carb craving lunatic (but that is just me, it may not apply to you). Oh, dear - this blog comment is very annoying overall, isn't it? Well, let me just close by reminding you that you are a doll. I want you to have a very blessed and happy Thanksgiving and, finally, I would like to see a photo of your hallway with it's new coat of paint. Report Inappropriate Comment

CAROLZ1967 11/22/2011 7:25AM

I agree about the small weight gain. It's NEVER fun to see and always makes me a bit sad, but we've got to keep it in perspective! That's not even 1/2 a pound! It's basically the "same" or no change. Stick with it and you'll probably see a drop next week. But with Thanksgiving, maybe even give yourself a pass, and don't be upset if it stays the same. Try and eat mostly well (80% good, 20% splurge) is a good goal. And maybe be even "better" in your eating on Wed & Fri, to balance it out. Then you can enjoy Thursday more, with no guilt! That's going to be my plan. But with my brother's family in town through weekend, it will be tougher. I always eat more at family gatherings. But shopping on Friday should help for one day! I agree about service people, but I usually get shorter time slots than that! Sometimes a 4 hr window but that's too long too. Sometimes you can have them call when they are on their way to your house, with cell phones now on everyone & then you can sneak out for a bit, as long as you don't stray too far away! Ask them about that! And have a good visit with MIL! Comment edited on: 11/22/2011 7:30:56 AM Report Inappropriate Comment

PEARL-LADY 11/22/2011 7:09AM

Hattie, 0.4!! nothing to worry about, know how you feel, my scales say I put on a kilo over the weekend...how?? being so careful it may just be a little water retention, maybe need to drink a little more water? flush out those nasty kg's!! glad we aren't the only nation that sits in a waits for service men or deliveries...had delivery of fish yesterday...friday its the new tv which is exciting we have not bought a tv for 26years!! I kid you not... take care happy painting what colour this time? my kitchen is red.... Lesley Report Inappropriate Comment

Day 28

Monday, November 21, 2011

Well, it's been almost a month since I've started over and I'm feeling pretty good. I made a few mini goals that I've wanted to achieve by the end of the month and I just might make them.

One was to fit into a coat that I bought last year and it wouldn't even come together. I tried it on over the weekend. It came together and buttoned. The buttons were a little strained and I'm sure if I attempt to sit they will fly off and hit someone in the eye. But by the end of the month, I should be good.

The second goal was to be able to put "I lost 25lbs with SP" on my page. I'll see how close to goal I am after my weigh-in this afternoon. I'm feeling pretty good about weigh-in but the scale can be kind of intimidating.

I have physical therapy this morning. As soon as the brat gets on the bus, I get to have my heated back massage. I'm so ready for it. I saw another patient brought a book while he was getting stretched out. I think I'll do the same. I just started a James Patterson book. They always make me gasp out loud so I'm always leery of reading them in public places.

Feeling good this morning. I'm about to have my grapefruit, cereal and coffee. After therapy I'm going to the gym. Then to my WW meeting. I have no time to mindless eat. Oh, and I've been drinking water. I'm up to 2 bottles a day or 32oz.

  

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CANNIE50 11/22/2011 12:04AM

Just hand out goggles to everyone in the general vicinty and it should be no problem to sit in your buttoned coat. Seriously, I am so happy for you. I am glad you are experiencing successes. You deserve each and every one and many more to come. I hope the massage was l o v e l y....... Report Inappropriate Comment

LINDAJ0621 11/21/2011 6:52PM

Slow and steady wins the race! Good for you! Report Inappropriate Comment

DEE0973 11/21/2011 9:43AM

Good for you, great that you have mini-goals Report Inappropriate Comment

CAROLZ1967 11/21/2011 7:18AM

Sounds like a good plan! I like James Patterson too. Do you read his Alex Cross books, his thrillers? I admit it...I love thrillers! If you do too, have you read Vince Flynn books?! He has a Mitch Rap character that I dream about :-) Start at first book as they are all amazing! If interested, I can tell you the titles and order. Mitch is a CIA assassin & bad-ass. I also love Nelson Demille books...all of them. But there is a John Corey character/series that I love as much as Mitch Rap! And J. Corey has an awesome sarcastic sense if humor I just love! I'm sure he's been in my dreams too! :-) Can get you those book titles as well. Just let me know if interested! Have a great day & glad about the coat! You are so funny though...you start my day out w/a laugh & that's good! Report Inappropriate Comment