Friday, January 10, 2014
Hey all, I'm soooo sorry for not keeping up on blogging but when August of 2013 hit nothing slowed down and there were tons of appointments, sicknesses, and other things going on to where I just haven't been able to keep up with blogging... So I will be sharing a lot with you all on this blog and get you caught up...
So in August of 2013, there were many counseling appointments, doctor appointments, and in home appointments... Legal Aid ended up not being able to help me in my divorce process... So I copied all the paperwork and the long process of filling it out...
In September of 2013, my son started Kindergarten, the appointments multiplied, and I had to hold off on school because of all the appointments that we both had... Not to mention I have bad muscle spasms of the neck and limited mobility so I was in the process of getting physical therapy, which was denied and I had to appeal for...
In October of 2013, not only did the appointments multiply from the last couple of months but there were appointments in another city which we took trip link for and ended up being an all afternoon thing... So I had my appointment for family law and all the paperwork was done and signed and the Sheriff served him the paperwork while he was in jail... My son also had an Occupational Therapy evaluation, and we had to wait to see if the insurance company would pay for his therapy sessions...
In November of 2013, The occupational therapy sessions were cleared and thus began the journey of even more appointments but much needed ones... Another trip to Portland for an appointment, counseling, and doctor appointments, & in home visits. Also had Avery's first parent/teacher conference and found out that his fine motor skills are what's holding him back... So I was given some really helpful tools and advice on how to help him... It's still a work in progress... Also I got the chance to have a night out with a girl friend of mine... We went to Winter Jam, which is a Christian concert that had 10 different bands playing... It was a blast...! A night to remember!!! I also had to take the parenting COPE class in order to get custody of my son...
In December of 2013, My divorce became final, I got permanent custody of my son, my maiden name back, he's suppose to pay child support, but I doubt will see any of it, oh and the payments for the divorce have been turned over to him instead of me... Of course we had lots of appointments but they dwindled off the closer Christmas got and we were able to enjoy no outside appointments for 2 weeks... Boy was that nice!!! I participated in a Christmas musical that my church did... It was a lot of fun... I also got to be on Worship and praise team for 3 weeks!!! My son & I spent Christmas with grandma Jean and her family and it was nice to see how others celebrate Christmas together... Avery had a nice Christmas and so did I... This was the first holiday season where I actually lost weight instead of gained any!!!
So now that brings us back to the present January 2014!!! Lots of things have happened and it's only the 10th... I've lost a total of 42 lbs and 15 1/2 inches all over!!! I've gone from a 3x to a 1x, a size 24 in jeans to an 18-20!!! I can fit into that black dress that is a size 16 that I haven't been able to wear for years!!! My son read his first book, we passed our first housing inspection, the school has asked for further testing on my son, I am going to be getting a cat scan on my head, he has a speech evaluation coming up, my housing recertification is coming up, I also have to submit an new restraining order before this one expires... Also on the 28th of this month my ex husband gets out of jail, so I'll be looking over my shoulders quite often.. Well because he's broken the thing 4 times and I believe that things haven't changed with him and if given the chance he'll do it again...
So as you can see, I've been one busy momma... I will do my best to at least post one blog update a month... Also things we could use prayer in are as follows:
~ Finances ~ God's protection ~ Continued leading, guidance, and direction ~ healing of my neck, headaches, and dizzy spells ~ a correct diagnosis for my son ~ For me to get physical therapy ~ And to continue putting one foot in front of the other...
Thanks for taking time out to read my blog and thanks for your support!!!
Saturday, August 10, 2013
Wow I can't believe it's been so long before I've written in my blog... In my defense I have been a very busy momma... So I will do my to catch you all up... I'll do a recap on July & then do one for August...
July was a very busy month, with doctor appointments, counseling appointments, Avery's birthday, my birthday, dentist appointment, & getting my award letter and fulfilling all the requirements for that I have been super busy... Avery had a birthday bash at Chucke Cheeses & a friend of mine came and got us for a small birthday party for me... I should say small surprise party, lol... Yeah she asked what I was doing & I said nothing and she said how about I cook dinner for you tomorrow & I said sure! It was a great time!!!
It's only August 10th & it's been very busy as well... I do believe this trend isn't going to stop due to counseling appointments, more doctor appointments, nurse visits, more tests for Avery, teaching pre-school arts n crafts at Vacation Bible School, workouts, and more...
So the latest is my soon to be ex hubby called to let me know he cheated on me... Yeah, nice.. I guess 8 years meant nothing to him... So sad we have a son & he kicks us to the curb for a one night we had a couple drinks & blah blah blah... Sorry but that's the last straw.... Anyways I've forgiven him and I am moving on... I have signed up for counseling myself after all of this... Also I believe that my son has aspergers... A nurse came out and did an assessment on him and he scored low in multiple areas... His doctor is sending in the referrals on Monday for tests... The roadblock that we might encounter is that the insurance might not want to pay for it all... So that's my prayer! That they will pay for it & Avery will have a diagnosis & he will be able to get the help he needs! I am in the process of getting the paperwork for the divorce & permanent custody of my son... Also Legal Aid might be able to take my case & I won't have to pay for an attorney and such... That would be such a blessing!!! I didn't ask for this, I was the one who was faithful raising our son & taking car of all the responsibilities... He is the one who cheated on me and then had the audacity to tell me that I could cheat on him... In one word WOW!!! So I reported the contact and he is in jail at the moment & looking at 2 years in prison for 4 PV violations... Anyways I just started Rockin Body three days ago & I am feeling great! I can't wait to see my results in a month!!! Well I think that's pretty short, sweet and to the point, have a great August!!!
Friday, May 10, 2013
Hello all, hope your week has been a good one! Mine has been a mixture of good and bad. So we were approved for housing and I have been online looking for a place and calling places. Let me tell you, there is not a whole lot of managers that will take housing in the South Salem, OR area. So on Tuesday, I had an appointment to check out an apartment. We drove up and all I can say is what a small shack. We waited for 10 extra minutes and then we left, the manager never even showed up. So we went to a place she suggested. They didn't have any availabilities and they also didn't take housing. I asked her if she knew anyone who did. And she handed me a sheet of places that had whether or not they accepted housing or not. She then asked me what I was looking for. So I told her I was looking for an apartment, duplex, and/or town home. She went over to her computer and said that she was helping at an apartment complex that accepted housing and she had to go by there anyway. So she showed me the place on the computer. It looked lovely!!! So we waited 5 minutes and then she drove us right there.
She showed us the upstairs apartment first. It was nice, it was carpeted, the bathroom was small, not enough cupboard space, a small master bedroom closet, plenty of kitchen cupboard space, a big fridge and freezer, two balconies, lots of light, vaulted ceilings, and our bedrooms were right beside each other. We then checked out the laundry room that was down stairs. It's four flights of stairs so it's a ways up and down... Not so good with a toddler. So we were walking up the stairs to go checkout the other side where there was a downstairs apartment and as we were walking up I hit my head hard on part of the building. All I can say is ouch! It almost knocked me out... So we finally made it to the downstairs apartment. It was incredible!!!! The floor plan is way different... There's one bedroom right across from the door, which would be my son's room. So there would have to be a door guard on the door so he doesn't open the door and wander outside. Then there's the kitchen with a few less cupboards, a smaller fridge, a nice linen/pantry closet, a nice spacious bathroom with plenty of cupboard space on the bottom, two patios with a small back yard on each, a huge closet in the master bedroom, and two doors that open the master bedroom, a door that leads from the master bedroom to the bathroom and another door that leads to the hallway, and last but not least all hardwood floors. Can you guess which one I loved? Yes your right the downstairs one!!!
So I got all the information on it and it fit into the housing budget! So we went to the agency filled out the application. I submitted all the other paperwork today that they called about, so I should hear something on Monday! The way it all happened is God ordained!!!! I know we got the place, just waiting for the agency to confirm it. So then what's left is housing to do there inspection and it will pass in Jesus name!!!! Then after it passes I give my 14 day notice and we're outta here, whoohooo!!!!
So I have been downsizing and getting rid of a ton of stuff that I don't want to take with me when we move. I have been packing in Faith, knowing that it is just a matter of time before we move and I want to be ready!!! I also got another TADVS grant that['s good for 90 days but I won't need that many days. I believe we will be moved out by the end of this month!!!! So that is what I have been up to this week!!!! Have a great weekend all!!!!!!
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