Thursday, August 19, 2010
This blog is inspired by a blog I read about the loss of a loved one. My mom would have been 74 yesterday.~~~~
Mom, I've learned to be a good mom to my son,teaching him to eat healthy snacks--like cottage cheese,yogurt,and dried fruit as well as fresh! To try to be patient with him--though I don't have as MUCH patience as you had with me and my 4 sibs!!!
You'd be proud of me and my cake decorating skills --just like you--!! I made him a yellow submarine cake AND an arctic iceberg cake----reminiscent of the time I couldn't decide WHICH cake to have you make for my birthday--a doll cake or a square chocolate one and you made BOTH!
I well remember the OTHER creative outlets you did,too---making swan centerpieces --50 of them by hand for Dad's musician friends' party,wallpapering the bathroom,hallway, each of our bedrms.,baking ,making waste baskets by hand using rolled magazine paper-all 50 of those for the women's boutique at church.Is it any wonder I LOVE to CRAFT WITH MY HANDS?!!!
I miss you dearly,especially the ADVICE you would be able to give on raising my young son that no one CAN DUPLICATE~~~ a daughter wanting to hear from her own mother....YOU had TWO strong-willed children {I was compliant} and now I HAVE ONE!!!!
You knew how to celebrate LIFE with birthday parties or social gatherings of our neighborhood to the house for holiday luncheons,teacher appreciation luncheons,Christmas parties,graduation parties and just having moms in for coffee and A chat! Dad was always there helping you with us kids and giving advice ,too--though I didn't always listen then. Isn't that the way of kids?
Always opening our home to the neighborhood kids with an annual cookie-bake and I've started traditions in my neighborhood ,too! Maybe not ANNUAL Christmas parties and cookie-bakes,but also opening our home to the MOMs Club for Storytime,Kids' Kitchen and our playgroup dates!
You were such a GREAT MOM !!!! I am happy God gave YOU to ME and that you were such A RESOURCE for me to follow and a WONDERFUL EXAMPLE OF LOVE,especially since you didn't have a mother to raise you {die in childbirth and grandma raised her}.
I carry all those memories in my heart and lovingly scrapbook the photos of your life so that your FIRST GRANDSON can know who you were,how important you were to me and what A DIFFERENCE you made in my life! Your loving daughter, Betsy